NewStats: 3,264,397 , 8,183,594 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 09:51 PM 4m4y2k

Amelian:
What an excuse. I notice most people getting married, either the groom is. Not. IN love with his bride.. He's marrying her for. Other reasons or the bride is not. In love with the groom, she's marrying for. Other reasons. The communication gap is as wide and long as river Niger. People will say just marry the guy or the lady, with time. U will fall in love.. All na lie.. If u don't love your spouse, forget it.. Divorce is just by the corner.. Especially to people who believe in love.. No two ways about it.
With love when the ups and downs come, one will be able to manage his or her husband shortcomings and listen to each other.
I rather remain single than. Marry a man I. Don't love. cos I know max. 2years am thinking of getting out.

Your baby is beautiful

That Charles must be a drug dealer or ritualistic mtcheww

So he had to send her money to get her attention. That's how ubi Franklin did sotey he married a woman that doesn't love him and the marriage scatter

And the so called friend should stop acting like a love-vendor

aflyingbird:
op , where did u copy dis from ? pple shud try sourcing their posts na

You think it's fake?

yedidiah:
That awkward situation where you are too old to play a chick in a movie, yet, you are too young to play a mummy.

She and mercy Johnson no be mate

Mercy Johnson can't cry out like this because she has gone back to acting movies that brought her to lime light, at all at all she no fit get
broke

The best thing for her to do is to make her own movies now like Genevieve did at least the more people buy she gets royalties forever

Most of the top spots have been taken over buy youngsters

Looks more like yoruba cultural dance

BEENUEL:
[size=15pt]It's not about the Brazilian hair, heels,g strings and what ever beauty enhancer ...it's your commitment and Foreshadows..This babe saw the future in Odun, she stood with him, now she is GETTING it........

Moral: stay, build and believe in him, you will always GET it.

Chan Zuckerberg and this woman has something in common...no make up, no expensive spending...the both are the true definition of Successful Women...HBD Ma'am [/size]

Story for the Gods
Don't compare this one to Zuckerberg and Chan. Zuckerberg is a nerd so a sexy wife would make no difference to him

A tall handsome and successful man like odunlade is a catch any day. She is probably still thankful to God for being the wife

He knows what he is doing keep this one at home to bear the kids and continue with the whores outside

She is truly his mummy.

Don't ask me how I know, I have seen countless women like her both growing up and now, she's even lucky he is man enough to provide some won't even provide for their families but the wife wouldn't want to let go of her handsome serial cheat of a husband

masseratti:
hmmmmmmm, that story kinda sound familiar right?

Yeah

coolcharm:
How can this people claim to be of God when they cannot practice Forgiveness and Love which are foundational to the Christian faith?

With what guts and conviction will they teach their congregation to forgive one another as Christ forgave the church?


When Men and women of 'God' cannont exhibit forgiveness and love which are fruits of the spirit, and coin out as 'irreconcilable difference' then you know that the devil has finally worn prada!

And so, my dear friends, just as you have always obeyed, not only when I was with you but even more now that I am absent, continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12

Let's focus on living a an acceptable life before God and leave all these bling bling and hyper prosperity pastors alone.

First remove the your eyes before you remove the stick in another person's life, Mr preacher

Where you living with them to know there was no forgiveness severally but some differences are irreconcilable

alanposh:



everything prayers.. why do we form to be so religious yet we swim in ocean of hardship? I hate this type of advice. he knows prayer do exist before he posted this.you shouldn't remind him that God do exist..

help him by giving him a reasonable advice by telling him how to survive not telling him abt prayers. Mtchew.


I guess you have never been frustrated in life thats why you see everything the way you do

Don't mind them, they haven't seen the kind of frustration that if someone comes to tell you to pray again, that person go just receive slap

When you have prayed all kinds and nothing seems to be coming forth just believe. That God exists and he wants a better end for you than think for yourself.

Do you belong to a church, if not find a bible believing church and become dedicated it will help you both spiritually to connect and also you might meet people who might be willing to help you physically eh to get a job. Also if the issue is food I think churches have provision for people in real need


Let me tell you that your friend that ascended was for your own good, stop dwelling on the past. When God wants to change rewrite our lives he makes sure he removes every baggage that would be detrimental to change and grpwth

You say you don't have children what if you have and one day death came and took them all away won't you start over again with misery sef. Or on marriage, I know women who married at 20 years and divorced at 24 with kids or are windowed at 22.


It is very easy for us to look at others enjoying compare ourselves to them, but try and look of for those in worse situations then you'll thank God. She's you can't commit suicide, you have an advantage over the men who committed suicide last week at least when there is life there is hope for tomorrow.


Please don't forget op, whatever your hands finder to do, do with all your strength this isn't a time to be lazy, submit your cv but don't dwell tommuch on it. Find other alternatives

Finally, seek deliverance cause that's the ultimate unless all your works might be in vain.

GMbuharii:
I dont know,but i do know there is no help and god besides the Almighty God..keep on banging on His door,try to pray at night between 1am and 3am for 30mins to 1hr..goodluck..
Babalawo is embracing the enemy posing as God and telling God He is powerless.

Guy which one is you don't know but you know

youngest85:
These people cn endure smello no be small

You mean the smell of money?

Miztadynamix:


Obviously we had both had some drinks and had a really cool time. With the mindset that any virgin girl will always want to announce it load and clear, how was I to focus on that part when I wasn't even thinking anything in that direction. I wish you could really picture the mood that night, a true definition of irresistible lol... And you know how chilling the weather is, you won't understand. It just happened and it was so amazing. I am sticking to my bosses advices above, if she is ready to hang on I don't mind getting married to her. I have never met any girl that is so so cool before.

Awwww

A

SirVintageCock:
You are too uptight for no just cause. Haba.
This is a sarcastic post but you have to kill the Joy of it with your sanctimonious sermons.
For this recession wey we dey , this guys are shelling out TWO POINT SOMETHING MILLION FOR Gardening and sh!ts and you are writing this epistles. I don't care about what you wrote but they should've added something like a Bsc in horticultural science or botany or plant science or something other shi..t like that for good measure or just for the fun of it.
Are they trying to mock peep here or what. My engineering guys are falling over themselves teaching for peanuts and USA embassy has this mind to to to Same way they d for janitor with some kain bogus salary that made my head swarmed, you see guys falling in line to apply even with MSC.

You obviously don't under sarcasm and how to construct a sarcastic and how to construct one


If they pay Gardners so much it only means they pay top level staffs better.
No one sent your friends to study engineering without a backup plan if their certificates fail them

If you want the job, go and learn the skills required


Have you not seen organizations were when technical things come up the graduates may have no idea but the semi illiterates with just major experience will have to be called to repair.

Siddon dey look

Anextin:
My dear, landscaping n maintainance of flowers, gardens et al is taught in higher institutions, but what I want to decode from his outburst is that perhaps even gardeners are earning more than graduates. But if he is looking down on the profession, then poverty is his name

You See, I didn't even know that they learn these things in higher institutions. Don't mind op jare

Originalsly:
Something not well with this story.... you gave her name.... which I expected to be withheld.... posted chats. ... showed name of hotel..and address... price of app... but can't name the app?...and yet saying you want to help others not to be fooled?

He shot himself in the leg by the way he crafted the superstory. That's how most of these nairaland guys make up stories to put girls in a bad light

It's a nice way of advertising the scam app sha.

You people should be sha careful with your 4k in this buhari economy


If the app truly exist, then It's a breach of privacy.

And so what op?


So because you went to school and probably graduated with a 2.1 you think you are better than those who decided to learn a trade/ skill after primary school
I smh for the youths of this country

Why don't you apply na since your BSc gave you all knowing powers


That's why, when one tribe is boasting about having the highest number of professors, another has many semi illiterate millionaires who horned their skills after primary / secondary school


Besides, it was written that the MINIMUM qualification should be primary school certificate, thus even if you have a PhD you must also have gardening skills too
.smh op with your BSc you don't know that they are less likely to take a primary school certificate holder because some of them might not even understand all the jargon written up .

I know a lot of rich women who have knowledge in gardening because they have flowers around their houses and love it

What Will I do if I'm them, I'll get the job, employ an assistant to do all the the dirty jobs while supervising, earn my millions and pay him about 30 percent.

MissHatey:
^{Officially ripe for gbensing}

Stop it. You are a woman too and would have baby girls

You don't want another too sexualize your teenage daughters, do you?

masseratti:
nah, not yet time, besides I don't laugh at people's misfortune.
How you dey omoge

Eyaah

I'm fine dear

I know someone who will be laughing his pants off at this news
Masseratti

Empty crowd
Op clap for yourself

masseratti:
Honestly, we don't like thongs.

Lol

Lavendra:



yes I do. it's a long distance relationship, I visit once in a month or once in two months sometimes.

Cool.

It's nice to that one's in a while

Lavendra:
like they say... there is something called individual difference... people differ.
as for me as a lady, when I go to visit my bf, I take it as my responsibility to do everything, I can't be around and my bf would be sweeping the house or cooking or even washing clothes, if as his gf I can't do those things for him then what good am I?
the last time I visited him, I did a lot of work, I cleaned the house thoroughly even though he did that before I arrived, I wanted everywhere sparkling so that there would be a difference between when his gf is around and when she isn't. I washed and folded all his clothes, I did the cooking, mopping of the house and even washing toilet. I didn't allow him lift a finger even when he volunteered to help... I just wanted to feel that I'm doing something for him... he didn't ask me to do anything, it's just common sense or instinct that led me to do them...

So you clean this thoroughly every single time you visit?

PissedOffWeed:
wait oh....is he a dopelangger of my cousin?

Your cousin is finer

queenaisha:
guys love anything shinning...we black girls wanna use bleaching cream because of deflated selfesteem..buh there z nothing in the world that would make me bleach my black skin
proud of it!!!!

Do you want to end up as a trophy wife? Because that's obviously what the likes of adaeze yobo, Caroline danjuma and this one are. You want a man to fall for you because you'll give him light skinned kids or because of your self worth
You are beautiful already just have the right attitude confidence and dress well and put In effort in whatever your ambitions are and men will fall over themselves to have you.

If you bleach today by the time you are getting older your skin will wear away faster than an average black beauty who maintains her skin well. Go and see those who bleached in their early years and how they try to use makeup to Cover all the imperfections of bleaching. Besides when you born pikin your yansh go open

gist4kidsblog:


call/whatsapp me on 08085310359 let me introduce you to online legit business...
A trial will confuse you

If It will confuse him them I'll advice him not to invest

Onegai:
There's a difference between dating a guy you're not sure of and dating a guy you are wondering what you're doing there. I have been on dates where I wondered what made my legs come to this place and i have been on dates where I was hoping the guy would like me but inside me I was baffled why I was setting my standards so low.

See, if you think this longings you have and loneliness you feel are bad, try getting married to someone whom in a year's time you think to yourself "maybe I should have waited a bit longer". That is the truth of so many marriages, each spouse thinking "maybe, just maybe if I had stayed a bit longer, the next guy/girl was The One". So don't rush. The only people who can live a happy life in a loveless marriage are those whom are able to effectively distance themselves from any sort of emotion: happiness doesn't carry them away and neither does Sorrow. They are pragmatic to the core. That's less than 15% of the world's population. You're not one of them, because this is getting to you. You get?

If the pressure gets to you, get off social media. Why bombard yourself with a million pics of your classmates posting pictures of smiling babies and happy husbands and blissful peace? You're not jealous, just being sensible: no need to punish yourself looking at cake when you're dieting. You get?

What are your interests? Go find them. It is better to find someone who likes you the way he met you. So if you like going out, it's better to meet a guy in a club than meet him in church and pretend to be what he wants for a ring and dying inwardly. Go pursue your interests.

When you meet a guy, take a look at your list. Find the one thing that you really need, not what you desperately want. The first thing in my list was a Strong Sense of Humour and Wit. But every single witty guy i met didn't want me. Guys are weird, they want girls they can impress, not girls that can match up to their skills. That Intelligence factor you crave, well those guys will friendzone you so quickly for that chick who thinks a Sidney Sheldon novel is deep intellectual thinking and puts up motivational pictures which she barely understands. That's why every wise woman will tell you to "laugh at his jokes and don't crack yours ". You get?

Live and love your life. Don't wait around for Prince Charming, go out there, attend the ball like Cinderella did. He may be waiting there. Enjoy this minute because you are never getting it back. You get?

You're gonna be fine. Fist bump!

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