NewStats: 3,263,931 , 8,181,939 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 08:08 PM 4f6ls

Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

. She was asking me when I was going to give her her share.

Her share of what? Is she serving under the sun and in the rain with you

Learn to stop patronising foolishness from this wicked gender!

My gender tho

Kriss216:

I have been seeing you everywhere

Mek I carry chair come siddon fess

you are not only selfish but weak since you can't stand your ground and explain things to her,maybe when you get stranded in a strange land you will learn,you are a simp according to nairaland keyboard warriors(redpillers).

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virginprincess:
you are not only selfish but weak since you can't stand your ground and explain things to her,maybe when you get stranded in a strange land you will learn,you are a simp according to nairaland keyboard warriors(redpillers).

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Instead of you to condemn the entitlement mentality of your gender, you're here calling the OP names.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

You're such an idiot , what kind of a human being are you? Struggling and still taking care of liability

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

u need slap

Kriss216:
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Instead of you to condemn the entitlement mentality of your gender, you're here calling the OP names.

You deserve all the blame mumu

Arrrrrrrh

Run away from girls with entitlement mentality they will ruin you before your time.

Uniquetani1:
My gender tho

Op, use ur head o

She's a leach, the earlier u put her in her place the better o

Kriss216:
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Instead of you to condemn the entitlement mentality of your gender, you're here calling the OP names.

is he not a man?can't he make decision for himself,the lady just requested, it is the op decision whether to grant her request or not,so why won't i blame him.

OP, you better unfriend your gf before she wrecks you and makes you live a miserable life. If after service and u don't get a job to keep sending her the money, just get ready for her to dump you for the next cash cow. DON'T START WHAT YOU CAN'T FINISH!!

virginprincess:
is he not a man?can't he make decision for himself,the lady just requested, it is the op decision whether to grant her request or not,so why won't i blame him.

You should be concerned how a sane human is requesting to be paid when she didn't work. That's a criminal offense, don't you think so?

Kriss216:

You should be concerned how a sane human is requesting to be paid when she didn't work. That's a criminal offense, don't you think so?

Why would op have a girlfriend when he knows he is not financial ready for it,doesn't he knows that relationship involve resource.

Give her 20k monthly and manage 13k.

virginprincess:
Why would op have a girlfriend when he knows he is not financial ready for it,doesn't he knows that relationship involve resource.

But a broke and wretched girl can be in a relationship?

Purposeful relationships would require responsibilities in action and also funds but it is not her place to demand seeing you are still struggling with the little you have.

Word of advice, you don't need a girlfriend now.

Ask her the stress you ed through in the university , did she share in them ? stay woke

Ezendimmuo:

She became upset when I told her [b]we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
[/b]She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

the above in bold in the root of all your problems...why would you discuss it with her?! it mean you are considering giving her money, while YOU SHOULDNT!!!! why should you give her money and take care of her?! is she your wife? now see how she is giving you cold shoulders after you gave her 3k....is 3 k not a lot out of the little you got?!?!? she is an ungrateful human being. so stop acting like a simp and let her manage her life the same way she did when you were not in her life.

Kriss216:

But a broke and wretched girl can be in a relationship?

Before a lady goes into a relationship with a guy,the guy must have ask her out,didn't he know she's poor and wretched before asking her out.

virginprincess:
Before a lady goes into a relationship with a guy,the guy must have ask her out,didn't he know she's poor and wretched before asking her out.

are you claiming that a man asking a babe out, means he must immediately take care of her needs from that moment forth?!
does r/ship to y'all mean begging for handouts?! being in a r/ship has absolutely nothing to do with finances.

virginprincess:
Before a lady goes into a relationship with a guy,the guy must have ask her out,didn't he know she's poor and wretched before asking her out.

So, to ask a girl out now means taking care of an orphan?

AjiBussu:
Give her 20k monthly and manage 13k.

Better he should give her 30k
let him manage 3k

Why not give her the whole of your allowee or do you want to lose your girlfriend? Mtchew.

Kriss216:

So, to ask a girl out now means taking care of an orphan?

What do you expect from a lady who hasn't tasted the good things of life she won't want to take chances,afterall opportunity comes but once.

virginprincess:
What do you expect from a lady who hasn't tasted the good things of life she won't want to take chances,afterall opportunity comes but once.

Any girl that didn't taste good life with her parents shouldn't expect to taste good life with somebody's son.

I no understand