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yomi007k:

But are they not all together in Benin?

Wat abt ur mum? aged,in the village wt our youngest female sibling

imas:
Get a relative to stay and take care of your wife, preferably a mother, then move to Enugu, at the same time try and start your business as fast as you can for security purpose.

NiRfreak:
Reduce your wailing and face the situation headlong as a man. Since she's not through with her service....why not go to Enugu and plan against next year April when she will put to bed. Before then u would have been more stable and might even relocate her with you. You guys need endurance and understanding of your critical condition.

Bros,its not easy,i used to talk like this when am a bachelor bt i now understand hw it feels. She's 5 months pregnant wt a 17 months old baby,leaving her alone,God it wl be a terrible situation for me.

yomi007k:
The situation isn't all bad afterall.


But I think u need to do some planning n have a budget.

I won't suggest u quit ur job before they fire u. Who knows wat d new business has to offer.

If u have a female sibling or someone that can be assisting ur wife once in a while, that won't be a bad idea.

All d best.

The female sibling i hv is wt my mum,she's schooling.

I got married two years ago with a kid and the one in the womb we are expecting by February next year. My wife is doing her NYSC presently and will be free around April next year.
I work in a company which i started working before getting married and i hv some savings.The condition of my job is no longer comfortable to me due to constant threat of sack and incessant sacking of workers. We work so hard that many a times i got so weak after work and it affects my conjugal union with my wife due to tiredness. My monthly salary is 100k but before the months end i will be left wt nothing considering other extended expenses as taking care of my aged parents and younger siblings.If you ask me i will choose to leave the job if i find a better alternative that will maximize my income and job satisfaction but where is the job!.
Presently,i have started learning a job that i started 4 months ago hoping to start mine by January next year. At startment,i may not be getting enough(50% lower) but with time and determination i can make 50 to 100% and above of my present salary.
Now comes my worries,i have been transferred to another state by my company. I work in Benin but have been transferred to Enugu. What should i do now considering that my wife is still doing her service and pregnant too. I used to assist her a lot due to her condition and leaving her alone in Benin while i would be in Enugu alone at this early stage of our marriage is not a good idea to me.
We would hv relocated to Enugu together but her NYSC is the bottleneck.
Pls i need any good advice on the step to follow that i wont regret or if u have experienced that b4,let me know how you solved it and get satisfied.