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neonly: 10:46am On Oct 23, 2022
Mackopo:
No be small wary grin


Amen
Am interested but let see if any persin will try first
observanc1: 10:49am On Oct 23, 2022
Crampyblood:
When William Shakespeare wrote Romeo and Juliet it was to warn people about the shit called love and how dangerous it was/is and not the sweet sour feeling people think
were u there with William Shakespeare when he wrote Romeo and Juliet and he told u his reason for writing it?

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RuddyFusion(m): 10:50am On Oct 23, 2022
This is deep especially the aspect of knowing God
God is deep
God is exhaustible
Eternity is not enough to know the Father.
Though the shortest route is to know HIS son Jesus,
May God help us.


Help me Father I'm a sinner desiring to know you,...
GeneralPula: 10:52am On Oct 23, 2022
BABANGBALI:
Na true
Who be this one?
observanc1: 10:53am On Oct 23, 2022
AlfaSeltzer:
My life turned for the better the day I rejected religion.
na so. Very hypocritical people. Scaremongers. They make u lose faith in yourself. U will have to question every step u take. U want to go and take your bath, you question it, is it biblical? U want to eat, u question it, is it biblical? Haba, wetin naa.

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12chibundo: 10:53am On Oct 23, 2022
InterestingInteresting...
TinubuPikin: 11:06am On Oct 23, 2022
grin
Medianna(f): 11:07am On Oct 23, 2022
God first

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Fiscus105(m): 11:12am On Oct 23, 2022
MuslimIgbo:

LOVE CAN NEVER EXIST BETWEEN TWO PARTNERS THAT HAVE HAVE MULTIPLE BODYCOUNT. WHORES AND DOGS

ANY GIRL WITH MORE THAN 2 BODYCOUNT IS A WHORÈ.

DON'T BE DECEIVED!

MEANWHILE, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE DOESN'T NOT EXIST.
No this and know peace.



And any guy with more than one body count is a � dog.

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Venom11(m): 11:26am On Oct 23, 2022
Interesting15:

A primary function of man is to seek, know and keep exploring God. The truth is, God is very deep and inexhaustible. Even the 24 elders who have been with Him for ages, are yet to know all about Him. And I must tell you, GOD is very exciting, and we can't have enough of Him. Focus on knowing God and you won't be empty. You will get to a stage where you enjoy spending hours alone with God in the secret place, and you enjoy God's presence, always looking forward to the daily experience. The first step is to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.

This is someone's breakthrough. God bless you in Jesus Name. Amen

Lol.. Things that 24 elders of generations don't know but you know, � lol..
VULCAN(m): 11:27am On Oct 23, 2022
Religion is very bad.

But the OP is not discussing religion here.

OP is discussing best practices for life as designed by our Creator

I hope you can tell the difference?

If not, your ignorance will be loud

AlfaSeltzer:
My life turned for the better the day I rejected religion.

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MuslimIgbo: 11:27am On Oct 23, 2022
Fiscus105:




And any guy with more than one body count is a � dog.
That's not important sadly.
Bodycount is different for both genders.

Boys work hard (money, looks, affluence etc) in order to be able to fuçk who they can fuçk.

Girls on the other hand only needs to be attractive, in order attract fuçkers, or to be able to choose and get fuckéd by boys who finds them attractive.

GIRLS DON'T FUÇK, THEY CAN ONLY GET FUÇKED. WHEN YOU GET FUCKÉD, YOU GET CONQUERED.

Girls are the ones that have hymen (the greatest gift a girl can give to her husband) to LOOSE.
Purity is very important for girls than for guys. GOD DIDN'T CHOOSE A WHORÈ, HE CHOSE A VIRGIN TO BIRTH JESUS...

DON'T BE A WHORÈ

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Venom11(m): 11:33am On Oct 23, 2022
VULCAN:
Religion is very bad.

But the OP is not discussing religion here.

OP is discussing best practices for life as designed by our Creator

I hope you can tell the difference?

If not, your ignorance will be loud

Lol.. Oh really
Shadysen: 11:40am On Oct 23, 2022
op! its very hard to get marriage now as things are tough,
so as a full grown man, what can we do? , body no be firewood.
ednut1(m): 11:40am On Oct 23, 2022
This boy Akanni and sex.
derolemode(m): 11:41am On Oct 23, 2022
Interesting15:


Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.


The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.


The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).


There are different things that attempts to compell young people into a romantic relationship at the wrong time and in the wrong manner. There will be of the opposite gender who wants to pull you into a romantic relationship when it's wrong. Your parents might even be an agent of pressure - trying to force you into a relationship directly or indirectly. Your friends and even the media are also prominent agents. Nevertheless, you must be resolute and be patient enough to do the right thing at the right time.


Now, this is one of the major things pushing many young people into premature romantic relationships and entanglements outside God's Will for them. Loneliness (or the fear of it). Two major things sponsors this: idlness and lack of self esteem (thinking you are totally not complete without a partner).


Even at the basic level, an important solution to eradicating loneliness is getting busy and occupied. Now, I'm aware that some (probably many) young people still feel empty even as they are occupied with several jobs. There are several things to say about that. One is, the emptiness they feel might emanates as a result of neglect of certain important things, such as an intimate relationship with God their Creator (which means, in such a case, the problem is not about loneliness). Also, it is possible to be engaged with several things and still feel inadequate, if you are engaging yourself in things that doesn't bring fulfilment (particularly things that are not God's purpose for you).


Hence, two things I've seen worked for me as well as some other persons I know, are:

1. Being very occupied with seeking and knowing GOD
2. Being very occupied with purpose exploration

A primary function of man is to seek, know and keep exploring God. The truth is, God is very deep and inexhaustible. Even the 24 elders who have been with Him for ages, are yet to know all about Him. And I must tell you, GOD is very exciting, and we can't have enough of Him. Focus on knowing God and you won't be empty. You will get to a stage where you enjoy spending hours alone with God in the secret place, and you enjoy God's presence, always looking forward to the daily experience. The first step is to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.


Finally, get busy with discovering yourself, your talents and gifts and purpose, and occupy yourself with developing and deploying. These things brings fulfilment, and you won't have time for unproductive affairs.

If you are in an immoral relationship with a member of the opposite gender, break it immediately. Receive grace to do so in Jesus Name. Amen.

sundayakanni.com

Please back up all your stories with Biblical verses ing them else they're all just your imagination
omoiyamayor(m): 11:41am On Oct 23, 2022
What has this got to do with God now, have you heard about psychology before, they are expert in this field.
premierlead: 11:46am On Oct 23, 2022
Choi
Winters23: 11:49am On Oct 23, 2022
Interesting15:

A primary function of man is to seek, know and keep exploring God. The truth is, God is very deep and inexhaustible. Even the 24 elders who have been with Him for ages, are yet to know all about Him. And I must tell you, GOD is very exciting, and we can't have enough of Him. Focus on knowing God and you won't be empty. You will get to a stage where you enjoy spending hours alone with God in the secret place, and you enjoy God's presence, always looking forward to the daily experience. The first step is to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.

This is someone's breakthrough. God bless you in Jesus Name. Amen


is that so

if everyone is this dumb i wonder who will create cars, electricity, aeroplanes, or even the phones and internet you used in typing this trash
kaywhy09(m): 11:51am On Oct 23, 2022
Religious belief
CSTRR: 11:54am On Oct 23, 2022
Winters23:



is that so

if everyone is this dumb i wonder who will create cars, electricity, aeroplanes, or even the phones and internet you used in typing this trash
Scientific brilliance and religion is not mutually exclusive.
They both have their place in a man's life.

Isaac Newton and Michael Faraday were as much students of the Bible as they were students of physics and mathematics.

That is why you will have no excuse before God if you spend all your life worshipping science, and you see Isaac Newton in heaven.
CSTRR: 11:57am On Oct 23, 2022
Isaac Newton died a virgin.
And He never got married.

He was a famous mathematian and inventor of his time.
He could bed many of the British girls of his time for free without even marrying them.

Something made him forego sex outside marriage.
And it is not science.

But today, ordinary first class wey you manage get for 300level alone, you don use am fuccckk half the class.

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BABANGBALI: 12:00pm On Oct 23, 2022
GeneralPula:

Who be this one?
Doyin of bbnaija season 7

BABANGBALI: 12:01pm On Oct 23, 2022
Ebubu:
who is dat ?
Doyin of bbnaija season 7

GeneralPula: 12:02pm On Oct 23, 2022
BABANGBALI:
Doyin of bbnaija season 7
See her ugly puna self. Nonsense
muyico(m): 12:05pm On Oct 23, 2022
Interesting15:


Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.


The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.


The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).


There are different things that attempts to compell young people into a romantic relationship at the wrong time and in the wrong manner. There will be of the opposite gender who wants to pull you into a romantic relationship when it's wrong. Your parents might even be an agent of pressure - trying to force you into a relationship directly or indirectly. Your friends and even the media are also prominent agents. Nevertheless, you must be resolute and be patient enough to do the right thing at the right time.


Now, this is one of the major things pushing many young people into premature romantic relationships and entanglements outside God's Will for them. Loneliness (or the fear of it). Two major things sponsors this: idlness and lack of self esteem (thinking you are totally not complete without a partner).


Even at the basic level, an important solution to eradicating loneliness is getting busy and occupied. Now, I'm aware that some (probably many) young people still feel empty even as they are occupied with several jobs. There are several things to say about that. One is, the emptiness they feel might emanates as a result of neglect of certain important things, such as an intimate relationship with God their Creator (which means, in such a case, the problem is not about loneliness). Also, it is possible to be engaged with several things and still feel inadequate, if you are engaging yourself in things that doesn't bring fulfilment (particularly things that are not God's purpose for you).


Hence, two things I've seen worked for me as well as some other persons I know, are:

1. Being very occupied with seeking and knowing GOD
2. Being very occupied with purpose exploration

A primary function of man is to seek, know and keep exploring God. The truth is, God is very deep and inexhaustible. Even the 24 elders who have been with Him for ages, are yet to know all about Him. And I must tell you, GOD is very exciting, and we can't have enough of Him. Focus on knowing God and you won't be empty. You will get to a stage where you enjoy spending hours alone with God in the secret place, and you enjoy God's presence, always looking forward to the daily experience. The first step is to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.


Finally, get busy with discovering yourself, your talents and gifts and purpose, and occupy yourself with developing and deploying. These things brings fulfilment, and you won't have time for unproductive affairs.

If you are in an immoral relationship with a member of the opposite gender, break it immediately. Receive grace to do so in Jesus Name. Amen.

sundayakanni.com
Lama70(m): 12:13pm On Oct 23, 2022
Well said.
Winters23: 12:14pm On Oct 23, 2022
CSTRR:

Scientific brilliance and religion is not mutually exclusive.
They both have their place in a man's life.

Isaac Newton and Michael Faraday were as much students of the Bible as they were students of physics and mathematics.

That is why you will have no excuse before God if you spend all your life worshipping science, and you see Isaac Newton in heaven.

it will only make sense to me if i believe in your heaven or hellfire


there's only one life & its in this plannet, when we die the only thing that lives on is our legacies whether good or bad
Oceanjagaban: 12:14pm On Oct 23, 2022
All this big big talk....like this na to nack dey hungry me

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