NewStats: 3,265,241 , 8,186,104 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 02:57 AM r3650

They both seem smart. There’s something about smart nerdy or geeky people. Wish them all the best.

mrcrabs:


Good write up

Thank you.

She’s beautiful. Happy birthday mama.

Lapinski:
The monsters they made are hunting them... How many life's has been affected negatively by oil spillage caused by European shell, Chevron, agip, total and co? Same way the Europeans are now returning the stolen benin artifacts after making billions out of it through tourism while crashing our own tourist system? Same way european union, UN and co turn away and act as if they don't know that the guns and ammunitions used by unknown gunmen, Bokoharam are not made in Nigeria guns? Same way they act as if they don't know that the money deposited in their banks by our politicians are stolen money?... that is the same way i turn and act as if the yahoo boys are not Nigerians. Karma na your mate? Hippocratic and lunatic Nigerians brain washed with religion.

Keep using that trash to justify your wickedness. Whatever helps you sleep at night. However you try, somewhere within you, you know the truth and the harm inherent in your actions. At least you can’t lie to yourself. One bad deed does not cancel another. You cannot hold a child ransom for the sins of his great grandfather and call that justice. History is rife with man’s inhumanity to man. The present and future is about healing and moving forward. Do not use the past to justify atrocities committed to innocents in the present. There’s neither justice nor morality in this. Have a good day.

May his gentle soul Rest In Peace and the scammers be brought to justice. Poor guy.

mrcrabs:
Precum definitely entered the girl, if she was experienced she would have washed off after every round, after every round a guy is meant to pee and wash his dick, while a girl washes her vjay it's simple, you can't just have each round and feel like your pull out game is badass. Badass badass you Don give person belle. Wish you both the best sha, Happy sunday

Actually, a lady is supposed to pee after sex. This is to flush out any bacteria that may have been pushed into her urethra ( the tiny opening right above the vagina opening) out. This helps prevent UTIs -urinary tract infections-from setting in. This doesn’t prevent pregnancy. Washing the vagina is good hygiene but not a contraceptive method. Just putting it out there for anyone who needs to know. Wash your vulva ( this means the external part from the clit , labia majora and minora. Do not douche your actual vagina ( the hole leading to the reproductive organs) , pee and use actual contraceptives. Condoms, pills, plan b, arm implants, iud and other means are reliable to one extent or the other. Health centers have most of them at very affordable prices.

Hathor5:


You sound like a pedophile, seriously!

To say his comment is disturbing is quite the understatement. His mind never went to the pain such a child must feel, not even the trauma such that some develop severe issues later on. I cringe at some of the comments made by men on this site, men who are actual human beings and I wonder what system of upbringing or education failed them. To be alive at a time when every knowledge is just a click away and then willfully remain ignorant must be quite tasking indeed. I’m worried about the breed of men Nigerian ladies are exposed to and the women who will marry such men in future. Thankfully, this is a case of empty drums making the loudest noise. The men I’ve met are actually sensible and make better choices.

siofra:


I'm not talking about the book. I want to the book club.

Oh. Ok.

siofra:


I can't scan it.
Please post a link.

Open Google. Type “animal farm free “ and use any of the links.
Here https://www.globalgreyebooks.com/ebooks1/george-orwell/animal-farm/animal-farm.pdf

Climate change and g global warming slowly but surely wrecking its havoc. For people planning to have plenty kids now, better reduce the number as the world they will meet won’t be as easy (not that it’s even easy now) as it now. More competition for dwindling resources ahead.

Percy0006:
I will be glad if this post get to the front page, i really dont know if this is normal, i don’t know what depression is but this has been happening to me for so long now, i do have this mood swing which i am not comfortable with some minute I’ll be happy the other minute I wouldn’t know what will take this happiness away and when this hapens i feel like just letting everybody leave me or i rather find a quiet place to sit or just wanna be alone, i got married a month ago cause i feel whenever this happens if i see her i will be happy again but it aint working, i get tired of everything whenever it happens and if my wife notice and ask I wouldn’t be able to say this is what is happening i am really tired of this.. my wife is even thinking maybe she’s not making me happy but i swear she’s the best thing that ever happened to me, i am always scared whenever this happens please help me on what to do? Please i need help

Hey op, I’m just like you. Started when I was a teen and it would last weeks. Now as an adult, it lasts at most half a day. I can get triggered by someone else’s mood and then I’d feel quite blue till hours later or the next day. Especially if someone I care about is sad, angry, having a bad day and I feel helpless or responsible. The worst part is not the mood for me. It’s the thoughts that I keep ruminating on. Frankly I think it’s connected to ocd. Often people think it’s about being clean when it’s more about anxiety and intrusive thoughts (Google pure ‘o’). What has helped me is reading Stanley Rosenberg book “accessing the healing power of the vagus nerve". The exercises are basic and are designed to get you to engage the sensory nerves and let your brain know that it’s ok, it moves you from flight, freeze or fight state to a more engaged relaxed state. Sometimes your mood swings are caused by emotions or trauma stored in the body. It’s not just when your life is physically threatened that you get traumatized. Sometimes chronic stress, repressed emotions etc get stored and eventually affect the body. There’s a whole branch of medicine that deals with how our mind and its state affect our physical health eg psychoneuroimmunoendocrinology, etc. if you are not like me and do not enjoy reading medical books for fun ( it does get technical in the book above), Google Rosenberg basic exercise (takes two minutes max and relaxes me), the polyvagal theory, vagus nerve exercise and even somatic meditation. Check all these on YouTube instead for visual learning and excellent demonstration. Somatic meditation can be done for less than fifteen minutes and just helps shift your awareness from your ruminating thoughts to the sensation in your body. Honestly there’s a lot of tools out there. Mind you, the goal is not to eliminate it but to be able to manage it. To feel it, process it and let go without attaching to the mood swings. Now it lasts below three hours for me and doesn’t come For a month or more. In time I expect it will be gone completely. You may not know why but your body does, let it through. From experience when I let myself get talked into feeling shame and guilt and then suppress the moods, lol , the day I don’t have the strength to suppress it is the day the Tiger awakens. The mood then lasts for days! I learnt the hard way when I suddenly bursted into tears at work at no provocation in 2019. lol. All the best to you as you learn how to work through your emotions. I can recommend a few more books if you’d like like Dr Gabor Mate “ when the body says no” which is riveting.

Slurity:
I was accused of stealing #50 when I was a child, continuous beatings for days running to weeks without stop until I confessed to stealing the money and my dad bought new razor blade to give me mark at my back which makes the story unforgettable till today, I have to remind my father that I did not steal the money again after over 18years. The second one is even with a witness that insists he saw me stealing meat from the pot, any allegation that never happens and my parents believed my step brother and not me. I almost shed tears writing all these because it's hurt to the bone. It is better you don't marry at all than to have children from different women because you are only preparing a potential hard life from those children and also yourself.

Sending you hugs and healing from the trauma. I hope sharing this story and allowing yourself feel the emotions again releases any trapped pain and let’s healing begin.

BlackLaw:
I when I just started school, we were taught a punishment where you hold someone's leg and they hold your's - with the both of you standing until one of you falls. The person who falls first, takes the flogging.
Well, when I got home that day, I called a girl (let's call her Rose) aside and tried the punishment with her. Less than 2 seconds after I grabbed her leg, she started crying and before you could say Jack, I was surrounded by her family.
To this day, I don't know how the story quickly turned to that I was trying to rape the girl. Omo those guys beat me silly, strip me naked and were parading me round the area until they were intercepted by my people.
The experience scarred me for life, from then to this day, I don't play with or around girls. Girlfriend sef I don't have.
I was just 5 years old.

That was effed up what they did to you. I’m sorry. The little child you were didn’t deserve that.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar.

Thank God ain't no head master

And the funny thing is that it seems that cunnilingus(sucking of vagina) takes women to cloud 9 more than the normal thrusting in and out with our penis(coitus)

Actually what you suck is the clit. The secretions doesn’t come from the clit but the vagina opening, you know where the penis goes in. At any rate, you have nothing to fear by engaging in MouthAction if you both practice simple good hygiene. Have fun! MouthAction is awesome for both males and females.