GistMedia0: In a shocking and heartbreaking twist to a Christmas celebration, a man decided to surprise his wife with a gift that would leave her speechless — divorce papers. The unexpected gesture came after he ran a secret DNA test on their child, only to find out the heartbreaking truth: the child wasn't his.
Angered and betrayed by the discovery, the man decided to take matters into his own hands. He carefully packaged the DNA test results and the divorce papers in a festive box, wrapping it up as a "Christmas gift" for his wife.
The wife eagerly opened the box, expecting to find something joyful. But as she read the divorce papers and the test results, her world came crashing down. In stunned silence, she was left dumbfounded, unable to comprehend the shock of the revelation.
This shocking footage has sparked widespread conversation online, with many questioning the emotional toll such a revelation can have on a marriage.
Gistmedia10: South African man named Sibusiso Lawrence confessed to killing his ex-girlfriend and shared the gruesome details online. The confession, made via a Facebook post, included a video and a photo of the deceased, leaving viewers horrified.
According to Sibusiso, who hails from a wealthy family in KwaZulu-Natal, he took the drastic action after discovering his girlfriend's infidelity. He alleged that he had sacrificed a lot for her, pouring large sums of money into their relationship in an effort to satisfy her. However, he claimed that she took advantage of his generosity and continued to exploit him financially.
The breaking point came when Sibusiso visited her village unannounced and found her with another man. Enraged and heartbroken, he convinced her to accompany him back home in his car. Tragically, midway through the journey, he murdered her.
The gruesome confession has sparked outrage online, with many condemning the act and calling for justice. Authorities in KwaZulu-Natal are reportedly investigating the case, and social media s have urged swift action to hold Sibusiso able for his heinous crime.
He said “I might not be a good soldier but I’m a good man” 😂😂😂 A good man that committed homicide. A lot of them are out there.
Skooltynz:
I see no qualms dating or marrying a lady that smokes or drinks like myself even though I know most guys will call it quit,as long as she is not a LovePeddler or irresponsible but she must not do it where my kids are.
All I just want is a woman that understands or thinks like me and is willing to me.
Ringstonermasks:
nice because she is making my friends to laugh at me for not being able to call her during emergencies
You married a woman for protection yet calls her a feminist 😂😂😂😂. Oya tell me what has your masculinity done for you? Let your friends laugh very loud you deserve it.
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me
I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.
We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.
My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.
She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
Just because you are married to a personnel doesn’t mean you should go about looking for trouble.
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I think she’s a ive aggressive person. Those type of people don’t know how to handle situations like that.
DyshApp:
A young Nigerian man shares his frustration over an awkward first date experience with a lady who ordered herself food, neglecting him.
In an anonymous post to popular social media influencer @wizarab10, he recounted how the lady’s actions left him feeling overlooked.
The man revealed that the woman paid for her transportation and clothing expenses for the outing, which he appreciated. However, things took a surprising turn when she ordered food only for herself during the date.
“I went on a date with a girl, our very first date and she paid for her clothings and transport. When we got there, we spoke for over an hour and she was listening though. Then, she suddenly called the waiter and ordered meat pie and ice cream for herself and she was eating and listening to me. Isn’t that callous? She didn’t even ask me whether I’m hungry, she just ate, listened and replied me,” he wrote.
He concluded the post by asking followers for advice on whether he should continue pursuing the relationship, humorously adding, “Should I fling?”
She brought meat pie and ice cream to the table and ate it and you’re complaining 😂😂😂😂
godofuck231:
This woman is currupt and worse ,a prostitute, she has no shame , most likely was aware of the rape and collected money from the culprit, so he hot comfortable
pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.
Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.
However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.
Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.
Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.
On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.
Please advise on the best way to go about this.
Who ask you to come from such places? Nonsense tradition.
Be ready to also answer when she ask you same questions whenever you gets home from work.
And millions of guys that got women pregnant and left them as baby mama's?? What would you say about them? I'm I the first to get a woman I'm not in anyway attracted to pregnant??
Do you men sleep with women you’re not attracted to physically?? I don’t understand. Where you drunk the night you met her??
As I'm talking to you right now, they are saying all manners of words, that I disrespected them and the they won't pity me with the list they'd give me.
That aside, to be brutally honest with you, I didn't mean to disrespect them, I have tried all manner of ways to walk out of this marriage but I don't see that happening. Maybe this will be the deal breaker, I won't do any of what they mentioned, absolutely none. I believe it'd make them hate me and by God's grace I pray and I'm praying hard for them to talk about returning my bride price to me.
You have tried all manner of what? 😂😂 you’re just there for the free pleasure at night.
kevwemike:
Guy wat is wrong with U? Why are U talking like a child, U don't like the girl but Ur dick like her pussy to the extent U got her pregnant, and U are here saying that she force u into the marriage, u dey here urself? The truth is that wat the family counted for U is the right thing to do as in-law , just try and do the needful is Ur in-law.
BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.
Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.
So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.
To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.
So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.
I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.
Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.
Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.
I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.
I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.
You’re not a man but a princess.
How did she force you to marry her?
Did she force you to have intimacy with her?
Don’t you know what protection is?
You don’t love her and you still meet her every night for sezzz😂😂.
They are obviously heaping the expense on you because you don’t have sense
DyshApp:
A Nigerian man has caused a stir online after sharing a list of seven conditions his wife set before he can take a second ife.
He posted the details on his Facebook page, revealing that he had informed his wife of his intention to marry again.
In response, she outlined specific criteria he must meet to gain her approval.
According to his post, the potential second wife must meet the following conditions:
1. Must be a virgin.
2. Must be between 25 and 26 years old.
3. Must be proficient in spoken and written Igbo and English.
4. Must own a personal house in Okpuno or Nkpoka Nnewichi-Nnewi.
5. Must not have any children.
6. Must not bear the surname Osigwe.
7. Must refrain from eating fish or any sea creatures.
He humorously added, “Some weeks back, my wife, Okala Ete, gave me the go-ahead to marry a second wife. In case you are wondering why I need her permission, the answer is simple: amalu kpa, ewe rahu na ute.”
He concluded with a tongue-in-cheek note to potential candidates: “The application portal will open tonight at 12 PM and close tonight at 12 PM. May the best man, sorry, woman win. Good luck and thank you.”
“Signed,”
“Ezeumuokorobia.”
Go and get sand and create her yourself. All these oGAYchi men 😏😏
EdiskyHarry:
Always call your drivers to order anytime you see him driving recklessly. Life has no duplicate.That was how one man who drove us from nassarawa to uyo was trying to overtake every vehicle on sight, even if na 2 tankers at the same time. I shouted on him to be careful, to my greatest surprise, two women at the back told me that I'm behaving like a woman, I should leave the driver alone, he knows what he's doing.
You did well. I can tell you majority of engers don’t utter a word when drivers are being reckless. You will see some sleeping, pressing phones, looking outside the windows and enjoying the high speed.
money121:
2014 VS 2024
What Ever Blessings I have, Everything is from you YA ALLAH,
nothing is from me I THANK YOU, For all the things you have blessed me with...
Alhamudulilahi
#HappyAnniversary
#HappyFamily
#OluwaNishola
BaddieFreak:
Ladies, can you marry someone who lives in rooms like this? What are your thoughts on building a future together with a man in such a living space?
Men, will you pray to marry a lady in this kind of room or will you wait and hustle more before getting married?
What can he bring to the table with this type of apartment?
Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.
Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.
“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.
But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.
My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.
I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.
The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad . There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.
I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.
Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!
Here is what I have to say
1. Did you both discuss finances while dating?
2. Sex is important in marriage, however sex is not love. Do you know her love language?
3. Because you’re cheating on your ex now you think she’s a better woman than your wife right lol. Just know that she’s also doing same thing to you(cheat) when you eventually marry her. Or probably when you marry her and she changes your new solace with be your ex wife abi😂😂.
You ex GF already can’t trust you to be honest. Even if she gets married to you you’ll feel trapped because she felt if you can do this with her you will definitely do it with someone else at any little issue.
Oga fix your home/marriage o. You both should see a counselor.
Trenow:
Hi guys I need an advice,my brother have being in a heartbroken situation right now after finding out that this wife is dating a local yahoo scammer for long now up to 2 year now.
She has been sending money to the guy to the tune up to 500k and the guy keeps promising her heaven and earth that when he cash out from his foreign client he is going to take her in.
This my brother wife is someone with 6 children,my brother had forgiving her the first but she later continue with the same guy this year, not minding the financial difficult my brother is having his wife will have mind to be doing this nonsense somebody has no main work..
Please is there any Agency or. office that can handle this matter to be able to recover the funds from the person,we have his number and their WhatsApp chat
The three of you (your brother, his wife and you) are not okay.
jessylaurel(f): 1:36pm On Jan 09
