NewStats: 3,259,533 , 8,170,449 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 01:40 PM 2p4u65

SeriouslySense:
The weather is too cold

Cold wan finish d werey lmaoooo

UnknownQueen:


Why does feeling disappear in men after they sleep with a woman ....?

Cause it was never love in the first place , lust looks like love to men 99 percent of the time , it's after sex our eyes really open lol. I sometimes mistake lust for love too I'm not gonna lie.

Some men would realize this and keep pretending to love a woman just to keep getting more sex and then wen they become trapped by d woman , the men start acting nonchalant And then the woman starts acting nonchalantly too and that's the situation the op would enta if he doesn't respect himself.

Oga there's no indication of her stalking you here , she talks with your elder sis and ur friends how's that stalking ?? For ur Whatsapp status that's completely normal , all my exes views mine , that one na normal stuff no be today.

Your only attracted to her not in love with her, I'm dead sure if you sleep with her all that fake love feelings u think u have for her will disappear. Better respect yourself and leave her alone before u enter trouble.

All these naive people saying she should have done this or done that with all the money she was getting from acting before , I honestly pray life doesn't put you in a really tough condition, cause una get mouth until it happens to you too.

Kids these days don't understand that failure is also a part of success.
If u know how many times some pple don write that stupid jamb ehn including me , rip to her tho , sad.

Lmaooooo
this guy na MRCORK version 2.0

EDGEof2MORO:


stop encouraging mediocrity. there are 23 year olds that have achieved more than a 70 year old has ever achieved in their lives so it is valid for this young lady to be concerned. trying to make her feel relaxed at 23 for under-achieving is nefarious.

Not encouraging mediocrity but in this life all fingers aren't equal , I'm quite sure at your age you don't have it all figured out and still some one the same age as u already does have it all figured out.

The need to rush to achieve things in life is just absurd , doesn't mean I'm downplaying the need to achieve things , In context all I'm saying is direction is better than speed.

penearth:


All what u mentioned are achieved through education. She said, she aren't in school, but u r giving her analysis to succeed based on learned education

Your telling me you need to be educated to have self investment
Google self investment, it's exceeds the confines of just being academically educated.

FreeStuffsNG:

You are actually contradicting yourself. At 23, you should not even be at the planning stage. You should have started having results to show for your teen years effort and investment. She's right to be questioning her life and choices. That's where the repair must first come from. She's identified one of her greatest assets; her mother.
She's not alone and she's got someone to at least use as a reason to fight till she wins.

Lol like I said at 23 you barely have a life.
All these achievements this achievements that ,it just fills you up with emptiness at the end of the day.

Chingyyy878:
Oga stop this your desperation before you enter one chance.

These Nigerian girls no worth am at all. Na survival mode them dey.

Even the working class no worth am.

We don see them tire

Omo , no be desperation my bro , na calculation. I no wan dey retirement age make I still dey pay school fees. U sef check am nau

COOL10:
What do you mean by time is no longer on your side? Are you a woman? Are you planning on experiencing menopause anytime soon?

You better know your worth as a man and stop acting desperate for a woman's love, even worse, a Nigerian woman's love. Tueh!!! 🤮🤮

I hate the ideas of babymama , I need to have kids , I don't want to be 50 years old and my first child is 10 years old , it doesn't make any sense. Try see from my pov

NotOfThisWorld:

You're the common denominator, so you're clearly not doing your due diligence. You're the one who needs to look in the mirror and figure out what you're doing wrong. If you're far from broke, then you should act accordingly and not use the excuse that you've taken women out to eat before and because it didn't work out, you're now inviting them to your place and you call that a date. A decent and classy woman herself won't follow you to your house for a first date. Like I said, you should take the time to find quality women to date, but you need to be a quality man yourself. Good luck!

I guess my problem is coming from the fact that I have little time left (in my head ) to settle down , I don't want to be 50 years and my kids are still in secondary school or something.

Now the rush is what is killing me , perhaps I need to be more patient. But the results I've been getting so far has been disappointing, I take ladies out on dates , even settle some of their bills but it's not cutting it anymore , I would rather have me one woman who is worth spending all my money on than all these girls I'm just taking out on date and not finding any of them suitable. I'm tired you wouldn't seem to very much understand how sensitive this is to me. Cus you might think I'm not doing enough apparently. It is well.

When I see people say things like this I just laugh. At 23 you barely have a life , you've not even started life lol , na you go plan ur life at the end of the day nobody go do that for you.

But seriously at 23 , you should be investing in yourself , education isn't just about degrees or certifications , self investment should be priority , read good books , live healthy , invest in talents ,strive to learn in demand skills and improve your networking with others then use it as leverage to get monetary value, I know people that didn't finish secondary school and they are sitting on billions today, well nourished and fulfilled , school isn't everything your mindset is. My 2 cents.

koladata:
Did you ask what she was doing on her phone? it could be something that required attention at that time . Don't be judgmental, you won't find a perfect woman, there are some attitude that can be changed.

Bro she was doing tiktok lmaooo

NotOfThisWorld:


That you've taken women out to eat and it didn't work out doesn't mean you stop trying, more so if a relationship is what you're looking for. There're lots of places and activities in public spaces that don't involve food. Your house is not an appropriate place for a first date or any date. Instead of rushing and dating just anybody, do your due diligence and find quality women to date and you won't get burnt out.

Y'all keep talking like it that easy , do ur due diligence yen yen yen.
And I'm very far from broke , very very far from it. When I say I'm burnt out I'm not even referring to the money aspect. Its an anonymous forum yes but I'm okay financially, I work very hard ,pay my bills , have few extra sources of income. I can invite you to come see for yourself.

Nelsondiego69:
shey na naija girl you wan understand? Dey play my brother, dem be confusing kind

Omo

Yuen1:
what you people don't understand is that, those small girls are not ready for serious relationships, been serious with them at your age is just a waste of time,why can't you find a working class lady who is mature and prepared mentally and be serious with her.

Ps she isn't a small girl , she's 27

Fiscus105:



You will surely end like (baba n dagbe) single father, because you aren't different from girls you narrated up thr, going by ur narration, you want wife that would be worshiping you, even Dangote not seeing that, maybe that's why he too, is a single father at 60+.

Just like someone advice you, learn how to understand people, (not only female), that's when you can leave peaceful with human beings.

You are still in talking state with a girl and not expected her not to do shakara is it wen you have fukkk her tired, she would do shakara, meanwhile, any girl that doesn't do shakara at that stage, you too must think twice before married such girl .

Why won't be 1-6 months old marriages that scattered everywhere? When every guy looking for a girl that must accept him immediately he asks her out, nobody ready to endure with patience for girl to gradually falling in love for him until she melts in love as it were in olden day.

I'm not looking for a girl to worship me , who the Bleep am I ?
And I very much understand that we are all humans with flaws , nobody really perfect like dat. But at least I need a girl that would match my energy , a calm loving and gentle lady , someone that her eyes isn't outside. Am I asking for too much ??

NotOfThisWorld:
Why couldn't you take her out and get to know her in a public space, or is this how people date these days?

Honestly I'm burnt out from taking women on dates , seems like all they really care about is the food hence why I invited over to my place.

FreeSpirited:
Learn to be patient with women
Learn to understand what goes on in her head so that u can understand her behavior...
U don't expect a woman to be 100 percent open to you.
You create the atmosphere
U pet them
U create the illusion that, u are the one pulling her out of her shell, cos they don't want to bear that responsibility in case it bleeps up...
She actually wsnt you to take charge and go for what you want... But u are waiting for her verbal go ahead.... No... Work with her body language... Be more direct and funny at it... Everything is clear.. Na you no sabi enter their frame

Patient?? I fear that even if I get patient with them I might still regret it.

So apparently my age has gotten quite serious yeah, and I'm kinda wanting to settle down at least have a child or something but these Nigerian women , majority of them have nothing in their head. All they care about is their feelings , they never care about yours. Very selfish set of beings. Its Always about them , always about what they want , always about their selfish entitled stupid feelings , all they care about is you validating their selfish feelings while they invalidate yours.


For example, there's this girl I've been talking with ( talking stage ) , she came over to my place this weekend, I was trynna get to talk to her and vibe , she was just on her phone , so i left her alone and then luckily one of my guys came visiting and we started playing PS 4 , this girl starts dey vex say I just ignore her they play with my friend , mhen I be wan craze cus like dis na persin wey I bin dey try follow vibe oh , she just dey on her phone , acting uninterested omo

I pray I find a loyal one soon sha cause time isn't on a man's side anymore , I don't like the idea of babymama. I for don born like two at least. It is well.

Lol
Most girls in naija see fine boys as players , truth is they think other girls are after the guy too.

As a fine boy , you have to be very humble to find love in naija , if ur picky walai u go hear am..lol

motionarena:


You a confused slowpoke.
From being d safest to most dangerous

It's dangerous hood 4 u cus your a pussy , man up lil boy.

One man meat is another man problem. Funny enuf this types of hood are d safest lol , speaking from experience. But sha

Wait for your rent to expire then move out, while at that get noise cancelling headphones , also get a dagger or something to protect yourself from any sort of danger, cus that's a dangerous hood right there since ur a pussy.

JovialJune:



You are daft, they were separated for years, explain how he paid for a nose job for someone that he is not living with for years

It's you and your father that's daft. It's runs deep in your family I guess.

JovialJune:
You guys are so dumb on this site it's nauseating

That woman and her husband have already been separated since 2023, the divorce was simply finalised at the same period she did her nose job, she paid for it herself

Whatever is posted on this site should be verified as the true and complete story before been posted on fp or the thread should be closed

Imagine how so many idiots here are already insulting women generally without the full story

She finalized the divorce after she did her nose yen yen yen.

U women are always in the habits of thinking men are dumb, but it is d other way round actually.

Why didn't She didn't divorce him since , it was only after she fixed her nose lmaoo. Sit this one out dear.

Yellow skin with big yansh lmaooo.

Listen bro , sex is tiring , it doesn't matter who you do it with , it's natural to feel that way. You would always get tired at some point.

I once banged the most prettiest girl in campus one time and believe me bro it was the most boring sex of my life but people thought I was enjoying lol.

I would advise you to open up to your girl , discuss this with her with an open heart. I would also recommend you both see a sex therapist, sha don't lose a good woman pls , good women these days are rare to find.

Most of you saying chest the billing and go , na small small Billing them they give una Aje , if some kind babes bill you ehn , una go run...
Babe don bill you hermes bag before bro
abeg check price of original Hermes bag...

Dzzzz:
Mr Money na Water,you suppose just chest this one too na..I know say wetin pain you na the saying”thank God I have others” bro that girl won this fight cause you done Dey love up..Just chest am like say dem nack you bullet from ak47

Bro those screenshots na from X o , no be me.
But these girls these days ehn , no be say money no dey to give them , most of them no just worth am.

PresidObi:

Money na water and you cried all the way to the internet and opened a thread crying of your losses to the excessive billing?

Dangote wont do that.


They have obtained you, that's the end of the matter.

Lol how is this crying Im sharing mine and also looking forward to hearing people experiences that's why I created the thread. But have it your way my Oga no vex lol.

PresidObi:


And yet, na you dem take billing condemn him life?

Sorry bros, next time stop falling mugu.

First of all ,money na water and all d money I spent o her sef na my recharge card money to me soo I didn't fall any mugu. I only wise up.