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It's interesting to note that men are more understanding when a single lady is unmarried. If you won't marry Linda, will bring her down?

Surprisingly, major attacks on this thread are by women. Linda mentioned that she'd love to get married, but who are you to remind her or even make it a subject of discussion when all you can say is happy birthday?

As women, our defense may be that we are married or we have husbands, but who says our opinion is relevant.

Busy-bodies ... Housewives.... Unaccomplished fellows hating since the beginning of time. Naija girls and marriage matter... Whew!

By mobilization, do you mean registration?

How early/late can one for the 2016 batch?
Is it done electronically or can my parents in Nigeria do the registration?

Thanks.

Donphilly:
I was with mine in the delivery room when she died this February with our baby while trying to give birth to our child.

I have not been myself since then.

Don't wish it even for an enemy.

Sincere condolences.
((Hugs))

barrnchedo:
Ask Holy Ghost to guide you to your husband. Ask Him now.

I will. Thnks

I claim all his promises.
Went for deliverance
Nothing is wrong with me but why me? Am I pushing God too hard. Did anyone pray for a husband it came to , pls share coz I'm down in my spirit. Thnks

You people have really helped to regain my lost confidence and increase my self esteem to where it ought to be. Thank you all for the kind comments especially from those with similar experiences. All I can say is God bless you all. I know I've been crying too much but I can't stop. Each time I how much time I wasted, my heart cracks again to pieces. I wanted to pray this morning but I couldn't because I know I still have unforgievenss in my heart towards him

Thanks Chubhie and 400billionman.

I'm very well gainfully employed. Money is not a problem and I've never shoved it down anyone's throat. I've been disappointed one too many times so I don't even now how to pick up the pieces to move forward. I've turned down so many responsible men for my ex all because I loved him and didn't want to cheat. That's why I'm crying. It's confusion and shame all together

I'm 30.

baby124:

It may seem hopeless for you. But take your time. Don't be desperate and don't settle for less than you deserve. I know a lady that was in her 30's who rushed to marry a man that she would never have. After marrying, better suitors in their 30's started coming her way. She was now with a man she knew was not the best she could do. Just wait for God's appointed time and your man will come. Be careful and don't go on rebounds. Date seriously and wait for a while before you have sex, after determining his seriousness and running the required STD tests. Your man is coming, don't rush

Thanks a lot

Crying. I really don't know where to start.
Ive not done anything wrong to deserve this whole thing. I've just been so unlucky with being responsible throughout my life.

Hello. I posted a question last week about my relationship issues. We mutually agreed to end it as we remained untitled and i don't want to be the one claiming all the time.

pls share tips on how to move on in your 30s. Am confused. Most men can se me as old even though im petite. I need some advises on how to move forward. Am having a hard time surviving this breakup and i know i need to be strong.

@Slickest
canada

@Coogaluta
Thanks. Meeting the family may not be important for some people but this guy worships his parents. I'm attending my sisters wedding in 2 months and i know my family will bring up my relationship status. see why i want to know where i stand before i visit home. i know all his friends but thats not a factor to me.

menix:
I tire ooo..

Na so i go block one chick, we neva even start she don dey ask where is d relationship heading to, mii com tell d lady say i no b trailer driver.

i understand but not after 3 years of dating one person.

agarawu23
menix

i have looked inwardly and there's nothing wrong with our relationship. is he shy to bring such up to his family? Honestly [s]im also insecure that maybe he might end up with a younger lady[/s] even though i never brought it up to him and he's not given any signs for something like that but thats how i feel sometimes.

bossmeround:
must every relationship end in marriage?

No - for teenagers.
Yes - for mature adults in their late 20's and above if there is no obvious dealbreaker. thanks for your input.

I'm depressed and can't sleep all thru the night. Ive been thinking of what to do with my life. After dating for 3 years, I am yet to be introduced to his family. My bf and his bro are the only ones here and the rest of his family lives back home in nigeria. His bro lives in another city so we've never met and they're not close so im not bothered about that. even when his family comes, still nothing. he cant even pick calls in their presence. no mention of anything private at all as if there's a problem somewhere.

Should I move on or am i supposed to bring it up to him? i haven't told my family about him too because i dont know what he's up to after all these years. I've been fine with it until i read that toke makinwa's situation and i dont want to end up like that. Other men have been asking me out and i keep turning them down. pls advise me like your sister.

im 30 and he's 31.