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JeffreyJamez:

Why?

She be my ex na,there are some things I can't disclose on net,my cousin might even be a nairalander(who knows).



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Youdondeymad:
Thanks but I'm not the one o,na my cousin.


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Ohk! Advice him to think about it very well.

Youdondeymad:
I work and live in Lagos,he lives in Benue.I'm always busy,don't think I'm gonna travel now though I'd be on leave in july.

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So is face to face the only form of communication?

paschal47:
I swear that girl is stubborn ooo, she no wan leave una family and village alone.
Honestly I don't think I can do it.


But still let your nephew know about it.

Before or after the wedding?


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Youdondeymad:
Before or after the wedding?


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before the wedding na. Bros what are you thinking, do you want to crash the marriage by telling him after the wedding?

Mynd44:


So is face to face the only form of communication?

Naaaa,we chat via whassap and facebook.



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paschal47:

before the wedding na. Bros what are you thinking, do you want to crash the marriage by telling him after the wedding?

Thanks


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Youdondeymad:
She be my ex na,there are some things I can't disclose on net,my cousin might even be a nairalander(who knows).



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If I was you, I'll just pretend like nothing ever happened until he introduces her to me and from her reaction I'll know what to do.

JeffreyJamez:


If I was you, I'lljist pretend like nothing ever happened until he introduces her to me and from her reaction I'll know what to do.

Hmmm!I like this advice.


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nope,
not a good feeling at all

babyfaceafrica:
Kolewerk..nope,nay,never!!

Kiloday ti kolewerk?

Chikelue2000:
For me, y not, provided there is real love between us

Case settled!

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Friend, yes, siblings, I won't even date you

I prefer u let ur nephew know u dated his fiancée yrs ago... Atleast, to avoid him finding out later thru a different source

No, I'm not m a d. There are over 100 million ladies to choose from.

beautiful232:
nope, not a good feeling at all

Please can you explain more.


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Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.

I married a friend's ex

daylyt:


Kiloday ti kolewerk?

blood go dey smell

Youdondeymad:
Should I explain everything to him?

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bro, let ur conscience decide

Ok

No

@Op Can you use a condon another person used?

trustyshoess:
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But it was not my fault,she caused everything(to be honest).



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oyienootieno:
@Op Can you use a condon another person used?

You don dey...no allow me to complete am for you(lol),no I can't...so disgusting.



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no way sir. I cant

oyienootieno:
@Op Can you use a condon another person used?

So you wanna compare a human to a condom

Youdondeymad:
He is the son of my uncle(my mum's elder brother).I'm not jealous(never) but I'm just trying to play safe.I don't know what would happen if I attend the wedding,we've not seen each other since we broke up.


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Una b cousins joor

ok

Youdondeymad:
I don't have any problem with their union but is it normal to tell my nephew about our past escapades.
We are very close and I'm afraid he might not forgive me if I ignore his invitation.


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There's nothing wrong, just keep shut and you can also attend the wedding.

Youdondeymad:
He is the son of my uncle(my mum's elder brother).I'm not jealous(never) but I'm just trying to play safe.I don't know what would happen if I attend the wedding,we've not seen each other since we broke up.


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Olodo, thats your cousin.

I was gonna dismiss this story when i saw nephew. It's believable if it's your cousin.

It's better to tell him immediately.