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Connect online (Facebook preferably) to Good tidings bible church next Sunday (6th September) by 7:30am (1st service) or 9am (2nd service). It is Miracle water services every first Sunday of every month. Get a fresh bottle water for the service. Your faith will make you whole again. |
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...and they forgot that Peter Obi is a staunch Catholic. The votes of the Christians will arguably work for PDP. Catholics are larger in number compared to that of Redeemed Church.
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Oga, People set life targets for themselves, and this is one of hers. She wants marriage and you cannot delay her. You are a business man, and making reasonable income while she's also working with reasonable income. The only way I would have advised you otherwise is if you found something bad about her. If you are clinically compatible, please start marriage preparations, it may take you one year but you will be glad you did. If you aren't ready, free her. I love her sincerity, |
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Someone who lost much money and owing people is asking for 700k to start again? Ask yourself these questions 1. What did he do that made him lose his business and money? 2. What was his worth when he was doing well? 3. How sure are you about your relationship and its progress? 4. How long do you think he will pay back 700k? Let me tell you, someone who is starting again won't need 700k from you, he will waste it. It is such a big amount to start up again, those he owe will fight back harder. You can only lend him 200k, and nothing more. Then watch him after one year. Another advice, stop letting your partner know your real financial (cash) worth except you are married. Shine your eyes. 1 Like |
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Hello Mr, I know you feel hurt, deceived and may soon be depressed, it is no reason to keep having nightmares and dream of death. I tell people that the happiness we look for is within us. From your story, your wife's happiness is your peace. She may have lied to you, but yet she loves you. Glad that she is not cheating on you cos that will depress you more. Those tears that wet her pillow are your nightmares. Women are stronger than us men, their spiritual position is higher than us. Have you been perfect in your own ways? Can you prove you haven't lied or cheated in your life? If you divorce her and she commits suicide, can you live with it? Stop telling everyone the lies and all sort, your marriage is fresh and has a long life journey to go. You made choice, let the lies go, forgive her, treat her good, love her. Speak good of her with your tongue, let her tears be only for your blessings not regrets. Please ask God to help you, some men have seen worse, and some marriages are also experiencing bigger challenges. Make yours different so you can encourage others. Shalom! 2 Likes |
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That's how one that met me on Facebook kept posting me. I was in Enugu then. I invited her to come to Enugu when they were on strike, she's from Enugu too. She ignored my requests, saying I should come to ph. But work couldn't allow me. I stopped asking. Last year I was transferred to Abuja, she heard and is now asking me to say "come" and she will be here next day. Now I don't do far away transactions, the COT is high. Fruits and vegetables are cheaper in Abuja. Guys believe yourselves. There are also serious girls. Leave the internet slayers. 8 Likes |
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When I visited Awka last, I learnt that unizik can enter lease agreement with you for hostel inside the school premises. You get some plots, build your hostel and manage for a period of years, after which it turns to school's property. Say about 20years. To me, it's a good biz. Just make your enquiries. Hotel will require more money, maintenance and close management, and there's competition, but it creates jobs for the unemployed. You can build residential houses for your plots in Asaba and Enugu. |
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A very sound black Authomatic Toyota Corolla 2003 model, 100,000 mileage, for sale in PH. Asking price is N1.4m. Interested persons should call 07038107522 or 08185461102
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A very sound black Authomatic Toyota Corolla 2003 model, 100,000 mileage, for sale in PH. Asking price is N1.4m. Interested persons should call 07038107522 or 08185461102
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My simple advice is that you go the shopping with him. He may not wear what you buy, but with him in the shop, he could have multiple combinations to behold, and have colours to choose from. The experts there could help. You can go pre-inform them of your visit to help work on him. A good shop will make it easier. Check those stores at rumuola road. |
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marvelck: Enugu guys are good as described, but the aspect of romance you mentioned is what I don't know. If they sabi marry well, what else is missing? I'm one. |
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Fayvhur: There is nothing wrong with you, I think it is your mind frame. You just have to leave him and build mind towards having attraction to opposite sex. You can start by watching good romantic movies, read romantic books and see what it takes to convince the mind. A good man with a good heart, caring acts and who has got time for you will change all that. Watching porn won't help cos it tells you the end is just sex. But good feeling or urge is a process that requires you identifying qualities( body build, athletic, voice, dress sense, sense of humour, attention and observation etc) you ire in your partner. Try and build friendship, closeness and understanding first before engaging in sex. 1 Like |
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gudbadgyal: How long will you continue to foot his bills? How soon will the visa come? How sure are you that he will remain in love when he travels? Start giving attention to the other guy. He is really buying time with you. |
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sinaj: you are really funny. odiegwu o |
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Cathony: The fact you are worried about her feelings shows you love her. Same thought going through her mind. Nature has a way of helping us in our weaknesses. You are scared of making the move or the responsibility of dating. Ask yourself if she has what you ire in a lady. If you don't make the move now and she finally decides to avoid you, you may regret using this opportunity. Be a man, open up and dont wait till she makes the move. 1 Like |
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She is avoiding you cos she will jump over you for more sex. Her thought has been about you, comparing you to other guys, weighing the options of having a serious relationship with u than just friends. She is in love already. Do u love her to start a serious affair? You have built trust, closeness and companionship since you became friends. Now is the time to know what you want from each other. A relationship with her will be great. Think and tell her your feeling. Cheers 2 Likes |
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My advise is that you should work on your family. Convince them on how important your happiness matters to you. Let them forgive your husband and show him love. When that happens, he will work on his own family. For peace to reign, there has to be sacrifice. Let go of the past and seek happiness. The brave forgive. You will see the result in few months. 1 Like |
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Caprigal: He's a weird being. It's better you let him know about it. You can't take it. Since the day I threw up on that gal, she never tried it. I boldly told her it can't work. It took me days to kiss her again. . If he continues after your clear explanations then it's for a reason. Nothing romantic or arousal about it. 1 Like |
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Seriously I will feel bad at that. So disgusting. I had an experience when a gal used yoghurt while kissing. I threw up on her. Tell your man that it isn't your fancy. |
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Please stick to your current job. A free accommodation n transportation with 100k is far better than the other Job's offer. Work hard and learn from it. You can as well open a pension fund and an insurance where you save some money. If you can save 50% monthly, you will be glad with this decision in years to come. Cheers |
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MaQuin: Good points listed. I'm not married yet. It will be a wonderful life experience. Are you married? |
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I'm barely a month in Abuja. Haven't experienced much but that of VIO yesterday evening at Berger, even engers started running. And I was meant to believe that hustle is everywhere not just in Lagos, Ph or other cities. Op u didn't mention pedestrian Bridges at night, that was the first security alert I got. Lol |
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Trina0936: Yea. I help when there's need. Thanks. 1 Like |
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Ejemehn: Here you have your response. You can bring the unity your family deserves now. Cheers |
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Personal brilliance? I don't think so. But luck, it's part of it. Where brilliance works is ability to test your partner during courtship and know what to cope with and not and he/she understands your position. Luck is having one with manageable bad character. Above all, prayer helps you when you ask for wisdom to choose the better person who gives you more peace. 1 Like |
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Hello Sir, I will kindly advise you to copy those recordings in a safer place. Have a meeting with your parents, and siblings. Your family should come up with better ideas on how to handle this case. Obviously your wife's elder sisters are evil minded and have succeeded in affecting her mindset. They envy your family and wants to ruin it. But if you are smart, you will laugh last. Concerning your single testis, it's no problem cos your daughter is an evidence. You will have more even with another woman. Please compose yourself well at home and at work. Relate with her siblings as usual and be vigilante to monitor them and gather more evidence. Above all, ask God for wisdom. You will laugh last. |
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Trina0936: You are welcome. I try to help as much as I can. would be a love doctor when I am married and wify is comfortable with it. 1 Like |
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Lady, I understand your feeling. Believe me that you are having thoughts about him by sharing. The guy knows you aren't interested in him but keeps making ways to get your acceptance. He may be wrong by asking for marriage when you haven't accepted dating yet. If I were you, I would sit your sis down and ask her to explain the reasons why she said you shouldn't give him chance. Knowing fully well that she and her husband know the guy well. Hear from them and know more about the guy in question. About not wanting to date now, its a choice. Just remain a friend and spell it out to him what you you really want now not marriage. Cheers 2 Likes 1 Share |
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