NewStats: 3,263,676 , 8,181,003 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 09:32 AM 4k5f5b

Platini7:
hmmm

the western culture is affecting her
I don't no what you are still doing where you are that you haven't travel down to meet her wherever she is....
Involve the elders as someone also suggested

Before its too late

Michhy123:


Do you think is that easy ?

Sometimes women feels the hurt and pains more than the men.... The time weated alone

I understand your point and I am sorry about that...
Just face the really truth and move on, your one boo will come

Michhy123:


My waiting time expired last year but uncle is not saying anything positive...only to restrict my access to his Facebook page, I can't see his post, who post / comments on his wall etc.i can't even tag him except message to his inbox... IAM trying hard to be myself

you have just be scamed

he is leaving you in the relationship
Just don't tell him you are breaking up o, you too just leave him in the relationship and move on

you arent giving us full information

is he out there to make money for both of you?

when did he plan to come back?

or your waiting time no get expiry date you are just wating?

Fareee123:
he doesn't go clubbing, I see texts of girls giving him green lights,but he is good at ignoring them,I'm not saying he's perfect, but I haven't caught him cheat

just be patient with him

LordReed:


You miss the point of it.

the point of it is pointless, how will you make me believe I am the only one recarnated? And the purpose of all Is for me to be like God that u claimed it doesn't exist?

That meaningless

LordReed:
Very interesting short story:

http://www.galactanet.com/oneoff/theegg_mod.html

Animated version:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h6fcK_fRYaI

I am so surprise this video agreed that there is God, despite all the rubbish inside

Lalasticlala please help
How many have u done?

Please push to front page

Divay22:

No, we won't.
But some niggas are just too boastful (and such conversations turns me off )

oh, OK. Now I get your point
Me like it, when the two parties flow together

Divay22:
Talking too much; thereby telling me all your life history, achievements and the rest. Sorry o you ain't seeing me again.

what will you now be talking about?

Or he should keep mute?

TheLaughter:
Some are saying there isn't, others say there is...

I have prayed on my own but I am not getting any revelation...

Now I am scared, I have asked myself what if spirituality is true and all they are saying is true?

I don't want to make any mistakes, but when it comes to compatibility, we are really compatible...

bro dont get your self confused at all, when it comes to marriage physical is also as much important as spiritual.
If you are OK with your fiance, that you guiz are compatible...
Tell the prophets to tell you what is wrong and what can be done, if not they should hold their peace

Happy new year family

Lord I thank your for everything
Your have been my help, my strength, my sustainer , my joy, my joy, my all in all
You turn my weakness to strength
My shame to glory
I cant thank you finish
Thank you Jesus for everything

Cum=money

Coded olosho

She will choose money over her blood

I am confuse along with your bro
Please don't put your all in all until you are certain

Because they want to seduce you and collect all your money

So each pick any lady and teach her French

Spaced booked

Do your findings very well

It is no no if I am a lady

Respect55:


U have done well. Thanks for the time. Sincerely I don't bear grudges. I don't hate her. I'm not even happy that all our efforts have gone down the gallows. But you see, I have learnt to accept the things I can't change. It's not about me, it's about my heart. My heart is no longer there. This thing called love is one funny thing. You can imagine a situation whereby the person you used to look forward to seeing makes your mood bad at present. It's not my fault

I still went with her people this afternoon to see her. I asked how she was doing she said fine then turned her face to the wall. I didn't say anything again.

I have no ill feelings whatsoever towards her. The love isn't just there anymore. It comes naturally.

I understand you bro
Just please be open minded don't just lock your heart
More wisdom

I love the way you handled the whole situation

Respect55:

Thanks. I appreciate. Happy new month

Good evening bro, I have been following this trend all this while now waiting for the step the lady will take.
Bro i know you have stand your ground of not taking her back, I respect your decision and I know your have right to stand your ground, and truly if u insist that she is no more coming back nobody can blame you
But let me remind u, life is not all about right and wrong sir
we use to offend God he use to forgive us
This lady, to me have tried, although she might not do it the right way In which most of us expect ( coming to u, bring all her family etc) but she shows you mean the world to her.
She could even try to take her life cause of u, (forget the term she is trying to black mail u, Who joke with poison?, her pride is just taking the best out of her) anyone can make a mistake. I believe she will learn from this and it even an opportunity for you to shape her to who ever you want her to be because with this she already knows where her heart belongs.

Bro, to a spiritual man everything is spiritual, don't mind me, it might be devil sees you guys great future together and want to scatter it...
Do u know the next lady u are going to meet? As the matter of fact that lady will also had one time made mistake in the past or u will be her own mistake also, it a stage we will all thru in life

No sin is too big to forgive. To err is man
On a final note : A devil we know is better than an angel we never knows.

Bro Pls forgive if you truly love her
Love covereth all sins

SteveOfu:
you?

I am sorry

you don eat period with vegetables

Sorry bro, go for deliverance

I love this write up hallelujah

who just broke your heart ma'am?

he is taking it to far?

he is even making it looks like it is that sex he is after

ichuka:

You guys are missing it
If you are truly save and the Spirit of God is in charge of your life then where comes the sins?

so you are telling me you don't commit since again?

You better stop lying to yourself

Don't try in Nigeria oo
You might go home been disgraced

TheSkyIsBlue:
My Sister Is About To Commit A Serious Taboo All In The Name Of Marriage

Hello Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just want to pour it out the way it is in my heart.

I am seriously confused and worried about what is happening in my family and I will appreciate your candid advice.

There is this guy my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he actually asked her hand in marriage and decided to come see my parents for introduction, about some months ago. My family decided to take their time to find out more about the guys family background as is required in Igbo tradition.

After several questions asked, my family came to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On knowing this, everybody in my family told my sister to cut ties with him and discontinue the relationship because it is a big taboo to get married to an Osu in my place . If you do, no family member or friend will attend your wedding or even have anything to do with you again.

But my sister refused to listen to anybody claiming she really loves the guy, that they have been together for a very long time and that she is not getting younger anymore (mind you, she is in her early thirties). Everybody (my parents and extended family ) tried to talk her out of it but she still didn't listen.

After much pressure and her continues insistence, my dad decided to give them his blessings, although against his wish (my dad is actually not really deep into tradition). Now the guy has done all the traditional rights and paid for her dowry. Their wedding is coming up soon.

But the problem now is, according to tradition and from what I heard, if she was allowed to go with the guy without my dad giving them his blessings, the stigma would have just been on her and she alone would have been considered Osu, since she insisted to continue with the marriage. But now that my dad has given them his blessings, it is considered that all of us (her siblings) will also have that link of Osu too. Except if she decide to put an end to the relationship and discontinue with the wedding, which I don't think my sister is ready to do.

I am really worried and depressed about it, cause I don't want anything that will affect me tomorrow when I want to get married just because of my sister's mistakes.

I will really like to get opinions and sincere advice especially from those that are familiar with tradition, cause I'm seriously bothered. Thanks!

osu? In this century? Give her another husband, go and try relationship of just 3 and half years that you have invested in and someone should tell you osu that u should leave the girl, try it if u won't regret it... Please don't subject yourself under bondage which you are not subjected too