NewStats: 3,262,191 , 8,176,404 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 09:35 AM 3l6zu

dominique:
Set awon "I wish I met you before I met my wife", na from courtship they dey start. The guy is playing both of you and messing with both you and his girlfriend's heads. Since he has told you that he doesn't want to leave a girl he claims not to love, do yourself a favour and block all forms of communication with him. Except you want to remain his side chick even after he marries her sha o.

This is the bottom line^. Remove him from your head and life fast fast - this is a DANGER ZONE. He will respect you for it.


Some observations though:
1. You said due to your ex you won’t be in a relationship with another man - but life goes on sis, you can’t take panadol for another persons headache.

2. You are taking this same do or die mentality with this bobo who is living his best life and doing what’s right for him. I think you have to stop over emphasising the man’s good points to blur out the negative (e.g. making your relationship a figment of his GF’s imagination etc). You’re harming yourself. And do you think you deserved any less? Are you a fugitive?

3. Just because you think he’s telling you all he feels, doesn’t mean that this is truly the case. I’m not saying he’s a liar, but it takes two to tango, he’s definitely engaging her on an intimate level. Shine your eye babe.
Before you know it, your life can flash past you, he will have 2/3/4 pikin (some you may even baby sit ) and the true one desperate to love you (single man o) will be weary by then.

4. STD/Is are real. Are you prepared to enter a love triangle abi hexagon at the risk of your health? Hian.

5. Know your worth. Don’t settle for being the puff puff or chin chin when you are a 3 course buffet.

LofP:


Lol, it is there but you won't see it unless you seek for people involved in natural things. Africans think they are the masters of juju... there is a reason why there is an English word-Occult. Go into it and see if it is false!

You’ve even gone far bros.

In the west, there are MULTIPLE TV stations and programmes for this type of thing, live performances (yes where people but £100 tickets), university modules even. But no, everyday subconscious colonial worship of ‘the enlightened, the exposed, the educated’.

These same people derive their very existence from us and all some Africans are desperate to do is esteem them as some sort of validation tool.

doggedfighter:
Hard times !

These are just the ones that are bold to come out begging on the streets.

Some are dying inside.

We should start advocating for people to birth less number of children.

I really don’t think it’s fair to say birth control means better living conditions or poverty alleviation. I liken it to saying that only the rich deserve to have a family.

I hypothesise that the people with the most extreme stories don’t share theirs on these threads.

Too personal/embarrassing/traumatic .

We can’t even address serious crime, including crime against children without people (some men*) wanting to polarise the discussion or have their egos massaged.

UTTER TRASH.

GreenArrow1:


Just because he posted an article on a bridge?

How frustrated are you with life? Don't worry. Things will get better.

I almost agreed with you but it’s more about the OP asking for God to bless Buhari. It’s quite insulting to openly celebrate such a person in light of all that we have seen in the past 1000 or so hours alone, let alone his entire regime.

This AGAIN?

AstroG:
Why do girls have this attitude of always asking "What do you do" on first day of meeting ?


That question pisses me off more than body and mouth odour

Surely you would want to know what the other 20 hours of the person you have just met is centred around?

That hair perm is serious.

UK new immigration rules for international students, work permit and how to calculate di points-based immigration system 2021[/size][/b]

Applications don open for pipo wey dey apply for visa to go UK go work, as from 1 January.

To qualify for visa, migrant workers who wan migrate go di UK go need to qualify for 70 points.
Also limit no go dey for di number of international students wey fit come UK to study.

Di new student visa application system go allow students to apply six months before di date di course go start - if dem dey apply from outside UK.

Dem go launch one new graduate visa for di summer of 2021, to allow students wey don complete degree to stay inside UK for two years. For those wey do PhD, na three years.

New UK immigration system post-Brexit and how e fit affect you

See di list of African nations wey Donald Trump new visa bond policy go affect

How you fit apply to work in di UK?
Applications fit start online, but some pipo go need to visit visa application centre in order to prove dia identity and show di necessary documents.

Dis fit include certificate of sponsorship from UK company, and proof of knowledge of English.

Some jobs UK dey find pipo for
Animal doctors
Graphic designers
Web designers
Software developers
Architects
Artists
Musicians
Welders
Chefs (cooks)
Cyber security specialist
IT professionals
Scientists
Engineers

See di full list on UK goment website, and also for di conditions wey some of dem carri come.

How much e go cost?
Di application fee go depend on how many years di pesin wan use work for UK, and whether dia job dey on di list of skills wey UK dey find pipo for - for instance animal doctors and web designers.

If dia skill no dey dat list den di normal fee go be between £610 and £1,408 per person.

Jobseekers go need to pay medical fee charge of £624 per person per year wen dem apply - UK go refund di money if dem no grant di visa.

Also applicants need to show say dem get money to use first demsef - at least £1,270 must dey available.

Health and care visa
Fast-track entry system dey for doctors, nurses and oda healthcare professionals, at reduced application fee.

Those wey dia visa dey successful no go need pay di medical fee charge.

Successful applicants will be exempt from the immigration health surcharge.

Canada latest asylum informate for Nigerians wey wan japa like DJ Switch

See di new immigration law wey Australia wan bring for foreign partners

How to get 70 points
If pesin get letter of job offer from approved employer for "skilled job" dis go be 40 points.

If e sabi speak English, dis go add anoda 10 points .

Di applicant fit collect di remaining 20 points if di salary wey dem go collect go dey at least £25,600 ($34,370) a year.

Dem fit also collect extra points if dem read book well well (10 points for PhD, or 20 points for PhD in science, technology, engineering or maths) or get offer of job inside sector wey di UK dey find pipo for (20 points), even if di salary no plenty.

Some jobs for health or education go still drag 20 points come even if di salary no reach £25,600, although e must dey at least

SOURCE: BBC NEWS PIDGIN

Kiddllc:

Wow...

Abi you never research your set dem.

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

You agree with every principle here? Yes, No?

Kiddllc:


Ahhh... u need to take things easy. You're getting it wrong. I don't believe trp debases women but rather enlightens the man. My POV tho. Might not be totally correct but its how i see it

I beg to differ.
In my own POV it sounds like you’re being politically correct. But I think It’s not what the label says on the tin that matters, but what the tin contains.

Sir.

Kiddllc:

Na wah oo.. So u believe red pill is about causing pains n inflicting harm on women?

Actually, I believe any ideology which teaches that another human being is substandard/deformed/valueless is about perpetuating grievous harm, destruction and naturally, pain.

Especially red pill.

Red pillers should read to see how they end up.

Clout chasing.

ubcandid:


sure, but what I've seen with SOME women ehhhh.....hmmmmm. maybe the man refused to marry her that's why she took this step.

Likewise with SOME men.

authority2006:


Phones are more than making calls only these days. You're still talking about ancient phones, lol. Their battery wasn't even up to 3,000mah

The straightest route is still the shortest route

Perfectsouth:
Occultic corpse

The very very first thought that came to my mind.

Oluwasaeon:
May you not find yourself in Nigeria in Jesus name. Amen

how did we even get to this!

thesicilian:
Lol. The first time I watched Terminator 2: Judgement Day was on this. And those Van Damme movies. Jackie Chan. Bruce Lee.

Most notable of the Nigerian movies were Last Burial, Issakaba, Snake Girl, Glamour Girls etc.

Glamour Girls!!!! Classic!!!

There’s one movie I will never forget, the cover art used to haunt me: ‘Prophecy’.
Hm I won’t describe the details but ‘blood’ full everywhere. I was just a child men, those 9ja horrors were worse than any sort of scary movie

I also feel like back then we could watch the same movie severally, on different occasions, and then even lend them around.

Now? No way.

Movies are very disposable and repetitive. Hardly any prominent ones that you could watch over and over again.

SavageBoy:


A post of Oct15 reaching FP now

E shock me o

I say old Nokia phones.
They only needed to be charged like twice a month.

An iPhone is twice a day.

SoapQueen:

Such a narcissistic, egoistical chauvinist.

Tear English for dem!!!!!

Abcruz:
My landlady said gates are to be locked by 8PM, no fetching of water from her well, visitors are not permitted, you must greet her morning, afternoon and evening.
Male tenants must clear the compound and female tenants must sweep the compound.

This one is boot camp

Darkerberry:


Very right and I so share same view as bolded in your comment, I wish there is just any other name to use instead of calling ppl of such a view a feminist cos I clearly don't understand or lol the agenda of the so called feminists but I believe in general human rights.. maybe I'd say I'm Humanist..

Yes, perhaps a humanitarian suits the mentality. Just having thought towards adequate welfare - for all!

Sluvist:

It is called lesion, it was a body reaction to ANTI-RETROVIRAL DRUG. The girl is definitely taking HIV medications. But you can still surf if you have a good DUREX.

That’s not medically accurate.

etibaba:
Well to some extent it does, he uses his hype over there to cement Burna's already blooming international hype. Just like a football player getting more recognition due to the status of his club.

Ohh okay I understand you now; thanks

JoeEeL:


Thanks. Good morning.

Burna remains my fav anyday anytime. If Nigerians understood deep meanings of Music, 'Monsters you made' should have been the street anthem during the #EndSARS protest, not that 'e be like you don dey talk too much...'

OK I think I got my answer as concerns the emoticon. I use a computer mostly to do my stuff, not a fone. Maybe that's y I lack those extra emoticon ability.

Exactly

I think it’s easy to miss the point here. The actual issue is not about whether we should or should not be calling out bad behaviour, it’s about the societal norms and how consistent they are with our true beliefs/culture.

If it is normal, in Nigeria, for everybody to embezzle in some sort of way, or accept bribery in some sort of way, then it doesn’t make any sense to shun it as though it is an anomaly.

If a behaviour is normal, then why do we shift the goal posts of what is acceptable, depending upon context of the conversation?

The FGN law states that only a monogamous marriage is legal , but a STATE governor (e.g. Murtala Nyako), functioning in the capacity of leadership and interpretation of that same law can legally have 4 wives. Why are we deceiving ourselves? In fact where have we seen someone convicted of such? (I personally just think the law should reflect the truth of marriage)

On the flip side, Nigeria is the most religious country in the world (don’t quote me, but I do know that we have the most churches statistically). Yet, we are ranked in the top 10 for sexual violence and female danger - globally . So there is a a false prescription of spirituality

As with the aforementioned examples in the thread, often a time, a popular Nigeria statement has completely parallel cultural implications or internalisation by the speaker.

It’s almost as if we know how to socially navigate, but inwardly, we know the true values we hold and they don’t need to be consistent with what we portray to other people.

Darkerberry:


Exactly bro, they come online forming hard nigga and they are always quick to just call others "simps" meanwhile they are the real simps.

Thank you.

It’s not even funny at all, I don’t know how I’ve been stumbling across these redpill forums these days but what I read is so alarming.

I’m not even interested in fem not to talk of feminism but how do we expect a nation to thrive when we want to classify 60% of its population as subhuman. Is that not madness? Is that an attitude that will sustain any sort of progressive development in any ramification?

Hian.