NewStats: 3,262,824 , 8,178,267 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 05:15 PM 1n3u2p

Thank God for helping you out in the Name of Jesus Christ Amen. Dont forget to thank Him.

AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living. E.g Abuja.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.

E sure me say you no read the whole post

Nobody want a burden

Stolen:
Your mother in law, is your mother.


humans claim to be inteligent but i still have to keep explaining basic things to them.

Your mother-in-law is NOT your mother at all.
Or explain to us how Regina's mother is Ned's mother, Ned who is much older than her!
Or all theses 70-year-old Northerners who marry 12-year-olds. Their mother (mother-in-law) is same age as their granddaughter!

Aaaah aaaah, nobody is above mistake naa and beside they were just displaced through attack. I think that's North Central of Nigeria. , he first went to his own parents house but the wife never liked it and even refused to be eating which led to miscarriage, so the next option is the wife's parents house, all to just make the wife happy but turned out bad from r him cos the mother in-law was instigating her daughter/his wife against him until he got fed up and left to get a house somewhere else and everything became okay once again.

Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and you still have the guts to say you wanna touch your wife


Anyways iam happy for your family

Magnumproperty:

150k on top 5 children? Have you consider school fees except his 5 kids will be attending government schools sha.

I attended government school and today i didn't end up bad. Children here in UK are all in government school.

Besides he reside in North. Put the children in government schools. Food is more cheaper and house rent far cheaper in North. He could get 2 bedroom of 10k per month.

Obavoh:
This was the biggest mistake of my life. We had no money and we had to depend on her parents for everything.

I received direct and indirect insults from her father, mother and even the last born of their household.

It got so bad that one day her mother served us soup and as we were eating, she dipped hand into my soup and took out the piece of fish inside and claimed she mistakenly added it to my plate. I cried that night.

I would work morning to evening on her father’s farm without pay. I swallowed everything with hopes that I will find a job and move us out.


Few weeks after we moved in, My wife started behaving funny. She would ask me for money to buy things which she knew i did not have.

When I told her I don’t have she would start quarreling with me. This is something that never happened under my roof.

Her mother began to control her. Since we moved into her parents house she never allowed me to touch her. I became so frustrated that I wanted to use the small money I had to rent a short time hotel for us so we could spend time together as husband and wife.

My Wife cried and accused me of wayward lifestyle. She reported me to her mother and they held a family meeting for me.

I became ashamed for lack of privacy and watching my life waste away. I finally packed my things and left. My wife or her family did not even beg me to stay.

Never ever ever move into a woman’s house in this life. I am a rich guy who once bought an expensive penthouse for a galfriend of mine and she begged me to in with her whilst my house was being built. That was the costliest and most silly mistake I ever made till this day.

Obavoh:
All thanks to God I was able to get a good job after I moved out.

I am now earning nothing less than ₦150,000 monthly.
I can buy what I want and eat well now.

I have gotten a place for my wife and children to stay. We are now living happily together.

All glory to God.

why will you even agree to move to your inlaw house in the first place, if your wife insist in going to her parents because of situation, you free her let her go, you as a man have no business following her, even if you visit them there, don't sleep. Don't attach emotions to woman's demands even if she wants to die. Women can render you useless and still blame you for being useless

Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and ]you still have the guts to say you wanna [b]touch your wife ][/b]

Anyways iam happy for your family

Do you realise if he doesn't drive the car in his compound another man will drive it for him.

I guess you are either from Benue or Plateau? Please go for family planning, learn a skill too, #150k is just like #50 down south here.

AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living. E.g Abuja.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.

how much is data in your area?

If this story is true, it seems like you've had a remarkable turnaround in your relationship. Initially, it appeared your wife wasn't treating you well, but now you're saying she's changed her behavior after you acquired wealth. Some might question whether her newfound respect is genuinely for you or your financial situation.
It's sad you have the confidence to share this online. You a simp bro

The guy has a fucking problem,he is a sex addict

AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.
Go abuja.

You didn't read the story to the end....

He said he now has a good job and earns above 150k monthly

Obavoh:
The last time I visited my Inlaws my wife’s father and me are from the same plate.

Distance really brings respect. I thank God almighty

to use hand eat rice the sweet me well well

quincee88:
Obavoh my guy, how far? Still giving birth? Your story don dey dey complicated o.

No wahala sha as e be say you don land 150k job. As e be now ₦200 for coconut, tiger nut, dates and the likes no longer a problem.

I'm sure with the balance from this money, cause I'm calculating like 15k should feed your family for the month base on say una don already dey use ₦500 make delicious soup before now. As e be now, in the next 6months you go don already build mansion. Life don set for una like this o
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Mom007:


A woman should stop opening her legs to her husband... really? If your wife implements this your advice for you under any circumstances, what would be the topic of your own nairaland post?

She should go for family planning.

Ganjafama:
I'm no homo, but I am beginning to like this guy. The way he posts his pictures on a faceless forum like this without a care in the world is amazing.

That is because he as nothing to hide like like you

Magnumproperty:

Is like sleep don dey my eyes. I tried looking for where he mentioned 5 kids in his write up but didn't see it. How Una take know abeg? And if it's true he has 5 kids for this kind economy how is he coping?
And in the last part he said he is now earning N150,000; how is he going to cope with that amount for a whole 30 days with that large family? It is well with Obavoh.

Go and read his other threads on his profile. That Obavoh has over 5 kids and he is still planning to have more. He lives in the North

EmperorIsaac:

Oh, my Father my Father! Nairaland The things we read at times!

But she’s not wrong na. How can a sane person be having an erection under such condition?

Mom007:
Stop getting your wife pregnant this boy. Allow her womb to heal. If I'm not mistaken, you already have 5 kids under 10years. Her body is not firewood. Go and do family planning and don't kill that woman and leave those children motherless. That's what I have to say. I am happy for u that you are back on your feet but Stop flirting with disaster. This economy is not favourable for birthing babies upandan.

if it is babies in quick succession that kills, what about those who have one or two and then crossover? Habaa. Take m easy oooo.

Kelvin247Gold:


One advice for men is, never sleep above a night at your in-laws house. That's even when there's an event that made you to visit then or your children are on holidays. Your wife and children can stay with them. This will earn you more respect from them. Go out and hustle.

Very warped mentality filled with unnecessary pride. You expect the woman to sleep in yours and advice the men against such. Isn't that double standards? Respecting you as an in-law has nothing to do with whether or not you sleep in their house.

AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living. E.g Abuja.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.

You no read finish see as u de do.
He has left and has a job now.try to read welll no de rush type 😂😂