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Madam... Hmmmmm. U better tell. Him for u start speaking.... Honey I don't know what came over me.. Devil's handwork..... Pls be warned daughter of Eve..

O. P..... D truth of d matter is dat women most times are complicated daughters of eve... Most times dey don't know wat dey want..... One minute dey are on heels over u for satisfying dem dey worship and honour u because of dat... D oda minute dey tell u are tired and all should stop.. Complicated beings

Mine was crying out in public... There by causing a scene because I told her it's over... Mehn can't forget that day d looks as guys and babes approached to calm d matter because I was speechless by her actions.!!!!!!

Confirm....... Lying d'or

Hannysmilez:
Older as in 5-10 yrs age difference,then its cool. Older as in 11-25 yrs age difference,hmmmmm,visiting TB Joshua should be your new year resolution

tanx dear... Jus around 5-7 yrs difference at most

StefanSalvatore:
There's notin lyk nature wnts u 2 marry an older woman, it maybe dat u av a bad taste wen it comes 2 selecting women, there r younger n fresher fish 2 b caught out there jst dat u avn't seen it.

As 4 d calabar gals, maybe u lyk hw dey do d tin since according 2 Nigerians they r d best when it cums 2 dat. Dats y u lyk dem well well

noted brother.... Jus dat most times dey do d razuling funny though... Am not a freak on sex dnt really fancy it.. Jus dat d tribe girls are more humble and caring.. Cook wella too..

Decker:
Regarding your first question, it's not wrong to be sexually attracted to older women. We as humans are all wired differently, sexually. The same thing can't be appealing to everyone.

Your sexual attraction is perfectly normal. Don't listen to any one who would tell you that it's a spiritual problem, because it's not.

What matters is if you want to marry older women. Do you? If you are okay with marrying an older woman and you don't see it as awkward, then go for it.
But if you don't want to marry an older woman, definitely, in the course of time, you'd find a lady around your age who you will be attracted to you and who would look "mature" enough for you.

tanx a lot.... On point brother well noted

obiorathesubtle:
Omo na winsh oo.. Go pray.

really.... Noted?

joliyp:
don't mind d poster above me!!!! is nature most of my friends are Yoruba guys and I love them so? just pick d right gal and settle down happiness is what matter most not age

I think am more happy with them d respect and understanding is always there... Mostly dey feel my maturity and looks is greater than my age dey don't seem to bliv my age

prideofscience:
Guy marry young lady simple. am 31. My wife must be below 26yrs. I have sound religious and scientific back up

pls can I get more reason y it's wrong

darlingtonIIV:
It's either you have a spiritual Or psychological problem.
Either you see a pastor or you see a psychologist for counselling.

really... Noted.... Jus my feelings

My handsome brothers and sisters.... Pls I have an issue dat has been bothering me of recent... Pls I need ur sincere advice and views..... To the matter... Am beginning to get worried about d fact dat am mostly attracted by older ladies and I feel attracted to them too.. I always see younger ladies below my age as my younger sisters and feel can't do anything with dem or be in a relationship with dem.. D truth is dat all d ladies I ve dated right from secondary school days to university and now are all older Dan me.. Infact my current Babe is 31..pls wat might be d curse because I now feel nature wants me to marry an older lady... Pls wat might be d curse?

And d second issue is dat am always attracted to ladies from akwaibom am igbo Imo state precisely
If I ve dated 10girls then 8 are akwaibom am not complaining but am jus wondering y d attraction from dem and y nature brings me to them? Ur advice and views pls

Abeg dey don't have a choice on dat any ring can go for them after all dey are happy of getting married and having a wedding not like some high purchase kind of marriage which I call hook up......

Brother u ve to stop telling her d I love you whatever if she tells u fine ur reciprocate if not forget it... U know most women don't know wat dey want and like. #teamcomplicated.... I ve not experienced such though like #cutehector I pretend not to hear it too wen told by a girl and dey complain am with anoda girl dats y I don't reply d truth is am tired of d word... I hear it from dem like d flow of water from d tap.. Jus package even without pepper.... If u be fine Bobo too na advantage to get I love uuuuu uuuuuu.... We ball @team cute hectares team wizaro

delectablegyal:
I was introduced to a girl by my friend. This girl in particular is my friend's course mate. The girl is so delectable, beautiful, elegant. The first time I saw her, I asked my friend, who is that girl? He said "she is my friend" I told him I liked her. So afterwards, he has been feeding the girl with the story of how one of his friends likes her and all dat. So the girl is keen to see me. The day came, I was introduced to the girl so my friend left, leaving us alone. Me we nvr follow gal yarn before. That was my first time. I guess the girl was two years away from twenty. U know how ladies love to talk. honestly, her beauty scares me. As I was looking at her pretty face, I was speechless, I don't even know where to begin. She could hear the shiver in my voice. The next thing I heard "you don't know what to say to me" she said. It was embarrassing to me. At the end of everything, i voiced out delightful words. We are good friends now. U can say she friendzoned me, I don't care.

abeg u be man or woman or both @haemaphdodyte things

thatsincerechic:
It happened on Christmas day, that's two days ago.
I have been crushing on this guy for almost a year. He is the complete definition of cute, not too slender and of average height for a guy.
After all my crushing and wishing, at last! He asked me for a date on Christmas day. We went to a lounge and had some drinks. He ordered for Origin while i simply went for my favourite red wine.
Later when it was getting really dark, he drove me down to his house and asked me to play video games with him, and yes I was all excited and a little tipsy.
While playing a combact game, I could feel the chemistry between us building up dangerously fast and before I could think of something else, he stood up, held my hands and pulled me up towards him and we started kissing, deeply you know, with all the mouth and tongue thing and I was all romantic and wishing he would atleast touch my boobs when he BELCHED IN MY MOUTH... and that foul smell... I almost choked as ran out of the living room and into the bathroom and i threw up.
I was in the bathroom for 10 minutes I guess, because anytime I made to leave the bathroom, I would recall the kiss and why I was in d bathroom, then throw up again.
I felt exhausted and irritated, went back to the living room, picked up my bags, told him I was leaving and i left.
He has been calling to know why I snapped and i kept telling him to leave me alone.
I am afraid I'll not kiss for a long time

chai babe kpele sorry.... I understand how u felt experienced such bfor..... But u shouldn't have left like dat

Osahon7:
Yes! Only one! He's PMB

pls wat of mbu Joseph mbu... D most popular police officer abeg where is he now? The ameachi nightmare abeg where him dey and wat is his current position?

Na so my girl come house yesterday... Unfortunately one side chick come dey worry my line I come pick d call d Babe talk so tey I tire tell her say I dey busy. Na so my girl come change face say I no dey give her attention say na wat in make I no wan touch her.. I tell her say I no dey in d mood of touching her.. I beg her she relax... She say make I stop to pick anoda girl call for her presence I come apologize... Bfor she go in d evening anoda Babe call again I no gree pick d call... D next thing my girl say shey I don dey avoid calls because she dey here say make I pick am.. I come tire say she na u say make I no dey pick girl call for ur presense so y I go pick am now... Na so she vex.. Women very unpredictable daughters of eve

OK.. dis ur matter get as e be oooooooooo.. I suggest u do d I jus dey watch attitude... Allow her for now... D truth is dat women are too hard to understand and unpredictable one minute dey are fine d oda minute dey are sad.... Am beginning to wonder if God understands women in dis world!!!

permanentgrace:
I was in the market earlier this week precisely on Monday to pick some stuffs for myself and for those i have to show xmas grace to. While in the market, i walked ed a section where hair-stylists were furiously busy braiding hairs of the girls who came there to make their probably xmas hair. Well, spotting beautiful ladies in such gathering is no surprise actually and sure i did spot two or more who caught my fantasy. But there was this particular one i liked mostly and wanted her so baaadlly.

How did i play my game to have her?

Going straight to toast a girl in such gathering could fetch you an embarrassment you'd definitely find it difficult to forget in your entire life time. As a sharp dude, i had to apply wisdom (what they say is the greatest gift in life) on dealing with this. I went back to the place, told the very hair-stylist who was making her hair that i want to make my hair. She was laughing that i wasnt serious but i insisted i was serious. After getting her desired attention which i sought, i excused her out for a minute and opened up to her plain that i so madly like the girl she was plaiting her hair and ready to have her at all cost. She again was laughing thinking i wasnt serious. Well, i asked how much was the cost of making her hair. She said 3k and i said i will pay for her hair. I gave her 4k, 3k for the lady's hair and 1k for her. I gave her my number to give to her after letting her know i already paid for her hair so she can reach me. I equally collected her (the hair-stylist) phone number so to keep in touch with her.

What happened thereafter?
In the evening of that very day, i saw a text in my phone as thus: 'thank you for paying for my hair'. I called and we talked for a long time. We agreed to meet on Tuesday for a date and it did happen. Yesterday as it was Wednesday, i took her to a show and after the show, we headed straight to my crib. With all her initial gra gra of 'i dont stay late at night', 'i dont sleep outside my house' etc, she finally crashed in crib.

Was it possible to break the walls of the 'Jerusalem'?

Well, it wasnt easy for her to allow me have access 'down there' but impossiblity does not exist in my life and thus, i finally had my way after convincingly had her mind changed by telling her how much i love her and want her for keep. Lol. Women, very easy to convince.
I must say she worth my 12k investment within the short while. Let's see how things go. If it is good, we ride on, if the opposite, the census must continues.

#ChristmasGirlFriend.

OP....for your ur mind u be badoo.. I hail u sha... Bwt.....op dis na December oooooooooo d scarcity no reach ur side...

emusmith:
Qualities Of A Girl Who Never Truly Loved You.


Well, I did pick a lesson or two in my previous thread.

Life is a film; boys are predictable, girls are not. They say. How true is that?
That makes it difficult to really decipher the intention of a girl when she is playing the "I Love You" game. To many, it is.

Yes, back then, they used to be emotional whose love wasn't for sale. But in the 21st century: you'll agree with me that anything can be sold...to the Highest Bidder. Including their love!

Witnessed different situations and heard shocking things about this subject and I think can write on it and I will be @least, 85% correct.

How can you truly know a girl doesn't truly love you? Seven ways only...



1. She never calls you until she has a need.

Hmm, you have suddenly become 911. Who said it's an abomination to call a guy you care about? If she calls you only when she needs money, she is a gold-digger. Dump her! Simple! You're not CBN, are you? The NEWest strategy now is: she calls after many months and starts forming she cares with the mind to ask for help in two days time...Let the relationship be platonic or...FWB. (Your choice tho). But never be just a nice and generous friend EVEN when you know she doesn't care and you love direly. Health tip: Give yourself a break! Go elsewhere before you're shown out or have a heart attack!


2. She isn't interested in seeing your siblings.

It's natural, if she likes you she would not hesitate to want to meet your siblings or parents. If all she wants is you...hehehe, don't feel important. It's not good enough. Marriage transcends both of you. Reality exceed the couples. Some girls have already been trained to be rebellious to their in-laws- Watch out against such!


3. She threatens you with a breakup after each argument.


Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Don't you think it's just a way she expresses her outburst. Love doesn't threaten. If she makes the mistake of saying it once or twice, it might just be anger. But, constantly, haba! Leave her. Another "club" is promising her luxurious and wonderful things, that's why she wants to leave your "club". That na breakup scheme.


4. She never talks about saving- no future with you..

Does she just spend and spend without warning you to cut on your spending habits? Some ladies are good at that. When she wants a particular shoe or bag, she doesn't mind you withdrawing your last dime. She doesn't see a future with you. Love plans and prepares. Leave her before you wreck.


5. She lacks initiative to doing things that really matter to you.

I do know that if you truly love someone, you'll be initiative to doing things for them. Mothers don't need a push to buy new clothes for their babies- Love at work. If she isn't initiative concerning your lil issues, it's a sign she is about some other guy. Don't be friend zoned, I beg you! She enters your house and after eating, can't wash her own plate. How can I explain this? Simple initiative.


6. She loved your material things MORE than your aspirations and goals.


Hey, if what matters to her the most is your money and not how you get it: she doesn't care then. Don't marry some one who has no pride at what you do. If she doesn't like your job but likes you, it can be managed BUT if she hates your vision/dreams, you can't be forever compatible. It's like a pastor marrying a witch. Hehe.

7. She lies to you to buy your trust.

I can beat my chest and say, 80% + of girls lie. It's awful how one intends to begin a relationship on lies. When a girl you know very starts lying to your face just to increase her "market value"...it's laughable you know. Come clean. Nobody is perfect. Let's be ourselves here. False identity is like 21st bras; they don't hold it up forever. It will soon collapse.


In addition: If she is manipulative, be careful. Eve extended the serpent's manipulation on Adam and see us today. Love doesn't manipulate. It might explain itself but never manipulate. The serpent is the most manipulative reptile. If she often seek to manipulate you(If you are a MAN sef, would she be doing that?), she doesn't really love you. She thinks she does. It's a selfish, conditional and controlling love.

Good Morning.

Lol especially d no 1 have a girl like dat.. But I spoke sense into her and showed her d exit door because I don't tolerate such olosho attitude...

@O.p my broda I wonder oooooooooo... Sometimes I feel women are too complicated dey don't seem to know wat dey want.. As such dey confuse deserves... Jus do wat ur heart and mind tells u is right... because U sure say Even baba God no understand dem too...

Big boys... Waiting for them to get to my level.... No.. 0..wizaro...plays for mighty club fc... Earns £100million per season... Has contract g with all sporting firms.. Net worth... $500..(£470million)...

Hahaha @o.p..no be only dream girl abeg... We want reality girl... Mind u from January not now...... Uhhhhhh

chiboy1928:
My Girlfriend Doesn't like putting on her pants,when I asked her why she has choosed. dat path,she told me that anytim she put on her pant,it bring out lines at the bck and the pant will be seen by all and she always feel uncomfortable when she is outside wit her friends,so for this reason she has choosen not to put on pants. Am really not comfortable with this,who does dat?Am still confused though she loves me so much,she is caring and all dat,but wit dis pant issue of a ting my mentality has begin to change towards her,dat I sometimes nw doubt her love for me,ladies is dis normal? And my fellow guys out there,if u were in my shoe wat would u do?

hmmm mm.... Oga. Abeg make she dey wear skin tight... Lol... #endtimebabes

Specialbaby:
Hilarious but if given i wouldnt appreciate it.

Baby u have to OK.. Dats fuel in there... Hotcake u know...