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May his soul rest in peace.
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post=114570091: FREE THIS RAM |
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Gaggii: You do know you can also get a procedure done on yourself to avoid unwanted pregnancy? Other precautions also available if you consider those procedures extreme. |
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Why do you want to make enemies when you can avoid that? Let your uncles have their father's properties and be content with your own father's. For your father's entitlement, hope you get what is fair and let go. Call your uncles for peace talk and let them allow your father to rest. Every thing after all vanity upon vanity. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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Ishilove: 100% correct. |
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subsidywise18: Not forgetting somebody leaked the video online. If at all, minor were ignorantly messing around, I doubt the girl wanted the video ed online. |
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Mekanus: Shame on you. |
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HardMirror: It is a Catch-22 situation. The school cannot sack the teacher without taking responsibility. But self-acquittal would cost them so much more. They were not properly advised. This is a school with immense resources. I think Chrisland management needs to lead by example by acknowledging their error, fire some top notch management and all the of staff found culpable, set up a sort of t Committee of stakeholders; school and affected parents to help counsel, rehabilitate and discipline the children. This should not have escalated to this point. What a mess. If they had handled this well, the parents recognizing their own failure as parents and in order to protect their child, would have been relieved. In the end, we want the children involved to turn out well and other children also protected. |
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Brume001: The 'cackling like a jackass' as you claim could be as a result of being under the influence. If truly, she was drugged then this case would be more serious, minors or not, we have provisions under our laws for juvenile delinquencies. And the school many are trying to exempt from liability will have more to explain. |
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wirinet: Do you understand you are talking about a 10 year old and others age 13 and under? Left in care of the school? They are 1000% culpable. They failed to prevent this mishap and failed woefully in the aftermath. They did EVERYTHING wrong. They witheld information from her parents. They took the girl for pregnancy test without her parents knowledge and consent. They allegedly threatened to kill a child/student if she told her parents. A teacher is already calling her names, in the presence of her mates. A perfect suicide case in the making. If this girl kills herself, people would be singing another song. What a wicked world. Again, let's see how the school would spin this. |
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victorsola: If at all she didn't want to partake, she did everything wrong from the start, leaving her room to retrieve a charger, taking a drink (could be spiked with drugs), and for keeping such a thing quiet. Many parents would be angry and take that out on her. It may not be the right response but very common reaction esp in African homes. |
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You all heard her mother mention she was probably drugged but you choose to ignore that and cling to your victim-shaming mentality. You guys are unecessarily wicked to your fellow human beings even when it involves children. I want to see how Chrisland wants to spin this. Even while the parents have a share of responsibililty, the school is a mess. I have always respected Chrisland but it turns out every fibre of this country is seriously tainted. So disappointing. |
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pocohantas: Yes, Chrisland should have done more. The situation was badly handled. They should have insisted on meeting with the parents much earlier and the two sides take responsibility, come to a mutual agreement to the best interest of the children involved and draw up a way on how this can be prevented in the future. And maybe notify the appropriate states agency. 1 Like 1 Share |
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prince3009: Caution yourself. You are referring to a 10 year old who is herself a victim. At her age, she and the boys can still be counseled. Your choice of words for a 10 year old questions your own sense of judgement. I mean you actually watched and probably distributed underage inapropriate video. It is just wrong. In saner climes, you would have been picked up by now and ed as a sex offender. Take heed. |
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Mrkumareze: 10 years old is just too young for this. While I agree there has been a failure in parenting, it did happen under the school's watch. They cannot escape culpability. Suspending the child and pushing all the blame to the poor child and her parents just wreaks narcissism. This goes to the boys as well. At that age not only engaging in sexual acts but already participating in social media exposure and most likely with intents to shame the girl. Imagine these kids in the next 10 years. Parents are raising a bunch of narcissists, godless, thoughtless, no-conscience junkies. Frankly, in many cases, you cannot give what you don't have. So God help us all. 1 Like 1 Share |
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Jecint: Would you say it has improved since you stopped worrying about it? |
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Self-confidence, self-love and please relax, stop taking yourself or this life too seriously. No one is perfect, yours is just more obvious when you speak but the way you handle it is how we react to it. It can be 100% managed even if it does not disappear. Believe me it isn't the worst situation in the world. If you believe there is God, be thankful instead of being hateful. Stop over thinking or over-stressing, do your best to be heard afterall the essence of speaking is to a message, and leave the rest. Eat well, sleep well and exercise. Socialize because believe me one way to overcome it is to expose it and let it know you are not one of its slave. Good luck, man. I know it's shitty and hard but it can get better, lots better. Just live free and be your own greatest fan. |
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faithfull18: Psossibly exchange rate factor. |
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To be honest, IELTS is fraudulent. If at all, they want to subject people to a language proficiency, their methods are dishonest. Many proficient people will still fail unless they practice past questions endlessly. Take their Listening for instance, if you have taken IELTS, you would understand how ridiculous this one is. Fact is, it's not a genuine test for proficiency, it's a money making business and therefore designed for you to keep coming back. And even when you scale through, they want you to come back soon again only after 2 years because they are aware processing times for visas are most likely delayed. It's a scam. Everything about it. English wey majority of their native speakers no sabi reach many of us. Well sha, no be dem fault. |
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There is need to give simple time line of the events that led to the unfortunate death of late Sylvester. Date he was deemed to play football: Time of injury: Time he visited school clinic: What treatment was istered: Follow up and observation: Reason he was asked to be picked up from school: Date he was picked up and his current condition: Other attempts to save his life such as treatments with date: What tests were carried out at this time and what were the doctors saying? They would surely see sepsis at this time and was there any visible injury to the ankle? How long does it take sepsis to build and then death? A death caused by infected ankle injury should not be a subject of debate. It would be glaring. I don't see how any parents would want to put themselves through so much torture unless they had valid reasons to suspect foul play. What do they stand to gain to lie that their late son told them he was attacked and even mentioned names? All in all, somebody dropped the ball somewhere and needs to take responsibility. May the soul of the departed rest in peace and may God comfort his loved ones. 4 Likes |
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History555: This is very sensible. Even though I still think overhead cost is too much especially when many of them do absolutely nothing. The civil service should not be a social welfare program. There is need to separate the two. Mostly, cost of running the government itself is too high. In good faith, they should start in-house. |
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micflo28: You make it look like there is any agency in this country free of corruption. Doing that, you would just be changing the hands commiting the crime. 1 Like |
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Seun360: That's a question for your mama. She failed at her most important job to raise you properly. Perhaps she tried but it didn't take. |
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seborrhic: I saw that part but an ankle injury that could cause this degree of damage and then result in death would be conspicuous. There would be no disagreements or any doubts by the parents, I don't recall anyone mentioning swollen foot, wounds on the foot or limps resulting from a sprained or broken ankle. The whole football thing is a lie from the pit of hell. 1 Like |
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seborrhic: So na football he play come fall abi? Na football injury dem no fit treat for dem multi million sick bay shey? Dem treat fall for football con go call him parents make dem come carry am. I happy say dem autopsy say him body dey "unremarkable" dem no find any football injury as dem no find any kick injury. Wehdone. All of una big wehdone. |
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Op, the open secret is that you dared to do it yourself online. By this time next year, dem go still dey serve you same tory while those who will appoach them with the 'right amount' will get their port within 24hours. Customer customer, bro.
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Dude397: Tell her the truth before you guys starts talking serious relationship. She needs to know what she is getting herself into and you both need to know if she can handle it. She will be the closest to you and needs to understand and identify your triggers/signs. I pray this becomes history in your life. You have to open up to her. It's the delivery method that should be handled well and you seem quite eloquent enough. And yes, expect the worst and hope for the best. Brace yourself if she chooses to walk away. Respect her choice and move on. This is something you want to disclose before you commit yourself and start catching feelings. God will never desert you, man. All the best. |
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Na the same set of High Way men in uniform operate that Oshodi Apapa Express Way. They have become a nuisance on that road. One police man always wearing helmet, a fat ugly mf! With one skinny ass desperado in Lastma uniform, the rest of the crew in Danfo buses look like agbero, they wear mufti. They raid anyone they like, cause accidents and take off. Everyday for the thief, one day for the owner. Let them continue. |
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