toujurs:
Live within your means, Oga. That's the problems people cause for themselves. I just cleared off a loan of about 223k this weekend. I will never try anything loan ever. It's addictive.
This is the usual comment of a loan app agents they will keep encouraging you to take more loan and get into more debt.
Once you stop paying all of them will send derogatory and blackmail messages to your family and friends.
You will never attempt to collect any loan again because of the consequences.
But if you pay all the loan you will be tempted to collect more.
Most of the loan apps are owned by few organisation once you default paying they will tell themselves not to loan you again.
That's how I became free from this app company it's like cocaine addiction fight it very early before it messes life.
No matter how deficult your situation is short term loan can't solve any of your problem it will rather add more.
For the feelings of your friends and family please don't give a Bleep. thank God majority of Nigerians knows about this loan companies how they blackmail people they will harass you and get tired.
All of them are not licenced so they can't come to your house to arrest you
seanwilliam:
just shut up . Not every one can refrain. It’s easier to say ‘ walk away’ when you’re not in their shoes. . People react differently and that doesn’t make them less of a human.
Some women will make you lose you patience and sanity , that’s why it’s better not to marry such lady than to marry and manage.
And the example you gave doesn’t make sense, husband to wife relationship is different to employer and employee relationship..
Imagine someone you’re housing, feeding, talking to you with total disrespect compared to someone paying u salary for job you’re doing..
I’m not justifying domestic violence then it’s what it is.
Ladies should learn how to be submissive and respectful.
Marriage is not all about enduring nonsense..
Although there are some beast in human form ( in some men )
To men out there, pls , no matter what , make sure the woman is 100% submissive and respectful before you marry her and be a good husband too.
You know why? If things go south , na u people go blame ..
You can not know a submissive woman when you are dating them because they change with time
Once they have kids they change
Once you have money they change
Once you empower them with money they change
You just have to have your leadership role all time once they become disrespectful kick them out fast
Nigerian clergyman, Victor Ativie, has recounted how late gospel singer, Osinachi Nwachukwu's husband, Peter Nwachukwu, allegedly hid the money paid to her after she came to minister in his church, Newspremises reports.
Speaking in his church over the weekend, Pastor Ativie said
''The man has killed her. Man without vision. Man that is jobless. Man that is lazy. She came to Benin to minister to us. As she came, she wanted to even stay till the next day but the pressure was too much. The man, the way he discusses money with you..He is too carnal.
I know that if a preacher comes, you should bless the person but you see, I don't like when a thing is too physical.
The way the man was discussing money will even make you hate the woman's gift but the woman carries something that is too deep that you cannot ignore.
After they had negotiated and we have paid fully, the woman came, ministered and left. The evening after she left, she called me and said 'Sir, did you send any love offering?'
We sent it one month before she came but he didn't tell the woman. Evil man. He didn't tell the woman that we have sent anything. We sent it one month before she came.''he said
Lexicon123:
When people talk of abusive relationships, the default interpretation seems to be domestic violence, especially against women. Violence should be condemned in its entirety.
However, I see verbal abuses to be of equal scale as physical violence. The men are mostly at the receiving end of this abuse. They’ll then be enduring it continually because “you’re the man nah! You need to endure it; You need to understand she’s a woman; you’ve to make it work; just apologize even though you’re not at fault; ….” And so many of such narratives. Frankly, the verbal abuse is one of the major catalyst for physical violence in homes.
We must condemn all form of violences in their entirety.
How I wish I can send you recharge card for this �
You are absolutely correct we can not count the number of men Nagging and abusive wife have lead to untimely death. We focus only on domestic violence
eaglez:
Boss please don't spread information yet to be verified, the dead cannot speak for itself, the gospel singer is late and u expect the suspect to not to say anything to justify his actions Toxic relationships should never ever be endured at all, I have a man beating the wife for no just cause after which he will force his way on the woman, the next thing na pregnancy, the woman just dey born anyhow. It is so annoying seeing my fellow mab behave like this.
But you have verified that the husband beat her to death you believe that part of the story?
I am sure you are not married to understand what men is going through in hand of this modern women.
Nobody is justifying a man beating a woman but their is always two side to a coin.
The woman is cheating with another man that lead to the serious beating from the man alot of fact will come out soon
abbey621:
The problem we have nowadays is when you think of toxic relationships it is almost always seen from the angle of the man being at fault. The man is too controlling, he is violent, he is stingy, he is a drunkard, he sleeps around etc. Everything is lumped together whereby the traditional role of men being protective cannot be separated from men being beasts.
When you flip the script and talk about women being controlling, manipulative and at times violent, we hardly hear anyone bat an eye because it does not fit the narrative. Men are supposed to be the beast, women are supposed to be on the receiving end, it shouldn't be reversed.
Finally, I would like to make an important distinction, couples argue, couples fight(verbally/physically), these things happen whether we like it or not but the inability to differientate between a simple fight and constant abuse is why we have many women and at times men meeting their untimely death. When we say leave toxic relationships, let's be specific please, if everyone got up and left at the first sign of toxicity or their perception of toxicity such as when he shouts, when she nags, when he cheats, when she calls him a deadbeat and so on then what's the point of marriage?
You just write everything in my mind when we here abusive relationship we only look at the men part of it.
The gospel singer that died more information is coming out on how the husband caught her cheating with another gospel artist frank Edward.
I hate it weneva I heard or read about husband beating deirs wives....I hate it
Gosh!!!, Dose men r idiots n lifeless..
My father never beat or raise his hands on my mum till date (38yrs marriage)..I'll always b like my father
Instead of bragging just pray you did not
Meet a woman that will provoke you in life.
You are a kid to know what your father ed through for 38 years of marriage wait until you get married for 10 years you will know the meaning of women
God gave me the wisdom to quit mine since. Though blessed with two lovely kids, but I have no regret that I made that decision of leaving such a worthless idiotic marriage. Poor him, he's walking around with just one ball in his scrotum. I destroyed one with my fury kick he nearly died that day o.
That action of mine towards him till date I am not regretting at all. I have lost so much in the hand of my ex husband which time won't permit me to say it all. I wouldn't say I was a perfect wife, no, I wasn't, I have my flaws too, but despite my flaws I tried all I could to make my marriage work. I am not happy because I am a divorcee, it's not something I am proud of. But sometimes something doesn't worth the stress,the abused and the insults so one had to let it go.
I won't say much regarding this, but the bold step I took to quit the marriage save my life till this moment. The second wife he took will probably not give birth again in this life because he hit the poor lady and damaged everything in her tommy, it was a miracle that she survived it and she too kissed the marriage goodbye after she survived. That was wisdom on her own part.
Women lie and speak the most after divorce
You will be shocked if we ask the husband of this woman the other side of the story
From her write up don’t be shocked that her marriage collapse because the husband caught her cheating with another man
Everybody believes the husband of the gospel artist osinachi is abusing her physicaly but nobody believes the wife is having secret relationship with frank edwards another gospel artist.
When it comes to women issue men always put emotions than logic
It might be because of the woman secret affairs that made the man to abuse her.
The world has been feminised only trp can rescue men now
I stopped reading when I saw this line below
Puff daddy Executive producing the album was an act of genius from Burna boy and his team.
Simply because I do not want to hear more from some one who knows nothing about "westernization"
First off, any monkey with money will get Sean john combs produce his fcking album.
This is what happened to Burna boy, he was stripped off his originality, he was made to loose touch with the music genre of his people. Burna craved for acceptance, he needed to do things the western way to get accepted !
He did not release a good album, he released what the west wanted...
And for the Grammys, trust me it means nothing!
Create your own award for your own kind of songs, enough of pleasing the whites. We accepted their names, their music, their religion, their educatio their everything and we say we wan grow!!!
How??
Dbanj, wizkid, davido once had their own International stint right....it is Burna boy time now..it is called use and dump!
Most of these foreign peeps are not relevant in today's American musics. They are trying to reach out to greener lands to feed.
But as e be we dey like rest oyibo things .
Make I hear say Japanese or Chinese musicians they fight for Grammy. Who Grammy epp
the name nord is not good for the brand because it’s similar to ford
we can’t we use and african name
naptu2:
I was shocked when I discovered that some people believe that the word Nord came from Ford. That's a shocking level of ignorance. It means that they do not know that the word Nord has existed for more than a millenia (long before the Ford Motor Company was dreamt of) and that it means North. There have been very many companies that have had the name Nord.
kizwid:
werey, come carry ma own leg walk na .
man up, e don happen to you be dah. as a nigur, take all the necessary evidence, keep it to ya self. continue to de enjoy ur sex life with ya till the day her pussy tire you then release the evidence