NewStats: 3,262,364 , 8,176,934 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 12:36 AM j4660

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obataokenwa:
But why will they need the man's consent before CS will be done? Doctors here never sort for my consent before my wife delivered through emergency CS. My wife signed all the papers.

Alot of rubbish meed to be addressed in that country. Same thing with accident victims. I wonder why the health ministry won't take care of emergencies to avoid deaths.

I doubt the credibility of Op story, so, if a woman get pregnancy through sperm donation without having husband or she even gets husband but travels abroad, she must look for husband at all cost to sign delivery papers.

Thundafireseun:
I have seen a woman who refused CS just because her pastor told her she was going to deliver like the Hebrew women….

Her baby died in her womb … her baby was already decaying in her womb…. The baby’s dead body was brought out parts by parts …

The husband almost died from begging his wife to accept CS

I understand patients right but I think there's instances where a doctor can override that..

if the doctor feels that it's the only option to save lives?

Thundafireseun:
I have seen a woman who refused CS just because her pastor told her she was going to deliver like the Hebrew women….

Her baby died in her womb … her baby was already decaying in her womb…. The baby’s dead body was brought out parts by parts …

The husband almost died from begging his wife to accept CS

Happen to a guy last year , wife and mom said she most deliver like other women, the baby girl died mom was Alive.

Thundafireseun:
I have seen a woman who refused CS just because her pastor told her she was going to deliver like the Hebrew women….

Her baby died in her womb … her baby was already decaying in her womb…. The baby’s dead body was brought out parts by parts …

The husband almost died from begging his wife to accept CS

Women will vilify the useless man for not accepting CS forgetting that women too put men in terrible emotional trauma by refusing CS or even aborting . Bad, selfish and unreasonable people cut across both genders .

THANK GOD YOU TOO NA MAN AND SO MAKES YOU AN ANIMAL...WE ARE ALL ANIMALS IN THIS "ANIMAL FARM" OF A COUNTRY

Women can sign CS forms in some hospitals here in the South. I wouldn't know where this event he narrated happened. Also some (like my hospital) would ask for the of a family member of the woman. If at all your husband wants you dead, your birth family would not want that. So I put my brother's number.

There are women that refuse CS. I don't know why they think either way is easy or CS is a sign of weakness. No way to birth a child is easy. Focus on mother and child coming out alive.

It's unfortunate that people fail to apply common sense especially when it has to do with life.

I had similar experience when my wife wanted to give birth. The doctor told me the only option was CS, and I quickly consented because I saw how my wife was groaning in pains and I couldn't afford to loose any of them. Thank God she gave birth successfully.

I informed my in-laws and they complained why didn't I inform them before I made such decision. Smh

We listen, we dont judge
Please, take the message and forget the messenger

It's unfortunate that people fail to apply common sense especially when it has to do with life.

Totally! Great advice!

No be this guy wey dey chain women like hin dogs dey yarn so?

Nawao

u NICE na e you dey CUFF them for NECK?

Thundafireseun:
I have seen a woman who refused CS just because her pastor told her she was going to deliver like the Hebrew women….

Her baby died in her womb … her baby was already decaying in her womb…. The baby’s dead body was brought out parts by parts …

The husband almost died from begging his wife to accept CS

Funny thing is, the whole Hebrew woman nonsense according to the story was a lie told to Pharaoh by the midwives just to save Moses' life, yet many Nigerian women want to live the lie but end up dying ignorantly.

A lot of Nigerians no know the difference between loose and lose

Chilipepper:
“As a lady, please marry a kind man” – Socialite Pretty Mike advises following a tragic incident.

I am sure Pst. Davyd Ibiyeomi has told them no Hebrew woman ever delivered via CS or Under Medical induction...
Those Pastors fit wire their followers mind to believe anything.

As a man too, think and marry a kind a woman…

Who's Pretymike

As an Adult, you are to sign consent for procedure.... Women, don't wait for anyone who wants you dead to have authority over your life..

Na for social media I know say a birth process dey wey the name na Hebrew Way. I thought the safest method is the most preferred, provided mother and baby are safe?

Well, I am glad I ain't religious.

Good advice.

But the kind men are probably not attractive or average earners, so Mr Mike, you should add that a kind man is not necessarily a 10% man.

cococandy:
Why does the man need to sign the consent when the woman is alive and mentally stable enough to sign her own consent? Is this a common practice in Nigeria? If yes why are Nigerian women still getting pregnant?

I dey shame for you, you wey suppose dey expose

A Patient cant sign on behalf of him or herself as there must be a 3rd party highly related or someone responsible for that patient to sign

its a standard medical process, i signed for my father surgery its not just around women or pregnancy alone

njokuuche77:
It's unfortunate that people fail to apply common sense especially when it has to do with life.

I had similar experience when my wife wanted to give birth. The doctor told me the only option was CS, and I quickly consented because I saw how my wife was groaning in pains and I couldn't afford to loose any of them. Thank God she gave birth successfully.

I informed my in-laws and they complained why didn't I inform them before I made such decision. Smh

Thanks for sharing your experience, sometimes they just want to give Men bad name

pansophist:
Good advice.

But the kind men are probably not attractive or average earners, so Mr Mike, you should add that a kind man is not necessarily a 10% man.

There is a saying in Yoruba, ti eyan o ba nii owo lowo iwa oni'wa lon ma wu i.e if a man never get money he lives on a borrowed character/ personality

how do you even judge a poor man is kind, certainly as nothing to give

kayperry:



There is a saying in Yoruba, ti eyan o ba nii owo lowo iwa oni'wa lon ma wu i.e if a man never get money he lives on a borrowed character/ personality

how do you even judge a poor man is kind, certainly as nothing to give

If you noticed, I mentioned 10% men.

Most men are average, and in those average, men with character plenty inside.

Also, men hardly fall in love when they have money. Let me tell you what wealthy men usually does. They will usually sell women a 'dream' to dump their cream. If you don't get it, forget about it

What goes around comes around. A woman cant be rejecting struggling guys, and expect that same struggling guy to make it and not have lots of women on a rotational list.

He re the rejection during his struggling years, and he will get justice for himself.

pansophist:


If you noticed, I mentioned 10% men.

Most men don't be average, and in those average, men with character abounds.

Also, men hardly fall in love when they have money. They just usually sell women a dream to dump their cream

10% is as good as generalizing all men are badt ... abi ki lo tun ku

That wicked man to Mrs A is an Angel to another/Mrs B

its not a matter of rich or poor, just look out for the right person with baggages you can bear @most .. thats marriage

You will be more save looking for a man you cant bear his excesses than looking for a man that sweeps you off your feet .. just my opinion though

kayperry:



10% is as good as generalizing all men are badt ... abi ki lo tun ku

That wicked man to Mrs A is an Angel to another/Mrs B

its not a matter of rich or poor, just look out for the right person with baggages you can bear @most .. thats marriage

You will be more save looking for a man you cant bear his excesses than looking for a man that sweeps you off your feet .. just my opinion though

At your last paragraph, I agree. But my point still remains

The man might not be attractive or a 10% man. A man can be doing fine and not a 10%

pansophist:


At your last paragraph, I agree. But my point still remains

The man might not be attractive or a 10% man. A man can be doing fine and not a 10%

Wil you advise a woman to marry a man she does not find attractive

if attractive is missing, no point checking or ticking other boxes

When you get pregnant, you will ‘see yourself’ along with childbirth, along with the first few months of taking care of a newborn.

It is then you will understand the need for kindness, tolerance and understanding in this life.

kayperry:



Wil you advise a woman to marry a man she does not find attractive

if attractive is missing, no point checking or ticking other boxes

I did not say a woman should marry a man she does not find attractive, what I said is that attraction should not be where a woman (or a man) draws the line.

Lots of women aint attractive either, and men settle all the time. The average Nigerian woman is short, chubby or chunky, with disproportionate arse, and men marry them all the time. If men can settle, why not women?

I know so many girls in my high schol and even university days that looked like supermodels, but if you see them now, lets me just say that life has happened to them.

Imagine a man that marries such a woman because of attraction then, do you think such a relationship can be sustainable long term?

I like attractive women, but again, I am not blind to the fact that attraction ends in the physical. If I get blind today, I will need a good woman not an attractive one.

Also, most unattractive people can become attractive if they work on it. Most people can ''naturalise'' themselves into attraction If they loose weight, dress well, have a fitting hairstyle etc.

The chase for butterflies has kept lots of young people single.