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I dont think that would stop women from cheating...I once was going to tattoo my ex is name on my ass but we ended up breaking up. I was telling a guy this and he said its too bad I didnt he would have loved to know he was hitting what belong to another man lol

He is hasua. But sex is pretty good he falls in my top 10 but he isnt the best I ever had. I cant compare him to white men because I have never be one!
I do expect to get my way. Why shouldn't I? But after I got him to change it from 2 years to one I I told him it would take 6-8 months to get a dress...hoping he would see the importance of needing to purpose soon.
I don't understand why it is taking him so long to purpose to me. There are men around me who have put the offer out there and are dieing for me to say yes. But he is who I want.
I am not worried about the paper thing.

If that is what yanshing means then we have already tried that out 5 or 6 times. We do a lot of that so how is that going to help me know?

I guess that would depend on the man u marry. Not all men work to please their wife but even single men pay for sex not just married men though.

I am not sure how to spell it because he said something about it starts with like a h that makes some other sound and he lost me after that. We have a hard time understanding each other when we speak. He says I speak too fast, he has an accent, and we call things different names. So when told me his tribe I only got the whole I am from... couldn't catch the name didnt know it was important thought maybe he was just telling me his origin of his kin. But he started talking about the different sound thing and completely lost me. But I also have no idea what yanshing is.

Men have been conditioned to pay for sex....as a wife you cook clean and provide sex as a husband he provides money! This isnt anything men are new to.
Wouldnt a man being getting a better deal to just pay for it up front as business deal instead of having to deal with all the inconvinces dating brings wether he is married or single?

Thank you all for the advice. I still haven't asked him I am way too scared to do that but we have really had a great weekend together he finally just went home but he is so hard to figure out. So even after a weekend together I still dont know anymore then I knew before.

Hello I am seeking advice about a Nigerian man I have recently started dating and more.... I am a 27 year old white American girl. He has been in the U.S. for a couple if months. We met on an internet dating site. We only exchanged a brief email and then numbers. After our first conversation I was completely excited. We more just talked about life government a small things. I knew I wanted to meet him. We talked all week pretty often and for long durations. He wanted to meet me from the start I believe more out of boredom. However the next weekend I was near where he was called him and went to meet him more to just introduce myself. However we ended up going out and got back to his place late but didnt want to let each other go. So I stayed all night. We didnt do anything but talk kiss and cuddle. We continue talking, we see each other daily even if only a hour. He invites me to everything. I have already met some of his family. He is the most amazing man. He has expressed he likes me a lot and I believe he does but I am finding myself already dreaming for the future with him. He has spoke in the future also. But I dont know exactly where I stand. He says I am his girlfriend to people now and changed his get married in 2 years plan to a year after I complained his plan was too long. But I dont know exactly how he feels or where I stand and I am not about to ask him. I dont want him to know how strongly I already feel for him. But how do i know? Because of a huge culture difference I know that things he says or does may not have the same meaning.
Please dont mention papers I am aware of that and unconcerned.

Hello, I am new here and recently met a Nigerian man that very much has my interest but it seems we have many differences as I am a mid 20s white American girl. I am hoping to get to understand his culture more so we can better understand each other. It is very nice to come across this forum.