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GboyegaD:
I was sure he isn't based on the date as pregnancy is never allowed past 42 weeks as the placenta becomes weak and dragging past that time.

However, with his revised date on their dealings, I him asking for a DNA as there is a high chance the baby can be his.

Lastly, while you blame the woman, blame the men too who were having unprotected sex with her. Pregnancy isn't the only risk from unprotected sex.

i blame EVERYBODY in this crazy story....i just dragged the baby mama into it, as everyone is talking about the possible baby daddy and not baby mama. the fact that so many people on this thread are more concerned about her marriage being scattered than knowing who the bioligical father truly is, is what is amazing here. some people out there really have MISPLACED PRIORITIES in their lives!

Y

Warsaw never saw war until war saw warsaw! Bro you like trouble.

We are here to read how Dem break ur coconut head. U go like sifia pain

T0T0fucker:


I will only leave them when I confirm the child is not mine.

Leave her alone before you cause problems in her marriage,she left you peacefully and got a life,and you want to fight based on assumption that the baby is yours.what if the baby is not your,do you know if she had sex with the guy dat same period.be matured and leave her alone.dont cause trouble based on assumptions.

T0T0fucker:


so even though the baby is mine, I should let it be?

is that what you saying to me?


I should just let my blood go like that. ( I don't give a hoot about her)

it's the baby I want to know if it's mine or not.

allow the baby to grow first please. Do not destroy the girl’s marriage because you feel the child is yours. After all you never loved her

E be like say fight just dey
hungry you..☹️☹️☹️☹️


If, during the time you people were
bannging she had told you she
had taken in, considering how
you met from the get-go, you for 'gree ❓


Babe don move on, settle down
with who she like & you wan go rock
boat..... Dem swear for you❓☹️☹️

⏩Better park well❗️❗️

MrBrownJay1:
you dont give a fukc about the babe but yet had unprotected sex with her... and now that she caught one of the most deadly diseases that you can catch when having unprotected sex (aka A PREGNANCY), you are here talking in tongues.

SOLUTION: quietly the babe and openly ask her that you want her to have a DNA test done on that child (for peace of mind)...,and if she refuses to quietly have a DNA test done, openly confront her in front of her man and explain the situation to him too (i am sure he will understand as nobody want to have such doubts in their lives).

if the babe is smart, she will have the test done quietly as to not have the skeletons in her closet explode in her damn face.

btw if the baby is yours, start looking for ways to co-parent that child.

Oga T0T0fvcker.. This is quite the most logical solution to your problem here among a few others ooo

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she ed is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

What if both of you had been sleeping with her?

Don't forget she was a runs girl before . She might been sleeping with yahoo boy and you since that time you met her. You can't say the baby is yours without tangible evidence to prove

From your fable you haven't walkout me as a very smart colleagues

T0T0fucker:


thanks very much for this.
exactly the opinion am looking for.

should I approach her with dna test request now or wait for a little while?

since the baby is just 2days old.

A friend I confided in said I should act now.
but am still thinking it.

the money for the dna test is not an issue, I expense that.

Baba please take advice and leave that family alone. Just imagine u are the husband. U don't like the girl despite the fact that she gave herself to you to bang as u like, still yet u want to destroy her life. Are u that wicked?? Please nor let small money u think say u get deceive u. Jeje leave that bae

What are you fighting? Shebi you dey beat your kingkong chest say you get FWB. Because you both had sex 9months ago you want to go destroy her marriage. Better dey your lane go find wife marry or you continue with your FWB life.

You need to grow up and let matter lies. If you are the father, let her be the one to come to you. Don't go and destroy someone's life.
You judged her base on where you met her and condemn her in your hearts and with your action, there is no way you can love any child she would give birth to even if it's for you.
Lastly, if she had told you she is pregnant for you, you would have chased her away and call her different names. The reason you are coming up with this is because God bless her with another man that loves her for who she is, so Bros Holy Clubber, be happy for her and move on with your life.

All these are mere assumptions.

The possibility of the baby being yours is 50%. And only a DNA test can determine if the child is yours or not.

The pregnancy calculation can only be true if it was on her fertile period and she slept with only you. Also all babies come out fair and take on their true colour after some months.

If you think the child might be yours just confront her and demand for a DNA test.

But since she's married to another man, why not let sleeping dogs lie

I no wan comment before oo but I was force to becos the OP na mutula.
1. you call a lady a hoe even though she was once some1 u dated
2 you call her demeaning names but yet you are ready to fight for the child of a demeaning woman, are you ok.
3. You have no plan for your self, for your so called child and not even for the woman. Warris wrong with you.
4. If that child happens to be yours, I swear I see full evidence of bad parenting which would only cause more harm to the society .who knows might be the next bully and cultist or ashewo.

5. Finally, you are walking with the wrong set of friends. The way your friends dey ginger you shows none of them mean well for you. I Dont know your financially status but I bet you have nothing..

T0T0fucker:


so even though the baby is mine, I should let it be?

is that what you saying to me?


I should just let my blood go like that. ( I don't give a hoot about her)

it's the baby I want to know if it's mine or not.

The baby is not yours even if u are the father... If am the babe I will eliminate you and feed your useless body to the dogs...

The type of girl she is, how are you sure you were the only banging her at that time. There could be another 3 fair guys banging at the time you were sweating too. Abi no be woman? She fit leave ur house go another man's house go collect am. I have seen an issue like that. I think there is no way you can fight this.. My opinion though

This guy deserve to know if the baby is his or not? Just the way to go by to make the process easy n undeterred. Marriage scatter or not, I care less, infact, the other man need to know he married a runs girl.

When you resort to go olosho way, that is the end product. Let her dance to the tune.

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she ed is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

just tell us the truth. you're in love with her and you can't believe she left you just like that. cos I don't understand why you are running after the child. so you actually believe you were the only one eating the cookie at that time? you're really funny. many girls usually have a plan B. the same time you guys were having sex for fun, she had that yahoo guy at one corner as a plan B. the guy was also chopping her. you better don't listen to that devil who is pushing you to disgrace yourself. a dark skinned man can have a child who is fair. it doesn't mean anything. if eventually that child is not yours, na everlasting disgrace for you.

Lets be matured, wait till she give birth, then challenge her, and opt for DNA, Start saving now for DNA OO, simple....

Fight dey sweet when money dey, if e sure for you wait small, gather evidence then begin the fight.
But as you dey fight no win battle lose war o.
Also know say na woman wey dey house na im be wife, all those other ones na osho free, them dey share that thing like say tomorrow no go come bevsuse prick and ysnsh no get meter.

Women are dubious in character, go and demand for DNA if you can afford, it is possible you are even helping the husband, if you don't do it now that it is early it will be very difficult in the future. Don't let any man take care of your child, whether the mother is a LovePeddler or not

video or adonbilivit

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she ed is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

Don't fight it now,children do change in complexion as time goes by...however,u are on point and ensure u keep her s and play along most especially now that u have been able to figure out what actually happened.

Time is the key here...find out her location and pay her a visit may be in two years time. Then,u will see all the qualities u expects of ur child.

MrBrownJay1:


fact that so many people on this thread are more concerned about her marriage being scattered than knowing who the bioligical father truly is, is what is amazing here. some people out there really have MISPLACED PRIORITIES in their lives!

You can imagine the rubbish, every actions have equal reaction. The man should not let the matter die. Let him seek for legal mean to tackle the issue.

OhiOfIhima:
This guy deserve to know if the baby is his or not? Just the way to go by to make the process easy n undeterred. Marriage scatter or not, I care less, infact, the other man need to know he married a runs girl.

When you resort to go olosho way, that is the end product. Let her dance to the tune.

shut the Bleep up. Stop acting like you are a Saint. She is olosho but she is married,so respect her for that. I Dont Even belief the guy she is married to his a yahoo guy . So Dont just spew rubbish

T0T0fucker:

I don't know yet, but bro I really like to know if that child is mine.

ps: she's married already...so am not coming after her..it's the baby I like to know the truth.

I have prove to back my claim

get close to the child anyway possible and get anything you can use for DNA

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she ed is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

Dear OP. ...please take a DEEP breathe in answering these REALITY CHECK QUESTIONS below...If you are satisfy and can fufilled all these then GO ,PURSUE and RECOVER ALL....according to the HOLY scriptures ...

Are you sincere and ready to be a father?
Do you know and understand the rules of fatherhood.. not just bearing fatherhood through seeds and names??.
Do you understand the rules in modern day Co-parenting?
How much do you earn daily, weekly or monthly to fight for paternity or DNA test results??
Are you sure you can cope with emotional depression and the likes ....
Are you READY TO BE A MAN and not a baby boy claiming to be young when you are not ....
Sex and body counts does raise your EGO rather it depreciate them...
Lastly that baby " IS NOT YOURS" MOST BABIES WHEN THEY ARE NEWLY BORN ARE ALWAYS FAIR BUT WHEN THEY GROW INTO MONTHS RETURN BACK TO THEIR PARENTS COLOURS...
THE LADY IN QUESTION WAS MESSING AROUND WITH DIFFERENT MEN WHEN SHE WAS WITH YOU AND HER YAHOO BOY ....
#TAKE HEART
# BE A REAL MAN
# BE RESPONSIBLE
# STAY SAFE ...

T0T0fucker:

read the topic headline again

Ogbeni you should be ashamed of yourself for taking in a LovePeddler to be straffing, worse still, without any form of protection. Instead of you to go and run various STDs test to ascertain your status, you're there ranting and insulting people to whom you brought your problem to help you solve.

MrBrownJay1:


i blame EVERYBODY in this crazy story....i just dragged the baby mama into it, as everyone is talking about the possible baby daddy and not baby mama. the fact that so many people on this thread are more concerned about her marriage being scattered than knowing who the bioligical father truly is, is what is amazing here. some people out there really have MISPLACED PRIORITIES in their lives!

No misplaced priority chief.
OP's story is lacking a great deal of credibility with his switching around dates.
You had a lot of time planning a post yet mess up the most important aspect of the post, The dates. How can you post February and then switch it to March only after you have been called out to the impossibility of your claims?
The child is obviously with his rightful and biological father now.

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she ed is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

Dear OP. ...please take a DEEP breathe in answering these REALITY CHECK QUESTIONS below...If you are satisfy and can fufilled all these then GO ,PURSUE and RECOVER ALL....according to the HOLY scriptures ...

Are you sincere and ready to be a father?
Do you know and understand the rules of fatherhood.. not just bearing fatherhood through seeds and names??.
Do you understand the rules in modern day Co-parenting?
How much do you earn daily, weekly or monthly to fight for paternity or DNA test results??
Are you sure you can cope with emotional depression and the likes ....
Are you READY TO BE A MAN and not a baby boy claiming to be young when you are not ....
Sex and body counts does raise your EGO rather it depreciate them...
Lastly that baby " IS NOT YOURS" MOST BABIES WHEN THEY ARE NEWLY BORN ARE ALWAYS FAIR BUT WHEN THEY GROW INTO MONTHS RETURN BACK TO THEIR PARENTS COLOURS...
THE LADY IN QUESTION WAS MESSING AROUND WITH DIFFERENT MEN WHEN SHE WAS WITH YOU AND HER YAHOO BOY ....
#TAKE HEART
# BE A REAL MAN
# BE RESPONSIBLE
# DONT BE BITTERED
# STAY SAFE ...