NewStats: 3,264,049 , 8,182,418 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 12:38 PM 1f5d72

Favfables1:


How can you be so sure??

Google can help. There are conception calculators and the maximum the hospital will allow you carry a pregnancy is 42 weeks which is mid March in this case.

GboyegaD:


Keep quiet and stop acting smart. The baby has very minimal chances of being yours. She too doesn't care about you and please get down your high horse.

shattap your trap sir, weak asz men like you are the ones raising another man's child thinking it's theirs.

I can't dash you my bloodline, you have prick and sperm impregnate yours if it's fertile.

I know if the baby has a minimal chance of been mine, you don't follow me straff her on different occasions.

MrBrownJay1:


what a selfish thing to say...as usual, women are looking at this issue the failed way, and dont care if a man raises a child that aint his, so long as this woman remains "happily married".... what a failed mentality! in your mind, marriage is more important than anything else in this world, abi? smh!!!!

instead of thinking of your narrow minded issues, why dont you instead think of a child who is raised by a man that aint his/her biological father and/or a man who raises a child (for years) who aint his.



what is foolish about a man trying to do whats right in this life (or a child's life)? do you think it would be right for you to raise a child that you think was yours, but isnt?! wouldnt you (as the husband of this woman) want to know if the child was yours or his, if there was a tiny chance that it could be his?! stop being a hypocrite!

Don't you think the conception calculator would have helped the young man considering their last dealing was in February?

T0T0fucker:

shattap your trap sir, weak asz men like you are the ones raising another man's child thinking it's theirs.

I can't dash you my bloodline, you have prick and sperm impregnate yours if it's fertile.

I know if the baby has a minimal chance of been mine, you don't follow me straff her on different occasions.

What a very low thinking guy you are. Go use a conception calculator to see the baby isn't yours. People like you are just jealous of another person's happiness since you lack it.

No one is a weak as you coming online to cry foul because you can't use the resources around you to understand simple fact.

Throwing insults doesn't make you wise or smarter than you are. Be quick to go disgrace yourself since that is what you are heading for at this time.

GboyegaD:
Don't you think the conception calculator would have helped the young man considering their last dealing was in February?

a man must put ALL doubts out of his mind in these important issues as we all know that not all pregnancies are the same... so no matter how minimal the chances are, he must sort this out now, rather than in 20yrs time.

this has all to do with doing whats RIGHT FOR THE CHILD!

..

MrBrownJay1:


a man must put ALL doubts out of his mind in these important issues as we all know that not all preganncies are the same... so no matter how minimal the chances are, he must sort this out now, rather than in 20yrs time.

this has all to do with doing whats RIGHT FOR THE CHILD!

If he's last dealing with her was in February, there's actually no chance the baby is his except if he isn't sure when their last dealing was. It is apparent he's jealous the lady moved on.

He isn't doing what is right for the child in this case and we both know it. He's just trying to flex muscles and apparently caught feelings for the lady but isn't willing to it it.

Favfables1:


How can you be so sure??

Cause I calculated the number of weeks from first February and it meant she'd have given birth in October ending at most. If it's from March, then November ending.

Hope you understand.

T0T0fucker:


you are truly daft, if you read well you see I said the last days of February... this year.

and she gave birth December 22.

bros you know follow me straff the girl, I know how many times we strsffed that period.

I have several proves to back up that child is mine... just run back to hole.

Why not just read up on conception? Why not use a conception calculator to see when the child was probably conceived? By the way, it takes just once to get pregnant and not the amount of times.

I wanted to come hard at you but now I can see you have been hoping all through the baby is yours. The earliest conception for this baby is in March.

Let's assume he last menstrual cycle started on February 28, the baby is due December 5, this having the baby yesterday will mean the pregnancy is 42 weeks and some days thus, the earliest conception date will have been towards mid March. If the baby was the normal 40 weeks, the earliest conception date is end of March.

GboyegaD:


Why not just read up on conception? Why not use a conception calculator to see when the child was probably conceived? By the way, it takes just once to get pregnant and not the amount of times.

I wanted to come hard at you but now I can see you have been hoping all through the baby is yours. The earliest conception for this baby is in March.

Let's assume he last menstrual cycle started on February 28, the baby is due December 5, this having the baby yesterday will mean the pregnancy is 42 weeks and some days thus, the earliest conception date will have been towards mid March. If the baby was the normal 40 weeks, the earliest conception date is end of March

I made mistake it was March ending

GboyegaD:


If he's last dealing with her was in February, there's actually no chance the baby is his except if he isn't sure when their last dealing was. It is apparent he's jealous the lady moved on.

He isn't doing what is right for the child in this case and we both know it. He's just trying to flex muscles and apparently caught feelings for the lady but isn't willing to it it.

Correct.
The lady probably took in between middle of March and early early April if she put to bed 2 days ago.

T0T0fucker:


I made mistake it was March ending

Naso
E go soon enter May

T0T0fucker:


I made mistake it was March ending

If it was March ending, follow the suggestion of quietly asking for a DNA however, have plans on what to do next if the baby is yours.

I'm not sure what the constitution says about a child born in a wedlock and you may want to read more about that before approaching her. In some countries, the husband is named the father by default and you may need fight legally to have access (not custody) to the child.

In all, I wish you the very best and hope you find closure on this.

MrBrownJay1:


what a selfish thing to say...as usual, women are looking at this issue the failed way, and dont care if a man raises a child that aint his, so long as this woman remains "happily married".... what a failed mentality! in your mind, marriage is more important than anything else in this world, abi? smh!!!!

instead of thinking of your narrow minded issues, why dont you instead think of a child who is raised by a man that aint his/her biological father and/or a man who raises a child (for years) who aint his.



what is foolish about a man trying to do whats right in this life (or a child's life)? do you think it would be right for you to raise a child that you think was yours, but isnt?! wouldnt you (as the husband of this woman) want to know if the child was yours or his, if there was a tiny chance that it could be his?! stop being a hypocrite!

You have misdirected my point. Op will be foolish to go around raising dust and asking questions without having funds to carry out a DNA test himself among other responsibilities, and he has responded that he does. If she didn't tell him she was having his baby then, will she tell him now that she's married? He must have the resources to pursue it without too much words.
By the way, the Yahoo boy that married the woman in question is not an idiot and would have also calculated the same thing the op is calculating that makes him think the child is his before deciding to marry her.

She bailed because she discovered you weren't interested in marriage and she is only one of your perennial girlfriends.

BTW, how do you know, you are the only fair boyfriend she had, what if you are one of many?

Consider the possibility that neither you nor the husband might be the child's father.

Are you willing and able to marry, hire a stay-in nanny or go dump the kid with your grandmother in the village assuming the child is yours?

GboyegaD:
If he's last dealing with her was in February, there's actually no chance the baby is his except if he isn't sure when their last dealing was. It is apparent he's jealous the lady moved on.

again, some women out there are going way past their due date, sometimes 2weeks overdue....and pregnancy has to be induced. so if the pregnancy is within 2/3 weeks of the 9months he was last with her, he isnt far from the truth that the child "could" be his.

He isn't doing what is right for the child in this case and we both know it.

so you are 110% sure that he aint the father?! how can you be so sure? and if there is a tiny chance he could be the father, shouldnt he confirm it?!

He's just trying to flex muscles and apparently caught feelings for the lady but isn't willing to it it.

we can all assume anything under the moon here, but the fact is that, he didnt give a fukc about her and her new man, until she gave birth and realize the child could be his. he isnt looking for a r/ship with her again, but a r/ship with the possible child that he may have.

shouldnt we instead put some of the blame on this woman who had unprotected sex with these 2 men is such a short period of time...??!?!?!?

T0T0fucker:


I will only leave them when I confirm the child is not mine.

If you have made your decision already why bring it here to ask?

You think you were the only one that slept with her?

Scientific calculator wey dey calculate pregnancy

This relationship thing is scary....

How do people double date and feel comfortable?

Bros! Why you scatter another person family na when you know say you no fit cater for the baby?

Double up and Waka in peace.

Just shut up.

MrBrownJay1:


again, some women out there are going way past their due date, sometimes 2weeks overdue....and preganncy has to be induced. so if the pregnancy is within 2/3 weeks of the 9months he was last with her, he isnt far from the truth that the child "could" be his.



so you are 110% sure that he aint the father?! how can you be so sure? and if there is a tiny chance he could be the father, shouldnt he confirm it?!



we can all assume anything under the moon here, but the fact is that, he didnt give a fukc about her and her new man, until she gave birth and realize the child could be his. he isnt looking for a r/ship with her again, but a r/ship with the possible child that he may have.

shouldnt we instead put some of the blame on this woman who had unprotected sex with these 2 men is such a short period of time...??!?!?!?

I was sure he isn't based on the date as pregnancy is never allowed past 42 weeks as the placenta becomes weak and dragging past that time.

However, with his revised date on their dealings, I him asking for a DNA as there is a high chance the baby can be his.

Lastly, while you blame the woman, blame the men too who were having unprotected sex with her. Pregnancy isn't the only risk from unprotected sex.

T0T0fucker:


so even though the baby is mine, I should let it be?

is that what you saying to me?


I should just let my blood go like that. ( I don't give a hoot about her)

it's the baby I want to know if it's mine or not.

It's like something is wrong with you abi Dem swear for you ? How did you know the baby is yours ? How did you intend to right your wrongs if you scatter her home and at the end of the day the Baby in question turned out not to be yours? E be like say dem dey swear for you abi?

Wetin concern you

bigjackass:
You have misdirected my point. Op will be foolish to go around raising dust and asking questions without having funds to carry out a DNA test himself among other responsibilities, and he has responded that he does.

yeah because you automatically assumed that he couldnt pay for a dna test nor take care of a child's need.

If she didn't tell him she was having his baby then, will she tell him now that she's married? He must have the resources to pursue it without too much words.

he doesnt her to tell him anything, as a DNA TEST will do all the "talking".

By the way, the Yahoo boy that married the woman in question is not an idiot and would have also calculated the same thing the op is calculating that makes him think the child is his before deciding to marry her.

i doubt that this man knows that she was fukcing some other dude unprotected, a few days before she bleeped him...and if he indeed knows, then he wil understand that there is a need to confirm who the child's biological father truly is (especially if daddy and mommy are as dark as charcoal)

T0T0fucker:

we bargained the first night.


the following months she lived with me, they wasn't any price tagged.

honestly you dont talk like someone reasonable... did you and the lady bargained marriage or any baby on ur first night ? NO..

U guys didnt plan to settle down together.. so let her be,, dont use your doubt to scatter her marriage.. just tell us that u r jealous she dumped

T0T0fucker:


I will only leave them when I confirm the child is not mine.

So why bring it to nairaland since you already had your mind made up

free the couple and FACE FRONT

What IF that child isn't yours bro?
You would've planted a bad seed in the poor lady's union.

I know you deserve ur child, if it's truly yours. But then, your evidence
in that respect is speculative and weak. Being who she was, she could've been
banging that guy when she was still with you.

just let it go!

Ofieno:


So why bring it to nairaland since you already had your mind made up

read the topic headline again

Sooo you wan claim the pikin �

Ohh okay
You better leave mata for Matthias

T0T0fucker:


so even though the baby is mine, I should let it be?

is that what you saying to me?


I should just let my blood go like that. ( I don't give a hoot about her)

it's the baby I want to know if it's mine or not.

Oga, you don't have a blood anywhr. Don't go and put trouble whr it doesn't exist. You dint wife her, another man did, now you wan claim pikin. No let them pull trigger for your head.