NewStats: 3,262,178 , 8,176,329 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 07:34 AM f5l5o

Bobmarie:
Funny. I was the one who told my present boyfriend I liked him and we’ve been together for years, according to your logic, I should be paying him for accepting my love right? There is no manual to who initiates a relationship. That is the plain truth. It is a lack of self worth and starving eyes for physical attributes that make men sell their pride by humiliating themselves to get a woman any which way, even to the point of paying her to just to keep her. People in developed countries don’t see relationships this way. If Nigerian men would just realize that women aren’t to be worshipped because of breast and ass, women in Nigeria will sit up and stop placing so much importance on themselves. They will actually try to bring something to the table too.

Try it pretend not to care about women in your neighborhood and they will wonder and fall over you, simple human psychology.

Oh well, it’s your opinion. Can’t do anything about it.

you said that... I only said encouragement,appreciation or reward as the case maybe.

However, you not demanding from your boyfriend should not makes him less appreciative in some ways, even going on surprising you sometimes and that's the beauty of a mutual respect. I find it difficult to believe you're a female to be honest and I believe that's not the topic of discussion for now though....

Makanaki127:
Am a serving corper of batch C stream 2,bro I do give my gal 5k every month out of my allawe,make she take manage herself,and manage myself with the reaming one,but I don't send her more than 5k oh,at least make she for still know say I still love her and care for her,the 5k is just for her to buy something for lunch,and pad etc,she has parents when day feed her and take care of normally,but still I just give like pocket make she take day buy card etc.she is a gal and her parents knows she has a boyfriend so their some things she can't ask her parents for now,like maybe wan shop something when hungry her like sweet mouth,na that money she go go collect from use buy. Bro but u day Bleep your gf why to give her money u come here day complain,u should be ashamed of yourself,you are still not matured enough to have a girlfriend

Comrade...
If it's about bleeping
The last time I bleeped her..
It was on Feb 14
We had to plan it..
Anytime I wanna bleep her...
She either has a headache or she has stomach issues or she is not in the mood...
She is a student actually...
But she had to guts to bleep another guy..
Yes!
I read the chats she had with the guy...
She even claimed to have gotten pregnant and aborted it in the chat...
When I confronted her about it...
She said she lied about the pregnancy part because she needed "money" from him...
Even when I checked her browser history..
She was browsing about abortion pills
I also read some flirty chats she had with other guys which she also claimed was all for money as well...
Comrade...
It's not like I don't send this girl money...
Even though I do not send it at once...I send over 10k to her in a month (not allowee) excluding data which is an almost everyday affair...
I can't do the normal Lagos hustle I do here in Rivers
Last monthz allowee finished without a trace..
I knew much went to her Sha...
But now...she is demanding I pay her a fixed amount...
Did your girlfriend tell you to give her anything from your allowee??
Comrade...
If it's about bleeping her...
I hardly do because she makes it hard and I can't cheat on her as well...
She has forgotten all i sent to her in the past
Ladies Sha

So comrade.
I never wanted to say all these...
But your comment stood out..
If you don't have all the facts
Don't come here talking about what you don't know

It is not a must to give her money cos she's not your wife or sister. If she is on salary from u, then you're goat Sir.

To b a responsible boyfriend

Start given her 29:4k, den using 3:6k as a 10% of your allawee
She will know dat u take care of her

U better come back from your sense

Your mumu no too much?
That babe will later dump your sorry ass if you don't man up... and the breakfast would be so heavy. This i have seen!

You are number one mumu

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Let it stay that way. Why would you split your allowee? Where do you guys meet girls like this?
Better utilize your allowee well. If she wants to go, let her go. There are girls everywhere.

Una too dey accept nonsense... If you wanna give your girlfriend your money, it should be from your heart. And not someone deciding when and how much you give to her.

Na so one dey talk say make I dey pay am salary... I come wonder as per wetin na... You're not my wife na.

So my guy, if you want to give your girlfriend money.. it's not wrong but chop belle full ooo.

@virginprincess.... would you advice your brother to do such to an entitled lady??

I don't understand sef, money for what exactly. Is she taking salary for being in a relationship with you.

My guy you nor get sense for posting this rubbish
You are not even thinking about ur parents that saw you through school
If you have sense you would dumped that silly girl now.
You can barely feed you already carrying woman, tell me how will you progress?
Your misplaced priority get plenty carryovers
Since you don't know how to spend the money let me give you tips.
Every month you get paid save 20% of ur allawee for you parents. 40% for your self cause you will need it after your service is over. You can then manager the remaining 40% for ur upkeep. Nor follow your mate do big boy cause you are not one yet. Me I served in River State, those that did big boy went home empty, some even borrowed money to transport home. Nor try impress any body oh cause na you go wound last last.
At the end of your service use the total sum of the 20% you saved for your parents to buy something tangible for them, when you get home present it to them and see the kind of prayer they will pour on that your empty coconut head. It will speak volumes for you even for your next generation yet unborn. Then your 40% will sustain you to some extent before you get something doing. That you babe won't appreciate any thing you do for her from ur 33k cause another idiot like you go us 10k to Bleep her per night while are busy sharing ur 33k, 99% naija baby dey do hookup, after their birth name their second name is hookup, their middle name is short time or night. Only carry woman when you av something doing and ready to settle down. No naija babe will be loyal ontop 33k monthly. Na mumu dey worry you. Abandon the silly girl now, you currently have nothing to offer her niether does she have any thing but problems to offer u. Focus on your service and serve your country in peace.

virginprincess:
Why would op have a girlfriend when he knows he is not financial ready for it,doesn't he knows that relationship involve resource.

Says who?

U don send ur mama money first?
Stop been foolish abeg
That one no be girlfriend na leech

If to say you be my Younger brother na undiluted crowd beating you for collect. Just imagine the kind foolishness you come display on a public forum... Infact give her everything na, since brain dey pain you to reason. SMH.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Ezendimmuo:


Comrade...
If it's about bleeping
The last time I bleeped her..
It was on Feb 14
We had to plan it..
Anytime I wanna bleep her...
She either has a headache or she has stomach issues or she is not in the mood...
She is a student actually...
But she had to guts to bleep another guy..
Yes!
I read the chats she had with the guy...
She even claimed to have gotten pregnant and aborted it in the chat...
When I confronted her about it...
She said she lied about the pregnancy part because she needed "money" from him...
Even when I checked her browser history..
She was browsing about abortion pills
I also read some flirty chats she had with other guys which she also claimed was all for money as well...
Comrade...
It's not like I don't send this girl money...
Even though I do not send it at once...I send over 10k to her in a month (not allowee) excluding data which is an almost everyday affair...
I can't do the normal Lagos hustle I do here in Rivers
Last monthz allowee finished without a trace..
I knew much went to her Sha...
But now...she is demanding I pay her a fixed amount...
Did your girlfriend tell you to give her anything from your allowee??
Comrade...
If it's about bleeping her...
I hardly do because she makes it hard and I can't cheat on her as well...
She has forgotten all i sent to her in the past
Ladies Sha

So comrade.
I never wanted to say all these...
But your comment stood out..
If you don't have all the facts
Don't come here talking about what you don't know

But you did not tell us like this nah,I 2as thinking she was a responsible girl,you know some guys generally are very stingy but on this case I think you are right to be complaining about her,like you said you did not want to say these things,and that is why I got the wrong impression,but it's fine just look for another girl and chase that one away

Heavensent01:
during my time na 19,800 and 4k from my ppa at Nnewi, despite the odds I came back home with 200k I swear




now it's 33k, no save dey give babe wey dey fúck another dick share of the little stipends that you should be strictly saving


any babe that's complaining of 3k u dey send will surely have or find another man wey go dey satisfy her greedy life



but where are you guys meeting these daughters of Jezebel?

You served at NAUTH?

Btw, how did you save up to that because 24k times 12 is 288k.

Kriss216:

Any girl that didn't taste good life with her parents shouldn't expect to taste good life with somebody's son.

Wicked man

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

A good girlfriend should be ing you now. Not collecting from your meagre allowance

virginprincess:
What do you expect from a lady who hasn't tasted the good things of life she won't want to take chances,afterall opportunity comes but once.

Are your girls disabled or what?

anochuko01:


You served at NAUTH?

Btw, how did you save up to that because 24k times 12 is 288k.

I served in one private sch at Akaboukwu community at the back of st Mary Nnewi



very simple, I don't buy food outside, I cooked my own food and mostly vegetables soup that I followed my landlady to get most times on her farm, I learnt how to eat vegetables soup in east, there was a time pepper was like Gold at nnewi market, I switched to egusi, the house I live was just 5mins walk to my PPA, my babe then don't disturb me for cash because I made her understand my plan. I never buy one single cloth throughout my stay despite I need it



NB: I never go to bank to withdraw my 19,800 except when our last born gained ission that I ed them with some cash at home, the money was exact 201k in my acct when I landed in Lagos



it wasn't easy but with determination and focus, strict savings is possible

Heavensent01:




I served in one private sch at Akaboukwu community at the back of st Mary Nnewi



very simple, I don't buy food outside, I cooked my own food and mostly vegetables soup that I followed my landlady to get most times on her farm, I learnt how to eat vegetables soup in east, there was a time pepper was like Gold at nnewi market, I switched to egusi, the house I live was just 5mins walk to my PPA, my babe then don't disturb me for cash because I made her understand my plan. I never buy one single cloth throughout my stay despite I need it



NB: I never go to bank to withdraw my 19,800 except when our last born gained ission that I ed them with some cash at home, the money was exact 201k in my acct when I landed in Lagos



it wasn't easy but with determination and focus, strict savings is possible

That's very commendable.

virginprincess:
Before a lady goes into a relationship with a guy,the guy must have ask her out,didn't he know she's poor and wretched before asking her out.

But in my own case, the girl is asking me out.
Sounds funny, but it's true .

I told her plainly that I am too busy right now for a relationship and secondly we are far from each other and she kept insisting that she can wait for me, blah blah blah.
Honestly, I think it's the responsibility of the man to make a move in the relationship.
I really don't give a damn about love at least for now.

Wonder shall never end. Mr man keep your money very well, she does not have value and anything to offer you.

virginprincess:
What do you expect from a lady who hasn't tasted the good things of life she won't want to take chances,afterall opportunity comes but once.

You are just opening your mouth anyhow and talking with your head up your buttt

Oyiboman69:
you said that... I only said encouragement,appreciation or reward as the case maybe.

However, you not demanding from your boyfriend should not makes him less appreciative in some ways, even going on surprising you sometimes and that's the beauty of a mutual respect. I find it difficult to believe you're a female to be honest and I believe that's not the topic of discussion for now though....

Why do you find it different to believe I’m female? I would like to know.

Las las she will still cheat on you after everything ���

But you did not seek our opinion when you are turning her from one side of the bed to another and pointing her feet to the ceiling.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

If u even send 5k to your mama,she go pray better for u things go dey go well with you.

You see even tho u give that girl 5million naira a month I swear she go still dump ur ass,be wise

virginprincess:
Why would op have a girlfriend when he knows he is not financial ready for it,doesn't he knows that relationship involve resource.

Talk to your broke gender to go and (werk) and stop the belief of my bf will care for me.... slavery still exists �(men has to break that mentality of my money is yours also) we are been fooled by women generally

virginprincess:
doesn't he knows that relationship involve resource.

Lmao

When they marry it involve national budget haha lmao

[quote author=Ezendimmuo post=112608448]Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish


Is she a student? If she's not a student ignore her. Even though she's a student, what about her parents? Some girls are liability instead of asset.

AjiBussu:
Give her 20k monthly and manage 13k.

ed. Since the OP is making money from his 'side hustles', he can even surrender all the 33K and work harder. This will prevent the lady from cheating with other guys who are ready to pay higher. This is what I would not have done if I found myself in his shoes.