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why did you go and do that, you have already told him your mind, too bad he took it badly, but at least he had already been let down, he almost collapsed but he survived it, the worst had been done, why reverse all that, for what purpose, to do the same thing after he is well again? i think that call was ill advised, now you are back where you started even worse cause you will be walking on tiptoes around him so as not to cause him any harm. i think the best thing you could do for yourselves is to be honest which you had done.

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keep it real my sister, every individual works his own salvation.

i think its sexy and i find it a big turn on onthe right woman i.e my gal

@radiant

too bad,
i hope you find a cure for your sickness.

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_{nethanderland approach to issues:
when you cant fight the idea attack the person} 

@radiant

thats the point i am making, why is it so important to prove me wrong? or discredit my statements, its as if you(women in general) live for the days when you prove the brother wrong and show that he is as bad as you paint him. it almost smacks of a voyeristic tendency. that is what disturbs me cause i dont see guys doing likewise, rather they would do all within their power to make their ladies happy, at least i know i would, regardless of her failings which you cant deny you have.

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its sad,

change church!!!

why would i not?

when i saw this post i thought it was all about romance but i have since realized that my tots are just foolish dreams, it is more like"down with naija men "board. i have to it that i am shocked at the level of bitterness our sisters have for most of us, i will be the first to it that we are the most imperfect human beings but what our sisters dont realize or that litttle of them do is that we also overlook and endure a lot of faults in our sisters,and we dont go about denoucing them rather try to live up to their expectations of their mr perfect.
the irony of it is that while they are blinding themselves to reality and entwined in the down with naija men crusade, they end up getting duped by the few wolves in sheeps clothing that appear to meet their so called mr perfect image and they then generalize that all men are like that.

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attimes i wonder why we even try

hi, my thesis was a ga based research and analysis of two end fire antennas.
whats up i am always interested,

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thanks
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Omo Eko:

abi o ask this men on nairaland *_{**rolling eyes***}
None of this men's on this website fit the description
and 85% of men in this world don't fit in this categorize neither.
the truth is that all the good men are taken, while we are left with this useless men

like begets like, the number of colours you see in a light spectrum depends on your capacity to see beyond the visible light.
girls like you see only the surface and generalise never trying to get beyondthe surface and complain when they never dig that an oasis is as dry as the desert surrounding it.

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wysiwyg
what you see is what you get.

@man-eater
i hope this post represents your veiws cos i must confess when i first read through, i quickly scrolled through other replies for one where you say "just kidding". i am new to this site but 85% of the time it is usually batter the man down that i read about, how we are devils ane not to be trusted. even if this your post is for just your guy, i salute you. women rarely ever celebrate their guy or show appreciation like this, they would rather talk when they have the weakness to highlight .
once again thanks.

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its nice to know we are appreciated after all.

i must say that i am shocked by the venomous way ladies have taken up arms against vesta, at this day and age i dont want to belive that you will still pile all the blame on  GUYs, excuse me having sex is a two way thing and in this case cosensual and  its not only the guy that enjoys doing it , so please while shouting marry him be fair!! they are both to blame. and the more you reason it out ,it smacks of attempt to trap the guy.

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its takes two to make babies

its a shame and sheer stupidity to have gotten yourselves into this mess both of you, now you have issues and obviously you have a huge decision to make. its your kid s i pity cause by your foolish actuons you have sentenced yourself, the foolish lady in question and your kids to a lifetime of unhappiness either way, if you marry her or not. the best that you can make of a bad situation, marry her try to love her if not at least live in peace and gtive your children the best father that is possible to give

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look at it as your own pemanent congregation and you dont have to go to a seminary to be a father ,

@ssheryl
if you were considering  an extended val, i might have been interested but since its just for one day sorry!!!!
i dont belive much in just a day to celebrate love, it should be something you do every time we meet.






_{or do you share my veiw}

i have discovered that attimes three or more is company so i would advice the following steps, it worked for me
1. get a mutual friend to introduce you and right there and then let her have an inkling of how you feel, in muy case , i told her that i have been iring her from a distance and would love to include her amongst my friends if not more. although it took me the better part of four years before we could reach the stage of being lovers, she was my very good friend and confidiant for the better part of those four years, so in crowd you break the ice so that when next you get to see her alone and you start talking of love, she wont be suprised and there is safety in numbers at least at that stage she will let you down lightly if she is not interested, and she might just ire a guy who is bold to declear himself in front of witnesses it hints at sincerity and maturity i think

heyaaaaaaaaaa
i emphatise with you i was involved in a similar case but we are going steady now .well i guess you will have to sit her down and have a heart to heart. one of the things that i have discovered ios that me assume that ladies know how we feel and ladies will tell you that they would rather you tell them, they are not mind readers, so if you have something on your mind ,say it and be sure she gets the right message.the most difficult person you can date i9s a friend, cos :she knows all about you , she will ahve a hard time taking you seriously especially if she is privy to past escapades and lastly we tend to drift to safety, yo dont want to jeopardise a friendship that is sure for a relationship that might scatter the whole things. i guess you just have to tell her that a ship is safe in the harbor but thats not what ships are built for.
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hello
those that i know call me manntee
glad to be here and looking forward to nice time.
hello to all the oldies here, ago onile o!!!

hello welcome to nairaland

val is just a few days a way and some of us are having difficulties on what to do on that day. Fine the teddy bears, flowers, chocloates, cakes and all the usual suffs are there and for those who can jewelry and exotic trips but aside the normal, what are the Extra stuffs you can do to make the day special, i am thinking, a collection of her favorites love songs plus the usuals what else??

hum dont know anybody here,

basically i think most women would like to belive that they know their own mind and are in control when in a relationship, i for one would tell a woman what she wants to hear on the first date marriage and children inclusive even if i am not serious, after all it is not by saying it that makes it happen, i would see it as a challenge to show the lady that "she cant catch me that way" like i tell my girl,any guy would lie if he feels the truth would hurt his chances. at the end of the day they fall and they fall hard. if the guy is serious, he is serious and its not by the question you ask on the first date that determines that, fine it might weed out small boys but the real players are not going to be deterred, i know i wont and i am not a player, how much more those that are?

Let me share from my own experience, when i asked my girl out, she asked what i saw in her?, it got me stumped but it got me thinking, she asked what were my likes, my dislikes, what my favorite food was? what my hobbies were she shared hers with me she asked about little things that make me
smile, how my day was.the thing is conversation is a two way thing,if you do all the talking you will appear to be self involved.
Also we do share moments of mutual quietness when we will have no conversation but enjoy what i term companionable silence, just knowing she is there and her smile makes my heart trip that i can reach out and touch and she is really there beside me, attimes you dont need to talk just being there is enough.

the irony is that there are still a lot of great ladies in our schools, it is like one spoilt egg in a crate of 30, the stench will permiate the whole place. while i agree that there are rotten eggs amongst the girls on campus, there are a lot of great girls also.
and point of correction it is not when you date an older working guy that it is aristo, aristo girls keep a string of older married, or unmarried guys for the sake of financial rewards.