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A young Nigerian man shares his frustration over an awkward first date experience with a lady who ordered herself food, neglecting him.

In an anonymous post to popular social media influencer @wizarab10, he recounted how the lady’s actions left him feeling overlooked.

The man revealed that the woman paid for her transportation and clothing expenses for the outing, which he appreciated. However, things took a surprising turn when she ordered food only for herself during the date.

“I went on a date with a girl, our very first date and she paid for her clothings and transport. When we got there, we spoke for over an hour and she was listening though. Then, she suddenly called the waiter and ordered meat pie and ice cream for herself and she was eating and listening to me. Isn’t that callous? She didn’t even ask me whether I’m hungry, she just ate, listened and replied me,” he wrote.

He concluded the post by asking followers for advice on whether he should continue pursuing the relationship, humorously adding, “Should I fling?”

The guy too stingy, one hour without you calling the waiters to bring something,so that the talk go dey blend.

What a man with the balls of steel

Hungry Nigerian bannies must be taught lessons.

She didn't ask you for anything, that's commendable...

mumu man.com

Damn!
Men are really using reverse psychology on ladies.
I see a #MeToo and #NoMeansNo movement from the male populace

The guy is not fit to go on a date with any lady, he should go back to nursery school

Sir Dickson is complaining. If you are called by that name you go straight to the point

Why not u order ur own and at the end you pay for all the bills? She just show u level are not the same but at least u should surprised her to pay all the bills and prove to her that you are a man of the house

Sonnobax15:

What a man with the balls of steel

Hungry Nigerian bannies must be taught lessons.

I marvel at the level of your comprehension on topics.


Or does misogyny really rots brain like this?


Did you read the post at all?

"Man with the balls of steel" but he was complaining about about the girl not ordering food for him?

"Hungry Nigerian bannies must be taught lessons" but she literally was eating the food she paid for with her own money? And then paid for her transportation and dress before going for the date.


What's the correlation of your comment to the narration above??

Nobody go say anything here, rather we go laugh about am because men are easy going people. Flip the table and see how women go react if na a man do this thing to a woman.
The double standard nowadays is alarming. But I love the story sha, E crack me up a little. That guy go don swallow saliva full belle
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nation wide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

Women wants men to believe we are all the same. Imagine if this was done by the man, the whole internet will troll him. But 1hr? Damn! This guy's heart is cold stone and his name is stonecold

Magnoliaa:


I marvel at the level of your comprehension on topics.


Or does misogyny really rots brain like this?


Did you read the post at all?

"Man with the balls of steel" but he was complaining about about the girl not ordering food for him?

"Hungry Nigerian bannies must be taught lessons" but she literally was eating the food she paid for with her own money? And then paid for her transportation and dress before going for the date.


What's the correlation of your comment to the narration above??

You've been noticed.

Can you please move away? Thank you.

Magnoliaa:


I marvel at the level of your comprehension on topics.


Or does misogyny really rots brain like this?


Did you read the post at all?

"Man with the balls of steel" but he was complaining about about the girl not ordering food for him?

"Hungry Nigerian bannies must be taught lessons" but she literally was eating the food she paid for with her own money? And then paid for her transportation and dress before going for the date.


What's the correlation of your comment to the narration above??

But men take care of the bills often times. She could have ordered for 2 instead.

Baba,, Shane nor even catch u as u dey talk am sef...

Abi u nor even happy say u nor buy d clothes, pay transport to n fro, and buy food, den still buy take away and give her thanks for coming.... This can't b Nigeria Sha,, though in saner climes, courtesy demand she order for u too, but it's not ur right dat she must buy for u...

Some men Sha, to buy small ice cream or soda for ursef still hard u. Relationship O ti lo on first date..

DyshApp:
A young Nigerian man shares his frustration over an awkward first date experience with a lady who ordered herself food, neglecting him.

In an anonymous post to popular X influencer @wizarab10, he recounted how the lady’s actions left him feeling overlooked.

The man revealed that the woman paid for her transportation and clothing expenses for the outing, which he appreciated. However, things took a surprising turn when she ordered food only for herself during the date.

“I went on a date with a girl, our very first date and she paid for her clothings and transport. When we got there, we spoke for over an hour and she was listening though. Then, she suddenly called the waiter and ordered meat pie and ice cream for herself and she was eating and listening to me. Isn’t that callous? She didn’t even ask me whether I’m hungry, she just ate, listened and replied me,” he wrote.

He concluded the post by asking followers for advice on whether he should continue pursuing the relationship, humorously adding, “Should I fling?”


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My response to you if at all you will read this is YOU ARE THE BIGGEST FOOL for inviting/having a date without ordering anything for both of you

If he pay for the food he will say she is hungry. She pay for her own food you cry that she is callous.

A word is enough for the wise

Lalami3232:

Nobody go say anything here, rather we go laugh about am because men are easy going people. Flip the table and see how women go react if na a man do this thing to a woman.
The double standard nowadays is alarming. But I love the story sha, E crack me up a little. That guy go don swallow saliva full belle
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nation wide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

Them tell them dem nor hear,them advice them them nor gree,them no dey telli person.

werey man

Foolish man

Magnoliaa:


I marvel at the level of your comprehension on topics.


Or does misogyny really rots brain like this?


Did you read the post at all?

"Man with the balls of steel" but he was complaining about about the girl not ordering food for him?

"Hungry Nigerian bannies must be taught lessons" but she literally was eating the food she paid for with her own money? And then paid for her transportation and dress before going for the date.


What's the correlation of your comment to the narration above??

how about you buzz off and give the man breathing space...

were you expecting he reprimands the guy 😒😒

do you females not do the same thing when the table turns ..

leave am make him him own and buzz off ..


yes, he's a man with the balls of steel ..

Edojoma:
Baba,, Shane nor even catch u as u dey talk am sef...

Abi u nor even happy say u nor buy d clothes, pay transport to n fro, and buy food, den still buy take away and give her thanks for coming.... This can't b Nigeria Sha,, though in saner climes, courtesy demand she order for u too, but it's not ur right dat she must buy for u...

Some men Sha, to buy small ice cream or soda for ursef still hard u. Relationship O ti lo on first date..

Abegi ...

🙄🙄🙄

DeeScan:


Abegi ...

🙄🙄🙄

😂

This one sef na man?

Confused gender

When you pay you complain now she paid you still complained..

Confusion at it peak

On any date irather go dutch than let one mmmumuu start ranting Bs later

This one is a big disgrace to Manhood

Sonnobax15:

What a man with the balls of steel

Hungry Nigerian bannies must be taught lessons.

Anything that gives you satisfaction.
Nasboi was calling out guys that take back things they bought from their ex.
Collect back anything you feel an ungrateful partner doesn't deserve.
The kingdom of this gen z generation suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force!

minasu190:
The guy too stingy, one hour without you calling the waiters to bring something,so that the talk go dey blend.

She's supposed to treat him nice.
Give him TP and take away food too



What goes around, comes around

Yep. Back to rubbish updates.

These are the kind of men tha leave the woman to do everything in the marriage

What an Irresponsible and shameless human being

DyshApp:
A young Nigerian man shares his frustration over an awkward first date experience with a lady who ordered herself food, neglecting him.

In an anonymous post to popular social media influencer @wizarab10, he recounted how the lady’s actions left him feeling overlooked.

The man revealed that the woman paid for her transportation and clothing expenses for the outing, which he appreciated. However, things took a surprising turn when she ordered food only for herself during the date.

“I went on a date with a girl, our very first date and she paid for her clothings and transport. When we got there, we spoke for over an hour and she was listening though. Then, she suddenly called the waiter and ordered meat pie and ice cream for herself and she was eating and listening to me. Isn’t that callous? She didn’t even ask me whether I’m hungry, she just ate, listened and replied me,” he wrote.

He concluded the post by asking followers for advice on whether he should continue pursuing the relationship, humorously adding, “Should I fling?”

Na this same mindset most content creators get.

Create nonsense lies just to garner likes and views for pay.

lecowas:
Women wants men to believe we are all the same. Imagine if this was done by the man, the whole internet will troll him. But 1hr? Damn! This guy's heart is cold stone and his name is stonecold

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