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flexyrule:
Na normal naija way...

Always taking advantage of people's kindness.

That's how I gave this guy 500k to bury his father...

To pay back now, e be like e want make I go dig the papa commot for inside grave before e go pay me back my money.

You borrow person 500k for BURIAL, rich man🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

drimzsmoke:



You borrow person 500k for BURIAL, rich man🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

I have borrowed a very popular celebrity 5m to assist organize his dad's burial, and he paid back.

I'm even surprised at the mentions I'm receiving because of 500k.

As much as I don't derive pleasure in stressing myself in recovering funds, that doesn't mean I shouldn't help people.

Blazebond:
All the advise una go advise under this thread go be the usual yimmerish,nor be every poor person bad so no need for many talks,in everything that you do just use wisdom, stop exposing urself unnecessarily, internet fraudsters have done more harm than good to the minds of the average Nigerian.

You see all those poor people?

Avoid them!

ahnie:
One supplying me woods has made me her personal ATM, because I always give her foodstuffs,it even got to the extent of them knocking on my door,and telling me nothing dey house o,the kids became irritants,and pesty.

Like my home became their succour,they forgot I also have a family hanging and surviving on my neck.

The mum even had the effrontery of wanting to search my kitchen because I told her I don't have foodstuffs to give to her.

Too much kindness n familiarity to some people wallaihi e nor good

So, what are you going to do about it. I hope you will not wait till she harms you. Don't ever allow people into your personal space, always create boundaries they cannot dare cross. Such people can easily set you up or find a way to poison you.

Ventura1:
Our society value dependency and entitlement attitude, it is a prayer points in our religious centers, i.e. God created the rich because of the poor.

Its a very crazy thought process. But you can't blame the poor because the rich and affluent use the same religion to control them

SachaBastien:
Techie with no backup?. One formatting and your whole life is gone? You're more dumb than stupid.

Bros today's Sunday plx

alphabbey1:
Go and be watching Investigation Discovery (Channel 171) on dstv. You will see evils you've never thought exist...

What of Gotv is there channel like that their

Chee59:
Nigerians aren't good people.

Nigerians are generally not good people.

sukkot:
people need to start moving like me

1-get spiritual protection . this is spiritual warfare
2- appear poorer than you are. present yourself as STRUGGLING to the world
3-never accept help from anyone poorer than you
4-trust no man. keep everybody at arms length
5-always avoid eye . they read your spirit through eye
6-do everything yourself if you are not crippled
7-if you have 1 million naira, hypothetically speaking, and the rent is between a 3 bedroom in ebute metta or a studio flat in ikoyi, always choose ikoyi. its about the location not the size of your house, always aspire to be around rich people . those places are heavily protected

You made so much sense here.

You are even lucky the ingrate goat didn't kill you. That is Nigeria youth for you, help them and stay far from them and be save or help them and be closer to them then expect unexpected I'm talking from experience.

Odebayo4010:


What of Gotv is there channel like that their

That should be channel 52 on gotv

Zecheriah 13 vs 6

If someone asks, ‘What are these wounds on your body?’ they will answer, ‘The wounds I was given at the house of my friends.’

Wounded by friends and not enemies.


Mathew 10 vs 36

A man's enemies will be the of his own household.

Jeremiah 9: 4

“Beware of your friends; do not trust anyone in your clan. For every one of them is a deceiver,and every friend a slanderer.

Omosofe Folorunso O[b]
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Thank God say dem no poison you

flexyrule:
I have borrowed a very popular celebrity 5m to assist organize his dad's burial, and he paid back.

I'm even surprised at the mentions I'm receiving because of 500k.

As much as I don't derive pleasure in stressing myself in recovering funds, that doesn't mean I shouldn't help people.

Nairaland Elon musk boys don dey harass your pm

Stawner16:
The typical Nigerian mentality:
Once you’re a young guy living good and people notice you don’t have a 9-5 job and mostly stay at home, they automatically conclude you’re a Google boy lol

Google boy indeed!

Luzebox:
travel more and see majority of the world are not good people... You act too nice they take advantage of u

I think it's worse in Nigeria. The desperation ro "make it" no matter what led us here.

yongg:
I had already learnt this lesson while in Nursery school. It amazes me how I'm still able to virtually everything (even the perfume permeating the air et al) that transpired the day I decided to show a little kindness to a classmate because he said I should give him small. Brethens, I don't know if it was because of the Sunday school lessons of the previous Sunday or if it was the morning devotion that made me decided to test this show of kindness, I kid you not, till this day (in Deontay Wilder's voice), I will never forget the experience.

That was how one became two and I was almost mobbed, they wouldn't even let me eat my break food in peace because I was hungry too. Different guilt tripping emotional tactics to get from me what some turned out to have, some even came multiple times. If you didn't bulge, they go "ok, I won't be your friend again", and that's coming from someone who wasn't even my friend to begin with.

I ended up sharing it to everyone that wanted it, thinking they would be satisfied. I got the shocker of my then short life, lols. They cursed me out saying they didn't even get anything, people that just several seconds ago were just nibbling out my lunch like piranhas in an eating frenzy.

Of course I cried that not only did I get not to eat my lunch while hungry my self, but that even after helping they didn't acknowledge that I help them and cursed me out for it.

I was now hungry, traumatized (effing brutal something for a <4 year old, the things that were said? Hmm), got mobbed (they even mobbed off my flask and water bottle from my possession, lols) but also gained more enemies than friends (shit seemed to get worse the more I tried to explain and ask them didn't they when I cut for them just now?)

I learnt a great lesson that day about human psychology. Since that day, I see through everything, It won't matter if you use religion or blackmail to pyscho-babble your way. I will do what I intend to do strategically at all times with self preservation in mind. It pays to have a minimum amount of selfishness, especially if you haven't stood well and are considering rendering help.

lol you dey things from when you were 4 years old, wtf.

sukkot:
people need to start moving like me

1-get spiritual protection . this is spiritual warfare
2- appear poorer than you are. present yourself as STRUGGLING to the world
3-never accept help from anyone poorer than you
4-trust no man. keep everybody at arms length
5-always avoid eye . they read your spirit through eye
6-do everything yourself if you are not crippled
7-if you have 1 million naira, hypothetically speaking, and the rent is between a 3 bedroom in ebute metta or a studio flat in ikoyi, always choose ikoyi. its about the location not the size of your house, always aspire to be around rich people . those places are heavily protected

i agree 100 %

Weak story.
In this day and age, una still never sabi move.

sukkot:
people need to start moving like me

1-get spiritual protection . this is spiritual warfare
2- appear poorer than you are. present yourself as STRUGGLING to the world
3-never accept help from anyone poorer than you
4-trust no man. keep everybody at arms length
5-always avoid eye . they read your spirit through eye
6-do everything yourself if you are not crippled
7-if you have 1 million naira, hypothetically speaking, and the rent is between a 3 bedroom in ebute metta or a studio flat in ikoyi, always choose ikoyi. its about the location not the size of your house, always aspire to be around rich people . those places are heavily protected

What do you mean by spiritual protection?Expatiate on it.
At your number 7, are you saying people to have more than one apartment where they pay rents?

MrAndre07:

What do you mean by spiritual protection?Expatiate on it.
At your number 7, are you saying people to have more than one apartment where they pay rents?

spiritual protection as in everything you see happening in this world is spiritual warfare. There are many demons walking around cloaked in human flesh and these demons look to kill steal and destroy but these demons read peoples spirits and they prey only on weaker spirits and so you have to fortify your spirit so they stay away from you. However you choose to do it is up to you but me I do full and new moon rituals and also other things to fortify my spirit to keep these demons scared of me and away from me.

As per the house ? Obviously this only applies to single people or people who live alone who are on a budget, it's better to get a tiny place in a rich mans neighbourhood than to get a big space in an area where demons prowl. In those rich hoods they have security in place to checkmate demons. Armed security

Being too trusting is very risky in a country like Nigeria