NewStats: 3,262,585 , 8,177,605 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 09:40 PM 1f2o8

Ah! My own is in the minus (-) category o!

It was so terrible, I was a prisoner and house help all rolled up in one.

I was kept in a dark windowless room with discarded things. Not allowed to speak to anyone outside the house.

Not even to look at anyone, so my eyes were constantly on the ground.

It's so very bad I can hardly my neighbours or even people I went to school with. It's of recent that their memory is beginning to stroll in.

I avoided everyone and everyone avoided me. Even my so called siblings were banned from speaking with me.

I used to wish for death because I no understand the kind life wey I bin come.

So when I my childhood, ah it's a very terrible one abeg!

gohf:
you are trying to do math with scripture that you don't even understand.

What makes them one, is it because they are two?

You say God didn't create two females, did God ask Adam to marry one wife?

You speak about divorce like God didn't permit it. Lol, God made one man, he failed and God replaced him with another.

Instead of you to use God's word, you are trying to use theological logic to answer a simple question God has already spoken concerning but noooo, you think you are a child of God by contradicting God?

Do you even understand why Jesus quoted what Moses wrote in Genesis that they become one flesh, as to answer those who wanted to divorce their wives for just any reason, instead of staying faithful to the wife of their youth and not treat her wickedly and treacherously like Malachi wrote.

This is so offpoint and lacking in sense.

My point was on Christ and His declaration on marriage in counter to the guy's question on Christ-ian marrying two wives so all you have written up there is off point and addresses nothing.

StillDtruth:
Birds of the same feather flock together.

See how the devils aka atheists are banding together trying to protect Max, clearly tells you that they know he is one of their own and that he belongs to Satan.

I see them o

This is right on.

Nnamdipapa:
Now, The Christian God is all knowing, Omnipresent and Omnipotent. He is in the future and the past at the same time.
At the time he created Lucifer he knew he was going to rebel and lead people astray, cause so much pain to his creation, why was Lucifer created?

Are we going to blame Satan for being bad or blame a God who knew Lucifer was going to be bad before creation?

Or is the concept of God and Satan a fairytale?

What is your opinion to the above?

No one has blamed the maker of rat poison for making rat poison even if the poison is used to kill a human.

And no one has cursed the rat poison maker for making it even if he knew it could be used to kill a human.

We all hold the person who used it to commit a crime but I know you know this but you are just been your father's cursed seed trying to advocate for your evil failure of a father, the Devil.

You and your father are failures and shall continue to fail for eternity, bastard!

FreeSpirited:
In Old testament it was normal to marry two or more wives
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I have read the scriptures very well, and I have not found any convincing evidence both in new and old testament that marrying two wives legally is a sin.
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Modern Christians believe that after marrying one wife, if u add another one, then u have committed fornication/adultery. Now I have 2 questions

First question: What if after marrying the first wife, I saw a widow or a virgin, and I never slept with her until after I legally married her as second wife. How will that be term adultery or fornication?

Second question: What if when I wanted to marry my first wife, I instead engaged two women or two virgin, and they both agreed, and I never slept with either of them until after marriage ceremony was done for both of them same day. Is that fornication and how is it fornication/adultery?

I will love your answers with sound scriptural backing....and please read and understand the scenario I painted. Thank you

See madness o, how can one put Christian and two wives together.

Christian: the law of He made them male and female (not male and females) thus 1+1=1 (not 1+1+1 or 1+2) which Christ Himself from which the word Christian was coined, restated when they asked him about divorce o, is it now polygamy which is male and females? They dared not even ask.

How then you can you ask if a Christ-ian (1+1) can marry two wives (1+1+1 or 1+2), ha haba.

This is gross mismatching and can not stand together.

If you want to do polygamy abeg be your pagan self and be responsible for it.

There is no hiding place for you in Christ-ianity,

Proserpina:
Lol is this the person that wants to convince me God is inactive or doesn't exist? You don't know God communicates?

You definitely do not have a relationship with God yet you blame him for your woes. Lol who does that?

You dey mind dem? Who does that indeed

Kobojunkie:
I believe that people who try to argue for or against the existence of a deity are in error. There are over 4000 deities noted by men and the chances that each exists is even in our AI age set at 50-50(50 for and 50 against). So, I never engage in such meaningless arguments myself. However, I find myself interested in understanding the veracity of claims made by those who say they communicate with a deity or have a relationship with a deity. So, can you explain to us which of the over 4000 known deities you have your particular relationship with and communicate with?

It is immaterial if there are over 4000 or 6000 dieties so long as they make a reference to the Creator whom we call God, I am fine.

But what else shall a Devil do if not to bring in confusion to lead people astray!

Nnamdipapa:
Now, Mr. A has been a Christian and religious all his life, infact he was born into Christianity, he believed in God for the protection of himself and his family

He would wake up every morning for prayers and morning devotions and everything is going on well.
One day, Mr. A sent his young daughter to go buy food in the neighboring street, he waited for hours and the daughter did not return, he started getting apprehensive and it became very dark in the night with no sign of the 6 year old.
Unbeknown to him, the innocent girl was abducted by a sex predator and molested.

Now, Mr. A placed his trust in God who is omniscient and Omnipresent. It meant God was aware and present when the innocent girl was ravaged and he did nothing to help.
Would you suggest Mr. A keeps trusting in God even though God failed to protect his daughter from the predator?

What escuse are you going to make for God it. The scenario above.

You are born a Christian does not make you a Christian.

Christian is by choice!

A true Christian knows what it means to truly have a relay-tionship with God.

A relay-tionship is not one sided. It is exactly that, a lay and a relay in that both parties lay on each other.

So a relay-tionship with God begins when you not only rely on God but He too relies on you.

People only call on God to do for them this and that and call it prayer and morning devotion.

Prayer for work, house rent, protection e.t.c wanting only what God can do for them and never caring what they can do for God and they say they are Christians, that they pray a lot. What a whole lot of rubbish.

Come on, your prayer is for you and you alone. Y'are just selfish and no body likes a selfish person. No one can be in a relay-tionship with such a person.

So sorry you are not in a relay-tionship with God but with yourself.

So blame yourself for any evil that befalls you and not God whom you were never in any relay-tionship to begin with.

Dtruthspeaker:


I believe it is not that they don't see but that they do not want to accept what they see because they stupidly think that they are the ones enjoying and winning and having the advantage as the women ensure that they keep thinking that way.

It is when it all bursts and they see that she already gained like 11 and counting to their meagre 2 that you will see them crying and hollering that women are very intelligent manipulative devils whilst they have been Fools all the while.

Well, dem no dey force person to get sense.

Na true talk be dat

Nnamdipapa:
There was this thread on Nairaland that made the front page about few days ago about whether[i] a guy should marry a lady just because he got her pregnant. [/i]

It got me thinking and took me down memory lane, reminding me of a girl I went to secondary school with.

Khadija was a beautiful, petite teenage girl with big dreams. She rocked a big afro that she always combed out, and her school uniform was always neatly starched and ironed. She had a dark ebony complexion, a permanent smile on her face, and a friendly personality that made everyone like her.

She was the only girl in a family of eight and was pampered by her parents and big brothers. She was in SS1 at Methodist Grammar School in Agege, Lagos. Her family, originally from Kaduna State, had recently converted from Islam to Christianity. She had her life planned out—she wanted to be an engineer and make her family proud.

I was in the same class as her and secretly had a crush on this articulate, beautiful girl.

At the start of SS1, we got a new teacher, Mr. Olanrewaju. He had just graduated from university and was posted to my school after his NYSC. He studied chemical engineering but was assigned to teach physics.

Mr. Olanrewaju was a devout Christian, a worker in Deeper Life Bible Church, and a very serious guy. He always talked about God and the Bible. Since I was also a member of the church, I got close to him, especially after bumping into him at one of our December retreats. He once confided in me that he hated teaching and was only doing it while waiting to land a job as a big-shot engineer in an oil and gas company.

Now back to my story—around this time, Mr. Olanrewaju started getting close to Khadija. He had his office in the Technology Department, a separate building from the teachers' office because he refused to stay with the other teachers.

I noticed he was always studying with Khadija, helping her with assignments, and mentoring her since she also wanted to be an engineer. Plus, she was a new Christian who had just converted from Islam, so he was also guiding her in her faith. Because of this, everyone trusted him.

We all believed he was a good, responsible Christian man, so nobody suspected anything. That’s why we were all SHOCKED when Khadija ended up PREGNANT by him.

It was one of the biggest scandals in our school at the time. Olanrewaju was completely trusted, so no one saw it coming.

Her parents stormed the school in anger, and Khadija, overwhelmed with shame, had to drop out in SS1. Just like that, all her dreams were gone. She was confused and devastated because she had trusted her teacher. Olanrewaju was suspended from the school, and Khadija’s brothers went back to Islam after feeling betrayed by someone they trusted.

Her family was so ashamed that they forced Olanrewaju to marry her. They couldn’t allow their only daughter to have a child out of wedlock—it was an abomination to them.

At that point, Khadija had developed an intense hatred for him. She didn’t want anything to do with him, and even Olanrewaju wasn’t ready for marriage. He was clearly in a position of authority and took advantage of her. Marriage was the LAST thing on their minds.

But their families wouldn’t have it. A wedding was quickly arranged, and Khadija moved in with her husband. Nine months later, she gave birth to a healthy baby boy.

The scandal eventually faded, and we moved on with school. Years later, I ran into Khadija again.

She already had four kids and looked completely miserable. She never finished secondary school and complained about constant beatings and domestic abuse from Olanrewaju. Even he wasn’t happy in the marriage. I shook my head when I realized this once-bright girl with so much potential was now trapped in a life that felt like a prison—all because she got pregnant.

Now, this brings me to the reason for my rant. Let’s analyze the main issues and their implications:

1. Khadija was a minor and a victim.

She got pregnant from her first sexual encounter, and she trusted her teacher and spiritual mentor. So, in reality, she was a victim. Plain and simple. It makes me so mad when people blame girls in situations like this.

2. The real mistake was forcing her into marriage.

Yes, getting pregnant as a teenager was a mistake. But the BIGGER mistake was forcing her to marry her ab. That decision ruined her life.

Why did her parents and family insist on the marriage?

To save face. Most Nigerian parents only care about avoiding SHAME. They don’t think about their daughter’s future or happiness. They just want to avoid embarrassment—what will the neighbors say? What will church think?

They didn’t care whether Khadija loved the man or not. They didn’t care if he was abusive. They just wanted to erase the "shame" of an out-of-wedlock pregnancy.

But listen to me, ladies—pregnancy is NOT the end of your life.

You don’t have to force a man who doesn’t love you into marriage just because you got pregnant. Imagine being stuck with someone for the rest of your life, knowing deep down that you forced him into it. That marriage will NEVER be happy. You’ll be setting yourself up for a life of misery, and you’ll bring innocent children into an unhappy home.

Please, don’t do this to yourself.

What options did Khadija have?

1. They could have safely terminated the pregnancy, allowing her to continue school and chase her dreams. She would have learned an important life lesson and built resilience.

2. They could have let her have the baby while ing her fully. With proper childcare help, she could have gone back to school and continued her education with a new perspective on life.

In conclusion,

It is wicked and cruel to force a girl into marriage just because of an accidental pregnancy.

It is unfortunate how you men do not see that you are willing scapegoats playing the part scripted by women in this scheme engineered by women!

Girls especially secondary school girls are not as innocent as they portray themselves. They always have a plan and that plan always involves getting a man to do for them what they do not want to do for themselves.

They already have a target in mind and when that targeted man shows up they begin to put in motion that plan.

What you do not know you are seeing is one whose plan blew up in her face and is suffering the consequences of her plan that failed.

She would not have complained if her teacher man got the big dream job he had in mind and if he went on to love her so much and give her everything she wants in life so she can be better than her mates who are still in school unmarried with nothing to their names.

Women beginning with when they are girls in secondary school are very calculative and already planning the man they shall hook to give them everything in life.

Dtruthspeaker:


Quite a lot of times there is no difference between you and the mad people we see walking naked in the market.

Her story clearly shows us that she is just getting the understanding of all the things she experienced now that she has grown up.

Do you not appreciate that she cannot easily get a conviction especially as the evidence lay deep in the past?

And seeing that the whole family is against her, so she would not easily get witnesses to corroborate her claim.

Not to talk of the fact that the family she is going up against will lie in cover up (Nigeria does not readily punish perjury), so how can she convict them and get them jailed?

Even R.Kelly's daughter is in the same shoes and do you not see that a charge has not been preferred against him?

American movies have taken over your head to the point you don't see real eyeity.

That guy is totally bonkers!

What has getting a person jailed got to do with your coming out to speak up about evil being done to you?

Is speaking up not the first step and then you can choose to take any further steps in redressing the evil done you?

That guy na Better Devil abeg, see as fayaball post take pain am come make am mad unto im usual madness

Kobojunkie:
You are the one who is not making any sense. If she was raped then the Virginity is what is instead a convenient delusion probably adopted to cause her to feel better about it all. I did not read of her mother or whether her father is right now in jail .

2. It is people who try to wrap the experience around the mentions of the word God that are the problem. You say the father is a bastardo but I didn't see you ask her whether he has been reported and is currently serving time or what? You religious nutjobs are never for doing this right but seeking opportunities to claim something for your deity whom you lot believe is ever desperate for glory points. 🙄🙄🙄

You are a well known mad fellow and it's very evident in this your post.

You did not direct your questions to me to find the truth of what I meant by still being a virgin which can even be gleaned from my posts which fayaball got and responded to the evil bastard.

Instead you attacked him showing that you are truly an evil bastard like the bastard he addressed and all that has fallen on that bastard shall fall on you too, for it is obvious you do the same hence your reaction.

Samantha125:
Well, you're entitled to your own opinion and I can't argue with that.

But of course you can't!

richmond500:
I told u goodbye cos I am busy, and u aren't objective in ur argument.
U keep telling me how u have seen God and u believe in him, that is bullshit in a constructive argument.
Have a nice day

See madness . Now your evil has made you mad, for nowhere did I say that

Oh, mad lying son of satan

Samantha125:
Well, many people from my tribe just like giving random names to their children... I also have a relative whose name is Judas, had a classmate whose name was American, I also have a friend whose name is Kwena, meaning crocodile.

The list is endless.

You are just making excuses and trying to make it sound like they did not know what they were doing.

Of course they do, and you know it. for they heard the name, liked the spirit attached to it, and identified with it. Hence they gave it to their children. So a Satan will name their child Satan.

You just think Nigerians will gobble up anything you present.

richmond500:
u are subjective.
Everything u say is based on emotions.

It doesn't cover the fact that ur God is the biggest terrorist ever.
Goodbye

Looser! Wetin else you wan talk before.

You no get anything wey you wan talk. You have lost like your father the biggest loooooser of all. Like loser papa and loser son.

The Truth beareth all and standeth through the fire but lies break and burn like the weak thing that it is.

And here your lies and twisting and turnings and changing posts still lost to the fire of Truth and the Truth remains that your evil father is the greatest killer of all time.

richmond500:
So God can just kill Jobs children, so much for an all merciful God. And to think he did these to Job just because he can brag in front of the devil? Seems like he and Devil are friends and we are the ones they destroy when they are bored

So Egyptian children should be killed because the whites were slaves in their land, but nothing happened to the whites when they took Africans as slaves? That ur stupid God has a favourite and it not u, u are just following him when he doesn't care about u

Sick bastard, repeating yourself is no answer, it is proof you have nothing to say!

Now you have shifted post to Africans, which is not the issue. Again shows you can not answer.

On God's favourite, just shows as I said God has rejected you hence your ranting. As for me, hmmm, I can break into a song, right now!

richmond500:
So God can just kill Jobs children, so much for an all merciful God. And to think he did these to Job just because he can brag in front of the devil? Seems like he and Devil are friends and we are the ones they destroy when they are bored

So Egyptian children should be killed because the whites were slaves in their land, but nothing happened to the whites when they took Africans as slaves? That ur stupid God has a favourite and it not u, u are just following him when he doesn't care about u

Sick bastard, repeating yourself is no answer, it is proof you have nothing to say!

Now you have shifted post to Africans, which is not the issue. Again shows you can not answer.

On God's favourite, just shows as I said God has rejected you hence your ranting. As for me, God is mightily mightily Good, I can not say it all.

richmond500:
God planted the tree that Satan gave to the woman.
God created the Satan that gave it to the woman.
God allowed the Satan to live with man in the garden.

Why are u blaming Satan when god was the architect of all these?

I have answered you already on all of these that you changed post to say Satan and God are the same.

So my answer will not change. And no matter how much you try to cover for Satan, even Eve's declaration that your father is to blame stands till today.

richmond500:
He killed everyone with flood because a random man told them to accept God which they didn't.

I wonder why Africans will also be swept in that flood cos we never knew about ur God until recently.
Secondly, he ordered the devil to kill all of Job's children because he wants to brag in front of the devil.
He tightened the heart of a king and used it as an excuse to kill innocent first borns, maybe pharoah would have agreed to let them go if ur psychopath God didn't harden his heart.

Do u want me to give u more reason why God killed those people?

Bastard, you lie badly. He wiped His house clean of evil exactly how you sweep and wash up your house because it is dirty and it smells, as wickedness had filled the whole earth, courtesy of your father, Satan.

Nothing evil there but evil you change am to asking them to accept Him. See how evilly twisted you are?

Then on Job, God boasted about His beloved Job, Satan, your evil father again did the killing and still Job remained faithful, your papa fail. You did not blame your evil papa but you blame God.

You are truly sick!

Then Pharaoh that first killed God's first born Israel, e no finish o, kept them for 300 years in hell, you think say when their Papa show, e go easy for you. No it shall not! You must hear am! This is war!

You are a sick bastard of a sick papa loser, you shall continue to lose and fail and be destroyed and it shall not be over for you. You shall spend forever and ever with your beloved devil in the lake of fire prepared for him and his children!

richmond500:
God planted the fruit in the middle of a garden and tell a man who can't differentiate between good and bad not to go near the fruit? What a bone headed God.

Then he allowed the devil who is far wiser than man to roam freely in thesame garden?
I think Ur god and devil already planned to toy with mankind. No wonder God asked the devil to torture Job in the bible just because he wants to brag, they are inseparable twins.

The devil and God are same person, he is like a politician, a good man with evil intentions

Now you have changed post from praising your evil daddy and condemning God to now saying your evil daddy and God are now the same.

How the two take connect

Guy your evil daddy remains the evil bastard who destroyed the entire world and there is nothing you can do about it!

Bastard son of a bastard devil!

richmond500:
God planted the fruit in the middle of a garden and tell a man who can't differentiate between good and bad not to go near the fruit? What a bone headed God.

Then he allowed the devil who is far wiser than man to roam freely in thesame garden?
I think Ur god and devil already planned to toy with mankind. No wonder God asked the devil to torture Job in the bible just because he wants to brag, they are inseparable twins.

The devil and God are same person, he is like a politician, a good man with evil intentions

Now you have changed post from praising your evil daddy and condemning God to now saying your evil daddy and God are now the same.

How the two take connect

Guy your evil daddy remains the evil bastard who destroyed the entire world and there is nothing you can do about it!

richmond500:


Moreover, I am not religious, so even that Satan is a made up character in christian story and I don't believe he ever existed but if they exist then I rather become illiminati and worship Satan than worship ur terrorist God who is looking for every opportunity to destroy mankind.

Na your type? Abi you think say God dey find people to worship Him? He has rejected you already so no be your type!

Omoawoke:


You don apply for American visa before?

By the way, I’d advise you to ignore that one called v.destro
He will only drag you to his level of delusions and be debating you on it.
If fate permits him, he will get sense one day.

Of course you have nothing to say devil's spawn

richmond500:
Lucifer was the cunning one because he allowed Eve eat the food?
Let's talk about god who cunningly plant the fruit in the middle of the garden and placed man in that same garden, he then left man and come back in the evening to find out his plan has worked.
He knows Adam will eat the fruit cos he is an all knowing God.

Ur God is evil and a destroyer of mankind

You confirm you are truly as evil as Satan your father, for no reasonable person blames a person for putting anything he pleases in his house.

You have electric sockets, knifes, hot kettles in your house, no one calls you evil for that even when you know your child could get harmed by them.

God even warned his children to not go near them and they knew not to until Eve allowed your evil cunning father to deceive her.

And even she never blamed God, she put the blame on your evil father but here you are being the evil smelly seed of your father Satan.

Omoawoke:


The guy is right!

How many people did Satan kill in the Bible?
How many people did your Bible God kill?

See how a fool openeth his mouth waaaa!

Satan killed the whole world in getting woman to eat the fruit who then gave it to man that brought death and curses and destruction to the whole world.

Nobody fit beat Satan record, the first serial killer of the entire world.

3nity7:
illuminati/ Satanist spotted

Confirmed one!

Samantha125:
Her parents are not educated and exposed, I don't think they knew who Satan was when they gave her that name... They just heard people talking about him... And I also wonder why she hasn't thought of changing it.

First time she came to the family house, my mom was like "go and make Satan some tea"... I was confused as to why she was calling the poor woman Satan, but she told me it's her name... I laughed so much that even serving her the tea became a big challenge for me, I had to contain myself...

I do not believe that shit that her parents were not educated.

They are Satan's and naming their child after them that is if this story is true.

richmond500:
I can't because social stigma will be attached to it and torment my child.

Btw, Lucifer in the bible was far much more merciful than Jehovah God. We were born an indoctrinated with the belief that Lucifer is the villain meanwhile Lucifer hasn't killed anyone yet God has been killing firstborns, flooding the earth, creating hell to torture oppositions and laying curses on mankind.

Subjectively, God is the good guy but we all know he is the bad guy who gives freewill and destroys u for ur right to choose... What kinda freewill is that?

Spoken like a true Devil's son.

Lucifer has not killed anyone you lyingly say yet the death and killings which you wickedly attribute to God was brought to man by deceivingly and cunningly getting the woman to eat the fruit who then got her husband to eat also, thereby bringing death and curses and evil to all men.

The first serial killer and destroyer of all men but you lying serpent like your father accuse God of the Evil done by your father Satan.

You are truly his bastard seed!

Bmaster:
Many Atimes I dey see God (may he forgive me)as the bad guy in the story of creation.
Like c'mon,who won't ?
God is Omniscient,so that is where I clinch.
As omniscient,it simply means he knows everything,so if anything goes wrong,God is trillion years ago aware of it.

You guys never take responsibility for your own actions.

Did God not warn Adam and Eve not to eat the fruit? Did they not know not to eat it and the consequences thereof?
Yet dem chop am, and you blame God?

You guys are so wickedly unfair!