NewStats: 3,261,373 , 8,173,822 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 03:48 AM 2a5ez

Good afternoon lalasticlala


Modified...

To those saying I'm not entitled to give marriage advice... You need to search Google for Tola Dehinde.. A sickle cell victim.
See what she wrote about her parent and her self..

Her mom made a mistake despite the fact that she was a nurse.
If they(her parent) had known some of these fact especially no 2... Before marriage, they wouldn't have married at all or given birth to a sickle cell anaemia baby.

If married couples refuse to tell us what we should know before marriage.. We should do research, think deep and let others benefit from our ideas.

Many people are so carried away by hustling and bustling of marriage... They are so in love with the idea of happily ever after..that they forget that if proper care is not taken, their marriage might not end up being the bed of rose they've been dreaming of.

You see them pre wedding pictures taken in Atlanta, Dubai or beautiful places in Nigeria.

Don't get me wrong o.. I'm not saying you shouldn't get married or take unique pre-wedding pics.. But there are some things you should consider before going to the marriage alter.

Make them marriage experts epp me add more points. Thanks.


1) Do not allow your religious belief or what your pastor preach or say often about marriage dictate the kind of person you should tie the knot with

, this marriage journey would last till death do you part, unless you would opt for divorce at the long run.

Many people let what their pastor or religious belief affect their life so much that they end up marrying the wrong person.. Sometimes, you just have to let love lead.. Or pray and ask GOD yourself.. Pastors are human beings too.. Nd sometimes, they let the flesh rule them thereby, misleading many people.

If you end up marrying the wrong lady or man.. Your pastor won't face the marriage ordeal for you.. You would bear the cross alone.
So be careful.. Before you take the wrong step


2) Do a blood test

Do not get blinded by love.. Before wedding, make sure you and your spouse go for blood test to confirm your genotype, and health status. Do widal tests.
Do not treat this with negligence, because it could cost you a lot.

Some people have sickle cell trait, some are oblivion to this fact.. While some chose to overlook it because of love or faith in religion.
Like I said earlier, ignorance is not an excuse. Do what is right for your unborn children

I would say the risk of giving birth to a sickle cell child is not worth taking.
It might cost you lots of money, your time, and your job, because you'd live in constant fear whenever the child have crisis, which may lead to death eventually if proper care is not taken.

3) Take your time to know your partner better

Do not rush into marriage, because it's trending.
Do not sacrifice your freedom and happiness on the marriage alter...
Take your time to know your partner better.. you're going to have to live with him or her for the rest of your life.

Find out if he/she is quick to anger.. Can you help him/her overcome this problem?

*Does he take corrections or treat your suggestions or opinion like nothing?

*Are you ready to be submissive to a highly dominant partner?

*Is she the lousy type.. Or the one without proper home training.. Who would disrespect your parent at the slightest provocation?

*Is she a Mr Biggs or Mama put or Tantalizer kinda lady or a good cook? I know you won't want to take over the kitchen every day of the week why she polish her nails..

I love a guy who can cook too.. But a lady must know how to cook.. Your husband can't do the cooking everytime.

*Is she in love with who you are or what you have?

*Is he/she in love with your curves and edges, six packs, or beards alone.. What if your body changes at the long run?

My sister/brother better think twice before you answer "yes, I do"
The choice is yours?

4) Do not get carried away by material things or sweet talks

What happens when a marriage is built on a foundation of deceit?
Who bears the burden at the long run?
How would you feel if you found out that your husband or wife had lied about his/her educational background, financial status and every other thing?

Take your time to find out about every little secrets bikonu... Before marriage.. So as to avoid stories that touch.

5)Plan your future together

Before your wedding, plan your future together. During and after wedding ceremony, spend wisely. Don't imitate others..
If you want a wedding in Dubai, honey moon in Paris, but your bank is directing you to Lagos or your village.. Better do the wedding like that... Before DEBT DO YOU PART

You can always have an elaborate wedding anniversary later in future.


Good afternoon

I'm going through a big life change... I need to figure myself out.

Nice story nawa4naija..

Kowor:
More like ojuju korea.

Lol..

Lmao

Aunty Labake wants to look like a Korean, but her make up artist is from Tanzania.

jane5020:
Patiently waiting for season 2

Me too

Wow, you're such a good Samaritan..

Pre wedding madnessmadness

metallisc:



https://newsofnigeria.com/photos-president-buhari-gets-honorary-doctorate-degree/

Thanks

A native doctor award would have been understandable

nwakibie3:


U don forget say one university for kastina gave him honorary PhD

I shock o... Doctorate degree no just fit am ah swear

Chai!
When Buhari turn doctor na?

DarkRebel101:



Yeah, I want to -- with Skarlett, Lanicky, or Oliviarimms.

Hmmmm

I love her 123 song..

I can't trust nobody with my money.... Never!

What an evil world we live in.

RIP to them.

Omotayor123:
It's late... but not too late. And I most do this.
To all those who made my 2016 worthwhile in here ..

I am Wishing all my Nairaland friends and family a blessed New Year full of peace, laughter, prosperity and health.
May you always be surrounded by hope and guided by the stars. Have a prosperous New Year! 2017.

cc.

lalasticlala
seun
Aminat508
mediapace
dollyjoy
cherlene
montezz
ask4bigneyo
canme4u
herexG
wristbangle...I no get ur again
tosyne2much
kazrem
asumo12
baba11
mattkent
twaci
cutehector
Isolukay
agarawu23
toks2008
lanicky
smellymouth
adeh39
msmon
dahaz
glossy6
khaz




And others DAT I can't mention. Make una no vex.

Thank you All.

Thanks sweet.
Happy new year.

Mediapace:
Lol don't you have junior sisters Or brothers?

I've got just one sis.. Nd she's such a lazy ass.

So much for being the first child..

Shey Omo lele yi Abi sunwona.

She's just an excuse of a child.

Wow, cute baby

Mediapace:
how is your new year celebration going?

Going like these...

nathaniel007:
Happy new year to you Nike

Same here... Thanks a lot.

chisco82:

Like what? At the bolded.

. Dunno why you're hell bent on knowing.

See.. I don't pray for things like that to happen to me.. So let's talk about something else.

Happy new year.

ivyy:
Happy new year loves

Monsurufatai
xynerise
ferdyboss
Jamean
tizzelseun
Ls0fdk
vizkiz
Cherlene
Oyind17
Lezzlie
Lezz jazmiynne
mimzzy
thesonofmark
petux
wristbangle
firstking01
Obiorathebully
kingtom hadez
twaci
Iykekelvin
Berlynn
Vicstar
Suzanne404
pabloomoescobar
tygaah
pweetychyka
refiner brite02
celibate
phalmesG
Mysticgal
nathaniel007
Dollyjoy
Cherlene
Pennytrate
Juhan
Qutethomsel
DaddySLY
Hansam
McBrooklyn
Makkydebbie
LSOFDK
Iluvgummybears
Eastherfabian
Airsultan
Gloryisaac
Peachy mzlarem
Lanicky
alobright17
callmescofield
EmperorLee
Centaurxx
Chelseafan1
Secondeva
davide470 davep
tamedwolf90
topestbilly
Fearless15
Liesdictator
dreyl

Thanks dear. Hqppy new year

firstking01:
Happy new year to all romancelanders esp...



Lanicky

Laveda

monalisa185

dingbang

tosyne2much

Mentioning names is not just my thing as i might be ignorantly discriminating...should incase you feel your name is supposed to be there, forgive me jor


Once again, happy new year nairalanders, thankGod we all made it.

Thanks dear

Mediapace:
Happy new year to you all !!

This year will be our year of progress,success,outstanding performances in our academics.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAPYYYYYYYYYYYYYY NEW YEAR :

CC Lanicky
Juhan
Aminat508
Funjosh
Wristbangle
Tosyne2much
Vizkiz
Iamkingzlee
Twaci
Dominique
Ishilove
Laveda
Omotayor123
Tohpahz
Yuneehk

Thanks sweet

asumo12:
Kingtom

Aminat508

Omotayor123

Lanicky

Laveda

Tohpahz

Twaci

Tchidi

Titidi


This new year shall be a year of breakthrough, salvation, sufficient grace ,abundant blessing, divine favour perpetual peace, joy ,unimaginable good health . There shall be showers of blessings in your family, home, business, and all your endeavors. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.



















happy new month

Amen.. Thanks sweet

refiner:
To
Smellymouth...oga it's been long..
Ireneony...you are beautiful..I can see pre-wedding pic
Traphedges...you are captivating
Kingrex....sweet love
Lanicky...my queen



Thanks for making me smile in 2016...let's do it again this year..I love u all

Thanks darl.. Love you too

jakandeola:
am using dis opportunity to greet all a happy new year. dis a new year all fight or quarell have past. I care a lot but dey take me for granted I love you msdelilah sinaj lezz frankraj optional1 diehardanusfan ishilove safedavid sweetjude ifakiland ireneony laveda vizkiz adewumiopeyemi wingback dharay99 bitchcrafts estharfabian twaci lanicky maxi112 smellymouth jarizod nma27 hibiscus76 neyoor

Thanks a lot dear

OBTSubtle:
Special New year greetings go to..
Mimzyy
Ogorwyne
Olihilistic
JIXnation
Jubrealguy
Smellinganus
Xoella
Lezz/Lezzlie
Thesonofmark
Creamish
Yourmajesty/greatness22
Suzanne404
Kinginvahala
Kingrex1
Sandoski
Smellymouth
Nkemma54
Royalblak007
Bitchcrafts
Muvacci/sinz/siinz
Daddysly
Iykekelvins
Laveda
Ls0fdk/Lsofdk
vizkiz
Cherlene
Oyind17
Drisklef
Makydebbie
wristbangle
firstking01
hadez
twaci
Berlynn
Vicstar
pabloomoescobar
Refiner
Mysticgal
nathaniel007
Dollyjoy
Cherlene
Pennytrate
Qhutetomsel
Handsam/centaurxxv
McBrooklyn/Brooklynthebully
Iluvgummybears
Estharfabian
Airsultan
Gloryisaac
Peachyp
mzlarem
Lanicky
alobright17
Milonis
Iamlegend1
Debbiesean
Naijaboiy/iceydee
Twaci
Mhisbliss
Benita27
Marlvin
Balancediet
Jeffreyjamez
Berbierklaus
Sweetjude
Tosyne2much
Mamagee3
Falconey
Dingbang/cutehector
Dezolo
Stupidgoat
Knightrod



2016 was a great year and it was because of you guys..

Looking forward to 2017

Thanks a lot

peeparty:



Welcome to 2017.....


Happy new year/new months guys,today’s shalla messages will be about describing/telling your friends in here the hard truth,letting them no how you feel about them,using the # to describe them and how much impact they have been able to make in your life off and on here.Let just have fun and give honest opinions…..
This might actually help each and everyone of us to improve on our relationship with each other.Relationships are all there is. Everything in the universe only exists because it is in relationship to everything else. Nothing exists in isolation. We have to stop pretending we are individuals that can go it alone.
Sorry it going to be boring,buh just do your best to enjoy this,no hard feelings.

Leh go:



Jacky(stfuareyouGod

Kingtom

Midhi2:

Kika23:

Lanicky

Twaci

Mizmycoli:

Wristbangle

As you step into 2017 it will be total victory all the way..

Happy new year sweet