NewStats: 3,259,434 , 8,170,088 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 11:49 PM 2552p

ednut1:
fell from a stair case

Och! Sorry

ednut1:
Clavicle. Broke mine in the past and have a plate and screws in it 😩

Sorry to hear about your pains. Do you mind sharing what happened?

Insightful, thank you for sharing. Surprisingly, chrsians are the ones who complain about Christianity. Sambarry, if you are tired asyiu said, stop clicking on the headlines and waiting for likes to justify your opinion.

This is commendable. Life is lived once, spend it in love.

Love this, creating a profile Soon!

Why is there one 'r' for the word 'kurrent' on the presentation board

😂 if you want to get more confused indulge kobojunkie.

SAMBARRY:
of course

But will you also encourage your sons to be a faarjeen as they are looking for farjeens

Because hypocrisy is also immorality

Sure, my boys are already learning the importance of keeping chaste. It's a foundation I have sworn to built in them.

DaddyCoool:


That's also left for the woman to answer.
After he's been defiled so many times by the vilest of women, and who knows how many vd's, and possibly will continue to be defiled even after marriage...

Not always true. There are men who haven't defiled themselves and won't even after marriage. There are men who did however stopped after marriage. My mentor, a man had never had sex before he got married.

SAMBARRY:
yinmu celibacy Is not a reflection of good character let's start with that

A woman can have sexual restraint but not anger restraint

A woman van have sexual restraint and be ignorant or undomesticated

You can find a woman who is chaste , domesticated, sophisticated, and have good character. However, I can't say same for a woman who is sleeping around. If you prefer a woman who have slept with almost every man she has known, by all means go for her. They are every where. However, stop trying to justify lack of sexual restrian. I personally wouldn't encourage my sons to marry a woman of easy virtue

oluwaseyi0:


God why?

So many of these people pray to you daily some even pay tithe

I didn't know God was driving the bus

DaddyCoool:


I ask "WHAT ABOUT HIM??". How many ladies "defiled" him and he "defiled"? Or is "defile" only a one-way thing??

What about him? That's left for the man to answer, however, the focus is on the woman.

soccerlite:


In SA & an area in ss nigeria, they celebrate virgins, has it contributed to increase morals?

Like the guy up said, it's a good thing but not needed

We don't even know if the guy is virgin

Moreover we don't know the level of godliness too

Are you saying you would rather marry a woman who sleeps around than a chaste one? You would not be happy to know you are the first man sleeping with your woman? I suspect you are a woman and you are just trying to downplay a woman who value her body

SAMBARRY:
yinmu. Have you checked whether the anus is closed or open

You think say na only vagina them dey fvck?

Mr iyawo faarjin shey your wife get good character because faarjinity without good cha equals to zero

The question of character is not what is been discussed. You people quickly bring character when Chasity is been discussed. Well if you want to play that card I will play it too. It takes discipline, and self restraint to abstain from popular culture such as casual sex. Are you arguing that a woman who sleeps around has better character than the one who kept chaste?;

Ibst:
Worth celebrating, but not needed

Is needed. We stop celebrating it that's why we are loosing morals in our society

Sapasenator:
They are only educated on paper and mostly clueless in real life.

Most of our 1st class graduates are products of a rote memorization examination system which is never a true test of knowledge or intelligence.

It is mostly 'gberu gbeso' if I'm permitted to use the in yoruba. Even thousands of our professionals are nothing but functional illiterates and we need a serious overhauling of our education al system.

Most first graduate are intelligent beyond paper. If craming could get you a first class, everyone should have it . Stop trying to console yourself on what you don't have .

ChybuzzDD:


Being timid means being easily frightened, and it doesn't fit into the context you and the Op are trying to use it.

You guys wrongly use "timid" in Nigeria to mean "not well exposed".

Both of you are actually the kind of yeye graduates you're talking about.

'mentally timid' is right in this context as used by the writer. Its meaning ranges from not well articulated mentally, lack of exposure, not updated and sort of

🔵 Physical Signs:

Unexplained bruises, bleeding, or swelling in private areas

Frequent complain of pains or discomfort when washing private areas.

Difficulty walking or sitting

Torn, stained, or bloody underclothing

🔵 Emotional Signs:

Sudden mood swings (anger, fear, or withdrawal)

Unusual anxiety or fear of certain people or places

Nightmares or bedwetting

🔵 Behavioral Signs:

Knowledge of sexual acts inappropriate for their age

Regression to earlier childhood behaviors (thumb-sucking, clinging)

Avoiding certain people without explanation

The signs above are signs that indicate the presence of kCSA: Child Sexual Abuse

CSA can be difficult to detect, especially in younger children who can't speak up .

However, it’s important that parents and caregivers recognize the warning signs of CSA early to nib the bud. Empowerment begins with awareness


While these signs are possible tell-tale signs of CSA, they are not automatic for measuring the presence of CSA. Hence, the need to involve professionals for proper analysis if any or a cumulative of these signs continued over a certain period of time .

What can parents do to prevent CSA from happening ?

🔵Start the conversation with your kids today. Empower them to understand their right to their body and the power of saying no and speaking up when something doesn't feel right .

🔵Create a safe space for them to share, and let them know you are always there to listen. 💬

So we ask again, what would you do if your child suddenly showed one of these signs over a period of time ?

Ignore, respond , assume it will go away, or Yelp for help ?

We like to read your thoughts

Who we are ...

Yelp for Help Child Sexual Abuse Prevention empowers children , parents, caregivers and teachers to recognize , resist and report cases of child sexual abuse . With our foundation Yelp For Help Foundation we take our 'gospel' to inner-city children, empowering with life essential skills to recognize, resist and report unsafe situations.

We used books and resources from Yelp for Help Books to facilitate most of our programs and empower those we serve.

us in this great mission of light , giving voice to the voiceless .

Your child's safety starts with awareness.

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Child sexual abuse is a deeply troubling issue, but by taking proactive measures, families can play an important role in prevention and protection of children and teens.
Below are steps families can take to empower their wards.

🔹 Open the Conversation: Talk to your child about their body, boundaries, and the importance of speaking up if something feels wrong.

🔹 Empower with Knowledge: Educate your child on the difference between safe and unsafe touch, safe and unsafe situations, and reinforce that they have the right to say NO to any touch or situation that make them uncomfortable.

🔹 Be Attentive: Pay attention to your child's behavior and mood, and don’t hesitate to investigate if something seems off. As contrary to what many believed , the signs of sexual abuse in children are mostly emotional and behavioral rather just physical signs.

🔹 Act Decisively: If your child discloses abuse, respond with care, believe them, and take immediate steps to protect them. Kids want to know they would be believed when they speak up. So when they do, don't 'hush' them to silence , instead , reaffirm their words and their feelings .

At Yelp for Help Child Sexual Abuse Prevention, we are dedicated to providing families and communities with the tools and resources they need to prevent CSA

Our comprehensive training programs teach parents, educators, and community leaders how to recognize the signs of abuse and respond effectively. Even more important how to prevent it because we believe prevention is better than healing .

Our Yelp for Help Books for parents and children offer practical tips and research-based strategies for keeping children safe.

Through the Yelp For Help Foundation , we ensure that vulnerable children receive the resources (books and trainings ) they need to protect themselves and speak out against abuse.

Together, we can build a future where every child is safe and empowered. 💪

us in this critical mission. When we protect our children 's childhood , then we can have a society of adult who can stand up for themselves and others.

To be a part of what we do , or bring our Body Safety Program to your school, religious gatherings, NGOs and other children outlets, you can us at : [email protected]

Child sexual abuse is a hidden yet widespread issue that affects children in every community, regardless of background or socio-economic status. It is any sexual activity with a child, whether through physical or non-physical means, that is not appropriate for the child's age or understanding.
Child sexual abuse is not just a criminal act but a profound violation of trust that can have long-lasting effects on a child's emotional and psychological well-being.

Forms of Child Sexual Abuse

1. Physical Abuse: This is perhaps the most recognized form of abuse, involving any form of inappropriate touching, handling, or sexual activity forced upon a child. It includes actions like groping, kissing, and penetration.

2. Non- Abuse: Non- abuse includes exposing a child to sexual activities or content without physical touch. This might involve making a child watch sexual acts, exposing them to pornography, or engaging them in inappropriate sexual conversations.

3. Exploitation and Grooming: Abs often use manipulation, known as grooming, to gain the trust of a child and their family. Grooming is a process where an ab builds an emotional connection with the child, sometimes over a long period, to exploit and abuse them. This can escalate to child exploitation, where the child is coerced into sexual acts for money, gifts, or other favors, often with threats or blackmail.

Why Families Need to Be Informed

Recognizing and understanding child sexual abuse is vital for several reasons. First, the effects of abuse can be devastating, leading to long-term psychological trauma, difficulty in relationships, and challenges in education and employment. Children who are abused often feel isolated, ashamed, and guilty, which can prevent them from speaking out.

Second, early detection and intervention can dramatically alter the outcome for an abused child. Many children don't have the words or understanding to articulate what is happening to them, so the responsibility lies with adults to be vigilant and informed. Understanding the signs of abuse—such as sudden behavioral changes, regression in development, fear of certain places or people, and physical signs like bruises or soreness—can help families take action before the abuse escalates.

Lastly, education and awareness are the first steps in prevention. When families know what to look for and how to talk to their children about boundaries and safety, they create a protective barrier that makes it harder for abs to prey on their children. By staying informed, communicating openly with their children, and creating an environment of trust and safety, families can significantly reduce the risk of child sexual abuse.

Understanding what child sexual abuse is and recognizing the various forms it can take is important for all families. It empowers parents and guardians to protect their children and take swift action if they suspect abuse. This knowledge not only helps prevent abuse but also s a child's recovery and well-being if abuse has occurred.

As the new school year approaches, it's important to consider what your school is doing to protect students from child sexual abuse.
A comprehensive child safety program is essential for creating a safe and ive environment for all students, from elementary children to high school teens.

Yelp for Help, is empowering children and teenagers to defend themselves against sexual abuse, assault and harassment.

Our program includes:

1. Age-appropriate Workshops:
Tailored sessions for different age groups to understand personal safety, body boundaries, and recognizing inappropriate behavior.

2. Interactive Activities:
Engaging methods like storytelling, role-playing, and games to teach children how to say no, seek help, and report any uncomfortable situations.

3. Parental Involvement:
We provide resources and training for parents and guardians to continue the conversation at home, ensuring a holistic approach to child safety.

4. Staff Training:
We train school staff on identifying signs of abuse and how to handle disclosures from students.

Why Partner with Yelp for Help?

Partnering with Yelp for Help ensures that your school's child safety program is comprehensive, effective, and delivered by experienced professionals. Our program not only educates but also empowers students to protect themselves and others.

Plan Your School's Child Safety Program Today!

Incorporate child abuse prevention into your school's program calendar for the next session. By doing so, you are taking a proactive step towards a safer environment for your students.

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Let's work together to create a safer future for our children. us to schedule a meeting and learn more about how we can your school in implementing a robust child safety program.

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