NewStats: 3,259,486 , 8,170,268 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 09:09 AM 3u66p

renythyly:
They have drone now? Only God know what next they'll get.

Prolly atomic bomb!

Seun:
You cannot change your wife unless you first accept her with all her faults. You may think you are pleasing her "in all ramifications" but obviously you are not. Unconditional acceptance is a basic need that we all have and if you can't unconditionally accept your wife then are certainly not "pleasing her in all ramifications"

From her point of view, you haven't taken to her own advice - that you should stop bugging her. Some people are very sensitive to criticism especially when they think it's not necessary. I happen to be one of such people so I'm taking your wife's side. Some people just need to learn to shut up and accept others without judging.

Before you get married, open both eyes and once you get married close one. Before you get married, learn about your wife's faults and if you can't tolerate those faults don't marry her! Once you're married, be tolerant!

Your advice is very immature. Did you ask if he dated his wife and for how long? Do you think everyone gets to understand their partners before marriage?
Do you mean because his wife's attitude came after getting married he should swallow every incorrect attitude from her without complaints or trying to correct her?
If he was your brother would you advice him in this manner?
If the tables were against the woman would she like it? Trying to correct her husband and he keeps an obstinate outlook tell me she's going to keep quiet!
Why not offer proper solution to the situation as the OP requested rather than this statements you threw at him, or better still, remain silent.
Married life especially at its early stages should not be a toxic affair. No one knows what tomorrow holds, that brother she's disrespectful of may turn out to be a great help to that family someday...

ately1:
My landlord said no dancing in the compound.. 😀😀😀

He should have said "do not receive good news in this house"

Tokskob2008:
Peace of mind, maybe!!

Let me tell you a story.
In 1987, a guy swore to his friends he'll marry a very beautiful gal to meet his status! He did. Turned out the lady was as jealous as her beauty itself!
The guy couldn't sit with his friends no more! He couldn't even host them in his home! It was really frustrating for the guy.
Soon he was bold enough to leave home to unknown destination hidden from work, family and wife! He strode home one afternoon and entered the bedroom and unpacked the used clothes and started to put in fresh ones!
Collected his bag and made for the door!
Wife flew at him and shouted till neighbors came...
Was the day he drew the line for her...and she was tamed!
Lucky couple I'll say ..
Nothing beats peace of mind!
I'm not ing the cheats ooooohhh

proeast:


Pls how can I get her ? It’s obvious I’m not the only Nigerian they’re doing this. They will check the statement you submitted, if they find reasonable amount in it, they will begin their extortion racketeering.

Some people are already volunteering here in Vietnam to take up the case.

They're learning from Nigerians already!!
Just the same measure Nigeria embassy's staff mets out to other nationals, and at airport too!

Copied from Quota.
Want to just share this here...


I was a stripper for about ten years, so I’ve talked to far more men than the average female. The one thing most married men talked about missing from their marriage/relationship was acknowledgement, particularly for their feelings, and also their contribution. Men would routinely tell me that their wife behaved as if she was owed a better husband than he was to her; she deserved a man who made more money, but she also deserved a man who spent more time at home. And very often, a man would go to great length and trouble to do something special for a woman he cared about, and very often, she would mention the parts he fell short in that endeavor. Women have encouragement and acceptance and affection and appreciation, and when a man gets all that from a woman, her holes are hardly the thing he wants most from her. In fact, if any woman has nothing to offer, but her holes, she will find herself very unwanted, even if she has really good holes.

DonroxyII:
Lol, A Man must Be Baddo atleast in One Hustle

I love the adrenaline behind the wheel...

DonroxyII:
.. You don't have flare for wahala ni .. That's some people major courses on Daily Basis ..

Good for You Na ... You Get Conscience too Much

Bro...the action wey dey my body na for driving loooonngg distance and adventure!
For there, I dey shine!!

Ediffizy:


Malachi 3:10

Read his question again and give him a proper answer....

Michael547:

What verses in the Bible does God demands Christians to pay him 10% of their income. You are yet to quote the verse

He won't find any, just mixing rice and beans telling about wealth!
Christianity didn't come to make anyone wealthy it's about salvation only.
God will bless both good and bad people it's his prerogative!
All those points he stated are just points developed by greedy so called men of God to swindle the mind of the simple!

DonroxyII:
You No fit do Politics ... You be Mekunnu ....

It's Good sha, to only carry wetin one emotion fit carry because by the time Review Comes, Your Heart no go carry Burden ...

Gaskiya you get the drift! Even though it was spontaneous, I never knew it will be like that...
Politics no dey my blood at all,...my strength lies on soft things!
I hail those that do things I can't!

DonroxyII:
odogwu you go dust am Noni ... E be Things ... smile for the Camera

E be things but e no be easy bossu!
The fiance turned out to be a great guy, always wanted me by his side!
No go easy to smile and wave!

Rapmoney:
Sky B - I'm Calling (My Baby)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1ZvbIhg-xo&pp=ygUQc2t5IGIgYW0gY2FsbGluZw%3D%3D

Just wondering where the dancers in this video are now and what they made of their lives and what they think about themselves when they watch this video!!

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=klxGH3N9yPw?si=IRz2ssiGJnJU9Kkr

How I Named My Son Isaac With Only N10 Naira (Bishop David Oyedepo)

In this short video you are about to watch, Bishop David Oyedepo of the Living Faith Church, AKA Winners Chapel, narrated how he refused to touch the church's money during the naming ceremony of their son, Isaach, even though they had only 10 naira at that time. Despite his associates advising him to take out some money from the church's pocket for the naming, telling him there's nothing wrong in doing that because he is the head of the church, the Bishop said he vehemently refused and said to them the child is not the child of the church but his own child. “God's money must not be spent outside God's cause,” said Bishop David. In his sermon that day, he said, “Financial fortune is a product of quality spiritual walk,” reading from Job 22:24-25. He said, “not N1 (one naira) of God's money has ever mistakenly crossed its way to my pocket”.


No wonder God's blessings are evident in the life of this man.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sInEv8qsX1M

Financial fortune IS NOT the product of quality spiritual walk...
Bible doesn't teach that, prosperity preachers do that....

yewit37486:


Good to see we still have men with honour. Kudos bro.

Thanks sir...I appreciate.

My experience was rather like yours, OP.
Was on a job far from where I live. My hosts younger sister looked at me and began to invite me to visit her at her own place. I was a bachelor but already dating...I turned the table and invited her the location where the work is situate. She came, dressed to kill, I knew then what game she was up to.

Hard as she tried, I never succumbed to her tempting moves. I swore never to invite her again.

I got to hear she had a fiance based in Cameroon and that made it better for me to stay away from her.

The first time her fiance visited she introduced me as brother Jay and he shook my hand and said he'd heard good things about me!!
Imagine how I'd have felt meeting him and hearing that statement if I had ever had anything with her!!

DaddyCoool:


Then he lied to you he wasn't serious about the wedding. Tops even a crazy man would go is introduction, a totally crazy man may go as far as bride price! Plus, see above

Well, he told me the truth about the fake wedding he had with a lady just to lay her!
Isn't that the reason for this thread??

DaddyCoool:


He Lied to you.
Made-up story just like this one

Guy, I saw with my own eyes the photos of the traditional wedding.... With my own eyes...
Anyway, no need trying to convince you.

DaddyCoool:
FAKE story

I have seen this happen. Somebody close to me tried to woo the lady and after much rejection proposed marriage she agreed, they had the trado, she took in he gave her pills unknown to her which made her lose the baby and then he told her why he married her, then took off!
Guess what?? He had a wife and two kids then o!
He narrated the story to me HIMSELF!!
I quietly subtly put a gap between us since then ....

Just go for the Acura....nice...

Now just imagine them growing up and seeing this story about themselves, the emotional trauma and consequent reaction and explanation from their parents...do you ever think they'll give their best to their parents??
I'm just sorry for lots of parents with such behavior.... unless it's a case whereby there was some miscommunication and the children drifted away....how possible is that?

MrCork:



Ilamina..YOU AGAIN WIT YOR JANGLASCOMICALLY THREADS THAT LACK BATTERY.....Do u need help??(no oofencsece)

JANGLASCOMICALLY is that some galaxy somewhere in the universe

sharpwriter:
It is good for drinking garri... That's the only thing I believe about it

Try it with coconut...nice combo

matify83:
It was a fun filled childhood with you ovularia, ramota, jegede sokoya and of course natty and zebby. Not forgetting clarus and his co-worker gringory

You made us happy back then as we looked forward to every episode of the popular sitcom on NTA.

RIP Ovularia peterside

Honestly made us happy devoid of vulgarity, vanity and vainglory!
RIP to her

Dundalk:


what... That man tro too na something else..

The tros fit size my bed self! The guy cover up no skin showing except face and hands yet woman dey naked say na fashion!

ValCon888:
Tomorrow, they will insult men for sexualizing them. Meanwhile, they are the ones sexualizing themselves.

Added to that, you will soon hear her saying nobody loves her!
They never learn anyway...
The effects of too much of "exposed broad-minded" people who take liberty for license!

LocalFARMERS:
I am a farmer and I farm variety of crops. I go to farm almost everyday. Today I went to work in my Pepper farm.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUoX6SRdte8

Keep it up....there's a time to sow and a time to reap!

Good luck...

Dotinacircle:
Why can't some girls stay with one man. It shall never be well with some girls. You will do everything for them, they will still cheat!!! . Infact I'm really fed up. I can't just explain. Because this is really hurting. Government need to do something on this..

Government will now create a committee to create a ministry to handle the "stupidity of girls" abi??

We go start sending messages to the government next week...just wait

Elzazzi:


Oga stop defending these hooes. Even u fvck like horse and provide everything she wants to cheat she will go ahead and cheat. A lady that cheating is ingrained in her can't change.

Oga, where have I defended anyone? Everyone has a choice of self control or opposite!

NOETHNICITY:
Your advice is stupppid

Thanks Mr smart...

Elzazzi:


This your comment is so funny. What about women that fvck men that aren't up to the standards of their husbands?

Cheating is ingrained in some of them. It's in their DNA. That's why some even fvck their gate man lol

In this category, the performance of the substandard man in bed is well above the performance of the husband!