NewStats: 3,261,458 , 8,174,079 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 10:50 AM 1q3z4n

peterincredible:
it is about uniting the western igbos in Edo and delta with there kits and kins in the south eastern part that will be a great move in bringing the igbos together

Where are Ibos in Edo?

Kobojunkie:
Wanting to talk to him about men means you are uncomfortable or concerned about his choice.... You don't like it. I suggest instead you find yourself better friends or learn to mind your own business.

At this point I have to let you be!!
Have a nice day

Kobojunkie:
Mind your own business! 🙄🙄🙄

If you don't like the choices he makes, then you can disown him as a friend and find yourself better friends, abeg!

Ok thank you for your time. Though I never said I don't like his choice. The concern was is it ok to talk to him about it and be sure he has find a solution or I should just ignore..

With what everyone has said so far, I have gotten the message..

Again thanks for your time...

Starboytwo:
You can always outsource if your mind no dey.

Now I know for a certain. Normal people for this country no reach 10.. lol

bestman09:
@op, mind your business.

Your said friend didn't complain to you but casually told you a secret and it has been paining you for over 3 years, whereas the person involved has gradually adjusted to like his girl as she is. If it is a problem to the said guy, he should have disengaged the lady since then but as it is, it seems the guy is enjoying the high libido and you are here taking paracetamol on someone's headache.

That one has high libido doesn't make them wayward. (A wayward person will be a wayward person, whether high libido or not).
Just mind your business and be happy for your friend and stop wishing that their union will fall apart.

You might have missed something.
My enquiry was "is it ok for me to approach him and discuss it with him"? Or i should just ignore?.


Where in my write up did I describe anybody involved as wayward?.

meobizy:

1. You never said marrying others is wrong. Hands off from your man’s matter. Don’t be a hypocrite.

2. Nairaland qualifies as social media. There are many fools here who copy Nairaland stories to their social media s for engagement. Unless your man lives off grid, he will likely come across the story online or as a radio discussion. You don’t know if he or the female have Nairaland s. Them go just dey laugh you right now.

3. He is not your brother. You have a selfish motive behind this.

4. Once again, you can’t even stick to something which you started off with a conclusion. I dey fold arms watch you.



On one hand, you claim Nairaland is private and no one knows you here. On another hand, you claim questions asked are too private? Are you here for help or just ready to waste our time? I’m beginning to regret indulging in the first place. Something smells out of place.

So because no one knows me here I should start discussing my intimate moments with my partner with you??

bestman09:
@op, mind your business.

Your said friend didn't complain to you but casually told you a secret and it has been paining you for over 3 years, whereas the person involved has gradually adjusted to like his girl as she is. If it is a problem to the said guy, he should have disengaged the lady since then but as it is, it seems the guy is enjoying the high libido and you are here taking paracetamol on someone's headache.

That one has high libido doesn't make them wayward. (A wayward person will be a wayward person, whether high libido or not).
Just mind your business and be happy for your friend and stop wishing that their union will fall apart.

God!!! Where in my write up did it suggest that I'm wishing that the union falls apart please?

illicit:
Why do people always poke nose into other people's life, sexual life o...

👀

I understand your point but technically I am not poking like you claim if you look at it from another angle.

I wish he never told me that before now.. by now I will be gladly getting ready for best man duty..

Mopeola:
There will be a problem in the future and for the fact he knows this is a red flag but I would mind if you can still recall how he will be able to handle that aspect in a respectful way and any other things should be kept to yourself

Thank u

kenn4rill:
Bro are you married? If you are how is your own wife's lilido? For the fact that you are showing much concern reveals that it's you that's in it. I don't know where you are from but let me just give you this idea, tell her that in your community or village that it is forbidden for a woman to sleep with another man outside marriage and the repercussion is madness.
Just tell her this and watch her reaction, but how your woman go dey win you back to back

Lol. This is why I like Nairaland. You will sure get all kinds of responses..

As for the questions above you asked, they re too private so sorry I can't answer..

suckprick:
I don't understand why people always disguise their story as that of a friend. I mean nobody knows you on this forum, so you can come clean and tell us your story instead of lying that it's your friend. So ehmm back to your question, if you can match the libido then go head. If you no get energy to fckk regularly, you better quit otherwise she will cheat on you.

Thanks for your contribution.
But I have no need to present it as another mans story if it's mine. Like no one knows me here or any other social media platforms.

Me and this guy has been friends since primary school. Most people think we are brothers. But again I don't want to look like I'm over stepping my boundaries as it concerns his private life.

meobizy:


1. Is it okay for a human being to marry another human being?

2. Is it okay to broadcast something he told you years ago in confidentiality?

3. Is it okay to worry about another man’s life if he hasn’t complained of recent?

4. Is it okay to believe there is something wrong even if you claimed yourself that she is “good in every other thing?”

Answer those questions first. I’m coming.

1) I never said it's wrong for anyone to marry anyone.

2) Broadcast??. I am technically non existence as far as Social media is concerned. You will say what is NR. That's y my pics, real name or anything private is never on SM. So I posted this just for advice to be sure I'm not making a mistake.

3) it's not a bad thing to try and look out for people you care about.

4) I guess this is debatable. Depending on angle of view.

KnowAll:
There is no point having LG autonomy if the chairmen are living in the capital of the state.

Firstly Governance must be firmly established in the LG HQ
He should have a Chairman’s house the way we have a Governor’s house in the capital.

The Vice Chairman must be identifiable

The councillors lost also be housed in official quarters.

There should be a LG security team consisting of Customs, immigration, civil defence, police , the army , airforce and navy. Including forest guards and state vigilante groups.

I believe with all this in place the end of marauding bandits killing people would be over.

The LG chairman is the chief security officer of the LG


In fact I was wondering where was the LG Chairman in uromi when that heinous killing was going on.

If this FG really means autonomy for LG this and many others should be entrenched in every LG area.

I think Adams Oshiomole was the first person to come up with this during his time as governor. But how good people can turn evil within a short period of time still amaze me

Maxymilliano:


https://www.thecable.ng/wike-appoints-acourt-president-dongban-mensem-as-chair-of-golf-club-bot/?fbclid=IwY2xjawJd7fZleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHsifArvozI-5RkXwOC9aaKwIVKwWVVjnDmg2MfSNpZpK069Xd5KxSlDc2N58_aem_EchPR_Iv76XwEg8QY0BLyQ

Hehe .. End of the road for those hoping the appeal court will give them justice

Exceed15:
No the reverse is better.

So you suggest I should mind my business?

Mikespecialone:




Go and mind u business bro, u r about to scatter someone’s joy

I understand bro.
My concern is I don't want a situation whereby in the future I will be secretly kicking myself that I could have warned him or caution him and save him from this trouble

But I'm also concerned as I don't want to scattered this new momentum of theirs as they seems to have made up their mind.

EsotericTemple:
Understanding Nighttime Disturbances: Is It a Spirit?

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMB9pdukH/

It could be as a result of the person been anxious about something and while he sleeps that anxiousness plays out in different form or it could be a spirit depending on what is involved

What's your opinion on this issue?

mrvitalis:

Name. One time in history Fulani accepted and respected diplomacy

That they don't accept diplomacy does not mean everyone should behave like them.
Like I said it is the right thing to address the issue with diplomacy and hope that cool heads prevail but if they insist on threats, let them come in thier thousands. I am sure they will be entertained beyond their expectations.

TempleHouse:
I began to see truly this Governor is weak and incapable to manage a state !!

What would you have him do if you were to be his adviser ?

mrvitalis:
This governor is playing with fire... The governor obviously don't understand how Fulani operates

Those hunters are scouting team... The study the forest, establish routes then the armed groups come in

You don't show weakness to fulanis...
Igbos tried to reason with them for over 40 years... Till 2006 ... If what happened in Edo happened in the 1990s ... 400 igbos would have been dead... But now them no born them we'll

No body have shown weakness to Fulani or tries to reason with them successfully in history

The solution has to be diplomacy and strong hand. The governor has shown the diplomacy required and we this.
Now it depends on the north to accept it or reject it.
If they reject it and insist on pushing ahead with threats and retaliation no wahala.
But we hope cool heads prevail.

NGsultan:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/03/okpebholo-suspends-security-chief-over-uromi-killings/

We totally conderm the incident however, it's best to wait and see what the FG is trying to do here because they went mute for years when people could no longer go to farm just because of Fulani herdsmen and their evil practices.

shivisee:

So as a judge now they deserved to be killed by your people??

No but if the problem he highlighted has been addressed by the government before now, there could have been less security tension and those people wouldn't have faced those angry mobs.

Destroyerofyeeb:
Edo bastards, they must be caught before we retaliate. Una think say nah una dirty cult fight Abi . Una don price una must pay

What is your point?

What do you mean before we retaliate? And who are you people?. I just want to understand something

Danisaint112:


I have traveled to 32 countries, namely:

1. Russia (My junior brother is there.)
2. China (A relative is based here.)
3. Japan
4. Finland – This is my base. I just came back to invest.
5. South Korea (My junior sister actually lives here and is studying nursing).
6. Estonia
7. Albania
8. Sweden
9. Norway
10. U.K. – My grand-aunt has been based here for over 30 years and is a senior citizen.
11. Ghana
12. U.A.E. – Dubai specifically, for tourism and business. I met a lot of business partners in Palm Jumeirah.
13. Madagascar
14. Seychelles
15. U.S.A.
16. Islands of the West Indies – I mainly toured Rihanna's hometown, Barbados.
17. Switzerland – I specifically have great plans here for my siblings.
18. Italy
19. Vatican City
20. Malaysia
21. Singapore
22. Peru
23. Brazil
24. Cuba
25. Australia
26. New Zealand
27. Botswana
28. Namibia
29. South Africa
30. Cameroon
31. Egypt
32. Israel

My next stop would be Turkey to visit an uncle and for tourism, or Canada to visit a childhood friend.

Now, the question is: where have you traveled to?

Ok you don win I no get strength for episode

Danisaint112:
Power crazy dictator Putin will learn the hard way. It's crazy when I hear fools tell you they prefer a Russian or Chinese world power rule than U.S.A

U.S.A might not be a saint but their leaders are ten times better than theirs. If Russia or China becomes world power by mistake, every body mind go dey. Una go know na rice and beans una dey chop since.

Na person wey never travel na him no know. Freaking dictators.

Where you don travel go? Make Una rest joor!!!

Josepholome:

In respective of the political divide, people should be able to speak their mind. You don't have to agree with every opinion of the president just because you want to prove that you re loyal.

Both teams to score or 0:0

Goodmarlian:
Of course opobos are of igbo blood,ijaws should back off from that land,wike now wants to bring ethnic division into the crises,fear politicians wike can wake up one morning and start claiming ikwerres are pure igbos if it will suite his political agenda...

Since when did Opobo became Ibo again?

Validated:
VAT should be state affairs.

Why do ou think so?

I never really took VDM serious. But l think he has lost it lately