NewStats: 3,259,446 , 8,170,126 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 03:04 AM 1x3u5p

Someone close, or so dear, to you is being held hostage spiritually and is very sick; the chances of hir surviving is very slim, especially if nothing urgent is done to save hir.

Kobojunkie:
No, seriously, your comment there was bullsheet at best!

Of course, it's expected to be "bullsheet" to you and your fellow small-minded elements. Scram and direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you before I change my mind and descend heavily on you.

Cynicism and/or scepticism - if hir exhibits any of them when I haven't given hir justifiable reasons to - and then sententiousness under any guise.

Toplap:
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More nonsense and ingredients. Where did you learn English from? Your English is horrible rubbish.

My attention isn't for small-minded elements. Now, scram and direct your further mention to your small-minded elements like you.

Bumpkin!

Given that women - at least the majority, of which most of you here are among - are giving in to hypergamy, which means that altruism/love has never been their forte, it's therefore oxymoronic to assert or assume that women have always aided struggling love or advise them to stop doing so. This by extension makes your advice in this regard an irony and balderdash in general. They earlier you lots stop being hypocritically disingenuous, the better. I doff my heart to the very minute few of you here who aren't.

That said, provided that Yul's first wife had not been like you lots who're proponents, propagators and/or practitioners of self-absorption and opportunism in general, shame on him for betraying her selflessness and conscientiousness in general - if otherwise, however, she deserved her fate and shame on her.

A true good woman deserves all the respect, care, loyalty and love in general that a man in her life can offer. No sane man should be caught hurting a woman unjustly.

Only a few other exhibition acts of abuse can be as painful and provoking as this act of disingenuousness - stomping on someone intentionally and praising her, or telling her sorry, while still on it.

From all indications, she's the main architect of this whole entanglement, Yul is just her victim, albeit consensually, undiscerningly and gritlessly, same as the first wife who's the biggest victim, if she had always been a good wife.

Yul ought not to be going about claiming a "real man" - yes, polygamy isn't a crime under normal circumstances - since he didn't have the ball to tell the first wife about his decision beforehand. Owning responsibility of his deed because that seems better than the other worst options available isn't a sign of confidence/real man.

More so, meting out treachery - which is what it should be, assuming that the first wife had always been a good woman and dutiful wife - is simply an act of cowardice and heartlessness in general and has nothing to do with being a real man/clever/confident/woke, etc.

Minjim:
He can't afford to buy coca cola.

Before you quote me , why not first look up the total value of Cocacola and what Elon is worth?

His whole asset is not up to what Cocacola is worth.

Business shrewdness is not your forte; else, you ought to have known that he, or even a shrewd version of you, doesn't need to have a financial worth equivalent of or more than Coca cola before acquiring it, provided that the owners are ready to sell and he is bankable.

OgunkeelAllMod:
so you want a notorious drug Baron to rule over you and your family tmr, you'll come here shouting holiness, righteousness and acting right upandan !I'm certain you are yorrobanza mooslem ,!no evil una!

Come on, boy, objectivity isn't your forte, and it's a clear sign that you've got a single-digit IQ. My post you quoted represents a statement of fact devoid of my political leaning and leanings of all types in general; therefore, it neither directly nor indirectly indicates that Tinubu is my candidate for president for the 2023 presidential election.

By the way, I'm never given to giving the impression of religiosity since I'm irreligious, another prove from your erroneous assertion in your rant that you possess a single-digit IQ.

Now, scram and direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you.

I'd like to assume that the first wife gave him justifiable reasons to arrive at this; else, his action should be condemned than praised because it doesn't encourage selflessness from women - if she had always been a good woman and dutiful wife, she doesn't deserve to be meted out a pernicious act at all.

Those of you mentioning Tinubu will be surprised that he'll likely scale through the test. He was tried, and found guilty, for drug dealing not consumption, so there's a likelihood that he has not taken it before.

Arkmanbuddy:



So, what you're saying in this epistle of yours is that the presidency should be micro-zoned to the SE. Has it ever happened before in the history of this country? After throwing stones at the APC and calling the SW slaves, you expect them to offer you the presidency on a platter of Platinum? You're a joker!

If you keep practicing politics of hate and bigotry and not allegiance with the other geopolitical zones, you'll keep getting sidelined. Hood on to your PDP and APGA and stay there.

Come on, being a bumpkin isn't a reason enough for you not to know your mates and engage them in your small-minded thoughts. Now, scram and direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you.

Bumpkin!

That's the most honourable step to take given that politics of tribalism and/or prejudice takes precedence over politics of principle and conviction in the country - no wonder the country is in shambles.

Politics being a game of numbers, it makes no sense for someone from the South East to waste his time and resources contesting for the office of the president of the country under the present configuration and mindset of the majority of the citizens, unless it's microzone to it, since the majority of the voters from the areas that have the larger voting strengths are consciously and unconsciously prejudicial against the people of the zone - only a fool will not acknowledge this.

Quitting the race won't be because he lacks courage and other personal wherewithals required to see his aspiration to fruition, no, but because the majority of the voters are imbecilic, small-minded, and foolish in general.

In a country where small-minded elements and foolish elements in general are in the majority, expecting them to subscribe to politics of principle and conviction - the hallmark of sane people and voters - is like expecting a horse to through the eye of a needle.

paramakina202:


So what is the big?
If North form coalition with East they win.Even North can't win without going into alliance with at least one of the 3 southern regions that is why Buhari failed 3 times previously.Atiku and Peter Obi got almost 13 million votes against incumbent president in the last election and you say we are inconsequential.It all depend on who the north decides to align with in 2023 election and southwest votes will be rendered useless as usual.

Don't waste your time on such a bumpkin and his likes, unless you're doing it for fun and not because he is worth the consideration of being taking seriously and counted among the sane and sound.

When someone is unconsciously prejudicial on political matters and stop at that, you can always give him a benefit of doubt, but once you observe that he isn't just unconsciously prejudicial but also sententiously and hypocritically ethnocentric and disingenuous, you know that he's an embodiment of small-mindedness and foolishness in general and consider him so infinito.

His permutation can only hold true - to him and anyone in of it - simply because what's being practiced in the country is politics rooted in tribalism and/or prejudice instead of politics of principle and conviction. No wonder the country is in shambles.

That politics is a game of numbers doesn't mean that the numbers are automatically expected to be generated from the base of a candidate with the huge voting power, no. Only small-minded elements and foolish elements in general think so.

Where politics of principle and conviction is the order of the day - as obtained where the majority of the people and voters are sane - the best candidate always gets the votes of the majority, regardless of the voting strength of hir base. Unfortunate, in a country where small-minded elements and foolish elements in general are in the majority, expecting them to subscribe to politics of principle and conviction - the hallmark of sane people and voters - is like expecting a horse to through the eye of a needle.

Bumpkins!

I am in Lagos.

Whether direct or indirect primaries, the president's choice candidate will likely win the presidential primary, with the consent, cheerfully or grudgingly, of the majority of the governors and stakeholders in general of the party. This is so because in the main election, the presidential election will come first before the governorship election, so the governors will not like to be on the wrong side of the president's book; else, he will end their chances of having their preferred candidates winning at the state level.

Mooh247:


Are you intimidated by his opinion?! Does his comments in anyway affect your livilihood and existence?! I think only a dolt goes about attacking comments that doesn't reasonate with his ideas, or political ideology, intelligent people simple look and their own opinion in a civilised manner like a properly raised individual

I believe we Africans can do better, only apes and babarians should keep abusing the previledge of freedom of speech and expression just to constituite nuisance about

No, you got it wrong - not like I expected something better from you - only those who are from the lineage of fools go about exhibiting dumbness glossed with sententious and hypocritical disingenuous demeanors.

Now scram and direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you. Bumpkin.

seunmsg:
Attacking incumbent governors of your party is the first step towards failure. Adamu better be careful. The governors hold all the aces in the party.

You've been everywhere on the political space in Nairaland posturing like one consequential entity with in-depth knowledge of politics and embodiment of rationality even when it's crystal clear that you're just a wannabe political analyst without any electoral value glossing your single-digit IQ with sententiousness. Take a back seat.

SeaTrade:
My friend Sharap,why don't you call the names of popular ones whose names are already in the public scene.
See his mouth like men of timbre and calibre in my circle.
Clown.

Come, you don't even fear being profane knowing that I have the capacity to chase you out of the country or anywhere as long as I wish. Anyway, don't panic, I will pity you for two obvious reasons, lol.

Final bye-bye, bless up!

SeaTrade:
You can't call names because they don't exist ,quit pretending.
Facts without history to back it up isn't fact.

The fact that you expect me to start mentioning names of the men of timber and caliber I know that married their women primarily based on more important considerations other than their age isn't only laughable but also goes a long way to show how small-minded you're. Anyway, you and I know that you literally lack what it takes to know a man of timber and caliber, so there is no need to further a needless dialogue with you on this.

Bye-bye!

SeaTrade:
Until you show me that timbre and calibre weh marry milf in his Peak before I'll take you serious.
Africans please.Thanks!

I don't do name-dropping, but I'm being factual with you.

SeaTrade:

I thought they said the guy owns vanguard,owns this and that,publisher extraordinaire,Dangote partner ,etc...And it's like he is ev senseless,see as e dey do like onuku
See as e look like all these starving tuaregs in Mali.
I have said it before and will say it again,no well to do man who's got things under his control will marry an old woman and keep at home in the name of wife.
It's always men that are looking for some kind of system that are always doing this rubbish,100% of the times.

Eschew this kind of mindset. As much as I do not hold a brief for the guy and not trying to undermine the importance of youthfulness/consideration of age moderation, the age of a lady is one of the least things most men of timber and caliber do consider when sincerely considering a woman worthy of companionship.

Summarily, to each his own.

Remove her photo from here, at least for now, if you truly mean well for her. Besides, she used to be a member of this forum; I don't know if she's still active.

In fact, either you or she is a lair. She's not your girlfriend, and you don't even know physically, or she's out to deceive you because she ought to be 23 years if her previous false alarm on an issue that generated public discussion is anything close to the truth.

echomanji:
make sure you're ready to Stomach any Bullshit that appears from them

The fact that you lack the grit and gumption required to make your marriage work is not a reason enough to dissuade the guy from marrying when he sees a reasonable woman. You have to embrace grit and gumption to make yours work, your wife's obvious weaknesses, citing your submission, notwithstanding.

77up:
Keep speaking grammar there and forget the obvious in his contex

disingenuousness diplomacy/civility kee you dia

Bumpkin, it is unfortunate that that submission, as concise and fact-embedded as it is, is still beyond your comprehension due to your low IQ, Lol.

Small-minded elements like the assumed Oba - let me still believe that he was quoted out of context - always think that everyone is foolish not to see through their shenanigans; people that have always mistaken their expedient disposition for cleverness; disingenuousness for diplomacy/civility, and servility for wisdom. Nonsense.

Making such a callous and unfounded statement when he can't point out where it's established that the South Easterns do not sell lands to people from other tribes is a pointer to my points above.

Succinctly written. Meanwhile, as much as verbal abuse can't be eradicated, it can be reduced if most men encourage their wives/companions to always be expressive, thereby preventing them from sulking and sucking up their thoughts (whether negative or positive, especially the negative/opposing thoughts on issues), which breed built-up emotion of anger that usually metamorphose to vitriol which itself is the core of verbal abuse.

Getting this done chiefly entails none of the parties involved expecting the other person to walk on eggshells around them or have a desire to be put on a pedestal. Taking to egalitarianism in word and action is a must to bring this to fruition.

Summarily, the poor concept of respect is the chief breeding of verbal abuse - except where a habitual toxic woman is involved - whether in a spousal relationship or any other form of relationship.

There is nothing servile/stupid/simp about a man that places his confidence on his wife/companion who has not given him cogent reasons to distrust her prior to meting out a pernicious act, like this one, on him. So, cut the man some slacks unless you are a firsthand witness to him putting up with her untrustworthiness prior to this particular incident, the shame should be on the woman, or the man, if the reverse were to be the case - betray me, shame unto you; outsmart me, shame unto me is my personal philosophy.