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Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

Thank God you're still a teen, if go do anyhow forget am dem fit lock u for cell since u no wan get sense so. If u like carry ur community youths go commit nuisance in their house it will definitely show who her mom said u are.. My advice for u is to tell elders that her parents respect and carry dem go see them and assured them u are willing to accept responsibilities

Agbebakun22:



Thank God you're still a teen, if go do anyhow forget am dem fit lock u for cell since u no wan get sense so. If u like carry ur community youths go commit nuisance in their house it will definitely show who her mom said u are.. My advice for u is to tell elders that her parents respect and carry dem go see them and assured them u are willing to accept responsibilities

No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

You are a big fool let her abort it you and your gf dont have what it takes to raise a child mumu

Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

You This tout you don't have a child anywhere. You this small pikin just dey misyan anyhow. Are you ravaging mad or something?

That girl deserve correct beating too after the abortion. For even stepping on the ground she already stepped on talkmore of impregnating her

Foolish gold digger of a Tout

JovialJune:



Chai lawd have mercy with the kind of guys some girls choose to open their legs for, how old are you? Are you working?

Since his parent's are willing to take responsibilities no big deal here.

Ayanwukoma:


No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

No parents will ever sit down with a lowlife, a Tout and Agbero like you

You will regret ever going to her house if you try am. Thank God you say they get money. They go forget you for cell people wey get money can do anything scort free for today Nigeria o. Talkmore of you a tout wey commit crime

Ayanwukoma:


No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

I hope so too, I have a friend in similar shoe like u oo, I no say na love dey shack u well but I'm happy ur parent's are willing to take responsibilities, sha go hustle hard and be ive to your parents cux u raising a child while going to sch is a big task and besides u just delay that girl dream too maybe that's why her parents what to abort the foetus

Me at 23 I have never had a girlfriend.. Had my first sex and first kiss early this month. I was even regretting after doing it....

But one 19-year-old is about to be a dad... �� Dude better focus in your education..

Ayanwukoma:


No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

learn how to speak fluently before learning how to impregnate a girl..it will help you..I know you and your parents are so happy cuz her dad is rich..sorry to say..even if buhari accompanies you to the parents house..it will still end in tears..oga move on..its a lost battle..learn something that will bring meaning to your useless life and stop wasting your youth.agbero and ashawo nor ne work but they will nerver listen stupid asss

Agbebakun22:



Since his parent's are willing to take responsibilities no big deal here.

The girls parent's don't want such life for their daughter. How is that so difficult to comprehend please?

He isn't married to her. Her parents own their child. They can even chose to kill their child sef and face the outcome. Na their pikin

Agbebakun22:



Since his parent's are willing to take responsibilities no big deal here.

are they going there to beg on behalf of thier stupid son for bringing trauma to thier lives or are they going there to collect list for marriage.. a girl that should be in ss3...I nor understand..what is wrong in aborting the child of two children of unstable mind...

Agbebakun22:



I hope so too, I have a friend in similar shoe like u oo, I no say na love dey shack u well but I'm happy ur parent's are willing to take responsibilities, sha go hustle hard and be ive to your parents cux u raising a child while going to sch is a big task and besides u just delay that girl dream too maybe that's why her parents what to abort the foetus

Yes I love her, and she loves me back for her to call me last night with a teary voice, hoping I do something about it.
I was the one who even pester her to tell her parents, she wanted to keep it hidden, till they find out by themselves.

Honestly speaking, reading comments from nairalanders castigating me because of what I do to sustain my self (tearing ticket working for my local government council) saying am a tout obviously brought me alot of motivations to do better.

Agbebakun22:



I hope so too, I have a friend in similar shoe like u oo, I no say na love dey shack u well but I'm happy ur parent's are willing to take responsibilities, sha go hustle hard and be ive to your parents cux u raising a child while going to sch is a big task and besides u just delay that girl dream too maybe that's why her parents what to abort the foetus

No be love baba. The guy na Better Gold digger

Even if him carry Bill gate go beg them they will never listen. He's also a Tout and Agbero again collecting tickets for junction. You won't even wish your enemy to fall victim of this OP

Those people will lock him up and forget Him there

Which useless responsibility his parents want take. Parents that are irresponsible or wetin? Gold digger parents that are happy that their miserable son inpregnated a rich man daughter

They don't even need to go to hospital to have the abortion sef. They go control the doctor come house straight up

Collins4u1:
Is that how your father impregnated your mother to born you.
if I were to be the girls brother, I'll castrate you.

btw would you castraye him if he was Dangote son? Or he was rich from the Ops point of view

Spherical77:
No be love baba. The guy na Better Gold digger

Even if him carry Bill gate go beg them they will never listen. He's also a Tout and Agbero again collecting tickets for junction. You won't even wish your enemy to fall victim of this OP

Those people will lock him up and forget Him there

Which useless responsibility his parents want take. Parents that are irresponsible or wetin? Gold digger parents that are happy that their miserable son inpregnated a rich man daughter

They don't even need to go to hospital to have the abortion sef. They go control the doctor come house straight up

Abeg no kill me with laugh lol, me weh still be e senior weh get work weh still dey fetch me reasonable amount I dey fear to even keep girlfriend talkless of having a baby lol, kids of nowadays sha e just dey funny me walai

Ayanwukoma:

Yes I love her, and she loves me back for her to call me last night with a teary voice, hoping I do something about it.
I was the one who even pester her to tell her parents, she wanted to keep it hidden, till they find out by themselves.

Honestly speaking, reading comments from nairalanders castigating me because of what I do to sustain my self (tearing ticket working for my local government council) saying am a tout obviously brought me alot of motivations to do better.

nobody is castigating u for tearing ticket..if u dont do drugs impregnating a girl at 19 should be the least thing on your mind..make yourself usefull now in your youth..there are better things to do with your youthful age..emanuella build a house for his mum at 13...if u bring a child to this world are u going to allow your child follow this your wayward path..cuz from your write up .I have a strong conviction that your parents failed in your child bringing...its not your fault to them it's normal cuz they want to milk from the teach..laziness is wat I see in all this

Ayanwukoma:

Yes I love her, and she loves me back for her to call me last night with a teary voice, hoping I do something about it.
I was the one who even pester her to tell her parents, she wanted to keep it hidden, till they find out by themselves.

Honestly speaking, reading comments from nairalanders castigating me because of what I do to sustain my self (tearing ticket working for my local government council) saying am a tout obviously brought me alot of motivations.

Though it did made me sad, but I will work to improve myself.

Find solution to your life bro

That child no be your solution. Go and look for something reasonable and worthwhile to do for your life you Tout

I advise you as my blood brother to forget about this. You yourself said it that your father too would say the same thing. Na because you be tout that's why you are not seeing it as something bad.

Almost everybody advice you for here to forget it and look for how to better ypur life. You are still a small boy. You think say all of us foolish Abi? Na the truth we dey tell you.

Ayanwukoma:


No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

I understand that time is limited,but it would have been more convincing if the head of houses(your dad and hers) sit down and agree,their decision will stand

Ayanwukoma:

Yes I love her, and she loves me back for her to call me last night with a teary voice, hoping I do something about it.
I was the one who even pester her to tell her parents, she wanted to keep it hidden, till they find out by themselves.

Honestly speaking, reading comments from nairalanders castigating me because of what I do to sustain my self (tearing ticket working for my local government council) saying am a tout obviously brought me alot of motivations to do better.

Don't mind their troll, you're working as ticket seller doesn't mean you will be in same position forever as far you know what you're doing. Go with people who they respected and talk to them amicably, who knows if the child might turn out to be great person. No go fight dem but prove them wrong that you're not what said you're.. Good luck to u

BRATISLAVA:


Lol

You're funny. You want him to be the next MC?

He will get there
Wish him well

Guy is trolling.
And he got you all

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Go to the State ministry of women affairs or Human Right Office and narrate your story.
They will take the issue up.

NB: avoid fornication please

Agbebakun22:




Don't mind their troll, you're working as ticket seller doesn't mean you will be in same position forever as far you know what you're doing. Go with people who they respected and talk to them amicably, who knows if the child might turn out to be great person. No go fight dem but prove them wrong that you're not what said you're.. Good luck to u

the question should be what plans does he even have for himself as a man..
Before putting into consideration the plans he has for his child..all this talk would have been avoided if his own parents didn't fail in upbringing..a 9 year old boy can impregnate a girl

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Na your wife the gal be?

Coolgent:


Go to the State ministry of women affairs or Human Right Office and narrate your story.
They will take the issue up.

NB: avoid fornication please

ministry of interior and women affair only treat cases that are legal...he has no custody of the child...its the parents of the girl that is suppose to report the case not the tout..if the parents decide to do this and spice it up with small aligarion this guy fit do 9 years for jail

Skynet55:
btw would you castraye him if he was Dangote son? Or he was rich from the Ops point of view

Ofcourse not I won't lie to you bro. Birds of same feathers flocks together. That guy isn't only poor. He is irresponsible, raised and brought up by irresponsible parents. Look at the job he's doing. No formal education, no handwork nothing nothing. The child sef will never forgive humanity for allowing him/her come through that route. The red and black flag three much abeg

I don't wish this even for my enemy wey dey do me I swear

Even if the girl is from a wretched home, I would still advice her to terminate the pregnancy else, na suffer go be her middle name.

I can't even imagine say na person wey i know be that girl to God who made me this guy no go dey here with the audacity to lay claim the pregnancy

I go teach am lesson of his life. I swear down he go hate girls like shit.

Did you marry the girl legally is she wife ,you are 19 how old is the girl? Probably 16,you are supposed to be locked up for getting the little girl pregnant.you as are not serious for saying you want to go there house with community whatever.young man you need to be behind bar,for child molestation and defilement of a minor


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.[/quote]

Coolgent:


Go to the State ministry of women affairs or Human Right Office and narrate your story.
They will take the issue up.

NB: avoid fornication please

you are giving him the wrong advice guy

He isn't married to this girl. This case isn't legal. Na the parents supposed do all those things sef. That is if they want teach am lessons of his life to save other innocent girls out there. He would most likely go to jail if they add small allegation on top. No forget this people get money to run everything

I just dey look this Tout of a guy seriously with him wack mentality.

generalwo:
.... U have dreams and u impregnated a girl? While you gain ission and go to school, the girl stays at home and takes care a baby right? Have u seen how wicked you are? U want to pursue your dreams after killing someone else's own? I think the girl's mother saw all these before asking her daughter to abort

hmm

Spherical77:
Ofcourse not I won't lie to you bro. Birds of same feathers flocks together. That guy isn't only poor. He is irresponsible, raised and brought up by irresponsible parents. Look at the job he's doing. No formal education, no handwork nothing nothing. The child sef will never forgive humanity for allowing him/her come through that route. The red and black flag three much abeg

I don't wish this even for my enemy wey dey do me I swear

Even if the girl is from a wretched home, I would still advice her to terminate the pregnancy else, na suffer go be her middle name.

I can't even imagine say na person wey i know be that girl to God who made me this guy no go dey here with the audacity to lay claim the pregnancy

I go teach am lesson of his life. I swear down he go hate girls like shit.

e be things bro aswear if the girl parents mean am eh dem go just lock am up,cus op no get standing aspersay dem dey wealthy, him no even fear the gap self, and useless girl opened her legs for him

osazsky:
the question should be what plans does he even have for himself as a man..
Before putting into consideration the plans he has for his child..all this talk would have been avoided if his own parents didn't fail in upbringing..a 9 year old boy can impregnate a girl

Na to go to university nah according to him lol, how wish is easy to get a job after sch I for still say e dey okay.. A barrack friend of mine same age with this boy impregnated his gf, exactly how this one dey do na e that one do say e no wan abort las las his parent's accept and they born the baby, his parent's cater for the baby after one year dem come dey tell the boy make e go hustle cux baby food, syrup, diapers don finish, nigga weh dey fresh up before nowadays baba dey work for 15k salary as cashier for bet9ja, baba have to tell me say how wish he know e for tell the babe to abort am cux no help like that from his parent's

People want to eat their cake and have it. People want to have sex and not deal with the consequence of having sex.

I believe abortion is a criminal offence in Nigeria and rightly so.

As far as I am concerned, a woman that commits abortion no matter the circumstances (except if the pregnancy endangers her) has committed murder. A man who aids in abortion in anyway is culpable for murder.

bukatyne:




This thread is shocking!

Same people clamouring that adulthood starts at 18 are sooooooooo convinced that a 19yr old is not adult enough to care for a baby.

Would it be rough? Yes!

But the guy is ready to face the consequences.

See them ing abortion as if it would change the fact the girlfriend is/was pregnant.

Your comment is just... Smh

If it were in the old days nobody is going to discipline anybody. What probably would happen is that the young man would have to marry the girl.

You most likely dreamed up the discipline.


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DBestDoc:


Lol, this boy is so entitled ee,
So you do not care that you’ve almost ruined that girl’s life? She’s also a teenager I’m sure and you want her to be burdened with the responsibilities of motherhood.

People do very abominable things with so much confidence these days that I can’t help but shudder in dismay.

If it were in the days when things were better, the parents of that girl would be the ones coming to your family with the community youths to discipline you for bringing them so much embarrassment and pain today, you the offender is contemplating going to their home to add salt to injury. Hahaha, I’ve seen it all.

Please don’t go causing that family more trouble, let them take their decision as they deem fit ‘cause they’d be the ones to bear any consequences that may arise from this mess you guys have created. Give them some space and use a condom next time.

You’ll have your offsprings when the time is right.

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