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slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill


It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also

It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na..
Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period...

If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen

Does her mouth run on solar power ie 24 hours running... thats the number one cause of men detesting their women.

harizonal123:
Maybe the woman is always cuddling her man when sleeping. Me I don't like that either mostly when there is heat

Meanwhile, Me i cant sleep without cuddling, I must sha play with up and down.. Even if we are not in good , I must still cuddle at night before I can sleep. We can now continue our malice next day..

Whenever we are having issues and she leaves the room for me.. I will be having nightmares

When ever she's lonely she can visit her husband room to collect that thing.

SeriouslySense:
exactly.

Things one should have self control and discipline in is.

1) How one pollutes the air, or gas out. If you gas out like you don't care and have no self control and it keeps coming like a tornado and generator, i'm sorry.
2) Mouth smell, make sure to clean your mouth especially after eating fish and meat.
3) Room temperature and sweating, if its too hot try to stay dry and no prolonged cuddling in extreme heat.
4) learn to read your partners body language (be very smart) and at the same time try to get feed backs without being demanding. Demanding could turn off the attraction.

Other areas could be.
1) Some people do not like noise or listening to phone conversation, because its impedes on their mind thinking processes. Phone habits are very important concern. Be mindful of your phone talks while your partner is in the room. Some people dont want to hear your business unless its about the children.

2) Start from today to monitor how you snore and try to understand how to reduce it or stop it.

3)Your baggage may be too much is suffocating the space and the smell of your make up, may cause allergy or irritation to your partner.


Its seems he does not like drama, please try and respect that, so just be patient and understanding and show him love and kindness, do your best and move on. With patience, you will get to understand why he does that.

Thanks, you really did justice to this issue

If I am unfortunate to marry a snoring man like this my neighbor who causes earth quake every night from upstairs with his snore, then a separate room will be like getting freed from bondage.

Na sex b her problem.

I personally prefer separate + meeting room.
Me too need peace of mind in my space.. Since wey I dey single, who dey accompany me for house??

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

Don't just jump into matters, this ofcourse isn't enough info for you to render any help.
This couldn't be spontaneous, how did they get here?

I don't see anything wrong with it. My parents have their separate rooms though it's linked to each other room. I personally will also love my own room whenever i get married.

Maybe the wife has a stink about her or some hygienic problem the husband may not wish to tell her. Nevertheless, some people just prefer their personal space for a deep personal reflection, in which there is no way they can do so and concentrate if there is someone else in the room.

From my experience with my sex partner (we both agree to use the words) whenever we slept on the same bed, she would keep almost half of the bed empty and share the other half with me, every time I spoke to her i am uncomfortable and can't sleep because she has restricted my body posture and position to an inconvenient state that will end me in restlessness and body pains all through the day, what I got was an unhealthy attitude and she never shifted or did anything to alleviate my suffering in the bed. A situation that always inconvenienced me so much so I I severally wished she never came or left before night fall. This may be the situation with her and her husband. I sleep only when I face down and I have been told I don't snore in that position but anything outside of this position sleep is out the window and body pains and anger sets in. Ask her if this situation is not affecting her husband too because it is either this, farting unnecessarily, snoring loudly, mouth odour, or bad stinky breath that will most likely be the cause. Well! I am not ruling out some diabolical stuffs that people do that may forbid them from sleeping with a woman and it may be he has done something jujuish that will have to be kept secret as he may chant at midnight or do some other bad stuff. To this juju part, I say God punish devil. Ladies look before you leap. Thank you. I am a God fearing and practicing Christian by the way though I know about those things as I lived in such a compound where such happened before.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill

Iwo jebi ni. You for get separate kitchens. Mumu.

The matter get as e be

burritto:


Then when he does that for a long time and you feel he loves doing that, that’s when you start using it as a weapon against him. One day you’ll ask him if sex is food, just so you could emasculate him.

SavageResponse:
Maybe you did something that made him suddenly decide he wants to have his own room.

[b]It's also possible that you snore or you spend a long time gossiping with friends on the phone and he finds it distracting ;[/b]D

that's the point

Wahala be like getting married these days

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill


It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also

It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na..
Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period...

If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen

That's very normal in my culture.
When she sleep in your room IT'S HOME MATCH when yoi sleep in her room IT'S AWAY MATCH.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill


It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also

It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na..
Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period...

If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen

That's very normal in my culture fo a couple to have toom each but they do sleep in the same room though
When she sleep in your room IT'S HOME MATCH when yoi sleep in her room IT'S AWAY MATCH.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill


It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also

It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na..
Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period...

If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen

and a boys quarter incase

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill


It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also

It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na..
Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period...

If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen

Sure, all the luxeries your proposed to have are nice, so far you can afford, can you?

There is absolutely nothing wrong with them sleeping in different rooms. Men have different levels of libidos, which some women don't know. Some men lose desire on their women if they are together all the time, seeing their nackedness all the time. But that distance brings some level of excitement. I understand some men are not victims of this, but some men with low libido are. If the wife wants a longer marriage, she should agree with the husband.
She should be sleeping at night, why feel lonely during sleep?

2braithe:


This one don go marry "I cherish my personal space"

By the way,why is she feeling lonely at night when she is supposed to be sleeping?

she is feeling lonely while she sleeps

there is something wrong if the woman is crying . If there was nothing wrong , then the woman will not be crying, think about it. People do not cry and complain without a reason. The wife is not feeling her husband sleeping in a room especially if she is feeling loney. The matter should be address by both husband and wife, wife should communicate to her husband, husband should adjust.

Uniquetani1:
She should ask him if he still loves her.
Na so divorce process dey start.



But I will like a separate room with my husband, I don't like disturb

I don't think it's a big deal. Maybe he wants his space. It will also make them value their time together. But sleeping and waking up together fosters bonding.

damilarea2:




Meanwhile, Me i cant sleep without cuddling, I must sha play with up and down.. Even if we are not in good , I must still cuddle at night before I can sleep. We can now continue our malice next day..

Whenever we are having issues and she leaves the room for me.. I will be having nightmares

Loool. Woman wrapper. Cuddling is so much fun but my man shouldn't dare come near me when I'm Mad!!!

2braithe:


This one don go marry "I cherish my personal space"

By the way,why is she feeling lonely at night when she is supposed to be sleeping?

U guys no go kil person

Gaddafih001:

This is the beginning of divorce o.
My ex mum told her to live separately from me.
Immediately she left our room to hers,the marriage died.we divorced 5 years later.

Oh sorry

damilarea2:




Meanwhile, Me i cant sleep without cuddling, I must sha play with up and down.. Even if we are not in good , I must still cuddle at night before I can sleep. We can now continue our malice next day..

Whenever we are having issues and she leaves the room for me.. I will be having nightmares

How can u quarrel in the day and you cuddle @ night then continue quarrel the next day. If na me be your wife I will starve u of cuddling indefinitely until u behave well and settle permanently

brightest5050:
Truth be told I see nothing wrong in couple having their separate rooms

I agree with you, most times I feel like staying alone with no interference from husband or kids. This doesn't mean I love my husband less. It helps me to reason well.

There must be a reason for it:
On the ladies part
Maybe she is not clean
Maybe she stinks
Maybe she too like Bleep and the husband is not comfortable with it anymore.
On the man part
Maybe he has a side chick he has lied or pretend for that he is still single......trying to form bachelor with another bae.

nwanyiugbo122:
I agree with you, most times I feel like staying alone with no interference from husband or kids. This doesn't mean I love my husband less. It helps me to reason well.

God bless you real good and your household. I love a very calm place as a matter of fact I love to hear my thought. You married?

If the marriage is still new, Sleeping in separate room is not encourage!! But if they old, I think sleeping separately is not bad!! You will mess freely not excusing your self always!! It is too early now and the husband is not a pastor that will need separate room for prayers and study!!