NewStats: 3,262,147 , 8,176,208 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 11:31 PM n552f

WolfOfWalstreet:
I’m without a job at the moment, a friend recommended a security 30k job with free food once a day . Pls would you advise I go for the job?

Yes I would advice you to go for the job because half a loaf is better than none.

bigpicture001:
..like the topic says, can you marry a ladywho is the success driving force in her family, one who has siblings nd parents depending on her..?

yes gat gat a good job!

Yes I can. There is no harm in marrying such lady.

nairalandkachy1:


https://www.channelstv.com/2024/01/08/betta-edu-to-report-at-efcc-office-tuesday/?fbclid=IwAR3U7OlJyQkB88DW5VjGUrIppULYSnH3HVVFEQPXVCGRuwEgNXye6s3pF00

chisomkachy:


https://thenationonlineng.net/yahaya-bello-deposes-four-kogi-traditional-rulers/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook&fbclid=IwAR0ryYbt5gh2ttp2k-ujqLhLfhFeEW8LaDt_5_C9eCo4EyZrSwieMWrso

White lion of kogi state don roar oh !

Dilijingsly:
Am a family man and taking care of my children is not a big issue, my daughter is a year and a old . The big question is at what age should i stop bathing her?

I think your daughter is in the best position to decide when she becomes of age. You also need to seek the opinion of your wife on the subject matter as well.

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

Why do you allow him to spend generously on you since you do not have feelings for him ?

GuruboiNaija:

https://.ng/2023/12/31/ondo-why-i-cant-work-with-gov-aiyedatiwa-akeredolus-ex-aide-odebowale/

His services are no longer required that was why he resigned quietly

Nazgul:
Of the seven people below, who do you think should be Nigeria's Person of the Year, 2023?

a. Peter Obi
b. Victor Osimhen
c. Burna Boy
d. President Bola Tinubu
e. Tems
f. The late MohBad
g. The Dangote Refinery

Please kindly give a short explanation for why you chose the option you did.

Source Reno Omokri.

Peter Obi for birthing the obidient movement (within a short period of time) that swept some politicians out of office

Chesster:
I will be graduating in a couple of months..
I studied electrical engineering at a federal university.

While in school, I was fortunate to have saved up about 2.7 million naira having engaged in some online side hustle with a small skill I learnt..but I can't depend on this skill for survival as the incomes are not steady at all.

My mom is about to retire .my dad who lives separately is no longer interested in my care and doesn't want me around as soon as I am done studying.

This means I am literally on my own.
What advice can you give to a me in order to start life and sustain my self.

I once thought of buying a used corolla to begin Uber/bolt.. I also don't have any planned business in mind

Mods pls fp🙏

Continue with your online side hustle along with your small skill that you learnt. Develop yourself as a entrepreneur with a fraction of your savings

dre11:
…as NGF chair, Abdulrazaq, Makinde visit late gov’s wife, family



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2023/12/drama-as-akeredolus-daughter-orders-journalists-to-leave-fathers-residence/amp/

May the good Lord continue to console the family of the deceased.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

The relation you narrated is similar to that of parasitism where the host suffers in a relationship while the parasite benefits. The realtionship you should strive for is the symbiosis kind of relations where both parties benefit from the relationship

[quote author=Nemere2020 post=127653855][/quote]

May his soul find eternal rest and may God console his wife and family member.

I read the he died in lagos because he could be flown abroad but I am surprised to read that he died in as reported by his son.

Did he have leukemia as reported by the media along with prostate cancer as reported by his son ?

If he did, then he must have been in serious pains.

May God continue to deliver us from illheath especially those caused by all forms of cancer

bcomputer101:
At times, this our profession is not easy. Especially when you practice it outside the country.


Have never seen a place where patients are more appreciative like here in Canada.

May her soul find eternal rest and may God continue to bless the Doctor. The rate at which people are dying as a result of cancer is alarming. May God continue to deliver us from all forms of cancer.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I can't justify eating this. The Bible warns we Christians in the book of leviticus 11:22 against eating grasshoppers and four legged insects. Any Christian that eats this will go to Hell for ever. I pray our lord Jesus continue to guide and protect the Palestinians against the evil persecutions of Isreal. Amen

Leviticus 11:20 - ‘All flying insects that creep on all fours shall be an abomination to you.

Leviticus 11:21 - Yet these you may eat of every flying insect that creeps on all fours: those which have ted legs above their feet with which to leap on the earth.
Leviticus 11:22 These you may eat: the locust after its kind, the destroying locust after its kind, the cricket after its kind, and the grasshopper after its kind.
Leviticus 11:23 But all other flying insects which have four feet shall be an abomination to you.


You did not interprete the scripture in Leviticus 11:22 correctly.

The bible permitted christians to eat insects that have ted legs above their feet with which to leap on the earth such as locust, the destroying locust and cricket. The scripture onishes christians not to eat other flying insect that have four feets.


I don't think your prayers in of Palestines would work because Isreal is God's chosen nation. the story of Balak and Balaam

iwaeda:


https://dailypost.ng/2023/12/12/powerful-nigerians-responsible-for-kidnapping-banditry-illegal-mining-fg/

He should reveal their names in air

chisomkachy:
Tony Okocha, a Wike loyalist, was appointed Rivers APC Caretaker Chairman in Nov 2023


https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2023/12/12/fubara-a-failure-clueless-says-rivers-apc-chairman/?amp=1

The Lord would rebuke all enemies of Governor Siminalayi Fubara. They all will be put to shame.

grassrootsig:
ABULE ADO ESTATE DEMOLITION, SENATORS IFEANYI UBAH, AND UCHE EKWUNIFE MEET GOVERNOR SANWO-OLU, CALL FOR A PEACEFUL RESOLUTION.

Following the recent demolition of some houses in Abule Ado area of Lagos State by the Federal Housing Authority (FHA), the Senator representing Anambra South Senatorial District, Dr Patrick Ifeanyi Ubah, CON and the Director-General of South-East Governors Forum, Senator Uche Ekwunife, CON on Sunday night, met with the Lagos State Governor, Babajide Sanwo-Olu at the State’s Governor’s Lodge, Asokoro, Abuja.

During the meeting, an extensive discussion was made on how to resolve the matter peacefully and after the meeting, both parties proposed a meeting between the stakeholders of Abule Ado and the Lagos State Government in order to look further into the issue and proffer necessary solution.

Speaking after the meeting, the Director-General of South-East Governors Forum; Senator Uche Ekwunife called on South easterners residing in the area to remain law abiding and assured them that she would always make moves that will protect their interests.

In his remarks, Senator Ubah called for calm and assured the residents of the area who are mostly perceived to be Igbos that in line with his principle of protecting the interests of ndị Igbo, he would make further efforts to ensure the amicable resolution of the issues in contention. Senator Ubah, who has made similar interventions in the past, also expressed confidence in the ability of the Lagos Governor to resolve the matter. He also said that the outcome of the meeting has been communicated to the President of the Association of Ndi-Igbo in Abule-Ado Community, Amuwo Odofin Lagos, Chief Nwafuribe Chukwudiegwu to liaise with all stakeholders and estate leaders.

Senator Ifeanyi Ubah is indeed a peacemaker and advocate of peace among igbos.

SaintUlot:
Outlined below are the 11 reasons why you must make sure you Japa from Nigeria:

1. For a bright future for you and your family, Japa is the only option you have. Future in Nigeria is looking bleak and cloudy at the moment, Japa now when you can.

2. If you want to live a quality life, give sound education to your kids, have access to comprehensive health care and top-notch life security, Nigeria cannot offer you all these, you can only have access to all these when you Japa

3. I am yet to see anybody that Japa from Nigeria and still remain poor. Poverty is only in Nigeria, once you leave Nigeria, you have bid farewell to Poverty for life. Confirm from all the people that have Japa, all of them are living in prosperity as i type this.

4. Immediately you leave Nigeria, all life and spiritual problems are over, that's why you see that when many people japa from Nigeria, they don't go to church and mosque again, simply because they have no reason to. The Government in their new country of residence have provided everything they needed, so no need to disturb God again. Life problems and Spiritual problems are only in Nigeria, they can't be found elsewhere.

5. Prosperity in Nigeria is by luck, not by hardwork, but elsewhere apart from Nigeria, if you are hardworking, you will surely reap the fruit of your hard work.

6. To Japa from Nigeria can be likened to going to paradise, As a Nigerian, Japa to us is our own paradise on earth, wouldn't you like to go to paradise?

7. Japa is what is Trending now, wouldn't you want to be a part of the new trend? Or you prefer to die inside trenches?

8. All your mates have all Japa, if you don't Japa like your mates too, Automatically you will be labelled a failure. Look around, how many of your school mates and childhood friends are still in Nigeria? All of them have all left and they are all enjoying themselves in their new country of residence.

9. Living anywhere else apart from Nigeria is better. Yes, you heard me right, When you are ready to Japa, ignore all those people saying "do your due diligence" doing due diligence is asking for too much. Anywhere you land yourself, even with your N500,000 savings, is a better place to live than Nigeria.

10. I don't think we still have up to 5 million people left in Nigeria, everybody don japa, do you want to be the only person left in Nigeria when the remaining people Japa?

11. When you Japa from Nigeria, you have Automatically add 30 years to your lifespan, mortality rate is high in Nigeria for obvious reasons, but elsewhere apart from Nigeria, life expectancy is very high.

Abeg, How much you think em go cost for a person wey won jappa ?

DyshApp:
A married man has anonymously taken to social media to complain about his wife’s addiction to watching cartoons with their children.

According to him, his wife was always excited to watch and sing along to the cartoon with their kids and she would narrate the stories to them if they missed them.

According to the man, something must be wrong with his wife. While itting that she has not failed in her roles as a wife and mother to his kids, he reiterated his worry that he felt she should have grown past cartoons.

He appealed for help to fix the cartoon problem.

In his words:
"I feel like something is wrong, I don't really get her sometimes. She doesn't even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I'm missing out on something great.

“My wife, 37 years old, enjoys watching cartoon even more than our kids. When I say cartoon, I mean animated movies.
Our first boy is 14 years old down to our last who is currently 4 years old.
They’ve turned the home into a cartoon home.
They are soo addicted, they sing their songs, do their dances and discuss those things all the time.
My wife at her age will be running as if something strange was happening and she forgets herself to be an adult sometimes.
I’ve tried to explain to her that I don’t really like it, I don’t complain because they are being happy but, I don’t understand my wife’s addiction. Even when the kids aren’t around, she’ll be watching animated movies alone.

Once they get home, she’s going to narrate all she watched to them and even demonstrate with actions some funny/emotional scenes.
I feel like something is wrong, I don’t really get her sometimes. She doesn’t even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I’m missing out on something great.
Is there something I can do to help her? It’s somehow bothering me.

Kindly note that, she’s fully employed and still does her duties as a wife and a mother. I don’t have any problem on that side, I just feel she’s addicted to animated movies when actually, she has grown it.”

Watching cartoon is not an issue. The man should give his wife a break. I grew up watching cartoons such as Voltron, g- force, tera force, thunder cats, etc and so I enjoy watching cartoons like lion king, tom and Jerry, etc. once a while. The man is just making a mountain out of a molehill.

Christianoir:
I’ve been writing exam since i haven’t gotten any carryover…Just had one today God [u] I feel disgusted and ashamed.. since I started writing exams since Monday all my grade have been A throughout
It cbt exam once you finish writing you will see your score

I wrote and score 40/100 which is F (carryover)
The course wasn’t that hard..I read it, it was time
60 questions to answer 20min too small.

I don’t know what to do….this is my first
This is my first carryover course since
It breaking me down

I don’t even have to zeal to read for next course again

Sorry for that. That one of the challenges one faces in school. I also had a carry over in my days and that did not deter me from graduating. You are not the first person to get carry over and you are not the last person to carry over. You should accept the carry over in good faith and work towards having a good grade in carry over course as well as have good grades in your other papers.

GuruboiNaija:


https://.ng/2023/12/05/tinubu-orders-investigation-into-kaduna-village-bombing/

Do Nigerian Army control unmanned weaponized aircrafts ?

youngsum:
Hello nairalanders rejoys with me


Today the 5th of December I received my first salary in life as a fresh graduate which I was employed as a school teacher last month.


Do you think I will be able to get marry with this salary by next December?

It is pathetic. Just keep doing the job until you get better high paying job in 2024 by God's grace.

SweetBuns:
They say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but honestly speaking there are certain calibres of men I will never go near no matter how hard they try.

To get straight to the point,

1. Short men
Oh my God.... I don't just know what to say about these sort of men. If I'm taller than you as a girl, then sorry but I can never see you as my second piece. You'll always be like a younger brother to me. No hard feelings.
Short men also have this irritating attitude whenever they see girls around, as if they're trying to compensate for their low height. And some even go to the gym and gets muscles.... But it just makes them look shorter like a 5 litre jerry can and irritating
Also, why in the world would I pick a short guy over a tall guy? I literally feel so protected and safe when I'm with a guy that is wayyyy taller than me (I'm 5'2 so my height is kinda average)... So ofc I'd want a tall man and not a mini man.
Imagine hugging a man and he's hugging your waist cause he's short ugh.
I wanna stand on my toes whenever I kiss him and strain my neck just to look at his face. No more no less.
Tall men also stand out more, they're far more attractive and I also want taller sons and daughters.
Who should the short guys date then? I dunno... But not me.
The bar starts at 6'0, but If you're like 6'2 or 6'3... I want your babiesss

2. Bald men
The only age where I think baldness is acceptable as a man for me is if he's like in his 50s or 60s. But if you're in your 20s-30s and you're already going bald.... It just irritates me low-key in a inexplicable way... Like why will a young guy have a hairline that receeds all the way to the middle or back of your head? Where did all your hair go? Gross
I also read somewhere that early balding is genetically inherited so that means my children too will suffer the same fate? God forbid.
My man ought to have a head full of hair well into his 60s, then we start talking about hair loss.

3. "Oju yo Bo" people
I didn't know the English term for this so I had to Google it. It's a Yoruba term for people whose eyes pop out of their sockets like that of a wall gecko. This is also something I don't like in my man.... I want his eyes to be like that of Henry Cahill... Neatly tucked inside and having small slit like opening.

Addition: so I just googled it and it's called prey eyes. I prefer the hunter one since it gives my man a piercing gaze and I just wanna hug him immediately.

4. Eyebrows
A man MUST have thick eyebrows. If you don't, I can't take you seriously

5. Men with bad posture

6. Men who s man U

That last one was a joke but I'm dead serious about the rest. And I'm sure other girls will agree to some up there too.

These are the reasons why you are still single and searching till date.

Lanrelagboi:
Governor of Lagos State, Mr Babajide Sanwo-Olu today at the Local Climate Action Summit — a side conference organised by Sub-national Climate Action Leaders Exchange (SCALE) in the ongoing 28th session of Conference of Parties (COP28) in Dubai, United Arab Emirates.

#COP28
#GreaterLagosRising

What has Nigerian benefitted from participating in Conference of Parties 1 - 28 ?

The monies spent to covey participants to such meetings could also be used to develop renewable forms of energy and make them affordable in Nigeria

GuruboiNaija:

https://.ng/2023/12/03/cop28-tinubu-canvasses-investment-in-alternative-energy-for-smooth-transition/

The Federal Government needs to make the country safe and free from kidnappers and boko raham operators before they can persuade foreigners to come and invest in Nigeria.

Monies generated from Internally Generated Revenue from FIRS and Customs and recovered loots could be used to develop renewable sources of energy such as solar farms. Nigeria is blessed with abundant sunlight and wind which can be harnessed and used as alternatives to generate sustainable power supply.

FGN could also send delegates to Indonesia to learn how the country developed her floating solar plant with a view to replicating it in Nigeria.

jesusjnr2020:
Will A Sinner Who Pays Tithe Make Heaven?

If we go by the teachings of Jesus, he certainly won't make heaven.

Jesus said "unless you repent, you shall likewise perish!" Luke 13:13.

He also said no sinner shall make it into heaven. Matthew 13:41.

So do not deceived by those church leaders who preach tithing above the most important things in the law, such as, repentance of sins, that have made many sinners in the church think that it is more important to pay tithes than to turn away from their sinful ways.

They are blind leaders of the blind just as the Pharisees in the days of Jesus who did the same thing, but Jesus called them the "children of hell" regardless of their paying of tithes because inwardly they were full of iniquity. Matthew 13:15,28

So although paying of tithes is a good thing, if you don't repent of your sins, it cannot save you from hell!

You need to repent of your sins!

God bless.

Can an American, residing and operating a big business in Nigeria, become a citizen of Nigeria by remitting his taxes to the Federal Government of Nigeria ? The answer is No.

In the same a sinner who pays tithe is not a citizen of heaven.

codedgalaxy:
Are there any hidden benefit's for sitting behind at a gathering, especially in a church.
Its quite baffling to see people who on a daily basis make prophetic declarations like, 'i am the head and not the tail",
" i shall be a leader in my generation" but, when they get to church they run away from the front row seats lol. How do you lead from the back?
.
Which begs the question,
" why do people like sitting behind ?

When a christian comes to a church auditorium, he or she is free to sit anywhere within the auditorium, participant in the church service and hear the sermon from the Minister of God.

Whether the christian sit at the back seat or front seat of middle should not be any person's business as long as the person does not sleep off or snore when the sermon is ongoing or the christian wears clothes that reveals the private parts etc.

fergie001:


Africa Facts Zone

is




It is better to do sport betting than to do yahoo yahoo

Dyt:

https://www.herald.ng/aggrieved-customer-calls-out-polaris-bank-over-uk-school-tuition-refund-ime/

Sorry for your pain. Please go and report Polaris bank to Ordinary Ahmed of brekette family so that he could proffer solutions on how your money could be returned to you.

Kepukepu:
Alex otti is yet to impress me by the way. There's nothing he's doing now that is exceptional yet, however I will make my verdict after 2 years of his istration.
However, we cannot deny that Aba has become a lot neater under his istration.

The fact that Aba has become a lot neater under Governor Otti's istration as seen in the attached pictures is an exceptional achievement.

AyoNews:
Do advice her. Either from experience or witness

You keep saying no to your husband whever he asks you for sex and you are worried because he sleeps off whenever you deprive him of sex.

Please explain the reason(s) why you derive pleasure refusing your husband sex ?

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

You could accompany your fiancee to visit her ex so that your mind can be at rest.