| Berankis: 7:51am On Apr 22 |
tunapawizzy:
You did not put brother in front of his name, his agents will ban you again
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| callthefred: 8:01am On Apr 22 |
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Every man always believes they married right until you're broke or you pretend to be broke, that's when you will know the nonsense you married.
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| Mom007(f): 8:20am On Apr 22 |
CodeTemplarr:
if it is babies in quick succession that kills, what about those who have one or two and then crossover? Habaa. Take m easy oooo.
Can u compare the rates of occurrence of the 2? How do you make a woman conceive almost every year? If I'm not mistaken, his wife has miscarried at least twice during the duration of his posting on Nairaland in addition to the 5 kids. He wants to kill her ni?
Yes, some deaths are unexpected and unexplained but if anything do obavoh's wife today, I will hold him responsible.
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| poshestmina(f): 8:31am On Apr 22 |
Mom007:
Can u compare the rates of occurrence of the 2? How do you make a woman conceive almost every year? If I'm not mistaken, his wife has miscarried at least twice during the duration of his posting on Nairaland in addition to the 5 kids. He wants to kill her ni?
Yes, some deaths are unexpected and unexplained but if anything do obavoh's wife today, I will hold him responsible.
His own is just too much .
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| mignone(f): 8:32am On Apr 22 |
SoaringLife01:
Guy, from your story, you better MAN UP.
As other people don yarn, I go advice make you padlock your agboola. The economy noh be your mate o.
See ehn, I guess you don't know this guy's story.
I'm equally appalled by his mum inlaw's attitude but their matter didn't start today.
That wife of his started birthing him kids at 16yrs or so, he once accused her of infidelity, the wife's aunt or so while on omugwo, once witnessed him pestering d wife for sex, etc. Even ppl on this forum have counselled him, but he seems to have a covenant with poverty like others mentioned.
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| mignone(f): 8:37am On Apr 22 |
honour7:
That woman no deserve to be only wife, if you settle down small and you are a muslim, marry another one .
After he took the girl in as a teenager?
Do you know this guy's story? How old do u think he is?
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| Okhuadams(m): 8:42am On Apr 22 |
Obavoh:
This was the biggest mistake of my life. We had no money and we had to depend on her parents for everything.
I received direct and indirect insults from her father, mother and even the last born of their household.
It got so bad that one day her mother served us soup and as we were eating, she dipped hand into my soup and took out the piece of fish inside and claimed she mistakenly added it to my plate. I cried that night.
I would work morning to evening on her father’s farm without pay. I swallowed everything with hopes that I will find a job and move us out.
Few weeks after we moved in, My wife started behaving funny. She would ask me for money to buy things which she knew i did not have.
When I told her I don’t have she would start quarreling with me. This is something that never happened under my roof.
Her mother began to control her. Since we moved into her parents house she never allowed me to touch her. I became so frustrated that I wanted to use the small money I had to rent a short time hotel for us so we could spend time together as husband and wife.
My Wife cried and accused me of wayward lifestyle. She reported me to her mother and they held a family meeting for me.
I became ashamed for lack of privacy and watching my life waste away. I finally packed my things and left. My wife or her family did not even beg me to stay.
you better thank God for delivering you. If the need arises for you to move on pls and Pls don't look back . The humiliating one is when she deep her hands into the soup and remove the fish I know the feeling I had that experience with my elder sister though she later apologize and we made up but the feeling at the time I better not explain
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| auduadeniyi(m): 8:59am On Apr 22 |
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she is not your wife if not she will not change because of the little predicament which you are not the cause try to watch your back "A friend in need is a friend indeed"
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| Pickup8: 9:08am On Apr 22 |
AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living. E.g Abuja.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.
This is the problem of the people that lack patience to read a story to the end. He has done what you are giving as counsel 😂🤣😂🤣
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| dshokodiza(m): 9:16am On Apr 22 |
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What dey did to you is necessary evil,to make you Man up.that's the standard.
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| SugarRay001: 9:21am On Apr 22 |
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The woman give you hint of who she be,you get small thing back now na she you first run go carry make you for dey lash,,,no worry,,,she go show you who she be in a greater way soon,since you no wan learn
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| honour7: 9:31am On Apr 22 |
mignone:
After he took the girl in as a teenager?
Do you know this guy's story? How old do u think he is?
My bad, I took a second look at his picture and saw how young the guy is, the girl may likely be as you said. If so the guy should start grooming the girl to his taste and reduce the connection between her and her family. It is not good for a lady to love her parental family more than her own husband or home. The man needs to be more firm and let the lady buy into his vision.
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| maxzzo1(m): 9:32am On Apr 22 |
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You try sha if na me , will give d father and d mother distance
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| Lighterx: 9:59am On Apr 22 |
Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and you still have the guts to say you wanna touch your wife 
Anyways iam happy for your family
Quoting u is not a problem
But the mods really like u to ban anybody that quote u
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| frankoben(m): 10:00am On Apr 22 |
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Does tradition forbid using spoons to eat where you come from?
Anyways I'm happy your travails has a happy ending.
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| Lighterx: 10:25am On Apr 22 |
Lawly:
Most Nigerian women are just too selfish. You don't want to stay with your husband's family but you want your own family to disrespect and treat your husband anyhow. You are comfortable with it and you even ed them to maltreat and abuse him. All the females in the comments are busy ing her and abusing the already abused guy.
All these nonsense didn't exist in the times of our ancestors who had multiple wives. Those women competed among themselves on who the husband will love most. Men die easily these days and almost all the women have the mentality that it's the obligation their husbands owe them to die on time and leave them alone with their children to enjoy their children alone at the stage when the husbands are supposed to start reaping their sweats they spent their primes for their children.
I have told myself this, any woman that shows me disrespect, I will disrespect her too. If she loves me, l will love and cherish her too & be the center of her world. If she sacrifice for me, I will sacrifice for her too. If she's selfish, I will be selfish too. If I discover any oita of selfishness in her, I will have another family outside and let her know. Thanks God I can remarry but she can't. Whatever hands she gives me, that's the same hand I will return back on her. If she wants the family to scatter, it will scatter and I continue family with the other woman outside. I didn't come to this life to live it for another person's selfishness.
Good men dey suffer for this life shaaa. If your own family and kinsmen don't destroy you, your wife destroys you. If your wife doesn't destroy you, your friends destroy you. If your friends don't destroy you, your colleagues at work destroy you. In all of them, they treat you like enemy and simultaneously demand you take care of them with your own life. Either way, you just suffer badly for being a good man. Seems like this life favours bad people and punishes good people. If you give people your undivided attention, they ALWAYS abuse it badly and make you regret it.
But u never get the money all these are still dreams
Sweet dreams
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| Lighterx: 10:41am On Apr 22 |
Ewedegubbler:
Never ever ever move into a woman’s house in this life. I am a rich guy who once bought an expensive penthouse for a galfriend of mine and she begged me to in with her whilst my house was being built. That was the costliest and most silly mistake I ever made till this day.
lil Wayne
Na so
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| ChristineC: 11:55am On Apr 22 |
AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.
Go abuja.
try dey read. it's not that difficult.
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| Munzy14(m): 1:18pm On Apr 22 |
Obavoh:
Last year we had several attacks in my village and everyone had to runaway for safety.
I took my wife and children to my mother’s house and decided we should pick up our life from there.
My wife was very sad and said if I love her I will move her and the children to her own family’s house.
At first I rejected this idea but she stopped eating my mother’s food. She was pregnant and was losing weight fast. I became afraid that she might lose the baby and her life.
She later had a miscarriage and accused my mother. It caused a lot of troubles.
With the little savings I had, we moved to my Inlaw’s place.
You never tire with all this your cut and fictions?
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| Magnumproperty: 2:19pm On Apr 22 |
AfahaAbia:
Go and read his other threads on his profile. That Obavoh has over 5 kids and he is still planning to have more. He lives in the North
Ooooh I see. I don't follow people stories here. I didn't know he had posted it before that he has 5 kids. It is well with him.
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| Gerrard59(m): 12:50am On Apr 23 |
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So Nigerians no longer want their country people to have plenty of children? I thought you people said children are blessings from God? 🤣🤣🤣
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| cenaman(m): 8:15am On Apr 23 |
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Obavoh how are your 7 kids fairing?
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| cenaman(m): 8:17am On Apr 23 |
Magnumproperty:
Ooooh I see. I don't follow people stories here. I didn't know he had posted it before that he has 5 kids. It is well with him.
check his profile
Think his children are up to seven now.
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| Coolgent(m): 12:38pm On Apr 23 |
Obavoh:
All thanks to God I was able to get a good job after I moved out.
I am now earning nothing less than ₦150,000 monthly.
I can buy what I want and eat well now.
I have gotten a place for my wife and children to stay. We are now living happily together.
All glory to God.
Well congratulations.
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