NewStats: 3,265,087 , 8,185,637 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 12:32 PM 6x592l

emmyluvly:
Whether the information is correct or wrong,you u will get your issions stop bothering your minds. If they give 100 as cutoff and not up to 3 persons have 100 the cuttoff automatically drops. Fearnot.

You do have a point there, the cut off should be based on the general performance of the applicants.

Character must accompany gifts in the life of every believer, not just pastors, else costly mistakes are inevitable.

Solanacea:
i jst pray n hope dat dis info is not true cos if it is it won't be funny

What information do you mean please?

luckyDon1:
I called a lady in the postgraduate ission office on wednesday and she said the pending ish may be likey due to internet hitches.

Alright then, I guess it's just a matter of exercising patience,for those whose results are still pending.

Priskar:
@ify2 am also in management ing to be precise my result still says pending.

For those whose results are still pending, I suggest you make with the school to find out in detail, what is going on.

galadima77:
where d eff are d images of these animals?

Easy now...your tone isn't civilized man.

emmyluvly:

Discountenance this information. Unizik doesn't fraternise with people such as this. A word is enough for the wise.

Indeed I don't expect anyone to still fall for scams such as this at this level.

Does anyone have an idea when we are likely to have the ission list?

Bilabong:
Una list don tire me joor

You know the problem, is that people keep repeating the same mistakes over and over hence educating our minds must be a continuous process

barnacle:
lovely

All around us, we are surrounded by the lovely forms and beauty of nature. Sometimes, we need to take time out to appreciate them.

These are practical and undeniable truths.

The application for this year is closed and entrance examination (the first of its kind at post graduate level in the school) has been written.
As we wait for the ission list to be released, please come in here and drop any news, suggestions or information that could help prospective students,if you have any.
Please it'd also be great to have past or current post graduate students of the Nnamdi Azikiwe University here to offer tips on the school's mode of operation.

Please does anyone, applicant or current student, have any information on the ission process, how soon are we to expect the list of itted candidates?

Remilekun101:
Space yah work

Noted...

moyosore27384:
i found myself in getting d wrong fellow n i no longer belif love exist

While I empathize with your ordeal, I like to say that shutting off your heart because of one or even two bad experiences is not the right way to go. Give yourself time to recoup, then take stock of what you have learnt as a person as well as what you truly want in a relationship and I'm sure the right person will come your way soon. Cheers!

Olami90:



Tnkz bro! I av experienced dis twice @ diff times. Even wit pple dat are good frnds.

One of d reasons I withdrawn frm my last relationship is her heady habit. I can't wen she actually acknowledged her flaws within two good years even wen it is was so glaring(neva said sorry). She is prepared to giv 101 reasons why wot she did is justified.Got to a stage I cld no longer tell her somfinz.
She also knws too much nd not teachable. I analysed who I am nd wot I want in my relationship then I concluded she doesn't worth it/deserve me.

I stand to b corrected, there are more ladies in nowadays that ego/pride has eaten dem deep or I shld say has bin finished by it. They raises head anyhow (seen dat frm female frnds)

That's why everyone in a relationship (both male and female) must have their eyes peeled to look beyond the 'veil' of emotions and deal with issues practically

DJ2HOT:
looks like I have nd hav had issues with it [size=8pt][/size] did I answer you Well I only meant the content in the number 7 of the context #peace#

Alright... I get it now

An insightful and interesting write up...

DJ2HOT:
#7

Yeah... What's with the number 7?

Cutehector:
its all good . As long as someone out thr gets inspired... Like me nw, I may like a gurl very much, buh most times I'd be askn myself, hw will she react wen a conflict happens.. Hw will she handle d situation and all that.. Some ladies just find it difficult to say they are sorry and at that point u just begin to imajin if dats d person u wana spend d rest of ur life with

Indeed character is as important as love in any relationship... And anyone who wants to get married must be ready for a continual character "adjustment" where necessary...

tomsniel:
A home that is not built on love and Jesus Christ will fail

True

Cutehector:
Though long buh its educative.. Op thanks for this piece...

You are welcome... Though I can't claim the copyright for all of the ideas therein, I borrowed some knowledge too.

Sassybae:
Aarrhhh...all this list every day,wetin sef ...op are you with the right person?

Well... I guess I'll just say the I haven't tied the knot yet... So the chance is still there to get it right.

Many people have gone into marriage seeking fulfilment only to find that they soon become dissatisfied and even disillusioned. Most of the people in this category made the wrong from the onset. Below are 11 reasons why people end up with the wrong choice of life partners.
The post is quite long but please take the pains of going through you may well need it.

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#1. You pick the wrong person because you
expect him/her to change after you're married.
The classic mistake. Never marry potential. The
golden rule is, if you can't be happy with the
person the way he or she is now, don't get
married. As a colleague of mine so wisely put it,
"You actually can expect people to change after
they're married... for the worse!"
So when it comes to the other person's
spirituality, character, personal hygiene,
communication skills, and personal habits, make
sure you can live with these as they are now.

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#2. You pick the wrong person because you
focus more on chemistry than on character.
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Chemistry ignites the fire, but good character
keeps it burning. Beware of the "I'm in love"
syndrome. "I'm in love" often means, "I'm in
lust." Attraction is there, but have you carefully
checked out this person's character?
Here are four character traits to definitely check
for:
Humility: Does this person believe that "doing
the right thing" is more important than personal
comfort?
Kindness: Does this person enjoy giving pleasure
to other people? How does s/he treat people s/
he doesn't have to be nice to? Does s/he do
volunteer work? Give charity?
Responsibility: Can I depend on this person to do
what s/he says s/he's going to do?
Happiness: Does this person like himself? Does
s/he enjoy life? Is s/he emotionally stable?
Ask yourself: Do I want to be more like this
person? Do I want to have a child with this
person? Would I like my child to turn out like him
or her?

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#3. You pick the wrong person because the man
doesn't understand what a woman needs most.
Men and women have unique emotional needs,
and more often than not, it is the man who just
doesn't "get it." Jewish tradition places the onus
on the man to understand the emotional needs
of a woman and to satisfy them.
The unique need of a woman is to be loved -- to
feel that she is the most important person in her
husband's life. The husband needs to give her
consistent, quality attention.
This is most apparent in Judaism's approach to
intimacy. The Torah obligates the husband to
meet the intimate needs of his wife. Intimacy is
always on the woman's . Men are goal-
oriented, especially when it comes this area. As
a wise woman once pointed out, "Men have two
speeds: on and off." Women are experience-
oriented. When a man is able to switch gears
and become more experience-oriented, he will
discover what makes his wife very happy. When
the man forgets about his own needs and
focuses on giving his wife pleasure, amazing
things happen.

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#4. You choose the wrong person because you
do not share a common life goals and priorities.
There are three basic ways we connect with
another person:
1. chemistry and compatibility
2. share common interests
3. share common life goal
Make sure you share the deeper level of
connection that sharing life goals provide. After
marriage, the two of you will either grow together
or grow apart. To avoid growing apart, you must
figure out what you're "living for," while you're
single -- and then find someone who has come
to the same conclusion as you.
This is the true definition of a "soul mate." A
soul mate is a goal mate -- two people who
ultimately share the same understanding of life's
purpose and therefore share the same priorities,
values and goals.

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#5. You choose the wrong person because you
get intimately involved too quickly.
Intimacy before the commitment of marriage can
be a big problem because it often precludes a
fully honest exploration of important issues.
Physical involvement tends to cloud one's mind.
And a clouded mind is not inclined to make good
decisions.
It is not necessary to take a "test drive" in order
to find out if a couple is physically compatible. If
you do your homework and make sure you are
intellectually and emotionally compatible, you
don't have to worry about it. Of all the studies
done on divorce, incompatibility in the intimate
arena is almost never cited as a main reason
why people divorce.

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#6. You pick the wrong person because you do
not have a deeper emotional connection with this
person.
To evaluate whether you have a deeper
emotional connection or not, ask: "Do I respect
and ire this person?"
This does not mean, "Am I impressed by this
person?" We are impressed by a Mercedes. We
do not respect someone because they own a
Mercedes. You should be impressed by qualities
of creativity, loyalty, determination, etc.
Also ask: "Do I trust this person?" This also
means, "Is he/she emotionally stable? Do I feel I
can rely on him/her?

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#7. You pick the wrong person because you
choose someone with whom you don't feel
emotionally safe.
Ask yourself the following questions: Do I feel
calm, peaceful and relaxed with this person? Can
I fully be myself and express myself with this
person? Does this person make me feel good
about myself? Do you have a really close friend
who does make you feel this way? Make sure the
person you marry makes you feel the same way!
Are you afraid of this person in any way? You
should not feel you need to monitor what you
say because you are afraid of how the other
person will view it. If you're afraid to express
your feelings and opinions openly, there's a
problem with the relationship.
Another aspect of feeling safe is that you don't
feel the other person is trying to control you.
Controlling behaviors are a sign of an abusive
person. Be on the look out for someone who is
always trying to change you. There's a big
difference between "controlling" and "making
suggestions." A suggestion is made for your
benefit; a control statement is made for their
benefit.

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#8. You pick the wrong person because you don't
put everything on the table.
Anything that bothers you about the relationship
must be brought up for discussion. Bringing up
the uncomfortable stuff is the only way to
evaluate how well the two of you communicate,
negotiate, and work together. Over the course of
a lifetime, difficulties will inevitably arise. You
need to know now, before making a
commitment: Can you resolve your differences
and find compromises that work for both of you?
Never be afraid to let the person know what
bothers you. This is also a way for you to test
how vulnerable you can be with this person. If
you can't be vulnerable, then you can't be
intimate. The two go hand in hand.

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#9. You pick the wrong person because you use
the relationship to escape from personal
problems and unhappiness.
If you are unhappy and single, you'll probably be
unhappy and married, too. Marriage does not fix
personal, psychological and emotional problems.
If anything, marriage will exacerbate them.
If you are not happy with yourself and your life,
take responsibility to fix it now while you are
single. You'll feel better, and your future spouse
will thank you.

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#10. You pick the wrong person because he/she
is involved in a triangle.
To be "triangulated" means a person is
emotionally dependent on someone or something
else while trying to develop another relationship.
A person who hasn't separated from his or her
parents is the classic example of triangulation.
People can also be triangulated with things as
well, such as work, drugs, Internet, hobbies,
sports or money.
Be careful that you and your partner are free of
triangles. The person caught in the triangle
cannot be fully emotionally available to you. You
will not be their number one priority. And that's
no basis for a marriage.
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#11. Faith and Religion
However you choose to look at it, and on whichever side of the divide you stand, it is undeniable that for many people who have and profess "faith", it is an integral part of their lives. Hence in any relationship, issues of faith must be properly dealt with as it could prove a major agent of discord in marriage if not wisely and properly handled. The saying goes, "Can two work together except they agree?"

tforever:
herbal blossom tea,bit n peaches and royal jelly will help...

Thanks for the recipe. Is there a way of combining them plus that "royal jelly", I don't know what it is?

Doortun:
Free your mind from stress and worries. Don't bother yourself too much about what you can't change. Everyone is going through some kind of stress at any point in time. Some people are just good at not letting worries get the best of them.

Socialize and exercise well during the day and you will get a decent sleep at night.

Some herbs are good for insomnia, try those chinese tea and please use pharmaceutical drugs as last resort if nothing works. Note that, long term insomnia is worse than any other disease because it presents pack of problems not just one.

Thanks for your suggestions...while I still struggle with sleeping, I have tried to implement several suggestions and the situation is improving...will also try your suggestions...

Lagos State official:

APC
444 273 59,63%

PDP 300 806 40,37%

Win by percentage so far, live now:


Adamawa
The APC received 59.23% votes
Bayelsa
The PDP received 99.06% votes
Benue
The PDP received 65.87% votes
Borno
The APC received 92.01% votes
Edo
The PDP received 61.12% votes
Ekiti
The PDP received 59.94% votes
Enugu
The PDP received 96.48% votes
Federal Capital Territory
The PDP received 51.24% votes
Jigawa
The APC received 86.03% votes
Kaduna
The APC received 89.1% votes
Kano
The APC received 89.82% votes
Katsina
The APC received 99.31% votes
Kogi
The APC received 62.86% votes
Kwara
The APC received 69.29% votes
Lagos
The APC received 59.63% votes
Nassarawa
The PDP received 53.46% votes
Ogun
The APC received 60.31% votes
Ondo
The APC received 53.45% votes
Osun
The APC received 59.69% votes
Oyo
The APC received 59.98% votes
Plateau
The PDP received 68.69% votes
Sokoto
The APC received 88.34% votes

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ejikeme:
damn....the thing bad gan.

No be small tin