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xtervaganza(m): 10:34pm On Mar 30, 2021
Patrioticman007:
The most common punishment for blasphemers was capital punishment through hanging or stoning, justified by the words of Leviticus 24:13–16. This for the Christians in the house, go & read your Bible.

However this effect of insanity, the man was supposed to be taken to mental asylum, however frustrated Nigerians transfered their anger on him.


mention where Christians kill people for blasphemy. You people are in denial of the evil your people.



Your religion is the one harbouring terrorists, bandits and now people playing God

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xtervaganza(m): 6:14pm On Mar 30, 2021
Fresh man and wife



And to the eleribu talking nonsense above;



Your family will jubilate if Dbanj your area more so sleeping with a goat like you
xtervaganza(m): 11:55am On Mar 24, 2021
Emeskhalifa:
Congratulations to her.

I do hope you will still have mouth to fight for what's right sha
for where? She will become another Lauretta onochie defending every of the government's ridiculousness with her life
xtervaganza(m): 11:53am On Mar 24, 2021
Is the reason for the end SARS protest a means to get government appointments? No wonder all Nigerian activists are pseudo bambiala .



What's worth congratulations here? Has any of the SARS victims been compensated? Has any of the SARS official been brought to justice? But useless people are congratulating her cos she open teeth for pictures.



Let me say it once again, activism is not a way to cash out, it's away to fight injustice. This one is a sellout and before you know it she will be posting nonsense in of government just like the old fool Lauretta onochie
xtervaganza(m): 11:36am On Mar 24, 2021
IamBroke:
Okay there's this lady I met at a friend's place. She's free spirited and kind of nasty.

She's married with 3 kids but she's not living with her husband, reasons I don't know.

I believe she'd be 5 years if not more older than me but yet she calls me like I'm with her kidney...
I can't even believe the kind of stuff we do though we've not had sex but she's pushing me that way but that's one thing I don't want to do cause she's married and I'm feeling guilty.

I don't want to hurt her and I don't want to continue this stuff with her and I don't want to avoid her either.

So what do I do now?

Advise me on what to do please
if I were you I'd smash her
xtervaganza(m): 4:00am On Mar 15, 2021
jondon11:
So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.

I work from home and my place is structured such that there's not much to do to maintain it. Although I work from home, I go out now and again for business and during my time out I run most of the errands...my girl ensures that it's only when I'm going out that she gets whatever she needs, from the market or errands around the area mainly cause she's often in a pant and bra watching a movie or just being lazy. She's a good cook but a lot of times I found chow coming late or not at all, and there was always raw food to prepare...sometimes her excuse for not cooking could be she couldn't get one ingredient or the other either because she didn't have cash on her or some other reason...there's mobile money just outside our gate and if she doesn't have the money she can call me to make a transfer but the main issue was laziness. I swept and mopped like 80% of the time, ran errands like 100%, cooked like 20% or the time (starved like 20% or sorted myself out someway), she did dishes 80% of the time and I brought like 100% of the money we lived on.

She is doing her MSc and our relationship started during the lockdown so she wasn't going to school. She was job searching (more like job waiting) so this gave her a lot of idle time which she spent watching Zee World or being on social media. I soon found a way to engage her in the job I do from home, and with the money she had saved in the bank (over 400K), she started work with me. I purchased a laptop for her for this purpose and so she could develop herself in other areas via online courses but she didn't do much work...working like two hours daily, very late at night...I sometimes complained but tried encouraging her as much as possible, especially when she made some success.

I'm sure you'd ask why I stayed in the relationship despite all of this? I was pussy whipped, had no other options given the nature of my work, saw some potential in her ( I know, a stupid thing to say) and thought I was in love (I'm 29 and shouldn't have been that stupid).

Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference? embarassed embarassed embarassed

Since then till now, we've been quarrelling non-stop, one issue after another of which it's mainly me raising the issues. Maybe it's the tension that comes from knowing I might be starting a family with so many unresolved issues. I've raised my concerns and told her she'd need to be more responsible in the relationship if things will work and even though she tells me she knows, I know deep down she doesn't mean it or might not be up to the task of being a married adult. From some of our talk she expects I'd take care of all the financial responsibilities and have suggested a couple of times we get help for chores (we've moved to a bigger space now) but I told her in clear that that's not how I imagined my life...having help for chores and the likes, besides, it's just a two-bedroom flat.

I've purchased some of the things we'd be needing for our wedding and we're supposed to do an introduction this coming week but I'm having cold feet and just want to call it off.

I'm bringing this here to know how I can manage this situation...I can be lazy but I'm a really ambitious person so this pushes me but my girl is not just lazy, but unambitious. How do I manage the situation...there's a child involved now and will need to consider the child but at the same time, I can't take on this much stress nor have my ambitions cut short because my partner is lazy.

What can I do??

embarassed embarassed






no need for long story. Don't marry her.
xtervaganza(m): 9:00am On Mar 14, 2021
If na Naira Marley hold concert now you will see all the dead brain northern cows crying on internet
xtervaganza(m): 6:52pm On Mar 13, 2021
Adonis86:
As I was going through my phone this afternoon, a lady chatted me and I responded. She said she wants to ask me a question, that I shouldn't be angry with her. I assured her that I won't be hard on her. She asked me if I'm a gay. I responded No. She sent me a screenshot of a conversation I had months ago who I later learnt to be her husband. I asked her why she asked of my sexuality, she said she's suspecting her husband of three years to be a gay. It sounds so crazy to me but I suspect it's real due to the screenshot of the message, where the guy was demanding for sex from me. Now, I inquired more about their relationship as couple and found out he beats his wife often, even during her first pregnancy.

Now, the man confirmed to me that he beat the wife last night for going through his phone conversation and labelling him a gay, due to the kinda conversations he's been having with guys. But in a bid to deny it, he deleted the conversation and beat her up on false accusation. The lady has reported to their Reverend in church, but the Reverend discouraged her from going to Human rights commission or leaving the marriage.

Now, she's looking for more evidence to nail the husband. She wants me to send her the whole conversation I had with the husband, showing where the husband was begging me for sex and sending me his nude pictures. But I don't want to be that instrument she'll use to break up her young family. Though the annoying part is that the husband is very resentful and not even remorseful about his infidelity and domestic violence. The lady is not educated though wanted to learn a skill or go for further studies, but the husband refuses to send her to learn all those skills. According to her, he once accused her in his shop for stealing 45k, which was not true. He stopped her from coming out to his shop, whenever she comes out to stay with him in the shop, he'll be talking her down in the presence of his friends and customers. I was moved by her lamentations, that's why I had to take the pain to write this. I have ed the husband on Facebook and inquired about the dispute and learnt the lady was saying the truth. Though I threatened the husband with military arrest if he ever touches the wife. But I'm still scared he might get home and pounce on the wife again for talking to me.

Please i need matured advice from people here on how matured to settle this young family dispute without the poor lady suffering further in the hand of this young man.
you sef. A man is begging you for sex and u no block am straight



Hmmmm
xtervaganza(m): 5:48pm On Mar 09, 2021
audububa:


There is supposed to be a customer service that cover that try reaching out to to oraimo on social media or their emails.. Say you want to buy if its available
I ed them on twitter they said they don't sell it separately � see my life o

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xtervaganza(m): 5:39pm On Mar 09, 2021
Deathisfree:
I hail Una wey dey live with landlord. I can’t try such again. Me and my last landlord ended in the police station. I beat the hell out of the idiot
and you will want to do well in life oo? You beat your landlord? You try am with good people I swear. You try am with me you will die! And I will watch with a smirk as you get lowered to the ground

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xtervaganza(m): 11:47am On Mar 08, 2021
Hello good people. Abeg I lost my 2baba freepods charging pod and I don't know what to do



Abeg if you have one for sale please let me know
xtervaganza(m): 5:55am On Mar 07, 2021
Good thing I use lexus. E never get nickname

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xtervaganza(m): 6:34pm On Mar 05, 2021
Few years ago I was broke and sold my furniture and moved from a 2 bedroom apartment to a one room face me and punch you. Truth be told I was terrified b4 moving in because I've never lived in a one room b4 and I was raised in my dad's house where where I can have the whole flat for myself.


Surprisingly everyone treated me well. I never had one issue with anybody. By everyone, I mean everybody in that house liked me. B4 I could raise my hand to work I have had like 2 people offering to help me. They also helped make my life easier by helping me get people who do domestic work like washing of cloth and fetching water. May God bless them all for me. The peace they gave me in that house made me bounce back quickly.



I only have good memories

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xtervaganza(m): 2:12pm On Mar 05, 2021
This is what happens when you marry a daft non retired wh0re. The mumu sef de call her kids cobs grin eleribu. As if you don't know ffk na druggie wey no normal and you sef dem say you get brain touch




Best thing is for you 2 to lose the custody of the children cos you're both useless

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xtervaganza(m): 2:06pm On Mar 05, 2021
Bola146:
lipsrsealed I hope his pregnant women, his idols and angels will follow him to the cell
if you think Pretty Mike will spend a day in cell for vivid violation then you don't know the country you are in
xtervaganza(m): 3:50pm On Mar 03, 2021
Bornu1stSon:
SW hold your two ears and listen carefully, We own you people and as we said before, our relationship is more like Master and slave. Never again should a slave cough where the master is. I hope you understood wink
Ogun kill you

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xtervaganza(m): 9:10am On Mar 03, 2021
Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?
pyoure just as senseless as your girlfriend. So you no get family responsibilities ABI? Na to pay for drinks, hotel and other useless things de scratch you for pocket
xtervaganza(m): 9:06am On Mar 03, 2021
I've been eating and buying foodstuff since. No difference. All these stupid fake news just because we say we no chop cow again
xtervaganza(m): 7:31am On Mar 02, 2021
Why invite them? Who needs their food.




Nonsense
xtervaganza(m): 7:00pm On Feb 27, 2021
Due to my own experience with women, I take their son stories with a pinch of salt.



Until I hear from the guy I'll hold my judgement

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xtervaganza(m): 1:08pm On Feb 27, 2021
See why we don't believe her claims against her ex husband
xtervaganza(m): 9:56am On Feb 25, 2021
opusingi:



... brother wey Zuzu��
pan pan ran ran ran raaaaaan!!!!!!
xtervaganza(m): 6:45am On Feb 25, 2021
How to trap a man when your vagina is already irreparably wide.....



Tell him you will only have sex after marriage



Act like the perfect girl



And lastly, come up with a story why you can't have sex with him because of one past bad experience with sex



Omo see brother..... grin

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xtervaganza(m): 11:44pm On Feb 22, 2021
No sympathy for simps angry
xtervaganza(m): 11:43pm On Feb 22, 2021
lilvicky68:
If this is true then you deserve to be flogged...not with cane oh with better alternator belt..
lol
xtervaganza(m): 11:31am On Feb 22, 2021
Lamasta:
How this lots gained ground to the extent of giving press release regularly baffles me seriously
no be only you
xtervaganza(m): 6:00pm On Feb 21, 2021
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Abeg free the woman joor.

Can your friend swear that he is celibate where he is? angry

Her body is not made of wood besides the weather is cold so she needs someone to keep her warm and occasionally oil her grin
it's either you're a kid or an oloriburuku
xtervaganza(m): 6:19am On Feb 21, 2021
Supreme01:
Hello Good people,
Please help me out of depression right now.

Earlier these month, great opportunity showed up, I was to assembly foreign equipment for one big politician in my state. The architect that got the contract ed me as an engineer, we went to the site, take the measurement, ready to kick start the work. We've negotiated the price, you know Nigerians most demand for cut, which we agreed certain percentage.

4 days to the date set for the money to be transferred, she stop picking my calls, stop answering my chat on whatsapp.

Before then she'll be calling to ask if I'll be able to fix the equipments, she'll ask me questions like; how are you going to do it, what an what will you need, how many workers will work with you etc.

The guy that connected me with her happens to be a friend. I was updating this guy on every progress. At a point this woman start ing information through this guy to me. I was wandering, why can't she call me direct.

To cut the whole story, The woman went an gather some people including the guy to do the work, after all my efforts.

Ever since I finished my training 3yrs ago, have not gotten some thing to do an this job will have being good break through for me to get my own place. My rent's about to expire, difficult to feed etc.

I've never cry my entire life like this, for the past 5days I've being indoors because no job.

I'm really depressed. I've tried every thing to get it off my mind but no way. Never had this experience.
Please pray for me.
mode please help move to front package for me.
don't worry, they won't do it well and will come back to you tails between legs.


P.s I'm also an Engineer and nobody can do our job well without our physical supervision most times.

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xtervaganza(m): 11:50am On Feb 20, 2021
Why should they sponsor her stopped gymnastics when the fg is still gathering 800million for bandits and book haram.



Why sponsor her when she's not a Fulani. Abeg shift jor
xtervaganza(m): 11:37am On Feb 20, 2021
MrAAA2:


I want to think this is sarcasm.
In case it's not, and people might be feeding on the information, let's reason together...

When it's from a 'developed' country, its a failed experiment or bio-weapon. But when it's from Africa, like Ebola, Marburg and other deadly parasites, it is what?
We did not believe or construct any conspiracy theory regarding Ebola which is also heavily linked to animals but why are we opting for experimental failure, bio-weapon, eco-weapon and '5G' in the case of COVID-19?
Oga, how are you sure ebola wasn't manufactured in a lab? Leave all that long talk. 99% of all those viruses are man made.
xtervaganza(m): 11:36am On Feb 20, 2021
Let's stop fooling ourselves, chinese virus did not come from eating any animal, it was manufactured in a lab. Humans have been eating different animals for millions of years even before modern medicine
xtervaganza(m): 8:11pm On Feb 19, 2021
Sorry. But it's better to kill this one now before he becomes a menace. His type eventually becomes hardened criminal/ armed robber who might end up killing people. Killing him will put an end to that

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