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Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.


The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.


The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).


There are different things that attempts to compell young people into a romantic relationship at the wrong time and in the wrong manner. There will be of the opposite gender who wants to pull you into a romantic relationship when it's wrong. Your parents might even be an agent of pressure - trying to force you into a relationship directly or indirectly. Your friends and even the media are also prominent agents. Nevertheless, you must be resolute and be patient enough to do the right thing at the right time.


Now, this is one of the major things pushing many young people into premature romantic relationships and entanglements outside God's Will for them. Loneliness (or the fear of it). Two major things sponsors this: idlness and lack of self esteem (thinking you are totally not complete without a partner).


Even at the basic level, an important solution to eradicating loneliness is getting busy and occupied. Now, I'm aware that some (probably many) young people still feel empty even as they are occupied with several jobs. There are several things to say about that. One is, the emptiness they feel might emanates as a result of neglect of certain important things, such as an intimate relationship with God their Creator (which means, in such a case, the problem is not about loneliness). Also, it is possible to be engaged with several things and still feel inadequate, if you are engaging yourself in things that doesn't bring fulfilment (particularly things that are not God's purpose for you).


Hence, two things I've seen worked for me as well as some other persons I know, are:

1. Being very occupied with seeking and knowing GOD
2. Being very occupied with purpose exploration

A primary function of man is to seek, know and keep exploring God. The truth is, God is very deep and inexhaustible. Even the 24 elders who have been with Him for ages, are yet to know all about Him. And I must tell you, GOD is very exciting, and we can't have enough of Him. Focus on knowing God and you won't be empty. You will get to a stage where you enjoy spending hours alone with God in the secret place, and you enjoy God's presence, always looking forward to the daily experience. The first step is to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.


Finally, get busy with discovering yourself, your talents and gifts and purpose, and occupy yourself with developing and deploying. These things brings fulfilment, and you won't have time for unproductive affairs.

If you are in an immoral relationship with a member of the opposite gender, break it immediately. Receive grace to do so in Jesus Name. Amen.

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A primary function of man is to seek, know and keep exploring God. The truth is, God is very deep and inexhaustible. Even the 24 elders who have been with Him for ages, are yet to know all about Him. And I must tell you, GOD is very exciting, and we can't have enough of Him. Focus on knowing God and you won't be empty. You will get to a stage where you enjoy spending hours alone with God in the secret place, and you enjoy God's presence, always looking forward to the daily experience. The first step is to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.

This is someone's breakthrough. God bless you in Jesus Name. Amen

Happy Sunday everyone. Jesus loves you

lalasticlala

How did Jesus or any of twelve disciples, Paul, Mark and Luke teach una to woo lady and marry them in the Bible?


#AnswerWithBibleVerses

Interesting15:

There are different things that attempts to compell young people into a romantic relationship at the wrong time and in the wrong manner. There will be of the opposite gender who wants to pull you into a romantic relationship when it's wrong. Your parents might even be an agent of pressure - trying to force you into a relationship directly or indirectly. Your friends and even the media are also prominent agents. Nevertheless, you must be resolute and be patient enough to do the right thing at the right time.

98% of this evil was delivered by Movies and Magazines.

And, this was another Way God had designed to save mankind and most especially the woman for they are very much Cursed by God. And the her Curses are activated when the young lady did not Listen to God to Obey Him.

Then she went on to do the bad or worse things with her virginess eg selling it to the highest bidder or using it to swallow up an older man because she knew that if she does it, she would have a very high respect from her peers and even her seniors too would respect her as she feels big.

But at the same time, she discovers "something is gone". And that is why we see the girl being prayer plenty and churchy and driving every penis carrier away, until she real-eyesis that God would not be talking to her.

It is then she turns around and becomes a whorrin witch, hating men and using sex to murder them as she now sees that God has casted out as He did to Eve because she was evil while He is still has pity for the penis carrier.

Just saw this Commandment last week.

5 But if a man be just, and do that which is lawful and right,

6 And hath not eaten upon the mountains, neither hath lifted up his eyes to the idols of the house of Israel, neither hath defiled his neighbour's wife, neither hath come near to a menstruous woman,

7 And hath not oppressed any, but hath restored to the debtor his pledge, hath spoiled none by violence, hath given his bread to the hungry, and hath covered the naked with a garment;

8 He that hath not given forth upon usury, neither hath taken any increase, that hath withdrawn his hand from iniquity, hath executed true judgment between man and man,

9 Hath walked in my statutes, and hath kept my judgments, to deal truly; he is just, he shall surely live, saith the Lord God.

Story. Dem no go hear u.

This generation is completely lost, everything nowadays revolves around sex.

Well said

Couldn't read that sh!t up there!

ok

Yen Yen Yen!

When William Shakespeare wrote Romeo and Juliet it was to warn people about the shit called love and how dangerous it was/is and not the sweet sour feeling people think

Count me out of any relationship that is not romantic

Don't forget almost all the youth have access to blue movies at their fingertips these days which can be very destructive.

My life turned for the better the day I rejected religion.

M

I wan marry

People still dey love

Boy friend and girl friend are meant for kids or maybe under 20 them.
I laugh when I see above 20 years people doing that eish, the worst are those ones above 30 years.
One aunty was crying the other day of dating her boyfriend for 14 years, and how she is 45 now and the boyfriend has being giving her attitude that his is no longer interested.
Just negodu. Wasted years!!!
The funny part are those who claim it's for the aim of knowing each other
Even your mama wey born you, done know you finish?
If you are not ready for marriage yet, stay off dating or boyfriend and girlfriend whatever entirely, because sex is what most of you go there to have.
When you are ready, ask for Gods leading, and then go straight to the person's parents house to see them. If the girl no agree, make she dey stay Nah.

Romantic or not, stay off boyfriend and girlfriend ship entirely. Let's see if our society can retain some sanity!!!

Ok

Okay

What is romantic?
It means different things to different people

This generation has lost it
God is no more a priority in this generation
Even the churches are swaying away

Lord help us

Interesting15:


Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.


The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.


The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).


There are different things that attempts to compell young people into a romantic relationship at the wrong time and in the wrong manner. There will be of the opposite gender who wants to pull you into a romantic relationship when it's wrong. Your parents might even be an agent of pressure - trying to force you into a relationship directly or indirectly. Your friends and even the media are also prominent agents. Nevertheless, you must be resolute and be patient enough to do the right thing at the right time.


Now, this is one of the major things pushing many young people into premature romantic relationships and entanglements outside God's Will for them. Loneliness (or the fear of it). Two major things sponsors this: idlness and lack of self esteem (thinking you are totally not complete without a partner).


Even at the basic level, an important solution to eradicating loneliness is getting busy and occupied. Now, I'm aware that some (probably many) young people still feel empty even as they are occupied with several jobs. There are several things to say about that. One is, the emptiness they feel might emanates as a result of neglect of certain important things, such as an intimate relationship with God their Creator (which means, in such a case, the problem is not about loneliness). Also, it is possible to be engaged with several things and still feel inadequate, if you are engaging yourself in things that doesn't bring fulfilment (particularly things that are not God's purpose for you).


Hence, two things I've seen worked for me as well as some other persons I know, are:

1. Being very occupied with seeking and knowing GOD
2. Being very occupied with purpose exploration

A primary function of man is to seek, know and keep exploring God. The truth is, God is very deep and inexhaustible. Even the 24 elders who have been with Him for ages, are yet to know all about Him. And I must tell you, GOD is very exciting, and we can't have enough of Him. Focus on knowing God and you won't be empty. You will get to a stage where you enjoy spending hours alone with God in the secret place, and you enjoy God's presence, always looking forward to the daily experience. The first step is to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.


Finally, get busy with discovering yourself, your talents and gifts and purpose, and occupy yourself with developing and deploying. These things brings fulfilment, and you won't have time for unproductive affairs.

If you are in an immoral relationship with a member of the opposite gender, break it immediately. Receive grace to do so in Jesus Name. Amen.

sundayakanni.com

thank you very much for this. God bless you

Interesting

BABANGBALI:
Na true

who is dat ?

Many marriages are unable to stand the test of time mainly because, they went into it out of LUST and not genius love.

Lust could be sexual desires, lust after Money, fame etc.

All these lusts easily fade away, most especially sexual. When these lusts fade, the marriage becomes loveless and the couple will start seeing themselves as strangers (non compactible), bf u know, the marriage will fall yakata.