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I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Keep looking for virgin
Don’t settle for less

What makes you believe that getting married to a virgin would guarantee you happiness and peace of mind

Even you, are you a virgin?? You this cheap randy man!! If truly she’s everything you wanted in a lady, you won’t even reason her past.

Oga you’re a randy man!! You just want to have your way than dump her later. We know your type!! Shior!!!

She lied to you. She has been sexually active withun those years, buh because you are chasing she hasto play the giod chaste girl card for you so that she'll look worthy in your eyes. My guy, If you have the opportunity to go through her phone, you'll die of shock. You better be extra careful.

The same virgin that you'll still go ahead and cheat on with someone that's not a virgin?

Come on, wake up from your slumber.

I've read stories here of guys cheating on the same wives they met as virgins with women they met already sexually active.. some would even leave their wives for such women.

Exactly, it's as if virginity is a character.

Jennyclay:
What makes you believe that getting married to a virgin would guarantee you peace of mind

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Dey play you hear? Be searching for a virgin over happiness.

I know a couple, they dated for 10yrs, he married a wife as a virgin and she still cheated on him.

Marrying a virgin is a beautiful thing, but getting married to someone that will give you joy and peace goes beyond explanation

Virgin! Is that all you really want in a woman?
Cos things don spoil that level

ukaface:

Keep looking for virgin
Don’t settle for less

Where will I find Them

Geniemoi01:
She lied to you. She has been sexually active withun those years, buh because you are chasing she hasto play the giod chaste girl card for you so that she'll look worthy in your eyes. My guy, If you have the opportunity to go through her phone, you'll die of shock. You better be extra careful.

I thought of this too.

dawnomike:
Dey play you hear? Be searching for a virgin over happiness.

I know a couple, they dated for 10yrs, he married a wife as a virgin and she still cheated on him.

Marrying a virgin is a beautiful thing, but getting married to someone that will give you joy and peace goes beyond explanation

This one is strong o.

10 years?

The thing here is that I can never forgive a cheating partner.

It's not me, it's above me. My soul doesn't accept such.

So I believe a virgin has lesser chances of cheating than a non virgin

KOMZYLEE:
Virgin! Is that all you really want in a woman?
Cos things don spoil that level

Not all I want. But the unlock code to other characteristics

lovediehatelive:


Where will I find Them

Oh you don’t know?
I thought you do o
The opposite place you found this said girl you will find a virgin.

Marrying a 9ja girl is high way to the grave. Virgin or nonvirgin dey are all the same .. Oloshio is their real name

Op, you should be happy that you've found a very homely banny according to your write up....... Well,I used to have similar principle like you not until I realized that some dreams will always end up as mere dreams especially in a country like ours where virgins have become a very scarce commodity

Samantha124:
The same virgin that you'll still go ahead and cheat on with someone that's not a virgin?

Come on, wake up from your slumber.

I've read stories here of guys cheating on the same wives they met as virgins with women they met already sexually active.. some would even leave their wives for such women.

I personally nursed a woman who died of depression following diagnosis of HIV.

She kept telling me, “He’s the only man I’ve known all my life”. 😢
She couldn’t believe her very godly, churchly, super-deacon husband was sleeping around to the extent of bringing home the deadly virus.

He married her a virgin. She had 7 sons for him.
Yet, he was popular outside for womanizing, despite being deep into church activities.

She died within few months of diagnosis…

lovediehatelive:


Not all I want. But the unlock code to other characteristics

My brother I know how you feel,getting married to a virgin is great and will always make the man value her if he is a reasonable man.However some cheat in the marriage or long run and same also goes for non virgins cheating too, because my ex ,na me disvirgin am and I valued her and respected her more than almost all other exes of mine, until she cheated so last last we all hope and pray to marry a Virgin that will be a good wife. We can also settle for a good non virgin too but we WONT place her on the same respect level as we would have if she is a good virgin. I wish you luck sha.

Ignore all these females making fun of you because you want a virgin..they are pained because they will NEVER EVER truly have that respect from their man or husbands that would be given to a virgin. No be you ask them to go dey mount different cockks for their life so don’t mind them with all their sarcastic responses to you and your story. Virgins will always be the NUMBER 1,most reasonable men will ALWAYS want a Virgin for a wife if they had the choice to pick. I mean who will want an Old used car compared to a brand NEW TEAR RUBBER? It’s a no brainer.

Continue with your virgin search. I pray you don't later regret it, if you end up marrying a virgin that will frustrate your life.

ItisWell22:


I personally nursed a woman who died of depression following diagnosis of HIV.

She kept telling me, “He’s the only man I’ve known all my life”. 😢
She couldn’t believe her very godly, churchly, super-deacon husband was sleeping around to the extent of bringing home the deadly virus.

He married her a virgin. She had 7 sons for him.
Yet, he was popular outside for womanizing, despite being deep into church activities.

She died within few months of diagnosis…

And SO WHAT? does that happen to Virgins alone?even Oloshos have these experiences so your point is invalid..so because some people are not lucky in their marriages then decent girls should become hoes?what a joke..Are you also aware of women who got married as virgins and are very happy in their homes too? Just pray for Gods grace and mercy to marry a good human being Virgin or NOT..but we would always prefer virgins simple as that.

Mr. Nice Guy, that girl has been sexually active.

She is playing you big time.

Virginity doesn't make a girl good. It only makes her bond with you sexually.

If she truly desires you, she will have sex with you with no conditions.

You are just the available guy for her at the moment.

When the owner of the pu*sy comes, she will go without thinking twice.

Date/Marry women that want sex with you.

Be Wise.

Wotoporiously speaking

Let me not say anything, "For those who have eyes shall see clearly and for those who lack wisdom shall suffer" Happy Sunday to you

Looking for virgin in NIGERIA is like looking for a rare commodity

I the other man that created a thread on January about looking for a virgin said that ended up marrying at the age of 43

But the marriage lasted only few months

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

If she is sexually pure (has abstained from illicit sex), pious, has a plan for her life, is loyal and submissive, then you have a wife. As for you, I hope you are a true husband. If you don't know what it means to lead, to sacrifice your pleasures for others, to be sexually pure, to be God fearing and to have a plan for your life then you will be a terrible husband. So do the needful.

Victor2707:
Mr. Nice Guy, that girl has been sexually active.

She is playing you big time.

Virginity doesn't make a girl good. It only makes her bond with you sexually.

If she truly desires you, she will have sex with you with no conditions.

You are just the available guy for her at the moment.

When the owner of the pu*sy comes, she will go without thinking twice.

Date/Marry women that want sex with you.

Be Wise.

A lady can desire a man sexually but not submit to him or be loyal to him particularly when the lady has destroyed her sexuality. So you cannot conclude that the lady's decision to be celibate does not necessarily mean she is pretending. And you guys need to quit using ladies and expecting to marry a virgin. While it is possible, it is not moral.

lovediehatelive:


This one is strong o.

10 years?

The thing here is that I can never forgive a cheating partner.

It's not me, it's above me. My soul doesn't accept such.

So I believe a virgin has lesser chances of cheating than a non virgin

A virgin will want to explore after a while. No human being will want to have only one sexual partner all his or her life. It is not natural. Especially in this modern era.

Problem is once she starts,she won't stop exploring for a while and because she will be doing it while in the marriage, she would be cheating and hiding and eventually loose interest in the husband or bring a STD to him

Nothing is guaranteed other than to pray to marry a peace loving and reasonable partner with good conscience and minimal drama.

Yes please don’t marry her since you based the qualities that make a good wife solely on virginity.

Go look for your virgin wife and let the people daughter go please.

Nonsense!

torqque7:


And SO WHAT? does that happen to Virgins alone?even Oloshos have these experiences so your point is invalid..so because some people are not lucky in their marriages then decent girls should become hoes?what a joke..Are you also aware of women who got married as virgins and are very happy in their homes too? Just pray for Gods grace and mercy to marry a good human being Virgin or NOT..but we would always prefer virgins simple as that.

I wasn’t and I’ve never been against people marrying virgins, or as virgins; NAH.

Was only making an example to the post I quoted, to buttress the point.

So rest Mr Man!!!

Whatever the fvck your preference is or preferences are, they are yours; not mine…

Op abeg forward me her

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Dat storyline no just add... Somebody dey pound her every now and then...

Don't let anyone sway you from settling down with a virgin. You know what u want and u must go for it. Don't ever settle for less. As for that girl, u know what to do.

If you are mature enough I think you should have experience on what you are looking for in woman

There are a lot .of things that are still.important to your personality aside woman virginty
Have you find your purpose in life

As a man you need to understand the true fact that life doesn't fair to you

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

you will end up getting tokunbo virgin