NewStats: 3,263,765 , 8,181,334 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 08:03 PM 6o1962

Codedrock: The best thing to do is make her feel jealous and let her know that you worth more than her, by getting a girl you can be very close with and act as if you guys are dating.. She is gonna feel she is losing something.. 've used that a lot.. Despite been a teenage youngman still know all those tricks..

fanx codedrock...would apply dat as well...nice one.

25omega: Dont take this the wrong way but please stop using f in the place th, It is actually quite annoying to me

ok i guess playing hard to get is how they do it in Nigeria so i can say i really dont know what im talking about then. one thing i want you to consider is the fact that she has told you she has someone but you are still carrying a torch for her. if she were to ever agree to date you, would you be worried that someone who might be richer or a smooth talker can take her from you? would you expect her to be able to tell a man no i have someone and expect that person to respect that fact?
my experience so has been i meet a girl and i get to know her if i ask her out if she says yes then fine and if she says no then i cut my loses and move on. i dont have time for games

fanx alot bro...I simply agree to all dat uve said....am gonna do as uve suggested...such is life...I appreciate.

Ojisik: well....what can i say,my brother,u are now IN THE ZONE OF FRIENDS ,she views you as a complete non-sexual entity.....sorta like a sheep

hmmmm!I broda..dats exactly wat makes me feel sad...after all dat I feel for her she just want me to be her friend and nofin more...well I guess dat is life..we love someone dat doesn't really want us...

Eeja Nla01: Friend zone hmmm such a terrible place to end

Op,she is taking advantage of you,she might soon tell to forget about dating completely that she can't double date and you won't wana force her.

My advice,though aint gona be easy, before the transfer maket closeS try and be warming up another decent lady and prepare youR mind for anytn ahead.

fanx alot eja nla...funny u..transfer window...anyway I get all dat u said...am gonna work on it...just dat sometimes if I decide to keep to myself and not talk to her in a day,she will call me and start complaining dat I didn't ask of her...and I don't want it to look as if am ignoring her just bcuz she didn't accept to date me...will work on ur advice anyway...fanx alot..

haitto99: she is feeling too comfortable shake her up a lil bit

aiit...I will...would try all d tactics and see how it ends...fanx once again..

pc guru:
1. Never ask a girl through the phone or internet do directly like a man, i did that even though i got nos.
2. She's dating a dude for 7 years that shows indecisiveness what makes you think you would be an exception ?
3. They make up, meaning she still has something for this guy or still attached to him to keep coming back
4. Dating in the same working environment that's a No No

also all the bolded parts are hints that it's doomed already just be friends :x sorry bro

fanx alot pc guru....hmmm!..I appreciate ur comment...well I fink asking her out physically wouldn't ave made any diff in dis situation but fanx for d correction am gonna adjust in dat area cuz of next time....hmmm!it appears ave got no chance in dis game @ all...ave got no choice than to be friend wit her...fanx all u who ave taken time to advice me on dis issue...really appreciate..would still entertain more comments if u wana...

idnoble135: like daisyella said, she takes you as a friend. And thats it.
You have a platonic relationship. You are her friend. You should have made your intentions known earlier to her.
And i dont know why, most ladies prefer not to date their friends. Very few argue and believe that, their friend can step up to become their date. Obvious that she is in the first category.
So brace up man. There are a thousand fishes in the river. And its better to have an unreturned love than to love and get cheated on or jilted.

fanx alot idnoble....I know there lots of fishes in d sea...am just trying to waite maybe I could just hold on to dis one cuz she's someone I really really like....she didn't reveal d true identity of her bf to me not until I made effort to know deep down and after confirming d true identity of d guy(she told me herself though)she said she doenst love dis guy dat is why I decided to give it a try....and now she doesn't want to date me...is she trying to play hard to get or she just want to take me as a friend for real?

25omega: Friend zone is where you are
Why do you guys always come here talking about your feelings for another mans woman? She said no when you asked right? What more do you want?
She hugs you and you peck her cheeks and look in each others eyes... So what?
You thought you had a chance and she shut you down now get some dignity and find another woman for yourself. I know shutting off your feelings for her will be tough but just be her friend and don't make it weird

fanx alot omega...when u ask a lady out is she going to tell u yes @ d first instance?how long do u fink a lady will torture u b4 she finally accept u,no woman want to fall so cheap for a guy even if they give u sign they are more into u....but in dis case I'm not sure of her feelings for me though she shows sign she's interested in me...moreover she didn't reveal d identity of dis guy to me in d first place...anytime I ask she will tell me he's just a friend to her...so as a guy wat impression would u have if a girl doesn't reveal d true identity of her guy to u?if she doesn't want to have anyfin to do wit u do u fink she will lie abt her bf?just as a guy will lie to her new girl abt his gf...dat is why I seek for advice just to know wat step to take....so now I guess u should know am not trying to steal anoda man's girl...

haitto99: if I were in ur shoes I wld try to make her jealous,maybe get really close to another lady dat she knows of,i bet u are reaction wld change

fanx alot bro...don't u fink making her jealous would be childish on my path cuz she will definitely know am doing dat on purpose...though ave got pretty ladies around me who I know are even much interested in me but I really don't like their personality....

didicold: @ op
d girl is trying to eat her cake and have,she might not be trying to deliberately bt dats d end point, i can reason from ur post dat u r in d same ppa, dats probably d first strike u av against u*proximity*, she mite feel if thinz crash ,it wont make for a good work environment,and secondly d moment u guys go official, colleagues will really start speculating about ur relatnship,some ppl cant stand that,thirdshe mite av a bf elsewhere(some women av to a have a bf(handbag)everywhere dey go) and still want u, but if she goes official wit u ,u will become more demanding and it mite leak to her bf.
Or finally, she mite just be playing hard to get.

If u r not d type to dwell on tinz, i suggest u give her sometime, a week or two, den request to speak to her, just come out and say, "babe i really dig u (and if see urselves longterm u mite add that(or lie)), but i amnot getting any younger and if u say no today, i will accept it as ur final word and move on ".
U can also tell her or know in ur own mind dat all dose PDAs, illegal visiting and cuddling will stop because she is indirectly cock-blocking u, no other gal around will take u serzly if u guyz continue dat way, i know i wuldnt.
There are two tinz involved she will either shape up and say yes/lemme think or a final no. But at least u'll stop teasing u.

#end of d epistle..lol#

fanx for d deep insight didicold...honestly u really did speak my mind...most of d pple I told said she's trying to eat her cake and have it,dat she's trying to make me play a second fiddle to her boy friend just incase somfin happens....we talked abt it and @ one point she told me I should give her time to fink abt it...but @ a point I started getting jealous cuz she uses dis guy's pix as dp on her BB and we talked abt it and she said dats d reason why she said she can't date me cuz she noticed am d jealous type and I can't just xpect her to leave dat guy all of a sudden and morover d other has started suspecting a change in her behaviour and demanded she come visit him,so she said dat was d main reason why she used dat guy's pix as dp just to please him and all...infact she got angry @ me dat am trying to be too authoritative despite d fact dat we've not started dating...I pleaded wit her and we made fins up...so rite now we've decided to suspend d issue of dating cuz she said it would be discussed @ a later date.....am just taking my time as to wat decision to take Next dat is why am asking for advice cuz I fink in dis situation xperience counts alot and I know guyz would be more than willing to share it wit me...

daisyella: She takes u as juz a friend, try and accept dat. There are so many fishes in d sea

fanx alot daisyella...uve just told me d bitter truth...but how can I just take her as a friend when I still have feelings for her?....let's just assume ave agreed to take her as a friend,don't u fink am still gonna be feeling intimate wit her?

idnoble135: alright. Would give my advise before nightfall.

aiit...fanx alot...I waite ur advice...

EneGodd: why must you chase one pusssy for long...try other pusssys..distance yourself from her alittle...blv me,she will be the one asking you out####goodluck

fanx for ur response.... she's got a guy who she said she doesn't really love but she can't leave him now cuz he hasn't done anyfin to hurt her so she's playing it cool wit him....even when I asked her if she really love dat guy but she said no dat she doesn't love him but dat she likes him cuz he's been very very good to her and no guy has ever done wat d guy has done for her and she knows d guy loves her so much...she even adviced me to try some other ladies out and all but I told her its she I want and no one else.....I guess she just told me dat to see if I will quit so easily...Yet d likeness she has for me keeps getting stronger dat am left confused....

Arosa: Op I think you should appreciate her as a friend and remain just friends.

fanx arosa...but d prob here is dat our friendship is more than been friends...or how do u want to define a friendship dat allows pecking,cuddling wit hugs and looking straight into each other's eyes....a friendship dat could lead to somfin else when both of us are alone which we both know as well...I guess dats why she refused to go out on a date wit me cuz she knows somfin silly could happen....arosa u can easily tell when someone deeply likes u...

Plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so much and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doesn't want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she doesn't really like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool down or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

idnoble135:
create a new thread in the romance section. You would get more replies.

fanx alot bro...I really appreciate...but how do I do dat cuz am new on dis forum...I just hope I get it once...

melissaray:

plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

idnoble135: Thats ladies for you. Some of them are problematic... They are dating some one and prefer to still have some one to hold on to, just in case(like a next option)... And you happen to be the latter. It looks obvious that even though she did not assent to your request, she still wants you for her self. She creating problems for your fiance suggests so.
And you would be in more trouble in the future except you settle the case once and for all. Besides, how did she meet your fiance? Is she working in the same organization?

plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

rebeccajon: Keep yourself busy in full of activity because it’s really wretched to spend all the time in mourning about the loss of unsuccessful relationship because doing so is unhelpful for you and for your beautiful future.  Your life should be going to lead onward whether you get your love back or not. If you can concentrate on other things then surely he will find you as a lively, tough and emotionally stable woman, not the one who is distressed and aimless. Show him that you are independent and your future is not going to suffer without him.

Incredible look can turn the game on your side, because every guy wants to see his girlfriend beautiful and stunning. Put effort on your overall appearance, like eat better, exercise well, make around of salon and take complete care about yourself. It will not only leave a great impact on him when he will see you again but you too feel better about yourself and also helps a lot to get ex boyfriend back.

plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

uniqueval: Son, forget looks... Girls are more attracted to what they hear than what they see... Just bliv in ursef and be confident... Put it at the back of ur head, "all girls take a shit"... No one is a goddess! Sometimes we over rate them n consequently drown ourselves in complexes... Y? Pls don't misquote me, respect a woman not worship her... Work on ur confidence and conversational skill (not boring topics). Some gals r talkatives, b ready to b a gud listener n contribute where necessary.. Some r mutes, those ones r more tricky to handle... Dey prefer action to words... Take a bold step outta ur fears son!

plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

aadetoyin: Its gooood he finally decided to tell u. Its beta to move on even though its tough but decisions have to be made. Talk to him one more time and ask if things can possibly get to its former state and if he is willing to make it work but if he is just givin excuses abeg MOVE ON.

A broken relationship is beta than an uhappy marriage.

plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so much and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex and how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she doesn't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl became stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of fear of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doesn't want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she doesn't really like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool down or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

Maya2pretty: Hi, am Maya doll, I feel so sad and lonely, I've not find my own Man, it's hurtin my beauty is wastin, he's not there 2 love me, to care 4 me, 2 make me feel like a cherished woman, I miss him so much, wish he'l find me dis month

xup maya...here is my [email protected]... me and let's see if we can work somfin out...don't wana drop most of my s here for personal reasons...would give u my number, bb pin and my location when u mail me...plz feel free to me k....hope to hear from u soon...bye

Fanx alot bro...I really appreciate ur response...even if its a PGD course I won't really mind...all I just want to do is get d ission,study and settle down I canny...anyway am gonna go view d list of those schools as instructed but any other person wit anoda opinion should plz share wit me...fanx alot my broda..I really appreciate once again.

xladym:

I do not know so much... but i dont know any sch dat will take u for masters with a 3rd class. i think it is possible though for PGD. i dont know any sch with "cheap" tuition either. and be careful in ur search as not all schools r good(someone posted a link to approved schools...and someone earlier complained about stoufville).
I suggest u go back just a few pages(between 185 and dis page) to find the list. then go to the website of some of the schools and check out what they offer and their requirements for ission.

Nuendo:

Oga onye Oma, the answer from the insider ( c) could be true but seems highly illogical from a psychological point of view. Why not eliminate the candidate instantly like the way they return the ports, rather than cause him/her to Incure extra expenses and put themselves under more workload by receiving and processing the medical results etc. My broda ,the VO's are humans like us not ghost or robots, if dey wnt smn out, they would have returned their ports once and spared themselves the stress.

It might also vary from school to school. I just discovered that I and smile13 were both asked for medicals without tution request and we are both headed for uni of Calgary . Schools may have different policies which the cdhc are aware of ESP the very prominent ones. Smn who was currently issued trv from outside the country said that certain schools make the chances of trv (assuming all docs are legit and complete) considerably higher. E.g smn with an ission to Harvard in the USA may have an almost hitch free process due to the reputation of such institution internationally.

Am not saying this is the case but it just makes more sense from the logical point of view rather than elimination elimination strategy. Lets watch and pray guys.

God dey

Fellow forumites plz can anyone tell me if it is very possible to secure an ission wit a 3rd class honours to study masters or probably PGD in any canadian university dat has a very cheap tuition fee or probably affordable tuition fee...Plz my aim is to finish my studies in canada and settle down in canada...Plz anyone wit any info of school dat can accept me just incase uve been in my shoes b4 and ur dreams of studying in canada has been archieved or u know someone who had similar wit mine...plz don't hesitate to share d name of d school wit me and how to go abt applying...fanx alot...I awaite ur responses...God bless u all...amen..

xladym:
Congrats and safe trip tomorrow...your excitement is contagious.

Fellow forumites plz can anyone tell me if it is very possible to secure an ission wit a 3rd class honours to study masters or probably PGD in any canadian university dat has a very cheap tuition fee or probably affordable tuition fee...Plz my aim is to finish my studies in canada and settle down in canada...Plz anyone wit any info of school dat can accept me just incase uve been in my shoes b4 and ur dreams of studying in canada has been archieved or u know someone who had similar wit mine...plz don't hesitate to share d name of d school wit me and how to go abt applying...fanx alot...I awaite ur responses...God bless u all...amen..

Fellow forumites plz can anyone tell me if it is very possible to secure an ission wit a 3rd class honours to study masters or probably PGD in any canadian university dat has a very cheap tuition fee or probably affordable tuition fee...Plz my aim is to finish my studies in canada and settle down in canada...Plz anyone wit any info of school dat can accept me just incase uve been in my shoes b4 and ur dreams of studying in canada has been archieved or u know someone who had similar case wit me...plz don't hesitate to share d name of d school wit me and how to go abt applying...fanx alot...I awaite ur responses...God bless u all...amen..

[quote author=tunamost]Plz fellow nairalanders,I need an advice...I met wit an agent who told me it is possible to obtain a student visa to US or Canada without attending d school in particular...actually opted for dis option cuz I wont be able to fund my tuition fees myself as my purpose of travelling out is just to live and work and one day become a citizen....and later if I save up enuf I can then further my studies...plz how visible is dis option of mine...I need ur candid advice..

[quote author=tunamost]Plz fellow nairalanders,I need an advice...I met wit an agent who told me it is possible to obtain a student visa to US or Canada without attending d school in particular...actually opted for dis option cuz I wont be able to fund my tuition fees myself as my purpose of travelling out is just to live and work and one day become a citizen....and later if I save up enuf I can then further my studies...plz how visible is dis option of mine...I need ur candid advice..

[quote author=tunamost]Plz fellow nairalanders,I need an advice...I met wit an agent who told me it is possible to obtain a student visa to US or Canada without attending d school in particular...actually opted for dis option cuz I wont be able to fund my tuition fees myself as my purpose of travelling out is just to live and work and one day become a citizen....and later if I save up enuf I can then further my studies...plz how visible is dis option of mine...I need ur candid advice..

Fanx guyz...ave got two comments...plz would still need more lights to be shed...fanx alot

Plz fellow nairalanders,I need an advice...I met wit an agent who told me it is possible to obtain a student visa to US or Canada without attending d school in particular...actually opted for dis option cuz I wont be able to fund my tuition fees myself as my purpose of travelling out is just to live and work and one day become a citizen....and later if I save up enuf I can then further my studies...plz how visible is dis option of mine...I need ur candid advice...

Plz can anyone tell me if it is possible to travel to US or canada with a student visa without attending d school in particular...I met wit an agent who told me I can pay part of d tution fee here in nigeria for visa purpose and when I get to US I will just find my way and stay with someone in know in d state...I actually opted for dis option cux all am interested in is living and working in US or Canada cuz ave got no money to finance my masters program myself.so later if I gather up some money I can then opt to further my studies...I know pple do somfin like dis but how visible is it....plz ur advice...very urgent.