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My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

It's pathetic her mom would opt for abortion. Why?

Are you what her mom says you are?

asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my

Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.

You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive

Wahala. Prove to them that you are responsible, since you could lift legs and impregnate someone's child, be ready to provide all her needs. Or she will give birth in her parents house?

It shows you are really a tout. You want to take community youths to their house. This is how touts behave.

Nah you born the girl,leave them alone to do whatever suites them .

Davash222:






You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive

So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

Pierocash:
It shows you are really a tout. You want to take community youths to their house. This is how touts behave.

Nah you born the girl,leave them alone to do whatever suites them .

Sorry I can't.

Ayanwukoma:


Sorry I can't.

then go ahead. When you are been locked up and transfered from one cell to another,you will rest

Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

The audacity of someone eating Mummy thank you

arsenic33:
It's pathetic her mom would opt for abortion. Why?

Are you what her mom says you are?

It's her assumption, yes they know me in the street we all live in, am popular and active among the youths.

When our light transformer blew few months ago, I was among those people who collected fees from compound to compound to get it fixed.

No am not a tout, haven't steal before.
Haven't been tied And flogged before.

Ayanwukoma:
Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.

The bolded shows you're actually a tout, a community tout, you're living under your parents, how do you want to take care of the child?

JovialJune:



The bolded shows you're actually a tout, a community tout, you're living under your parents, how do you want to take care of the child?

My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get ission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

Ayanwukoma:

It's her assumption, yes they know me in the street we all live in, am popular and active among the youths.

When our light transformer blew few months ago, I was among those people who collect fees from compound to compound to get it fixed.

No am not a tout, haven't steal before.
Haven't been tied And flogged before.

Chai lawd have mercy with the kind of guys some girls choose to open their legs for, how old are you? Are you working?

Ayanwukoma:


My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get ission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

You have dreams of impregnating people's daughter

JovialJune:



Chain lawd have mercy with the kind of guys some girls choose to open their legs for, how old are you? Are you working?

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.

JovialJune:



Chain lawd have mercy with the kind of guys some girls choose to open their legs for, how old are you? Are you working?

When we told you sex with a Nigerian girl is cheaper than a satchet of weed you think say we no no wetin we dey talk?

Ayanwukoma:


My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get ission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

Oh my God you're a teenager, dude focus on getting ission/career/life for yourself, you are not ready to be a father, youthful exuberance is making you think you're man enough but you're not, you come off as someone not from a well to do family, don't put more burden on your parents.

My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.

Sorry, did I miss sth here? You are still under your parent but your penis has started to rent a space outside?


The onition to steer clear of premarital sex has always been there.

I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild

What?

Ok, let me understand the parent had no other option.

, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

Okay??

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.

Sorry, I don't abortion but where do you intend to live with the girl and child after delivery? Can you father the child? Or is your father going to help you father your child? Are you ready to make a family? What are your plans?

I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.

Do not blame the mother for seeing you as a nobody. My apology. People see people who tear tickets as thugs.

The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

I beg to differ. No responsible parents can tolerate an unwanted pregnancy from their teenage girl child...whether you are a rich boy or not. BTW, why do you attribute wealth to yahoo boys?

Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.

Isn't this thuggery? Come off it already.

Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

I don't really care whether or not her mum is troublesome. I see a disciplined woman! How do you expect her to accept you for ruining her daughter's life in such juvenile age!

You expect her to welcome you with open arms and a cheek kiss?

I can't even believe your parents are verily on of you penising downtown. I am trying to understand they had to accept the deed has been done and moving forward.


OMG.

I am lost finally.

Why don't your family propose a marriage to the girl's family before she conceives? Let your father meet with hers.

Abortion is also dangerous for her! It is also murder.

By going through the conjugal rites, you can marry. Her mother's must have to live with it rather than taking the life...unless your parents or theirs have other alternatives. I feel the mother doesn't want the child to come at all, and your family cannot let her take it away. To minimise the frictions of now and forever, the heads of the family must start being the head.

It's either she conceives, and one party takes responsibility, or the marriage thing! Never employ violence!

Ayanwukoma:

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.

I was right, you are a teenager you are not ready to be a father, the girl's parents wants what's best for her, you are not it at all, accept the fact that you're not ready and focus on improving your life.

JovialJune:



I was right, you are a teenager you are not ready to be a father, the girl's parents wants what's best for her, you are not it at all, accept the fact that you're not ready and focus on improving your life.

So you are ing the abortion.
They should kill my child, because am young and poor.
Is that it.

Sorry I will not let that happen.

Davash222:

When we told you sex with a Nigerian girl is cheaper than a satchet of weed you think say we no no wetin we dey talk?

Since you are always fond of putting all Nigerian girls in a box, always bear it in mind that your mum and sisters are part of the cheap girls.

JovialJune:



I was right, you are a teenager you are not ready to be a father, the girl's parents wants what's best for her, you are not it at all, accept the fact that you're not ready and focus on improving your life.

This really touched me, if I was one of those rich Yahoo boys that drives benz, would you tell me to let them abort my child.



All is well.

Davash222:

When we told you sex with a Nigerian girl is cheaper than a satchet of weed you think say we no no wetin we dey talk?

I can't believe of all topics, you had to say this on this thread.

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JovialJune:



Since you are always fond of putting all Nigerian girls in a box, always bear it in mind that your mum and sisters are part of the cheap girls.

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Rubbish as always!

Davash222:
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Rubbish as always!

Everyone knows you as the spiller of rubbish here.

JovialJune:



Everyone Senseless people knows you as the spiller of rubbish here.

Fixed.

Ayanwukoma:


This really touched me, if I was one of those rich Yahoo boys that drives benz, would you tell me to let them abort my child.



All is well.

Yes I will tell you same thing, cos those rich yahoo boys are not fit to have kids, money doesnt automatically qualify one as fit to have a child, there is more to being a father than money,

You're allowing emotions cloud your head/mind, think this through deeply so that you won't have any regrets.

Ayanwukoma:


This really touched me, if I was one of those rich Yahoo boys that drives benz, would you tell me to let them abort my child.



All is well.

No, I don't see abortion as the alternative. It could endanger the life of the girl...and this has nothing to do with whether you are a rich yahoo boy or not. I don't even understand how you attributed underage wealth to fraud!

Speak to your father to speak to her father.

You're 19 and not financially nor emotionally-ready (e.g. you wanting to take the community youths to their house to fight them?) to have a child, but you're shouting she must keep the pregnancy, which is baffling. I doubt you would want the pregnancy if she were from a poor home, plus knowing fully well that yourself don't have the means to take care of a child now. I reckon your motivation for wanting the pregnancy is money-driven (the mom's husband /the girl's father being rich), although I doubt you will it it.

Ayanwukoma:


So you are ing the abortion.
They should kill my child, because am young and poor.
Is that it.

Sorry I will not let that happen.

Then go with the community and fight her parents na, when they are forced to take the girl away where you'd never see her again, maybe you will rest, be forming macho you hear.

JovialJune:



Yes I will tell you same thing, cos those rich yahoo boys are not fit to have kids, money doesnt automatically qualify one as fit to have a child, there is more to being a father than money,

You're allowing emotions cloud your head/mind, think this through deeply so that you won't have any regrets.

I have thought about it, I won't let them abort my child.

If the parents relocates their daughter somewhere else and have the abortion done, then have their daughter continue with her education.... which court will you drag them to?

Having that child will mean she and her family will be linked to you for life with the tag of her being your baby mama, do they want that?

Her family will also be thinking of the long term effect of her being a teenage mother and how it may affect her future prospects, shebi na for this same Nairaland that some guys demonize single mothers and this is one of the circumstances that births the journey of single mothers.

The final say is not with you.....that is the HARD TRUTH.

Stop forming what I don't know and get your father and an uncle of yours to go see her family.

And by the way, you are a tout!