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lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Whenever you meet a Nigerian girl, assume she's a hoe already once she's not a virgin.
Bang your own share of her pussy while searching for a true virgin, then dump her ass without thinking twice, immediately you have replaced her with a virgin.
No matter what you do & no matter how changed she claims to be, that guy that disvirgined her will occupies a special place in her heart that you can never erase. He'll still Bleep her anytime he wants bcoz his imprint is in her.
And let me remind you, he's not the only person to have fuucked her. There may still be other niggas that have fuucked & are still bleeping her even while you are in relationship with her.
A determined & secret investigation by you will give you all the info you need.
That girl will only tell you what will not provoke you into breaking up with her & not the truth, that's why the onus is on you to make secret investigations about her.

However, if you are a 'real man' & don't care about her past or whatever she's doing or has done, then you can go ahead and marry her without batting an eyelid.

ukaface:

Keep looking for virgin
Don’t settle for less

Lol.. finding a needle in a haystack. Meanwhile op pls inbox me her number make I help clarify something. What u need is right in front of u yet ur still confused. If she's good for u she doesn't need to be a virgin. Hold am or trade ur gold for brass

95% of virgin are not virgin. Don't decieve yourself. Most of them finger themselves with the smallest finger.

Rokiat:
Yes please don’t marry her since you based the qualities that make a good wife solely on virginity.

Go look for your virgin wife and let the people daughter go please.

Nonsense!

Lol. You are pain.. na me say make u lose ur virginity.!! People like you got disvirgin with just indomie and egg. Nonsense

Samantha124:
Exactly, it's as if virginity is a character.

Yes it is a character, shows chastity.
Having many bodies body shows you are loose.

Ditch her, she is not worth it, just send her number to the number on my signature

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Uptheante:

Whenever you meet a Nigerian girl, assume she's a hoe already once she's not a virgin .
Bang your own share of her pussy while searching for a true virgin, then dump her ass without thinking twice, immediately you have replaced her with a virgin.
No matter what you do & no matter how changed she claims to be, that guy that disvirgined her will occupies a special place in her heart that you can never erase. He'll still Bleep her anytime he wants bcoz his imprint is in her.
And let me remind you, he's not the only person to have fuucked her. There may still be other niggas that have fuucked & are still bleeping her even while you are in relationship with her.
A determined & secret investigation by you will give you all the info you need.
That girl will only tell you what will not provoke you into breaking up with her & not the truth, that's why the onus is on you to make secret investigations about her.

However, if you are a 'real man' & don't care about her past or whatever she's doing or has done, then you can go ahead and marry her without batting an eyelid.

At the bold.... There are virgin hoes too u don't know? Not all virgins are good and not all non-virgins are bad too. True, women are very secretive about their past and relationship/ sexual history. No matter how clever she might think she is u will always know who she really is but most men get carried away by what they place in their faces and deny the complete use of their God given senses and instincts which is designed to always alert u from time to time as a form of defense mechanism to protect u from danger but we always dismiss it for various superficial reasons and end up in regrets when it's too late. Although they're not to be trusted 💯 wether virgin or non-virgin just open ur senses and what u need to know will come to u without u needing to go digging too deep.

ItisWell22:


I wasn’t and I’ve never been against people marrying virgins, or as virgins; NAH.

Was only making an example to the post I quoted, to buttress the point.

So rest Mr Man!!!

Whatever the fvck your preference is or preferences are, they are yours; not mine…

Yeah so let people be with their preferences and stop trying to discourage people from wanting what they want like the O.P,and down playing the value of Virgins and decency because your fvckking lifestyle isn’t as decent as theirs..That’s witchcraft because that’s exactly what the devil does to people..Downplaying the value of good and purity because he CAN NEVER BE AS Good as humans,God will ALWAYS CHOOSE US OVER HIM..

I spoke to you earlier without cursing at you but you decided to curse so I only returned the Favour and I bet you are not too jolly about it..

torqque7:


Yeah so let people be with their preferences and stop trying to discourage people from wanting what they want like the O.P,and down playing the value of Virgins and decency because your bleeping lifestyle isn’t as decent as theirs..That’s witchcraft because that’s exactly what the devil does to people..Downplaying the value of good and purity because he CAN NEVER BE AS Good as humans,God will ALWAYS CHOOSE US OVER HIM..

I spoke to you earlier without cursing at you but you decided to curse so I only returned the Favour and I bet you are not too jolly about it..

I’m glad you know I’m indecent.

Do have a great day… 🥱

Victor2707:
Mr. Nice Guy, that girl has been sexually active.

She is playing you big time.

Virginity doesn't make a girl good. It only makes her bond with you sexually.

If she truly desires you, she will have sex with you with no conditions.

You are just the available guy for her at the moment.

When the owner of the pu*sy comes, she will go without thinking twice.

Date/Marry women that want sex with you.

Be Wise.

A girl can be a virgin but have a body count of oral action of more than 20 guys.

Samantha124:
The same virgin that you'll still go ahead and cheat on with someone that's not a virgin?

Come on, wake up from your slumber.

I've read stories here of guys cheating on the same wives they met as virgins with women they met already sexually active.. some would even leave their wives for such women.

You are only saying this because you are not a Virgin and it's irreversible

What if she's not a virgin? Don't you want someone that'll give you peace of mind? Are you even a virgin?

@op... Even the Bible says in Mathew 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you. seek, and ye shall find. knock, and it shall be opened unto you.
Keep searching for a virgin, you will find her one day and abeg you fit link me up with the girl, I want to check something., [center][/center]

Honestly, how does virginity guarantees a successful marriage?

I'm very sure that if the op leaves this woman that he's currently dating for a virgin, he'd still cheat on the same virgin with this woman because because he'd have settled for someone he doesn't love in the name of virginity.

And how come those that are married to virgins keep cheating on the same virgins with women who are already sexually active to a point that some would even leave the same women they met as virgins to the ones they met as sexually active

Answer that for me because I'm curious..

ProphetM0hammad:


You are only saying this because you are not a Virgin and it's irreversible

What about you guys that sleep with prostitutes

Maynmann:

Yes it is a character, shows chastity.
Having many bodies body shows you are loose.

Samantha124:
What about you guys that sleep with prostitutes

They're disgusting hypocrites.

Don’t marry them, the same way we won’t marry you women that are prostitutes and have high body counts.
Settled?

Samantha124:
What about you guys that sleep with prostitutes

Nia69:
They're disgusting hypocrites.

Women with high body counts are more disgusting.

Samantha124:
Honestly, how does virginity guarantees a successful marriage?

I'm very sure that if the op leaves this woman that he's currently dating for a virgin, he'd still cheat on the same virgin with this woman because because he'd have settled for someone he doesn't love in the name of virginity.

And how come those that are married to virgins keep cheating on the same virgins with women who are already sexually active to a point that some would even leave the same women they met as virgins to the ones they met as sexually active

Answer that for me because I'm curious..

It's most men desire to get married to virgins or to be the one to deflower their potential wives.

All other things are secondary

Keep looking for virgin sogbo

When you find one, let me know

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Not enough reason to break the relationship. If I were you, I go investigate deeper into her past by been closer. You just need one solid prove to nail her.

No jump into conclusion until u see beta proov.

Na their way. People like the OP, they want to marry virgins that will be ten billion percent faithful to them while they carry their overused body parts with hidden Stds and give to the innocent woman.
Hypocrites.

ProphetM0hammad:


It's most men desire to get married to virgins or to be the one to deflower their potential wives.

All other things are secondary

Most men? What's the data that backs this?

CHoccolaTE:
Na their way. People like the OP, they want to marry virgins that will be ten billion percent faithful to them while they carry their overused body parts with hidden Stds and give to the innocent woman.
Hypocrites.

Why are you creating scenarios in your head because he said his preference.
Don’t you also have preferences even though you don’t measure to it yourself, you are the hypocrite!

dawnomike:
Dey play you hear? Be searching for a virgin over happiness.

I know a couple, they dated for 10yrs, he married a wife as a virgin and she still cheated on him.

Marrying a virgin is a beautiful thing, but getting married to someone that will give you joy and peace goes beyond explanation

Even prostitute sef was a virgin, no mind that guy jare.

lovediehatelive:


This one is strong o.

10 years?

The thing here is that I can never forgive a cheating partner.

It's not me, it's above me. My soul doesn't accept such.

So I believe a virgin has lesser chances of cheating than a non virgin

Oga people that got married to virgins dey cheat clean and clear. Na that eye you go take dey look am she go dey water under you. Some people can be virgins till 23-25 due to the life their parents instilled in them. Once they taste the forbidden fruit it would be hard to stop.

Samantha124:
The same virgin that you'll still go ahead and cheat on with someone that's not a virgin?

Come on, wake up from your slumber.

I've read stories here of guys cheating on the same wives they met as virgins with women they met already sexually active.. some would even leave their wives for such women.

just say you are not a virgin,no need for the long talk

So what's the use of getting married to a virgin, but not have a peace of mind for the rest of your life in your marriage

ProphetM0hammad:


It's most men desire to get married to virgins or to be the one to deflower their potential wives.

All other things are secondary

Much better..

Maynmann:
Don’t marry them, the same way we won’t marry you women that are prostitutes and have high body counts.
Settled?

i no go talk....

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Pray for a woman that will truly love you. You will thank me later.

Forget about this virgin stuffs in your head

And they'll be here acting holy saying they only go for virgins, the husband should follow her to the grave too.

I wonder how the man would sleep at night knowing that he killed his wife by his promiscuous ways.

ItisWell22:


I personally nursed a woman who died of depression following diagnosis of HIV.

She kept telling me, “He’s the only man I’ve known all my life”. 😢
She couldn’t believe her very godly, churchly, super-deacon husband was sleeping around to the extent of bringing home the deadly virus.

He married her a virgin. She had 7 sons for him.
Yet, he was popular outside for womanizing, despite being deep into church activities.

She died within few months of diagnosis…