NewStats: 3,263,887 , 8,181,763 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 03:32 PM 4l4s12

habsydiamond:
These people also charmed my broda sometimes back that he started borrowing money upandan just to settle dem.

Tah!!! Leave that charm aspect... Is not that i don't believe charms exist but i want you to know it's their profession and they might have been doing this for long to perfection that you believe it to be a charm.

Two things a scammer will use to get you is your level of spirituality and greediness.

asuo27:
Dude asked his girlfriend about what's going on in Arab, indonesia and US then expects her to keep up with the trend like everyone reason alike.

Op, so your friends call your girlfriend Mumu and you're happy telling us?.

Sister!!! Take it easy.

sirfee:
lol 4 my street way back then if u see any guy with plastic soft drink most especially coke and pepsi abeg no drink inside coz some na solution wey consist of saints tramadol,benylin,codeine etc.

naso

cekhoe:
i will do that, thanks

you welcome.

cekhoe:
I have told him it's dangerous and it's addictive, as a big sis, he is 21 not a baby, na I'm know

Definitely, you can't force him. You've done your part not only as a sis but as a caring person. You could do him more help by telling his parent but mind you, tell them their son has been taking sleeping drugs that have they found out the cause and have they tried seeing the Doctor about it, then you can later bring in the issue of Tramadol. Your cousin may insult you now for not minding your business but believe me, he'll praise you a lot in the future or vice versa if you don't take any action.

sirfee:
seriously speaking I normally take Tramadol or Codeine before sleeping but not for sex.I usually mix it with coke or pepsi but when I'm awake the next day I normally eat like someone who just round up 50 years fasting.Although I use to be energectic after eating the truth is that most of this drugs are harmful to our health especially when you abuse them.I stop using this drugs because a friend of mine who is a chemist told me it effects.#say no to hard drugs

sirfee:
seriously speaking I normally take Tramadol or Codeine before sleeping but not for sex.I usually mix it with coke or pepsi but when I'm awake the next day I normally eat like someone who just round up 50 years fasting.Although I use to be energectic after eating the truth is that most of this drugs are harmful to our health especially when you abuse them.I stop using this drugs because a friend of mine who is a chemist told me it effects.#say no to hard drugs

MidasTouche01:


Brother, this people that writes the drug leaflets should learn to write concisely, who get time to read over 500 words just because I wan take drug

Senipapa:
I started with 200mg and advanced to 600mg daily about a year later, the excitement and highness I derived from it made me an addict, but that excitement turned into pains the day I had to go into the theatre for a minor operation and all analgesic istered to me didn't have much effect on me, reason being that I have abused a pain killer(tramadol) , body got used to it and at such pain killer won't have much effect on me. Operating must go on na, dem tear my body work on me like that o, after that incidence nobody tell me say make I stop am even before the doctor advised me against taking the drug. TRAMADOL KILLS, SAY NO TO DRUG ABUSE.

MidasTouche01:


Brother, this people that writes the drug leaflets should learn to write concisely, who get time to read over 500 words just because I wan take drug

Backward to when i was in school.
Tramadol Codeine is what made one of my guy go Psycho. Most students around were spiritual and saying nonsense believing he was possesed and controlled by a strong demonic evil spirit. I and few students knew it was saint tramadol and saint codeine that was working cos we knew he was an addict and had taken it overnight in excess but it really surprised me cos he was notorious and his power was trippled, cos it took more than 4 students to have him bundled to the hospital.
Thank GOD for his life, he came back to normal senses after 2days. We begged the Doc not to tell the school authority or else he'll be expelled and he stopped ever taking it. Say no to drugs!

cekhoe:
I saw three packets with my cousin's traveling bag, I asked him what he was using it for, he said it helps him to sleep

lol!! he's telling you a big lie.
He's into bigger things if you observe well.

Anytime i hear stories of counterfeit and fake things. What comes to my mind first is "ABA" and i guessed right. ABA always on point. All is left remaining for them is to produce a fake humanbeing.

Nawa oo

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I thought old soldiers don't beg.
So Nigeria dey owe ECOWAS, wetin come do dis NEPA people wey dey threaten people wey dey owe for our street.

HardMirror:

So we shld keep blaming the guy abi? The guy says he does not want her anymore, she shld fvck off already. Is it by force?
Making it look like they guy is guilty here is what I hate. She is no hero and shld not be treated like one.
Why are folks patting her back here?

there's no one patting her back, anyone here just post according to how he or she views it. But i believe, this is the topic that will make most ladies to be forming SU and holy sisters cos they are guilty and some of them have secrets worst than this.

Op...your story makes me a song which goes thus:

E don happen, E don happen
Water don pas garri
Oga don run away
E don happen.

I'll just say you go by what Cutehector and Bloomstar comments in their first post on this topic.
Ask and pray to GOD for forgiveness and mercy, then go to the hospital for proper check up, in particular your WOMB.

That's why sometimes, when I come to think of some stories and others like this, I don't argue with people who insist on testing before marriage. Had it been, he married you before testing, you would have kept your mouth shut.

Just want you to know that, the same way you came here for help and advise is the same way your fiance has gone out to seek and sort out for advice on your issue. And i believe he has taken the advice which he believe is best to him.

I'll beg you to pls and pls, take suicide off your mind.
For every mistake and problem created, there's a testimony waiting to be unlocked. Just believe all is gonna be well as long as you pray and believe in GOD.

This guy tried for "4 years". This guy has taken this girl as an Operation Crocodile Smile mission that must be completed. Lol
Come to think of it, Does it mean she has'nt had sex with another guy for the past four years. Smh!!

DICKtator:
If Mark Zuckerberg were Nigerian now, people would say he did jazz that's why he is always wearing the same clothes

Abeg make person branch Yaba bend down buy clothes for my guy.

That one(or even if Na plenty with same colour) for don de smell now with this heat!!!

Believe me! He's not wearing the same clothe, he has plenty of that same clothe.
I happened to know this when i once worked with a British white man. He always wore a particular white shirt and Jean tro. I thought initially that he was been selfish to himself or maybe it was the only good clothe he had bought for himself, not untill i visited him in his house and saw 12 of this same shirt in his wardrobe. Most times, it's because of the heat.

Correct nigerian boy...na girlfriend tinz sure pas...hin no wan marry the girl officially make dem no later claim all hin property for sake of cheating.

Lol.
The funny thing is that some of them will be like "pls i need more sheet" writing nonsense.
The answers are foolish creativity, it's more better than blank spaces on the answer sheet like some of you do here on NL. That shows how dullardish some of you are/were in school.

waleadex:
In my opinion it's too early to call PMB a failure. He seems to mean well for the country and he's got a plan or formula. In about a year to or at the end of his tenure,the score cards are there for us all to mark.

the same way other past politician had plans and were waiting for the right time till their was tenure almost ending,they started rushing things. Too pathetic.

Jackpal:
This is a fact based on what is happening in my family presently.


Around last week Fridays afternoon i saw my mom hiding her phone from me at first, i didn't even bother but when I discovered she was sending messages to a unknown number i started putting notice to it. This happened till late in the night like around 2 am, i was awake and I went to the sitting room only to see her washing clothes in the laundry and simultaneously chatting with someone and this is very unusual of her but my father didn't notice notice anyways.

On Saturday Last week the following morning i heard her making calls that she will be there by afternoon i felt like confronting her but i felt that she might just be going to her place of work. Afternoon came and she said she was going to another town for a naming ceremony we didn't mind. I left the house and i came back around 9pm and discovered that she wasn't back yet so i called her and she told me she won't be coming back that night then i knew she was up to something. I listened to the background very much and I noticed it isn't a party stuff or anything.

On Sunday she came back and I was mad but i just kept mute as i thought that I was not in a position to confront her.

Fast forward to today's early morning around 4 am. I heard my dad's angry voice he was very angry with my mum at first I thought she broke something in the room but i later heard my mum pleading that he didn't have sex with the man. After much contemplating, i went out of my room to the sitting room where they were and i saw my mom holding her phone i sensed that, her act has been exposed. My father left us there and went to his room. I confronted my mom and told her that i knew she didn't go for a naming ceremony the previous week and she was kind of surprised and she asked me how i got to know but I didn't reply her.
My dad came out of his room and asked her to come inside. Like after about two hours, my mom came to call me and I went to their room and dad sat me down and told me that he saw a text message on my mom phone the sender said they were to meet the day before but she my mom didn't meet him. My mom said the man is just a boss at his office and nothing more. So dad told me that I am his witness that if such happens again that he is going to divorce my mom. Well, my mom insisted that she didn't have sex with the man

I have 3 siblings and but they are still small am the first born am about clocking 20 years of age.

What should I do please?

considering the fact that you are clocking 20 doesn't mean anything, but the fact that you are the first born means more than a lot. Before i continue further,i'll like to know your gender?

UyiIredia:


Well it looks like you're going to lose her because you're an atheist. I was going to argue with you about God's existence but it's going to be a waste of time. We'll just end up talking in circles. So all I can say is try your luck with another girl and I hope you find one that can tolerate your atheism. But that would be hard to find in this Naija.

he'll surely get one if his ready to have an olosho as a girlfriend or wife.

What a disgusting truth. If i was to ever see my wife to be put on that ring like cyntia morgan, the next thing i'll do is to call a fulani to come and take her along with their cattle.

BackOff:
Bloody lie devoid of reasoning.

How did he know what his friend was thinking just before he died when they were not even at the same spot?

Let's think before we post anything jor.

I quite agree op may post anything but i believe its either you don't have a friend or you don't know your friend, if you do, you will know the way your friend thinks and reasons in some ideal situations.

rexpeter13:
Very touching.but more advisable to send text mmessages you just have to do everything humanly possible to save lives.it's really very sad indeed

Many people are guilty of these. I quite agree with you but some emergency incidences don't permit text messages,by the time you typing the text and sending, its already too late.

SurveyorD:


Nice one. Please do note that a man that is cheating before marriage will most likely not change after marriage. Cheating comes naturally to most men. Men rarely stop cheating after marriage Oooo

I understand you, i have a close relation who was worst than this but marriage changed everything, it doesn't mean the same thing for another person. As i normally tell my colleagues; all men are the same, its just the package that shows the difference. We all have the tendency to cheat, its just our determination to fight cheating that shows the difference.

You've had previous relationships that didn't work out, that's to show there's no perfect man elsewhere. You have to create your perfect man and this lies in the prayer led decisions you make.
I like what Rexhenrex suggested, gather enough evidence show it to him tell him the hurt you feel if he apologises and you still love him that you can't let go,forgive him then watch him if he repeats his action or still flirts dump him. But a question comes to my mind. For how long will you continue to watch? when you wedding is around the corner, he may decide to lay low till then and comes out fully after your wedding.
My advice to you is to have a discussion with him, show him the evidence which he may deny but be mindful of addressing him with anger, let him know how it hurts and how you feel if it means crying in front of him to show your hurt, then you'll base your decision on his response. If he decides to stop or change then you have a seperate discussion with the other lady, compose yourself talk to her politely and calmly cos she may decide to flare up and do worst, let her see reasons and let her put herself in your own shoes,if she makes good response then you have a meeting with the three (you,your husband to be and the other lady) of you together and you talk things out. If otherwise you take the risk of cancelling,its never too late and 27 but mind you the next person may be worst. Just pray before you make any decision. Its another thing to get advice,its another thing make use of an advice in the best way. I pray that GOD guides you on the right decision to make.

As my colleague will always say. Nigerians are used to suffering, na only shakara dem get. Make i sit down for couch dey watch.

Larryton:
90000 minimum wage? I think this figure is unrealistic one to achieve in this kind of economic crisis in which the country found herself now. Do they think the government will yield or give in to there request at this point? It better to demand what is attainable putting the economic situation of the country into consideration than asking outrageous amount which would not be met, even if it's been met today it might lead to owing of worker due to inadequate fund in the future. Nigerians brace up and request for what is fair and attainable.

there's nothing bad in putting up a high price for bargain.

Lilprincey:
I had a bad feeling when buhari won the election last may. The suffering we are facing now is unbearable. Transport fare is now #150 how can students cope? Garri is two cups #100. God pls, help us

which state?

okikiosibodu:


Seriously speaking, I once checked up a job on Nland to affirm it's not GNLD. I saw many thread of people that went for "interview" in that same location and confirmed confirmed wa GNLD but they format of their invite was different from mine. So I decided to give it a short. On getting there, I expected to write an exam first but to my utmost suprise, na interview them conduct for us o. In my mind, I just dey wonder sey person go just come you can just interview am like that without any for for assessment prior? I maintained my chill sha.
Come n see different types of dressing, someon wearing 3-quarters, and polo shirt and sandal to interview the was when I strted suspecting GNLD (but I don Tey for hou hou house don me, so I still wnted , clear all doubts). I later took my time . Access those that were organising our sitting arrangements and then again, I was doubting them 9os they were kinda saucy, and giving horrible facial expressions, and pouting their mouth.
Cut the long story short, they wasted 4hrs of my time before I was fully convinced they were GNLD (atleast atleast lesson istered in a hard way) after series of cock n boo stories of the world richest people not beng employees, but entrepreneurs (I con dey wonder him correlation with the customer care representative opening wey them )

sometimes in life, you come across a lot of fakings before getting to the original. Its a way of preparing you for the original.