NewStats: 3,263,851 , 8,181,605 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 09:25 AM 1r1b24

what was the reason for ur split!

sofeco:

GBAMM, Tell him to come and apply now and get a form. It's just N2,000 only.

u dey sell form too!

used to think it was monopolised by whitelexi?

well araba1, u don hear, come for extra classes am sure they will give u live demo. lol

have u been starved!

can't be that bad!

go to a brothel!

get ur thing done there and hurry back with the gist before nl closes.

did you not read the jealous lover kills okada man?

una no go hear now, dey fight for woman up and down. mumu.

abbey,
that we are guys dont mean we will raise a blind eye to some kinda issues.

we all know what is right, some just love to contradict.

am sure by now he would realise the girl wasn't even worth his stress.

its always the aftermath.

soo many great men have paased on for the sake of women.

yet others fail to learn from past experiences of others.

dave21:

Maybe i can get an advice here.

I can’t believe this is happening to me. I’m madly in love with a girl but she has refused taking my calls. I called her “pretty” on phone and she warned me to stop I apologized and the rest of the conversation went well. Since then she has refused to take my call. No girl has ever been that blunt to me in my entire life. I won’t even ask a girl out twice. The first time she refused my call I felt she hurt my pride and decided not to call her again. She has consecutively refused my call six times now, I want to call her over and over but my brother won’t let me (He took the phone away)He feels she is stepping on my esteem. I care less about my ego now; I can’t think if am not thinking about her.

I wasn’t all that serious about this @ first but now am so confused. I love her more than anything.

Any advice, because im going insane here.

sorry but is it that she is extremely ugly, and thinks u are making a mockery of her. lolololololo

come guy, u get female boss!

no let me come research for ur office oh. lol

u wont bethe first, certainly not the last.

think and do the right thing.

if u are empty headed like @ post said, all the money in the world cant save u.

and this guys know she is all about the money, is just that they choose to decieve themselves.

the signs are clear for all to see.

am still waiting for the part that says shut up i bought your love.

sorry but am i supposed to assume that the age range u wanna sleep with?

or the number of girls u wanna have a tryst with!

whitelexi:

That statement is not true.

There will come a time when a boy becomes a man, and with his new responsibilities, all old behaviour fades.

It may not be the same for every single guy, but u need to know that some men who never cheated as youngsters start cheater after marriage. . . That is totally different from a certified playa who grows tired of the game and wants something serious for a change.

white just said it as it is.
u might have cheated in the past, but there is every possibility that u can turn the corner.

i probably have no excuse why he did it twice, but like i always say,
when u find that true love, its always diff cheating on t hem.

mostly if

well i think she should just ignore the secodn date if she doesnt feel up to it.
if he really intends on returning the money, he will find ways to do that.

but have they not been communicating since after the last date,
did he not make mention of the money in any way at all?

noetic15:

stand your grounds.


the most important thing in life is to define what u want. . .which is exactly what u have done.
u want a relationship based on mutual assurance about the future of the relationship. . .she has a workaholic mentality and is unwilling to make amends or meet with u on a neutral ground.

its not advisable to just dump her, but u should not sulk up to her either. she needs to shift grounds just like u have.
u would be sitting on a time bomb if u end up sulking up to her.

he cant stand his ground dude, the relationship is not all about him too.

have u ever considered she sees it just like he does?

wanting to have his way all the time?

dude thats who she is and u either accept her for it or move on .

as much as its never fun to havesome1 talk about her and her alone,
u have to think tru if you want to feel second place to her job or not.

moreso, she might probably change as i understand the r/s is still new.
maybe by the time she begins to have deeper feeling for u, she will ask more about ur personal life.

am also of the opinion that she though might be hanging on to her past r/s,
since u claim her to be organised and all she might not be having anything to do with him .\


onething though, a career lady is never submissive. i dont know how you see it, but is she is truely career focused
u will always come second in her scale of preference.

funny thing is u dont have to ask ur gf for her pword if u guys are dat close and trusting of each other.

u wud either know or she just has one reason or another to give it to you without asking.

are u sane!

well am not in a position to add to this discussion!


but @post, u might wanna have a rethink, cos u might be loosing out on the one person that could give u complete happiness.

@post,
am suprised u even got her attention in the first place.

shows girls would descend to any level for monetary reasons. thats if you got though.

HAS IT OCCURED TO YOU THAT RIGHT NOW ITS JUST ALL ABOUT THE Bleep.

BETTER GET OVER HIM AND MOVE ON.

IF TIS BEEN THAT LONG U GUYS SAW LAST, THERE IS NO NEED FOR U TO HOPE THAT HE MIGHT CHANGE HIS MIND SEEING YOU AGAIN.

Ujujoan:

It its no big deal then give it to him. We always make a big issue out of irrelevant things.

just what i tot exactly.
if you are clean, give him the pword.

funny my babe even knows my atm pin, and pword to anytin i do.

i trust her that much .

and thats how the cookie crumbled.
they where just a waiste of resources and effort.

all i saw on the field of play was 10midfielders and one goalkeeper.

sorry but why do they all want to hold on.
what stopped haruna from blasting a a shot.

was that not the same position oliseh took same shot against spain.

they lacked the basics, and also showed that them don too old for this tournament.

let no bagga claim ref was partial, we failed to consolidate thats all.

190,
stop giving that poor girl excuses why u wont marry her.

get ur ass settled and put her in the family way.

_{i always loved that word"family way"}

i never think of how to make money finish, now how to bulala girl.

guy u must be real stupid. sorry i said that.
orangutan like u.

the length of courtship does not automatically gaurantee a brilliant married life.

i have seen a couple who dated wonderfully for 8yrs, and the very year they got married, also got a divorce.

although dating for long grants the opportunity to know each other better,
its never a surety that it would be.

i believe if you meet some and 6months later u both think its worth the risk, then go ahead.

oh well!
depends on if we are ready for that kinda step.