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MICVOCT(m): 7:19pm On Aug 12, 2023
alpharoyalty:
Real men propose with pregnancy.
wink

grin
MICVOCT(m): 7:44pm On Aug 10, 2023
Ara21:
Fresh Catfish stew with rice.
But things are expensive now.

Same as me here...just that I preferred smoked fish...any kind.
MICVOCT(m): 7:42pm On Aug 10, 2023
kokoBoii:
Ok, since you decided to post this, see my own

This hand of a thing, been looking forward to view it for long, I need a more weird and scary one....and what's it called please.

Plus the name of the disease.

Somehow irritating to a soft mind though....smile
MICVOCT(m): 11:18am On Aug 10, 2023
It's been long!
MICVOCT(m): 10:25am On Aug 10, 2023
What type of camera <cover> is this?
MICVOCT(m): 10:12am On Aug 10, 2023
15, 7, 5, 2, 1
MICVOCT(m): 9:42pm On Aug 09, 2023
Dexy4yah:
I dated this lady for few years... doing our courtship we had unprotected sex.
I later relocated to another state because of my studies....that's how the relationship died.

She later got married

After about 13years of not hearing from eachother....one day my phone rang and behold she was the one...she called to tell me a secret...she said her first child is mine and not her husband's.
That doing our courtship she took in, she tried to abort it but it didn't work out for her, she didn't tell me about it because she knew that i was not ready to father a child at that time.

It was at that moment that she met this guy who is now her husband...the guy hasten everything and got married to her...she made him believe that the pregnancy is his own whereas that's was not the true...the boy is 8years old now.
She said her conscience has been disturbing her that's why she opened up to me.

I told her never to let the husband know about it and let the child be the husband's own....let her just forget everything about me being the father of the child so that her marriage won't crumble.
She has a loving husband and she is blessed with three kids aside the boy.


But she made one comment that when the boy reach 22years she will tell him who his real father is....she insisted. But am against it, i told her not to try it because if she end up telling the boy about it there is every possibility that the husband will end up knowing about it and i wonder how he is going to react towards it.

(Women can keep secret sha)
Please i hope i did the right thing??








Baba, don't bite yourself; but calm down your nerves. You've achieved a lot.

Free her for your best interest, and you will live long.

Perhaps, if you think deep, irrespective of the year interval, you're still at the advantage.

If I am to tell you....free her...even at the age of 30. Truth will suffice by itself. Then I can bet with you....you will laugh last.

She knows what's right at the age of 22.
MICVOCT(m): 4:53pm On Aug 09, 2023
LexNuel:
For a married man, sometimes its not about sleeping with the single lady. Sometimes its just about companionship and having someone who makes you feel good or feel like a man.

When you've been married for a while with multiple kids, marriage begins to lose meaning if care is not taken.

If conscious effort is not made by both parties to make the marriage interesting, then either party will look for something outside to make him/ her happy or feel good. It could be working extra hours, flexing outside with friends, or getting a side chick or sugar boy.

The most important thing is, you're doing that because you're trying to fill a hole in your marriage which could be emotional, sexual, social, mental, physical, etc.

To stop cheating, find out what hole you're trying to fix, and communicate with your partner, so he/she can fill that hole for you instead of looking for a third party.

Note: Your spouse might not probably meet all your needs especially as the marriage progresses. Know this and know peace.

❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 ✌️ ☮️ 🕊 🏳️‍
MICVOCT(m): 4:46pm On Aug 09, 2023
AmotekunSW:
As a young guy, dress nice and notice the number of stares you will get from ladies.
Now, dress nice and add a wedding ring (even if fake) and see how ladies will be swarming around you.

Ladies are like fish, They are attracted to things that other ladies desire. Once they say that they can't have you, they become attracted to you.
To them, a wedding ring is a sign of financial stability, emotional maturity and desire from other women.

The greatest magnet of single ladies is that wedding ring.

Accolades
MICVOCT(m): 4:45pm On Aug 09, 2023
ahnie:
grin

Funny question
MICVOCT(m): 4:42pm On Aug 09, 2023
Candidlady:
Why are married men so comfortable dating single ladies undecided

I think you should ask in a reverse order.

Ladies are full of preferences!!!
MICVOCT(m): 2:05pm On Aug 09, 2023
Nothing!

Just live your life.

Any moves may be at your own detriment.

You have many things to loose if you take a wrong decision.

Live in peace with all.... then you won't have any cause to regret.

Fruitfulness is as important as breath.....

You're in control!

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MICVOCT(m): 1:55pm On Aug 09, 2023
Settle the case among yourselves.

✌️
MICVOCT(m): 1:09pm On Aug 09, 2023
sotall:
grin

This will go well when fried and taken with fresh palm wine

Laughing already.
MICVOCT(m): 8:40am On Aug 09, 2023
Blessed be God!!!
MICVOCT(m): 8:37am On Aug 09, 2023
This is too bad!

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MICVOCT(m): 9:27pm On Aug 08, 2023
nedekid:
Your keypad is bad.
As for the strange short calls from abroad. Those are rate numbers. You go online, get the number, you then generate calls to that number by flashing people. When they call you back their lines are charged at a high rate eg 1-3 dollars per minute.
The company then shares the money with you as agreed.

I see! grin

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MICVOCT(m): 4:57pm On Aug 08, 2023
Then stop eating ******
MICVOCT(m): 12:56pm On Aug 08, 2023
1Sharon:


Is Omotola the norm?

👍
MICVOCT(m): 12:54pm On Aug 08, 2023
1Sharon:


I'm responding based on what the mother has said, she said she can still get remarried.

With those 4 kids, that will set the daughter back.

Her mother doesn't care. Ordinarily, she's been drawn back.... cool wink
MICVOCT(m): 12:52pm On Aug 08, 2023
1Sharon:


Maybe if she had just one kid and she was very good looking. It's possible.

But 4 kids is too much of a burden for another man

Dishing out such burden on a man shows her level of emptiness
MICVOCT(m): 12:50pm On Aug 08, 2023
einsteine:


Yeah she is 26.

I know a lady who had 6 children and at age 29, she left her husband to Canada. She has remarried and now has 2 children for the new husband.


Wa gbayiii...... ❤️
MICVOCT(m): 12:50pm On Aug 08, 2023
CuriousStudent:

So you assume most of this women are looking for marriage?

Most are in need of pennnissses to be serving them or a sugar daddy(ies) to help with the kids( for the broke ones)

Rarely a divorcee or widow or single mom of several kids will be looking committed relationships.


✌️ ☮️ 🕊 🏳️‍
MICVOCT(m): 12:44pm On Aug 08, 2023
CuriousStudent:


Yawns
Whether she secures a man or not is not even my business. What does a woman with four kids need a husband for?
They mostly need men to be servicing her...

Being single is still better than caring for 4 kids+ vegetable

Accolades!!!
MICVOCT(m): 12:41pm On Aug 08, 2023
CuriousStudent:

And what makes you think it is total abandonment?

Smile..it could be partial.
MICVOCT(m): 12:38pm On Aug 08, 2023
Rushna27:
Truth be told she's too young to face such stress but in all the decisions is hers to take....cos she is d only one who can tell what she want and how she wants it....

Funny enough, the motive to move on will soon comes up from her...hmm...and by then not even her mum would be able to stop her.

26yrs...it goes deep. She's even good...smile....mtchwe....I had seen a lady at that age that have same number if child with for dads....that nko?

Tenth day happen for life....hnmm
MICVOCT(m): 12:35pm On Aug 08, 2023
Holluwhakemmy:
This story get k leg

That k leg be the logical part grin
MICVOCT(m): 12:33pm On Aug 08, 2023
Abifarin16:
May God not allow us to be hard tested.
This is not your regular occurrence. The mother has money to send her abroad she no fit use that money pay for surgery? Hopefully he gets better, gets a job or his former job and pay her back. 4 kids at 26, she fit cope?
People be going through alot.

Even at that, I won't expect the husband families to stay silence on all the children.....for the wife to take full responsibilities alone is even a big blow even when she's in billions......

What a life!
MICVOCT(m): 12:30pm On Aug 08, 2023
LilMissFavvy:
How the man treated her before the accident should help her take a decision. If he used to treat her badly or cheated on her, then she should know where to place him undecided . His side chick should come and clean his poop, but If he was a good husband before the accident, she should not abandon him. She can travel to make money then be visiting him from time to time.

Yes! You're wise. You first sentence touched me....I don't need to finish the writeup..... tongue smiley

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MICVOCT(m): 12:25pm On Aug 08, 2023
Sangoamadioha1:




Nice. Now sit back, relax and think if this accident happened to your brother, will you encourage his wife to abandon him. Please be truthful to yourself and i don't need your reply.

I will do the reply, due to your logical and straightforward question that warrant an expository message.

I had once been in a relationship where as her uncle asked me; "how do you managed to get her"?. Imagine that, not even up to an accident. Just a life issue, and she's not even disabled. She's on 90/100 pace rate.

This senerio is a logical one.
MICVOCT(m): 12:19pm On Aug 08, 2023
CuriousStudent:

Most men not some men.90% of men will return her to her father's house and be visiting and sending money.

That's even better if not abandoned

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MICVOCT(m): 12:18pm On Aug 08, 2023
MrsTwrite:
Wicked mother! embarassed

I am happy to quote you as a guy....believes me, she's not.

Just that she's too open for my likeness.

26yrs old lady....hmmmm....o deep

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