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Op, it's possible. Women love by what they hear most times. I talk from experience.

Houseofglam7:
See as him allow devil use am






E don be for am.



I'm still gonna make stew tonight without tomatoes

Are tomatoes also expensive in Newcastle?

Enahi:


Thank you so much, he feels praising himself in front of people will make them like him who does that.

You are welcome.
Nigerian men are good. Look carefully.

Enahi:


He told me he is working but I doubt him, he is looking for money to also start business. He is not from a poor home but I think his family has decided not to help him because of the bad things he has done in the past.

And another thing I noticed about him is that he brags a lot about his family connection and people he has met in life, I have told him on countless occasions that he has inferiority complex and that he needs to work on it.

He is always talking shit abt people he knows and yet his life seems to be in shambles, I am trying to make him a better person but he is not ready to work on himself.

What I will advise you is to let your emotions detach from this case. He's probably a burden. Since his family can't assist him, you will bear a great burden doing so. He needs to change and won't do that if you keep having that feeling or pity on him.
Let him know your heart is out and if he wants help he can the so called people he has met. He also can't speak down on people he knows because he will do same on you.
Advise him to seek help from his maker and prove to his family and people that he's changed.
Don't hurt yourself more. Be just a friend and keep emotions out.

Cheers

Lady, a man should not make u hate every man. Each has his problems
What attracted you to him? Is he working or doing business? Living with his mum at what age?
Sometimes we get blinded by love. I really don't like men who depend on a lady especially the unmarried. Stop giving and watch his reaction.
If there's no potential in him, let him go.

I think you are right.

Minasota.
Your dp, makes me wanna have pillow fight.
You look beautiful.

I once read that a man's sweat stimulates women. But applying it on her lips, gosh!

I forsee another PDP Thanksgiving service.

I agree with u totally.
Had an experience recently with one. Tried to show her love yet every word even a joke is nagged at. Was so bothered why I keep having problem with her. One day I was thinking about it and a voice said "you never liked them short, let her go".
Some people like them such. It doesn't work for me.

Our maturity lies on how we handle things I will advise you tell her there's something you will discuss with her by weekend. She will be in suspense. Carry on with your daily routine and watch her reaction each day. Then open up to her probably on Sat morning. She may feel hurt, but will appreciate your sincerity. Don't let another ear hear it before her. .
All the best.

The one that surprise me most are those who wear sun shades, and will not even smile during praise or worship time.

Today, in the church, Pastor asked ladies who want to marry this year to touch the alter, my male neighbour shouted. About 30% of the population were single ladies, and men are searching.

Op, I can understand your position. I will advise you on two points which might help,
1. Try to discuss your fears and concerns with him. Open up on your feelings, some men like it than leaving them in confusion.
2. Do you have an outdoor activities in your relationship? The moments spent outside will help you. It cld be picnics, cinemas, lounges, parties or a ride in town. They will make you want him more than usual indoor activities.
Cheers

Guy your are lucky to have such a thoughtful gf. She openly expressed her feeling without any threat. I always advise young people in love to have someone older to advise them. She really has been advised.
Please wake up, show her you care. If you don't have enough money to give, give her your time. Share your airtime, visit her with at least a snack. You can buy a pack of sweets less than 500 naira naira and give her. That will last for days.
Some men spend huge and are unappreciated.
I believe she loves you.
All the best.

[quote author=covbrand post=41478594]Good morning people, I just want to know places where I can meet financially stable guys that are also career minded and wouldn't mind staying outside Nigeria. I am not desperate for marriage as I still have time but I would love to start up a family on time. Thanks. [/quote

There is no special place to meet a financial stable and marriage ready guys. But take interest in the career minded ones. First, know the type of man you want, his career, vision and expectations. Every unmarried guy still hustle to be financially okay at old age. But getting there is a gradual process which you can be part of it.
Since you are still young and not desperate, probably you have a regular income, first, look for guys who have the physical attributes you want, make a push to know his career and see the ion he has for it. Build friendship and observe him, a 2weeks conversation is enough for you to know his knowledge of his career. If good, book/accept more dates. Don't be shy to let him know your ion for your own career.
If you desire to settle down this year, it's possible, believe God and pray for your steps to be guided in meeting him. Cheers
#octopusfreaky.

Chai, i Mr Omeke, C.I.C Enugu. Had stroke lines on my buttocks... Sempe fidelis!

Sanguine:
Lmao. If you're "umu anumanu", that means she (your mother) is an "anumanu" because you're her "umu"... Lmao. #no offence.
If you don't have sex with your wife and in your house for that matter, then who will you have sex with? Your mother?? I just can't stop laughing. Your mum's very funny. Lol. Umu anumanu. Chai! Ochi a togbuo la'm...

Obughi so so gi. lol. My mum wld say same too. She would use it to tease me always.

If you are still friends, just honour his IV. Forget the fact that his wife wants you to attend. Don't stay all through. Just breeze in with all pleasure and leave before the event ends.

if she is competent for the post, recommend her. she will be in another state.