I see. If this was Nigeria, people like Atiku, Peter Obi, Sowore and others would have gone bunkers screaming as if such things is only peculiar to Nigeria.
Atleast no we know as long Nigeria is concern, Jason's law of corruption is very, very true and real.
DissTroy:
This is who you guys betrayed a brainy articulate Olumide Akpata for? Some of you even sold him for a loaf of Agege bread and a wrap of moi moi.
Enjoy the humiliation as it'd trend internationally and broadcasted as "Nigerian state governor struggles to read".
This Is Nigeria, bro. We live with it. Mediocrity over meritocracy, corruption over honesty.
But this thread is under the Foreign Affairs section? I should be able to comment on other threads on *other sections*, not in here.
So I'm still currently under ban. For *this* section.
It's antispam bot that banned you, it works that way sometime. Wait till after the time of the ban elapse and see, or you can report directly to the mods or supermods to do something about it now.
Man, I don't chase. But if she's smart and reserved, sometimes the banter is good too.
Think of this, you both finished tumbling beneath the sheets, and you're asking her to test scroll through a web app you have built as a beta tester or arguing the validity of Dan Brown's claims in "Da Vinci Code". Both of you still in your birthday suits.
The effects of sex is actually amplified by the events leading up to it and after it.
I'd also it because of my conditions for intimacy, it limits the kind of women available in the pool to pick from. Funny this, you could have 200 and I could 40 but I feel like the experiences with the 40 outweigh 200 banal females.
Anatomy wise, women aren't really different. Most just lie back during the process while you exert yourself. But if she's worth it, she'd still be worth it after post-nut clarity.
Those are the kind of women I've always liked - the ones I won't resent even after having sex for the umpteenth time. Those girls are available. Find them, man. Life is about the full human experience and memories, right? Even just two days could memorable for decades when it's not just some happy-go-lucky attention seeker.
Of course it is, but life is also about having fun. Smashing those vain and canal women is worth it also.
That's the point. While I avoid women who play overly hard-to-get, bedding a woman who has standards (not those fake hookup girls standards, but actual ones) is cool.
I'm not ashamed to it the slow seduction of her mind is just as satisfying as what comes after. You know, that thing where she's so into you, she actually shelves her inhibitions to tell you she wants you and wants to be with you when you haven't spent a Kobo on her yet and she means it, yeah.
I love the slow seduction where she actually cares beyond sex. It means she carries a part of you in her heart. You have a hold on her stronger than the physical satisfaction of sex.
If she's easy to get by anybody just by showing her attention or the promise of cash, it's turn off. It's why I abhรดr the idea of paying for sex. It's not for religious reasons - I'm not barely religious. It's the thrill of offering herself to you with nothing guaranteed other than her being able to get your time.
The seduction make the actual sex worth it more. Seduction of the mind lasts longer (for years) than how she feels during sex.
It's why a hookup girl would cause a scene with some random guy she slept with but take that guy she really likes on a random date.
Kay, ma main man, you have time, a whole lot of time on your hands.
Truth is, when I know I don't want the woman to birth our kids, I don't bother with all what you typed, I truly don't.
I think it's mostly the kind of women I am attracted to. I have a thing for women who find pleasure in the arts. The brainy writers who love to consume books too and read wide. She could be a techie or ant or engineer or lawyer but she has to love reading and writing too, even as a hobbyist. Like discussing random details of barnacles on whales and why British English is better than the American version. Mundane or serious but intelligent.
From my experience, women like that are more introspective because reading and writing make you so. If she's more introspective, she's comfortable in her own space and would over think anything she's putting out publicly. It also means she thinks through the effect of a scandal or controversy. She's all woman and emotional and pissed off with me but she keeps it under wraps publicly.
I've never ever regretted knowing and being with such women.
I've only been attracted to only certain kind of women. Of course, they have to look good too.
The beautiful reserved girl is a million times likely to pull my heart strings than some loud popular girl who always wants to be the center of attention.
You'd I disliked and taunted the seemingly popular females men used to throw themselves at on Nairaland who were bimbos. I couldn't understand the atraction to dumb attention-seeking women. I still don't.
It's simple, to smash the coochie, nothing more, nothing less. Such women happen to be the easiest to smash, it was like this way back the 2015 days on Nairaland, I mean, you're witness to many of the scandals and revelations.
I don't need to tell you many of those seemingly popular females on Nairaland back then, were smashed the way Serena Williams smash the tennis ball.
Though I've come to know those women who seek validation and like to be the centre of attention and attraction, seem to suffer from some form of low self esteem, and many are such fragile creatures...
For those who don't talk/share much, but are "good listeners"? Yes it's a sin.
They're usually cunning.
being cunning doesn't usually have anything to do with being a good listener. It's just life, some like to talk, too much I might add, others don't and others talk moderate.
The ones who I might say are cunning are the ones who are monitoring spirits... I mean, there's a reason why they view your status Everytime and follow you all around social media.
Samantha125:
And I'm very thankful for the cameras because if there weren't any, it would've been my word against hers and she'd have been still walking freely probably looking for a way to finish me off.
You should be careful. From your take, you're not Nigerian and you don't reside in Nigeria. Over here, we don't leave our drinks around with friends, talkless of strangers, we take it along with us, some even take it to the restroom with them.
Take in from this experience and learn never to leave your drink lying around... I hope you get justice. Cheers and get stronger soonest. ๐ฅ๐๐
Mostly before. Unlike other men, the sex alone doesn't do it for me. Women have random sex daily with men whose faces they can't even . So I work on my seduction until she actually falls for me and wants me. Whatever happens,
she carries a part of me in heart till she es on. Not just finding me cute but wanting to be something very intimate with.
During the process of seduction, I search her out online too. Women who post too much of their personal lives won't mind a scandal if your entanglement with them doesn't work out. The private ones count their losses and move on. No dragging or scandal.
That's why I avoid influencer-type wannabe baddies. I don't want to trend on Instablog. That's why I never get intimate with social media famous girls who curate their lives on their timelines. I never have.
I see. Could this be as a result of becoming more mature, as you age? Though I know you've never been the type who jump in bed with any bimbo, unlike me, back in the day.
I now find such girls who post everything on social media repulsive, like I've come to know, they hardly can keep any secret and are always battle ready, the more reason I took a cue from you, when you once said you make it a habit of blocking all your exes, I follow suit and boy, do I have peace.
Seducing any Nigerian woman to me is something I don't even bother doing, unless there's that attraction, if it's not there, I don't even bother, even if I know I just want to hit the coochie, I still don't bother because the idea of chasing someone that is empty, is torture to me. Bottom line, if she's not interested, I don't even bother.
DissTroy:
Not for me. I'm only on social as a necessity because I'm service provider.
Last time I stated my location on Facebook or Instagram or Twitter was 10 years ago.
I deliberately crop my pictures or take them in neutral backgrounds so you can't guess who I am with. I've attended so many events recently yet the last time I posted on my timeline was months ago. I daily.
You can't know the females I am close to or my relatives just from my timeline.
I avoid women who show-off or make content with personal details amongst other requirements. If you aren't lowkey like me, I don't want you. I'd ghost you.
I hang out with the high and mighty every other week but I never post pictures. I move them to my hard drive once I take them.
Looking at my timeline you'd only find my professional details and what I do - even my phone number too. You'd also find my pictures but almost only pictures of me alone. Strangers don't need to know those close to me. Heck! I reveal almost nothing about my personal life to people I see daily. You'd only know what I do for a living.
I comment actively in groups and utilize humour when I need to. You'd find me easily on social media, I'm very present, but you'd barely find personal details of me.
Be visible but let your personal life be invisible. I've turned down many women I got intimate with after checking their timelines and finding out they are attention huggers posting their itinerary constantly. They weren't bad women - I just like low-key ones like myself.
Samantha125:
I lost my baby last month because of Instagram... My husband is active on Instagram and he was so excited that we were going to have a baby that he even posted the picture of the ultrasound on his Instagram , not knowing that his ex has been stalking him with a different .
About a week later, she ed me and started telling me about how she's now born again and turned a new leaf, that she wanted to make amends for what happened in the past... I assured her that I've long moved on from what happened and held no grudge against her... She then suggested that we should meet, so that we could bury the hatchet the right way, again I fell for her trick and told her that I'll let her know when I'm around Limpopo and we'd meet... Because I'm the type of a person who believes in second chances.
My husband warned me against the idea, but I assured him that I wasn't planning on being friends with her, but I just wanted to hear her out in person.
Last month I visited my parents in Limpopo and I informed her that I was around... We arranged our meeting and since it was a restaurant, I didn't think anything bad could happen... Long story short, I ended up fighting for my life in hospital and lost the baby... I had to undergo three surgeries, all because of that ultrasound my husband posted on his Instagram.
Like 2024 isn't my year.
So sorry about what happened to you and your baby.
Please tell me you got the stupid woman arrested and prosecuted?
Is it just me or did this episode had some insane levels of plot armour and devices?
Because for a supposed billionaire who has had an attempt on his life, It would seem UDC had a death wish and with all that money, it seems his security is pretty shite! cuz how is skinny dipping in an open water with, no known perimeter? Anyway i enjoyed the episode still.
But thinking about it now, The Jackal's body count up until this point, is off the charts...he has been dropping bodies left, right and center. I know we are all rooting for him but there is no way in walks into the sunset after all of these, unscathed? except this is one of those rare media where the villain comes out tops which i doubt it is, because of the insane number work they have put into the character development of Bianca.
I am of the opinion that this was better as a one off show, but they went ahead to green lit an S2. So now what? what is the endgame? He has been profiled almost 100% now, and it shouldn't take that long to nab him, so what will the whole of S2 be about? Will he continue dropping bodies whilst Bianca continues the faux cat and mouse game when she has like 90% of the information to nail him? or does he really walk into the sunset after all it's said and done?...... Fascinating to think about but cautious enough to know they might get it terribly wrong....fingers crossed ๐ค๐ฟ โณ
He made himself close friend with death, the day he decided to make River public. I mean, what tha fvck was he thinking about? Like those greedy billionaires and conglomerate won't come for his hide, with what he's threatening to release to the public?, think about it bro.
The smartest thing he would have done, was to give that technology to the CIA or NSA and get immunity from whatever crime he may commit or not commit, including drilling the asshole of underage boys etc.
So, UDC put an X to his back, the moment he decided to become Holy.
Lol. All we read is approvals for military personnels and retired military veterans without such approvals being implemented. Or, didn't retired military pensioners protest yesterday?
YEt, even with this brazen disregard for the sanity of his stupid followers, many of his stupid followers will still pay tithe to him and sow seed in whatever money swindling affair he cooks up for them to buy. Men!
I've often asked myself, how people can be so so stupid. Gosh.