NewStats: 3,263,941 , 8,181,984 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 09:26 PM i4311

Lmao when we were 19 my best friend told me of like 10 guys that she had bleeped. Then the one night stands. Abeg it's normal now. Just be protected.

LuckyKeys1:
omg! this dude might run mental in years to come

Yes. I think you the old case of a guy that had a rod go through his skull too(I think it was in the 19th or early 20th century, I can't the case clearly) And later started displaying some symptoms of mental Illness because a portion of his brain was affected. It's very likely this individual will suffer such too. It would be best if he's kept under constant observation to reduce the risk to himself and others if such arises.

daddytime:
This is nothing short of a miracle and to think that this dude most likely worships a cow or a Buddhist image gives much to ponder on.

The question now becomes "my dear fellow religious fanatics, to what god do we attribute this apparent miracle "?

Exactly what came to mind. Some comments in here saying it's by the grace of God he survived. Like if this God or gods cared so much, why let it happen in the first place?

Paulpaulpaul:
Nonsense, if a SARS officer had asked him to change his seat won't he do just that? So, the priest has become his mate. Children that lack home training would be taught in a hardway outside

Alaye church is not school. You can't worship god when you're not comfortable. Is it by force to sit in front?

Avedonn:
The guy is good, just that he's going through a bad time.

Zidan should motivate and give him more playing time.

Lmao. We all know Zidane would never pick courtouis over navas. Navas is better than him.

Fathertony:
No commerce, no ing
What's biology and chemistry doing there ?
What do you need geography for?
I need the address of your career counselor.....he/she deserves to be arrested and jailed for one year

He was actually a science student back in school. But due to some things he didn't go to school immediately. We finished in 2015. But now he doesn't want to do any science based course. So I guess he'll have to retake waec with commerce yeah?

So a friend that graduated from sec school a couple of years back has this subject combination anf wants to know it it's okay for business istration or if he'll have to write again

Maths
Physics
Biology
Chemistry
English
Literature
Geography
Economics

Is it okay for business istration or does he have to rewrite?

Bighead9:



Where do the girls Northerners bleep in the North, are they not your Igbo sisters? Like someone said up there. Most of those HIV carriers in Akwa Ibom are your Igbo sisters. So, deal with it.

Smh. Read what I wrote, I was not being tribalistic, I was just stating the reality. Up north the rate of paedophilism, rape, unprotected sex and the likes is high. Lack of education and healthcare facilities is the reason. I did not refute the fact that these numbers are true or that there is high prevalence of stds in aks, I'm just saying that the true numbers in the north are higher in reality.

Tbh I doubt this. Less percentage of people get tested in the north than in the south. That's why these figures are false. In the north the just Bleep, no one tests after so they're Living with it and they don't know. This is just testimony to the fact that there's better health care facilities and test opportunities in the south than in the north

All these people wey nor fit mind their business. Shey them go fit advice everybody for ftreet if them go Yankee? If you nor like am, omor twist your eye comor that corner, abi wetin Dr carry your eye reach there if you nor like am. He even take picture without consent. Naija people sha, everything too concern them.

Gaspardd:

Pessimist. I am always in favour of love cus its a beautiful thing.

Baba, na pikin she be. Enough grown up girls dey around. Secondary school girls will always want to throw themselves at older 20 something year olds, landlords and neighbors kids will want to throw themselves at older guys, but once gbege enter, nobody will care if they are they ones that made moves or three themselves at you. Make you control your prick carry am go outside go find babe wey be your age o.

NtoAkwaIbom:
I was there.
The thing is, PDP have done their own.
All those currently in the PDP, Akpabio took them there.
They have decided to stab the very person that took them off the street to the corridors of power, they have biten the fingers that fed them.

Saturday will be the revenge, Akpabio knows its a do or die politically, and from what i have seen... It wont be funny, it will be bloody, with both camp desperate to consolidate power or be driven to political irrelevance

I just wish we could do away with this kind of politics. But it is what it is. I'll just advice people to stay at home on Saturday. This game you political fanatics are playing is certainly not worth dying for.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Yes u are right. I'm sure she has learnt her lessons

I hope so too. Little things done without good reason make it hard to trust the person doing it.

dumo1:

Your mum ehn!! 3 gbosa to that woman

Lmao. My number one she de talk o

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well, honesty is the best policy. But are you telling us your boyfriend doesn't take good care of u enough that you had to go meet up a man for food? Even his temerity asking for sex in such manner says a lot.

But she sef works, was it necessary for her to go to the other guy just cos she was hungry? knowing very well that she's already in a relationship and that this other guy wants to have her. I think she should've just bought herself food that she could afford. Even if it's at mama put, going out with the guy wasn't necessary imo.

henriettttta:
Maybe she didn't really like you
That's why I don't like behaving too friendly with boys
They always mistake a girls friendliness for green light

But then you people still use the same friendliness as green light. How do you want us to know which one is casual friendliness and which one is green light friendliness. Later you'll say the guy is not responding to your advances.

Lol. That's how I asked one of our family friends daughters out. So she came to the house alone. We now entered my room. Come see my people nau. It's that time momsi ed that she did not tell the housegirl to come and wash my ceiling. The girl now stayed till like past 7. Momsi was now like when is she going, I don't want someone's child to go missing. Come and tell her that it's too late. I didn't even send them, momsi now came into my room and told the girl that it's late that she should start going. When she finally left around 8pm, momsi and all the available family started asking, what was she looking for, don't take girls into your room again. I was now like Shuuu, I've been bringing guys into my room, non of you have been suspecting that I'm gay, just bring one girl over, and it's not like you people don't know her sef. The thing SHA pain me eh.

Another time, my babe then came to visit me, I just had to tell my big cousin to say he's the one that brought her over cos my mom came back early.

Then another time mom saw me on the road holding hands with a girl. I don't even know how she reached there cos the place was far. I was just walking romantically, next thing, momsi now shouted my name from her car and was like, when are you coming home, better come back early o this one that it's like you've found wife, ABI you have your own family house in this area let me know if I will bring your things for you.

I don't know it's mothers that do the most, be acting like someone wants to snatch their husbands l from them.

starstaz:


l like this topic. My parents countenance and suspicion changes when I clocked 16yrs ( More than two decades ago) partly based on the local experience and will vow to Let me go and form my own family should I impregnate any girl. The keyword is don't get close to girls. This later affected my social interaction with Ladies in my post formative years in d University.
Later years , they were complaining again that all my visitors are Men and the next question is are u not going to settle down and form your own family. I ask have u guys raised the embargo not to get close!

Yeah. They don't understand that your interactions with the opposite sex in your formative years are what will make or mar your ability to understand and interact with them when you're older. You can't just wake up one day after not being allowed to talk to girls and expect someone to flow with them, especially given the fact that they're complicated creatures.

Same mindset I have, not necessarily about the duration. But I dónt see the point in dating if you can't mentally picture yourself spending the rest of your life with the person. You'll later say you want to have fun, either you make I clear that it's fun you want to have and then both of you agree or you go to amusement park and have fun. Don't ask someone's daughter or son out and later say you didn't plan to marry them. If somewhere along the line you notice some characteristics you don't find pleasing, let them know and cut if 9ff immediately if they're unwilling to change.

WilliamsChelster:
Cute or not?
Modified: See the difference between before the last tattoos

Nice tats. Would've looked way better if you lifted weights. I'm working on that myself and I think I'll get a few tats some time in the not too far future

dairykidd:
Op she's an emotional vampire.. These ones feed off your emotions till u feel drained and useless... Run away from her

And they have a way of manipulating your blindness so that you feel like they're always there for you. It's just extreme manipulation

Nacoss25:
i have tried moving on several times it have been difficult because i love her so much not to be my girl friend but a wife. i stoped calling her between 2nd to 22 of this month i even deleted her phone no , the day i accidentally ran into her in the market, if you see the expression in her eyes reads many things: i have missed you, is unfair not calling. many meanings that made me regret not calling. do u know i started apologizing for not calling since they was no other means to get her from a 3rd party, i even confessed that i deleting her that she should forgive me and send me her again of which she did. and now am fedup again and this will for real.

Bro I totally understand, they just want the attention and not you. Delete her number again. And next time if you run into her again just clearly state your mind and make sure she understands that your attention is not for her. Even if she promises to do better, don't fall for it, cos it'll just be the same thing again.

Nacoss25:
brother, your situation describe100% the situation am into currently into, infact i just announced to her today that i have move on. below is the good bye message i sent to her

Bro don't worry. We'll meet people who will love us back and even extra. Don't look back, just zero your mind that she's not the one.

OneSentence:
I experienced this same thing too. but when you get over it it's awesome

Bro I swear. You feel some kind of freedom that you can't explain

I was really in love with this girl. Went on for some time and it was one sided. And she knew how I felt and knew it was real. But then I decided to move on and I stopped calling her sweet names, romantic notes stopped, and all those things. Suddenly she called me that she missed me, missed my notes and that she developed feelings for me at a point. Now this wasn't the first time. I tried to move on twice before but she'd do the same thing and my feelings would come back, just that this time I was determined and I knew what she was trying to do.


I'm just wondering, why is it that girls won't reciprocate your efforts and feelings but then they feel offended when you leave. It's annoying and tbh I just feel so angry now when I think of her, and I'm sure I feel a bit of hate underneath too for her.

futurist369:
don't let your past determine your perception about girls.just because one messed with you emotionally doesn't mean others are the same.. Now when you see a girl coming close to you, your past impression that Has been stored in your subconscious would resurface and you will start suspecting her..... I've said my own sha

I know. But it's not just that I'm scared of getting hurt. I don't want to put someone else through that type of pain. I'm scared that I'd get into something just because I want to prove to myself that I can. Then after that, what next. What if I discover that I don't really love them the way they love me. Or what if my interest dies. It's just both ways. In as much as I don't want to get hurt, I don't want to be the one to cause pain to someone else too. Idk how it works up here but my mind is really screwed up. I just want to be by myself and heal completely first, I don't want to just take the pain of my past and heap it on someone else. It wouldn't be fair.

Yeah. Sucks. We'd been close for years, I loved her for years but we couldn't date cos of distance, or at least that's what I tell myself. I really don't know if she ever felt the same way but what I do know is that she is manipulative.

She kept lying to me about the people she was dating, she'd say they were just friends, or she'd say he asked her out and she said no. But she'd still run to me for comfort whenever they broke her heart. And it broke mine to see her that way.

And I hated her too, cos she wouldn't let me move on. Each time I'd stop feeling something, I'd stop calling and hitting her up, I'd start dating and then she'd send voice notes detailing how jealous she was, how much she missed the feelings and the attention. I was confused and naive because honestly she was my first love and I felt maybe there was something. And in my confusion, those feelings would resurface. Tbh this girl screwed me up emotionally, I still haven't healed from it.

There were times I told her I loved her and she'd say she just couldn't say it to anyone, then this last guy broke her heart and she came to cry to me that she loved him and stuff and that she missed how they used to tell each other that they loved each other. It was then I realised my real position, I was the good guy she was using to feel good about herself. It wasn't that she couldn't love, it was that she couldn't love ME. And that revelation really set me straight, at least I'm really close to healing totally.

It's messed up how a 16 year old kid starts talking to someone, and then the person makes him feel so safe and suddenly, even when he really doesn't know what love is, he recognises it. And it's messed up how that same person would hurt him so much. It starts from simple things like trust and openness. And suddenly you can't get someone out of your mind.

Now I just prefer to be alone because I can't risk letting anyone in, I can't risk them hurting me. I get so scared when I realise I'm beginning to see someone as more than a friend, and like that, I just push them away. I realise I'm hurting them too, but I guess life is really about taking care of yourself first. I have more important things to think about.

So that's the story of the girl I loved and couldn't be with.

Darivie04:


If you're not doing well in school then your not focusing enough on your studies, there's no magic or long story. People give people that do well in school names like genius, intelligent, brilliant and make it seem like they have some inate ability, and true it might actually make you feel better to think that everyone that does well in school has some gift but that would just be lies.

Hardwork is the key and there's no two ways about it. There might be deeper problems you might be having tho...

I know. I'm not focusing well in school. I started out well but my attention slipped. I went through some things and things started falling apart. I just recently was able to deal with those things, my depression and stuff. And that's when I really looked back at my academics and I just fell right back into depression cos I realised that it was bad. Now I'm just mostly depressed about school. I want to put in the work now but I'm scared that I'll slip up again and everything will be over.

It's scary how seemingly little things like this will define your whole future you know. Slipping up in school for a semester or two, and suddenly you realise you might never get a good job and suddenly the whole future you planned before entering university just disappears. it's really depressing.

makydebbie:
You won't find them here.
Bloody hypocrites.

Everybody is a modafn hypocrite o.
Las las we'll all be okay

I've been depressed for at least 5 years now, since I was 15 or 16 I think, I have to it suicidal thoughts haven't been much, I've played with the idea in my mind many times but I've never tried it. I don't know I let myself go and stopped concentrating in school, I used to be intelligent enough in high school, but now I'm battling 18 carryovers in one semester, I don't even know what awaits me in the next semester. I don't even know if I should just drop out or try harder. I still possibly have 4 years to try, but I don't know if I can. My parents won't be happy about it. I feel really disappointed in myself. I know I can try, but after at least 30 carryovers, what's the best that can happen, how well can I bounce back, will I be able to cover those in 2 extra years?. And will I ever be able to get my mind together too. Just a lot of things I can't say here too. I'm a mess honestly.