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saynotocultism: What about romance and relationships as a cultist. Are women oblivious or are they exposed to all the details of the cult life? Were any of the women in your life indirectly/directly affected by your hip in any form - including spiritually? Not just for OP to answer 5 Likes |
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Thechosenone55: Kindly go to the religion section 8 Likes |
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DONFRANSKID: That picture is dumb 1 Like |
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Greystone: I’m intrigued 1 Like |
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Moz22: If I could roll my eyes any further they will go into the back of my head.. |
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Probably my favourite now https://open.spotify.com/track/6SwRhMLwNqEi6alNPVG00n?si=jpdpTjaoTqehayC9VXp9Ug&dl_branch=1 1 Like |
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Slow jams.. https://open.spotify.com/track/493QaNbrvbEiQdPH9hDP6z?si=i9fVkWZPQaiiNYpc1GI_wQ&dl_branch=1
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Greystone: Any of them backfired? Or you escaped any possible sticky situation |
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Moz22:Thanks bro… I know just 3 days ooo ![]() |
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dhameelare: I don’t think either of them are necessarily true. I’m just saying that if there’s a risk in one there’s also a risk in the other. Hypothetically, a man whose entire family depend on him may be unlikely to have a family that are willing to release him for his wife as they may fear less dependency or limited access |
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LMAOOOOOOOOO Na en write d question for himself ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Oh yes! If you constantly do something wrong/offensive and ignore me when I complain - slowly but surely I will get to my limit, delete you and feel lighter. I can’t be constantly upset with one person, it’s so exhausting. I just take the repeated behaviour as information that the relationship is dysfunctional and needs to end. Shikena |
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This was deep, you need to heal first. Have you voiced out what exactly hurt you to him? Being vocal will help.. even if you can write it down. These things do take time, but you can learn how to forgive.
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dhameelare: Then same thing goes for first born men or the only male. |
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Moz22:I don return ![]() |
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Moz22:you haven’t. I’m going offline to be honest |
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Greystone: I think most of the time, men want that extra 20% as a side dish, not the main course. So it's not a matter of leaving one for the other. Just being greedy, discontent and disloyal. |
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Moz22: nothing deeper than silence. |
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Moz22: no wahala, beef squashed ![]() ![]() |
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Moz22:That’s why your life is in shambles. You’re not balanced |
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frankkydee: This is the holy grail. You cannot do without what you love. Life ‘striking’ you would make you find refuge in her, as a calm to the storm. As the antidote to your worries, even a network to help you through. If you can’t carry her along with you at least mentally, you don’t love her. If you can’t be her man because you’re stressed - you don’t love her. If you can’t do the BARE MINIMUM - even in your lowest of times - just not to neglect her… please finish my sentence. 1 Like |
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Sometimes, for whatever reason, u have to end things even if u both don’t want to. So it will even hurt on both sides. Hurt like no tomorrow…. ![]() He might even take it better than me! But having closure is good for both parties in the long run. In such case I would just express my true and deep feelings, say a little prayer for him, like my last wishes and just acknowledge that it will be hard, it will be painful, but with self-comion it will get better. 1 Like |
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MeghaneMorgane: This post is exactly me in every way. I never even commented or browsed this site for years but when I see say lockdown wan kee pesin ![]() I think currently I’m fixated on house work, and making everything 150% perfect - all the time. I don’t think that’s too healthy though. Asides that I keep myself busy with journals, holiday planning, podcasts, movies, video calls, girls outings when we plan them, and even NL helps me feel connected with people. I also love to read. A good book will make you put your phone on silent mode and forget the whole world. I’d like to be more active though, taking walks for fresh air and stuff, I know it has its benefits. For me, personally, I’ve accepted that whilst I’m single it just comes with the territory because there are some things you just can’t do for yourself, like have eye , 6 hour talks, or a hug - those are things I value, but yours may be different There will be times like that but once you’ve gotten through that night and you’re busy once more you’re okay sis 3 Likes |
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coachy777: Only if it’s jailbroken, and I don’t know if people still do that |
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zexy2030: Pesin wey get gf dey send private message request? |
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zexy2030: Nooo you can’t relate sexual preference to intimacy. Not everyone wants sex the same way or without variety |
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ITbomb: Thank u |
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ITbomb: Okayyyyy Two different numbers right? |
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Sugardick: Mmm it’s that better childhood and love of the forefathers that made you a cretin for sex. Manipulating someone’s desperation just to enter! *spits* If you like keep making indirect posts, call me whatever name you can think of, my stance, approach and delivery will remain the same. You hate women that most likely resemble your mother, yet within the last two months you averagely spend everyday of your life in one of the most concentrated places to find them. And you think you’re stable? No dear, you have nothing to offer to meet any woman’s need. So you have stripped yourself down to the only thing about u that may have some functionality and even at that, who go no say weda STD dey worry u. Give us more stories na. |
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