NewStats: 3,265,275 , 8,186,209 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 08:06 AM 5i4ve

You are good. I like 👍😍

yolada:
私は彼女を知りませんが、彼女は美しいです

彼女は可愛くて才能のある女性です

Isn't opera mini one that starts spamming your notification with irritating blog post ads like "man kills himself after seeing this shocking thing, click to see it "? I hate those ads.

Klass99:


Stale and obsolete questions that make no sense to me. The idea that I have to create another human being from out of my womb for the sake of happiness or my old age has NEVER resonated with me. I don't do things that don't resonate with me in my heart and soul, because others are doing it.

I find joy, happiness and pleasure with other human beings who already exist as my family, friends, neighbours and coworkers. Then I live one day at a time and in the moment, making the most of my life because I am not guaranteed tomorrow or 2024 sef. My latter years and old age will take care of themselves, if or when I get there, I'm not going to stress over it but I will also plan towards it.

I hope to have a legacy like Oprah Winfrey's - simply touching lives and doing the good I can, where I can. Will children take me to heaven? If yes, let me hurry now and have one or two, because heaven is an end goal for me as well.

Everything you’ve said resonates with me strongly. Childfree, married and loving every bit of that childfree life. Got my tubes tied before I met my husband. He got a vasectomy before e we started dating. I wouldn’t trade this for the one people term normal or traditional. My old age? My God has already perfected it. I’m also doing what I can to plan for it on my part.

I want to be that wealthy auntie that sponsors my nieces and nephews to school. The kind that sponsors random kids from really impoverished families to the highest education levels. Honestly, I have so much I dream of doing, dreams conceived during my time as a teacher in “poor” schools and I know that having my own kids would be a distraction. I have other reasons for being child-free but I don’t think I can distill them all in one post.

I’ve learned that you can’t explain these things to people, those who get it get it. Some are born eunuchs, made eunuchs, etc likewise some are called to motherhood, some are made moms by conditions, and so on. Thankfully heaven is accessible to both mothers and non-mothers. And truth be told, most of us in Africa are already parents only we are parents to people we did not birth ourselves. I raised my own siblings, I filled in that mother role with my mom gone for months at a time. She had to travel for businesses a lot and that woman worked like a man to see us through school. I’m talking being on trailers with goods, sleeping in parks to catch the earliest bus in strange states rather than a hotel, selling off in one place and traveling to another from that side. Lost her last two years and it still hurts. She was pretty smart in school but her dad didn’t let her go to secondary school. She was married off at 16. Had three children within six years and lost her husband a day before she birthed the last of us. She had little chance to make it. I knew I needed a life different from hers.

I loved her but my prayer point was God don’t let me end up like this. Let me be single and happy instead. God really does love me because my life is far better than I dared to dream. Married, childfree, thriving and I’m forever grateful.

Why does this look like a thinly veiled ad for those sites? You spent more time telling others where to find violent porn including the niche available than anything else? Ewww 🤮

If you are sincere, I wish you well. Also edit your previous posts and remove those sites, actresses and other details that may make it easier for others to find the same thing. You might even use them when you relapse.

Tomorrow at 7am, the NSPPD morning prayers on YouTube. Just type "nsppd live now" and . Let's see if you don't get a testimony in a week.

BettingScam:
woow long overdue 😂😭🙏🙌💩😅🖕💀💔💯🤣☠️🙄😞😔❤️😡🤐⚪🟤👍🚀🐐💰🚶❌👏

Fingers crossed 🤞 he’s gets around to fixing the other issues that plague this forum and maybe build a decent app for it too.

It's good that people are offering help but there's also one ☝️ more thing. A kind person should help talk to the man about vasectomy. He should also be taught proper sex education other wise he's going to get her pregnant 🤰 again Before the six months period for the sperm test after the vasectomy.

Men can also take the step of being responsible For family planning, especially in this case when his wife has a negative reaction to it. Truth be told, it's actually easier and safer for him than for her. He can still enjoy sex but won't get her knocked up again. Win-win for them. Plus it's a 30-minute outpatient procedure.

@eriMma1,
Your feelings are valid. It's ok to have these unsettling feelings. Marriage is a life-altering step and your concerns show that you understand the gravity of a weighty step like this. But I'll tell you what my favorite pastor usually says that gives me courage, "What you're afraid of will not happen. " Now it's you turn to say amen 🙏☺️
Acknowledge your fears, build a friendship with the young man, and communicate honestly with him. You would like not to be saddled with all the physical and emotional work in your marriage, you'd like a partner that shares the burden and not one that shirks it. The women who have husbands that help out with chores, and babysit while their wives are busy, they're so blessed, especially in this part of the world. That you want a ive husband and not a domineering husband is a good choice. Rather than dwell in fear, communicate and you might be pleasantly surprised as you come to know each other more. Don't forget prayers 🤲 too. You don't want to get it wrong 😑.

If you're willing to try, be vulnerable and communicate honestly, you will get a lot of things right. If it doesn't work out, at least you tried. If he's right for you, it'd be a shame to miss out because of fear built in the constant loop of negative stories in the media.

fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NifQIXYmfJA

Some Muslims in the Turkish city of Mardin share roses to Christians in Church (in reaction to the burning of the Quran).

"As Muslims, we thought about how could we respond to the incident in Sweden yesterday. We decided to follow our Prophet Muhammad. Today, we will visit churches and respond to the incident according to Muslim values. We will distribute roses to them,” (One of the participants said).

Okay. This got me. Here you have the Muslims acting Christlike and displaying brotherly love ❤️🙏🫡✊🏽 #respect
The Swedish politicians are very wrong 😑 for such provocative actions. 💯

🙃🙂😟 did Seun update NL? I thought most emojis didn't work?
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For achillesheels,
More pictures and sources.

https://people.com/politics/rep-frederica-wilson-speaks-about-being-forced-to-carry-my-dead-baby-after-house-es-anti-abortion-bill/

A lot can happen when the body doesn't naturally abort the dead fetus. I pray no woman goes through that horrible experience.

achillesfoot:
Lies... No baby can decay in the womb.. Once a baby dies, the body automatically induces labor.. It's called a still birth...

Your ignorance is shocking! Less than two weeks ago, a popular American politician shared her own trauma of having her dead fetus rot inside her because of the anti abortion law. In her case, she wasn't trying to eliminate a living child. It was a dead fetus that was already decaying. She was forced to wait till nine months. Sepsis occurred and she went into shock. Almost lost her life. You're a male yet you're loudly proclaiming your ignorance. It's called maceration when the body doesn't expel it naturally. Different people, different bodies. Learn to ask questions before you declare that there can be only one way a thing happens.

Preciousgirl:
I am highly convinced that my boss is interested in me
I can't imagine that my boss left his office yesterday to my office and sat before me. He was jittery all through his convo with me and it wasn't work related. He told me he has a surprise gift for me

Is this also not a clear sign?
Also, as a married woman, can I accept his gift?

Thank u

Let me pretend to believe this story. If your instincts are warning that he has amorous intentions toward you, then you better be careful with him. Don't accept any Greek gifts from him. It will undermine you and your acceptance of such gifts will mean complicit agreement towards his advances. I believe in all your years as a female, you must have learned from childhood to be careful about collecting gifts from men, especially those who you have no intention of dating.

Also if you're asking this kind of question, I'm worried about your maturity and your marriage. Learn to know how to set boundaries with such men and it starts from not taking their gifts. Also start making it hard for him to come stay with you in the office when there is no one else around so he has less time to spew nonsense to you. Have a good night.

olamoses75:
your suspicions about her was right. She has options. You’re not the only man in her life, true be told. No sensible woman who has no other man somewhere will pack out of her husband house like that. A reasonable woman will come back from her trip, knee and beg for reconciliation. Just move on with your life already and start planning on how you can take custody of your son through legal means. Don’t make the mistake of taking her back, otherwise she’ll keep blackmailing you emotionally because she knows you love her too much. That’s one of the disadvantages of showing how much you love a woman to her face. Women get bored of such easily.

May the woman you end up with match your description and belief of women. I won't add your daughters and sisters to it because you're the one responsible for your own choices. Say amen. When you have any encounter with any woman, business or otherwise, May their actions towards you match this your picture of who women are. Same goes for all the deluded fellows who make women out to be this monolith of one personality instead of humans with varying personalities and truths. Amen and amen. Have a good weekend.

As for me, I’ve been blessed beyond normal. Both the men and the women in my life are blessings.

Love this kind of content. More wins to her.

pocohantas:


Lmao!!! On this our own Nairaland?

Yes! He made a Twitter and was introducing his merch. It all clicked for me that day. Another business tactic. But many minds will be poisoned /shrugs

Ishilove:

They are scum and replying them makes me feed dirty. Like, really dirty

Many times I look at this through a different lens. This whole trend seems to me to be another sign of the end times as pastor righteousness would say. Devil knows that if he can destroy the fabric of the family, he's destroyed the society. Today there seems to be too many factors fighting against the very fabric of society is family economically, and other wise. His jobs gets easier if men and women are busy hating and fighting each other rather than focusing on God. I was reading a book, the final quest by Rick Joyner, and suddenly a lot of things made sense.

Don't let these kind of people get to you. Their toxicity often feels draining and can dampen your spirits. Once you understand that the spirit of the end times is operating in them, their vitriol loses its power.

GloriousGbola:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0skGBMxAmWU

Your friendly neighbourhood red piller is either

1) playing for the other team
2) a fraud/troll doing it for the lulz or
3) a hustler selling Red pill merch to suckers

This! All of this! I have pointed it out before that these famous redpillers are making money off the controversy. Andrew Tate was a former kickboxer and when that career died, invented another as a social media influencer catering to a niche audience of misogynistic men. Even gidiredpill tried to sell merch like books and stuff here after racking up quite the following. These are people that understand how the social media world works and knows the value of controversy and they don't mind corrupting the minds of the gullible while making bank.

At the end of the day, each person is responsible for what they allow into their psyche. One way or another, life will teach everyone to filter the illusion from reality. Unfortunately many will learn the hard way and the red pills of the world will feed off their innate hatred. Those being deceived are those who already have those hateful Feelings in them waiting for expression.

LadyRosa:


I really don't think your belief is wrong.
People are wired differently, I saw your post and how you' were condemned. I did not want to counter them because many Nigerians have very archaic reasoning.

I have seen many foreign couples with this idea ...
Loving something and watching it die must be the most painful thing on earth.
My greatest fear is losing a loved.I think it is better they never existed in the first place.Maybe if I never existed as well, as what I don't know doesn't hurt.

Well, you have a like mind here.
There are thousands of homeless kids waiting to be adopted.Why struggle to birth?Or see not birthing as an impediment to blissful Marriage?

They're Nigerians who are childfree. We just don't talk about it on this forum as this place is saturated by incels. I and my spouse are both cf Nigerians. I've met a few others too. This forum is not a good place to discuss deep things so you won't find many folks with divergent views here.

I find I can't sleep when my spouse is not around but would fall asleep in minutes otherwise. That feel of my loved one's skin helps me drift off faster. Plus I love their natural body scent too. Can't get enough of it.

WhatCanIsay:


Even North Korea has her charms for a visitor.

But not to the level of whitewashing going on in Nairaland and other parts of Africa of recent. Within a year, more than 500,000 persons ran away from Russia, why

As of now banks are finding it hard to disburse cash... Check documented files on the level of abuse many black sportsmen encountered there.

No country is perfect, but selling Russia as the new black man's paradise is short of being laughable! I believe those guys are paid for those propaganda

North Korea too? lol. On a serious note though, I get what you mean. Let's just watch and see where this all leads to.

WhatCanIsay:
Softening stage of propaganda

Be ready to see more of this kind of posts in Nairaland within a 2 months time.

One will tell you how Putin called him lovingly and confessed his love for Nigeria and Nigerians.

Some people wey no de reason well go de buy the gist hook, line and sinker.

Lol una never see propaganda in action... welcome

You get it. If they can get just half of the number of Nigerians flocking to UK yearly, it will be an economic boon. I think I'd love to visit Russia someday but simply because I love the idea of exploring a different part of the world. This sudden posts about an idyllic Russia is not it. Every country has its beauty and its challenges. Whomever wants to school in Russia will do well to make their research properly and if they like it, why not? I bet Russia has its charms too like the rest of the world.

Please go to hospital. Also search for nsppd prayer in Monday to Friday on YouTube and . She's going to be alright.


I saw some negative comments here. It's comments like those that make people hide things when they should be seeking help. I once knew a young girl that picked up a toilet infection from their compound toilet and was too ashamed to say anything for a long time for fear of how people would react. Thankfully she's alright now. I wish your sister a speedy recovery too. Please don't delay seeing a doctor. Don't forget prayers � too.

Calvary247:
I pity the woman

It was a publicity stunt for Shiloh 2022. I was at the Mtn Kasoa office and actually saw it.

Okoroawusa:
Skit

Don't mind the sniveling liar of an op. People who do nothing but rejoice at whatever evil they see and dream of the fabric of society being destroyed. There and those after them will sha have to live on this world filled with the flames of hatred they've been stoking. Let's see how they like it for their children after them.

This happened in Kasoa Ghana yesterday and this op is a terrible liar. It was a publicity stunt by the group advertising the 2022 Shiloh scheduled to hold soon. They handed out fliers inviting the public to the event. I think a live-streaming of it. I still have the flyer somewhere in my room. THIS WAS A PUBLICITY STUNT FOR A CHURCH EVENT.

worried222:

Nothing like respect for the dead! An shawl.0 is an ashaw.0 whether she be dead or alive.

That’s the bitter truth..

Everyone’s deserving of respect.

So the problem is with the shoulders showing? Only the shoulders are showing in that pictures up there. After the guys at that school so weak that shoulders weaken their morality?

Why do I feel sad that none of our local breeds were there? Why do people underestimate the intelligence of the African basanji ❓ All the dogs there look beautiful �