NewStats: 3,262,169 , 8,176,304 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 06:28 AM t6x42

JeffreyJamez:


The son of your uncle is your cousin bro,not your nephew. Nothing would happen if you attend the wedding. If you feel your cousin can handle it,then tell him. Or you wait till you actually meet her in person and wait for her reaction.

No! The son of ur uncle/sister is ur nephew. Cousin is a collective name for ur uncle's/sister's son or daughter. Nephew is for ur male cousin while niece is for ur female cousin. Cheers

[quote author=MzJin post=56258762][/quote]God bless you ma.



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Youdondeymad:
Naaaaa,I don't want to attend the wedding because I want them to be happy.But what would happen if my cousin discover the truth from another source.Their union is none of my business,I have moved on


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Oga I say u bang dat girl....be truthful to urself....people die within d next minute....but I'm not expecting a yes answer

Youdondeymad:
Are you still communicating,what was his reactions?I'm very sorry for being inquisitive.



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Life goes on bro. Yes we do communicate when there's business proposal.I'm happy their relationship didn't work out

The koko is always the sex part.....it could make or mar any kind of relationship along family lines, friendship level, or enemy level sef

Sex is a powerful thing, mehn

halibaba:



No! The son of ur uncle/sister is ur nephew. Cousin is a collective name for ur uncle's/sister's son or daughter. Nephew is for ur male cousin while niece is for ur female cousin. Cheers

d son of ur uncle or Aunty is ur cousin while d son of ur brother or sister is ur nephew

Bumbae1:

Morning !

Yes guess you are right but i meant that asin you know the person history .. we are all leftovers except bolded.. but at least we dont know their history or relationship antics (friends) you know each other so kinda weird

Bla bla.

Doesn't matter. You will date someone and as long as the ex (my friend or bruh) is okay with it, we will write our own history

Youdondeymad:
God bless you ma.




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But of a truth, it's best to keep this to yourself. If he's in love with her, they should go ahead except you've an ulterior motives. If I was to be in your shoes, it's a secret that will surely travel with me to the grave. Afterall she is not my wife.

justmenoni:
Op, youdondeymad?

Behave
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Youdondeymad:
You don dey...no allow me to complete am for you(lol),no I can't...so disgusting.



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Just judge it na, how can op ask such a question? Dating a girl your friend once dated self be as e get.

Youdondeymad:
He is the son of my uncle(my mum's elder brother).I'm not jealous(never) but I'm just trying to play safe.I don't know what would happen if I attend the wedding,we've not seen each other since we broke up.


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He is ur cousin na not nephew

Hw will someone compare a lady to garri....wtf is dt

nkwuocha1:


But of a truth, it's best to keep this to yourself. If he's in love with her, they should go ahead except you've an ulterior motives. If I was to be in your shoes, it's a secret that will surely travel with me to the grave. Afterall she is not my wife.

Having Exs around too much can rekindle the dead affair.

Fourwinds:
u misunderstood the content of d text...pls go and read it again.....ur responds is weird

Tanks for the correction mr fourwind..i don edit my kwote...Na the vex wey dey my heart I use reply.I myself don experience am..I have dated or shuld I say had a frend with benefit that told me a story of how she slept with 2 brothers when she was dating one of them..As she dey yarn me the story I just dey boil for my heart..
Ohk!When the girl come holiday for my house im see my junior brother start to dey trip becos im fair and probably im don too see im prick for boxers but she was tripping sha..Omo as I rember the old story she tell me about her sexual escapade with two brothers.I wake her up for midnight,warn the girl seriously make she no repeat dat story she tell me for my own house..She comport her self.

sorepco:
U r very close n he did not kno the woman u datef for more dan 2 years?? U huys r not very close!!

Come on,he is still my blood,I grew up in Lagos while he was born and brought up in Benue.There was a time I had issues with his parent(but na family matter sha),let me stop at this junction,thanks.




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i wil advice u to tell ur brother everyting,d same issue happen 2 me i dated a girl wich was my friend ex and she told me she had 3 abortions 4 d guy in d past and i accept 2 marry her bt she later went back 2 her way by having sex with guys and comitting series of abortion bt i thank God she nw a past in my life mickeyfwosh.

Mynd44:

So you wanna compare a human to a condom

If you don't want the story that touches stay away from her simple. Even FFk who is supposed to be matured is still throwing shades at Ojukwu and stylishly the Ibos because of an affair with Bianca way back in school.

Rtopzy:
He is ur cousin na not nephew

Modified,thanks

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Hmm! I was in this same similar situation. It happened to be my cousin that i gave a girl number that i had a fling with and he wanted to try his luck. He also had a fling with her and they both started dating each other and next thing i knew he told me he was going to marry her and i thought i was all a joke but he was dead serious. I tried everything to discourage him about the marriage arrangement but it all fell on deaf ears irrespective of the fact that i had slept with her .They went on with the marriage and of course i didnt attend the wedding. I guess she didnt see anything wrong with marrying my cousin. Women sef

oyienootieno:


Having Exs around too much can rekindle the dead affair.

He is in Lagos and the said guy is based in Benue bro. The feelings they had then may turn to disgust and will definitely discourage any form of closeness. As mature adults, I'm sure they will see themselves as in-laws rather. Except Ofcourse both are irresponsible.

thunderbabs:
The koko is always the sex part.....it could make or mar any kind of relationship along family lines, friendship level, or enemy level sef

Sex is a powerful thing, mehn

That is the only issue at hand.

If they didn't sleep together, then the guy should just go ahead and do his marriage

halibaba:



No! The son of ur uncle/sister is ur nephew. Cousin is a collective name for ur uncle's/sister's son or daughter. Nephew is for ur male cousin while niece is for ur female cousin. Cheers

Oxford dictionary.

@op. Tell him everything. Do not betray your blood. If he wants her bad enough he'll know what to do. Keeping mum is worse. You dated her for 2 years, so some other person in your family/circle of friends must know her. This is not even something to bring to nairaland, it is just common sense.

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Aremuagan144:
i wil advice u to tell ur brother everyting,d same issue happen 2 me i dated a girl wich was my friend ex and she told me she had 3 abortions 4 d guy in d past and i accept 2 marry her bt she later went back 2 her way by having sex with guys and comitting series of abortion bt i thank God she nw a past in my life mickeyfwosh.

Thank your stars.



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oyienootieno:


If you don't want the story that touches stay away from her simple. Even FFk who is supposed to be matured is still throwing shades at Ojukwu and stylishly the Ibos because of an affair with Bianca way back in school.

FFK is a baby. That is not the fault of Ojukwu or Bianca but on FFK who is a total retard

Bumbae1:

It's like .. pls read it properly
Figure of speech ..

Well... I get ur point but telling someone "It's like" you don't have sense is not too far from actually telling that person "you don't have sense".

VERDA:


Well... I get ur point but telling someone "It's like" you don't have sense is not too far from actually telling that person "you don't have sense".

Ok no worries

Youdondeymad:
Modified,thanks

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U r welcome...... why are ur comments appearing with the number 3?

nkwuocha1:


He is in Lagos and the said guy is based in Benue bro. The feelings they had then may turn to disgust and will definitely discourage any form of closeness. As mature adults, I'm sure they will see themselves as in-laws rather. Except Ofcourse both are irresponsible.

Best advise stay clear. The fact they are related poses danger in future.

TheLordIsGr8:


That is the only issue at hand.

If they didn't sleep together, then the guy should just go ahead and do his marriage

We've shared so many things together in the past,can't disclose more(I'm sorry).


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Rtopzy:

U r welcome...... why are ur comments appearing with the number 3?

It is a long story,my trademark...



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